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Brian's Guestbook
MessageI wanted to be the first! Know that the whole Delbarton community will be with you every step of the way. I am sure you, Jen and Tim will not be alone facing this but will find an army of people behind, beside and along with you. I know you have an American Legion game this night: good luck! Yours as ever, Luke
Messagehello coach fleury, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. you courage, perseverance and positive attitude have always been an inspiration for me, and I know that you will continue to display those heroic qualitites throughout. everybody is pulling for you. with love and the utmost positivity, jj and all the zaks
MessageUncle Brian, Have a great time in Nantucket,I know you will only be gone a week but me, Daddy and Mommy will miss you so much! Read, Rest and Relax Pleeeeeeze. Love you, Emma
MessageThis looks great! I just picked up the team signed photo for you, it looks terrific. I'm sure it will always make you feel good about all those boys' lives you have touched. What a difference you make! Prayers are with you! Best- Mary Sherry
MessageBrian: You, Jen and Timmy are in our prayers. We love you. Greg, Katelyn, Mary and Greg Sherry
MessageBrian- We are praying for you as are so many others. May your guardian angel that Father Luke has mentioned watch over you and your family. We expect to see Timmy trailing you on the field next season. Our sincerest wishes for medical success and strenght. Gerrie, Rich, Campbell and Patrick Hand
MessageCoach Fleury, My family and I will keep you in our prayers as you fight through these hard times. I know all of your players wish you the best of luck and hope to see you next year. You have touched many of our lives with your courage and bravery that you display every day. Because of you we have not only learned to be better players on the feild but also better people off it. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with all of us. My family and my best wishes go out to you and your family and hope to see you and Timmy on the baseball feild next year.
MessageDear Coach Fleury, My family and I will keep you in our prares as you go through this struggle, we know you will be able to recover soon and successfully. As i have seen you have made many students and athletes better people including my siblings. We wish you love and luck. Hope to see you soon continuing to coach for many more years. Love, The Hand Family
MessageCoach Fleury, You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. You have been an inspiration to all of us at Delbarton and I wish you the best of luck in your stay at Boston. I look forward to seeing you next September, and on the field. Bryan Brennan
MessageDearest Brian, I truly believe that the Lord has more work for you with the young men at Delbarton. It is my privledge and joy to be a part of you, Jen and Timmy's lives. I support you all here, in Boston and wherever you need me. I am in awe of your courage and Jen's strength. It is my honor to be your mother-in-law. I love you all, Peeps
MessageWE LOVE YOU AND PRAY FOR YOU EVERY DAY. HAVING READ WHAT YOU FRIENDS AND STUDENTS WROTE ABOUT YOU MAKES ME SO PROUD OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. JEN ALWAYS DID HAVE A GOOD "EYE" - FROM A LITTLE KID SHE NEW THE "GOOD STUFF"! LOVE TO YOU AND KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK. WE ARE THINKING OF YOU. UNCLE DICK AND AUNT PERT
MessageBrian - it's Buckethead Parham, old college ballplayer buddy. I saw that photo and I'd thought you would have gown out of that ugly. Buddy, I hate that we haven't been in touch better over the years but I want you to know that my heart and prayers are with you in your battle. I know if there is anyone that can take on these monsters, it's you. Doesn't seem that long ago that we were on the field and playing ball and doing whatever after the game. Buddy, if there is anything I can do for you or your family, please contact me. I'm in Jacksonville Florida but I've been up north for you before and I'd do it again, if asked. You take care and that positive attitude.
MessageBubba, I was saddened to receive the email about your medical condition. I apologize for not doing a better job of keeping in touch with you over the years. Sometimes we get so caught up with our day-to-day lives that we neglect those that have meant so much to us. I can tell by this site that you haven't changed at all. You continue to touch the lives of those that you come into contact with. This comes as no surprise to me, because you changed who I was in the short two years that we were teammates and roommates together. I have our senior captain pictured framed in my office at work. Several people ask me who the "handsome" guy is next to me. I tell them that he is my daily reminder of what true courage and determination looks like. I know that you will make it through your latest medical "challenge". You were put on this Earth to make a difference in the lives of people and your work has yet to be accomplished. You are in the thoughts and prayers of my family. I promise to do a better job of keeping in touch. Chas
MessageHi Brian, You are always in our thoughts and prayers! Heath's big sister, Lisa
MessageBubba...I hope everything is going well for you and your family. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care...Lance
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MessageBri, Jen and Timmy... We think about you guys every single day. Brian, I always knew you were an inspiration to your students, athletes, family and friends... and to us. Reading some of these messages makes me see how EVERYONE who meets you immediately knows the same thing about you. We are here for you guys and hope to be able to help in some way this summer. Talk to all of you soon, Mere (and Scott, Lily and Jack)
MessageJen and Brian and Timmy of course, we are thinking about you all the time and pray for your health and strength. We look forward to seeing you all soon as you are feeling better. Jen, if there is anything I can do to help you feel free to call. with great love and affection to 3 very special people. Eileen Chimerine
MessageHey Brian, I just wanted to let you know that we live 40 miles northwest of Boston in Southern NH. If there is anything that Chris or I can do while you are here, I hope you will let us. We would love to have Timmy here for the day or night and would be happy to come down to you guys, etc. You are welcome to come stay as well as a "break" from Boston, if they let you! Just let us know, seriously, we would love to see you all and help out. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Love Leslie, Chris, Katie and Stephanie
MessageBrian, Jen & Timmy: Our thoughts and prayers are with you everyday. We are awed by your strength and inspired by your courage - as is everyone you touch. Please know we think about you often with a smile and a laugh, and we look forward to getting together soon. We just moved to Princeton, NJ, so we look forward to getting together with all of you when you return from Boston. Love, Debby, Chaz, Harry and Caroline
MessageJen and Brian: Just want you to know that you are in our thoughts. Please let us know if there is anything at all that we may do to help you. Much love, Gladys & Jim
MessageTo my special friend ... praying for you and thinking of you daily. Can't wait to hear your healthier, happier voice. I have always been aware of and cherished your unique and exceptional value to mankind for over 25 years. As like so may others, I am forever inspired and comforted that with life's challenges and pains, courage and hope and joy can still flurish. You have shown us all that. I know you are gonna kick butt through this and am so grateful you have such a wonderful family to surround and support you and each other.. From Mine to yours... Much love and prayers. Ellen
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MessageBrian, Keep the hard work that makes you such a great person. We at Pope John have an old saying when someone has been so loyal to a cause. You are an Honor To The Father. Brian is truly an Honor To The Father. Vin
MessageCoach Fleury- I can't picture anyone handling their situation better than you do. You're a role model for not just those who are fortunate enough to know you, but everyone that ever hears your story. Hang in there, we all know that you're going to come out on top. The best of luck and my prayers are with you. -Mike
MessageDear Uncle Brian, I pray for you to get better every night. Mommy tells me funny stories every night about when you and her and Aunt Carrie were growing up. I will write them down and send them to you in Boston. I will miss you, and maybe I will even draw a comic about the stories Love, Dane
MessageBub, I love laughing with you and I love watching you laugh at the kids. I will keep that image in the forefront of my mind while you are in Boston. As I've told you and Jen before, you two define the word soulmate....your joys are doubled and your sorrows are halved. God speed to the three of you...the little brother gives the big sister perspective on life....Lots of Love, Jill
MessageGood morning Brian, I have known your sister, Jill, for many years and she has kept me up to date on your progress. Through the well wishes and prayers of your family, and the many friends and students that have been touched by you, it is obvious that you are not alone in your battle. Just wanted you to know that you are also in our thoughts and prayers. Mary Beth & David Casey
MessageOur prayers our with you, Godspeed. The Ballestero Family
MessageMy prayers to you and your family. Dean D'Anna Friend of your sister Jill
MessageBubba, I know you have a few more homers in there for us...maybe even a 3 point shot. I am wishing you and your family the best of luck! i know i have not been in contact or around at all over the years, but I still have not forgot all the great things you/your family/we did along the way. you were always a good friend and teamate...Hit one out in right center at Ladgewood for us! Dave hubert
MessageHello Brian - Jill and I worked together at Mohegan Sun and have become good friends. ALWAYS in our conversations are updates about yourself and your family, and how courageous you are. The updates always seemed favorable so that can only continue. The power of prayer is amazing, and ours are strong for you and your family. Regards, Patrick, Susan, Katie, & Conor Sullivan from Boston!
MessageBrian... Just a note to let you know that we are thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers. There is NO DOUBT in my mind that you will win this latest battle...it is just a bump in the road...you watch! I was truly moved by those eloquent words that Father Luke wrote along with your baseball captain. It certainly is apparent that that you mean SO much to SO many people. The Lancer family wishes you the best and hopefully we will speak soon. Go Wave PG
MessageBrian is my cousin I havent seen him a long time.I think about him all the time and my heart goes out to him with every thing I got.Bless his heart for being strong.
MessageEven though I have never personally met you, only through your father’s eyes, I have a tremendous respect for you. My prayer for you is: God walks by our side at all times. When we’re weak, He holds us up. When we need courage, He helps us to step out of our fear and do what we need to do. When we trust him, He makes it possible to follow Him. Therefore, we can stride confidently into every day. It’s His strength that flows through us. It’s His courage that enables us to live for Him.
MessageBrian, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. You are truly an inspiration for all. We wish you much love as you overcome this and know that we will be praying and thinking about you. Even though it has been too long since we all have seen each other (I miss you Jen!), I am getting updates on how you are and we will continue to keep you in our prayers. With love, Karen, Jonathan, Morgan, and Ryan Davis
MessageIt has been a long time Bubs. Just a quick note to let ya know you are in our prayers. Glad to see you are still so involved with Sports. You were always great like that. Love, Your Childhood friend Beebles
MessageBrian, You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know you are missing the breakfast at Pal's Cabin. In your absence, I promise not to nominate you to chair new committees. Nick
MessageBrian - When your son is a teenager, I hope that you and Jen are lucky enough to have a teacher and coach as inspiring for him as you are for all of our boys at Delbarton. Then you will realize how much of a difference you make every day in all of our lives.
MessageHi Brian and Family, Just letting you know that you are in our thoughts and daily prayers. Sending you well wishes!! The Russo Family Cynthia, Paul, Michael and Matthew
MessageBrian - you, Jen and Timmy are in our prayers. Even though we are far away in Arizona, our thoughts are always with you. Love, Tom, Betsy, Jamie,Brian,Tommy,Tami,Dayne & Tatum
MessageCoach, Timmy, Jen, and You are in my prayers. You have been such an inspiration to not only me, but everyone of my brothers and my parents. We all love you. DJ, Doug, Kenny, Jeff, Dennis, and Patrice.
MessageBrian- It's been such a long time. You've always been a special person and were such a great childhood friend. My mom has kept me updated on your condition. Just want to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are always with you. Love, Ann
MessageHI BRIAN, JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I AM THINKING ABOUT YOU AND PRAYING FORYOU. I HAVE A SPECIAL LOVE FOR ST.JUDE AND I HAVE GOTTEN ANSWERS FROM HIM; SO YOU ARE ON THAT PRAYER LIST . MY HEALTH CONTNUES TO IMPROVE; SAY A PRAYER FOR ME SOMETIME, THAT EVENTUALLY I CAN GET BACK TO THE CLASSROOM MYSELF. MY VERY BEST TO YOU FAMILY. FRATERNALLY FR.GERMAIN
MessageHi Brian. Jen, and Timmy, Our prayers and thoughts are with you as the end of July approaches. Each day I wake up wondering how you all are doing. I can't go to a baseball game without thinking about what a positive influence Brian has been in all of our lives. We know that the transplant will be successful and if there is anything we can do to help in any way, don't hesitate to ask. You are all very special to us. Love, Patrice
MessageBrian My thoughts and praayers are with you, Jen and your entire family. I will do anything I can to help you. Tom
MessageMr. Fleury Everyone misses you and will be extremely happy when you are able to come home
MessageBrian, as ALWAYS our love and prayers are with you. We are forever here.
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MessageBrian, I hope that everything go's well for you and your family. Looking forward to seeing you again. "Your favorite busdriver"
MessageBri, I think you already know how much we all appreciate your example, friendship and understanding. All of us who know you and know your story are solidly in your corner. My only request? Write those books; one about the battle you have been waging since 1986, the other about how to play each position in baseball, especially intended for young athletes. Your experience, knowledge, writing ability and sensitivity will make them best sellers. More importantly, they will demonstrate just one more way you have helped others. God bless you on your current journey. Giles
MessageCoach Fleury, you are in my family's thoughts and prayers. You are a pillar of this community, and we can't wait to see you back at school! Steve
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MessageDear Brian, My prayers are with you & your family. You are a great inspiration to many people.
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MessageWe know you'll hit another homerun. You have all our love and support. God Bless You. Always, Joe, Carol, Dan, and Allie
MessageHi Brian, My thoughts, prayers, and best wishes are with you. You will be in the best of hands up in Boston. We all look forward to your return to Delbarton in good health. Fran
MessageDear Brian and Family, Wishing you all the very best. You are in my prayers. Your courage, perserverence, humility, and spirit envelop everyone you touch. Thank you.
MessageHello Mr Fleury: Writing on behalf of Sloan, Kendall, Denise and the entire Kulper family, I send you our best wishes and prayers for a speedy recovery. I know that your battle with cancer is one that not subject to an easy fix. The grace and courage of your effort to live your life completely is an inspiration to all of us and yet another example of the power of God's grace being alive in each of us. I want you to know that all of us in the broader Delbarton community appreciate all you have done and are doing each and every day. Wishing you the very best and much continued grace and courage, Keith D. Kulper '70
MessageBrian, I learned about your situation from July's Old Main Monthly. I've seen you around The Del for years and have to admit I was pretty ignorant of your almost daily struggle. I'll be praying for you and fully expect to see you on campus soon. And, at the risk of sounding selfish, PLEASE beat Seton Hall again next year.
MessageMr. Fleury, The thoughts and prayers of my family and I are with you always. It is no surprise that you have had such a strong impact on the lives of people in the Delbarton Community and beyond, and this guestbook is evidence of that.
MessageCoach, I just wanted to let you know that you're in my thoughts and prayers. When are we going to grab the Hungry Man Special at the Mo Plains diner? -Kaager
MessageMr. Fleury: My thoughts and prayers are with you. You're an example to us all. Best wishes.
MessageYour ears must have been ringing last Tuesday night Bri. Officers of the Alumni Association, past & present, were over at Sammy's enjoying our occassional steak & ale get together. Your name came up, Craig & Kevin told us that you were up in Boston and doing well. We then raised our glasses to toast you, a man of great character & leadership. Which reminds me of this really funny joke...but I'll save that one for when I see ya ! Thanks for continuing to make our almamater a better community. See you & the family up at Old Main for Homecoming! Succisa Virescit
MessageBrian, I have not had the pleasure yet to have met you, though I wanted to share with you something you already know, and that is how truly blessed you are to have such a remarkable man in your life, your father. I have had the honor to work with your dad over the past 5 years and even occsionly beat him up alittle bit on the golf course. It is through this experience with your dad that I can truly see and echo his words, "what a fine man you are". Your dad is so very proud of you and I know how much he and your mom treasure each precious day with you and your family. Brian I want you to know both Carrie and I keep you and your family in our daily prayers and I want to say thank you for being such an inspiration to your family, your community and to all of us. I look forward to getting together with you soon and may God's blessings be upon you for strength, happiness and peace. Robb & Carrie Rebisa
MessageHey Brian, I ran across this poem in a bookstore the other day and I remembered that Fr. Hilary had shared it with us a couple of months back and thought it was worth repeating - gonna change the title though to "A Wish for the Fleurys" well here goes - May you always have a sunbeam to warm you, good luck to charm you, laughter to cheer you, faithful friends near you, and whenever you pray, heaven to hear you. Please know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Heidi, Stuart, Morgan and Dakota
MessageDear Brian, I haven't seen you in quite a few year...since a bbque at Tom Buchner's I believe. I was so sorry to hear you are struggling with your health again and wanted to extend my best wishes to you and your family. I've been reading a few of the messages here from the Delbarton community and wanted to remind everyone that you originally made your postive impact felt at Morristown High back in the 80's! LOL. The messages here are a testament to the type of person you are and I just wanted to do my small part to try to help you pull through this latest round of treatments. I look forward to hearing the good news about your recovery very soon. Sincerely, James Hare, Motown '86
MessageCoach Fleury, you're an inspiration to me and the whole Delbarton community. You are kept in my family's prayers. God Bless. Z
MessageBrian, You always reminded me of this passage: "And there is a Catskill eagle in some souls that can alike dive down into the blackest gorges, and soar out of them again and become invisible in the sunny spaces. And even if he forever flies within the gorge, that gorge is in the mountains; so that even in his lowest swoop the mountain eagle is still higher than other birds upon the plain, even though they soar." Good luck, and I know you'll pull through like you have before.
MessageHey coach, I just wanted to let you know that you are in all my familys prayers, and I know that you will pull through everything.
MessageMay God embrace you and carry you through this ordeal so that you may remain an inspiration to many generations of young men to come, as you are a hero and an inspiration to those of us whose lives are touched by you now.
MessageBubba: Hang in there. You are an inspiration to us all. Glenn, Laurie, Willem and Lukas Juhlin
MessageBrian, Carrie just forwarded your website to me here in England so I hope that this message gets to you before you leave for Boston. I just finished reading Lance Armstrong's "It's Not About The Bike" and thought about your struggle while reading it. Your perserverance over these many years has helped and taught many about what life is really about. You continue to live a life leaving footprints on the hearts of everyone you know and meet. I feel fortunate to be one of those people. I send my love and prayers to you and your family. Fondly, Noelle, Bob, Morgan and Jack DeLaney
MessageBrian - Jamie Hare forwarded news of the guest book to fellow MHS '86 grads. I wanted to let you know that the thoughts and prayers of my family are with you.
MessageHey Coach Fleury, My name is Charlie Ellinwood. I'm going to be a senior at Delbarton. I'm leaving for a two-week hiking trip in Switzerland today and before I left I just wanted to say good luck with all of your treatments and keep going strong. You're an inspiration to everyone at Delbarton, baseball players and non-baseball players alike. See you when school starts! Sincerely, Charlie Ellinwood
MessageDear Brian, Even though I haven't seen you since your time at Georgia Tech, I have thought of you often. I was glad to see the website and learn about how well you have done with your career and family. I am not at all surprised. The picture of you and Timmy made my day! I hope things go well with your chemotherapy and transplant. You will continue to be in my prayers. Best regards, Frank Pickens, MD
MessageDear Brian, Even though I haven't seen you since your time at Georgia Tech, I have thought of you often. I was glad to see the website and learn about how well you have done with your career and family. I am not at all surprised. The picture of you and Timmy made my day! I hope things go well with your chemotherapy and transplant. You will continue to be in my prayers. Best regards, Frank Pickens, MD
MessageCoach Fluery, I just wanted to let you know that I am in Boston for the summer, and if there is anything I can do to help, or if you just want an excuse to grab a bite to eat in town, please let me know. All the very best. - Bernie Muller '01
MessageBrian- I am sorry to hear about your most recent health struggles. I know with your heart and passion for life- you will get through this. While it's been 12 years since I was taught by you, you continue to teach me (as well as countless others) about the true measure of courage. You clearly represent the best of Delbarton and succisa virescit. You will be in my thoughts and prayers, get well. Will Vogt
MessageCoach Fleury- I just heard about the web site and spent the last 20 minutes reading all of the guestbook entries and everything that is written about you is so true. This whole "guestbook" concept is a great one and something that really helped me while I was in the hospital this past year. It was a great way for me to feel as if I was still connected to my peer group and was always an uplifting time when I read all of the new entries each night in the hospital. I hope your trip to Boston goes well and that you stay strong. You continue to serve as an inspiration to so many people but especially me. I am sure you know that there are so many people pulling for you out there which is a testament to who you are. Good luck and know that we are all praying for you! Taylor and the rest of the Price family
MessageBrian, It's been many years since I've seen you....and so great to see the pix of you and your family. You father sent me the address. I read the messages in your guest book...a great testimony to all you have accomplished. Maybe I shouldn't be surprised considering your Mom and Dad with whom I have maintained a close and valued friendship over many years! If my memory serves me right, I spoke to Fr. Luke a few years ago and he filled me in on your achievements.I cannot remember where I ran into him but it may have been here at Villanova. I am happy to send these few words and join your many friends with best wishes and prayers for all the Fleury family. Sincerely..... Rich Appicci, O.S.A.
MessageHey Brian – I just wanted you to know that you are always in my thoughts – my mother keeps me informed of your progress all the time. I’ve looked up to you ever since you laughed off my grandfather who said your swing still was not where it needed to be – this back during the days at community park little league – I think you pitched a no hitter and hit 4 home runs that day; you have to love our Italian family background! Say hello to Jen and Timmy – see everyone next time I am back in New Jersey – Bob Ryan
MessageBrian... Just thinking about you and hope your doing well. Looking forward to seeing you back at Delbarton. Best of luck and God bless... Sean
MessageCoach Fleury - Our prayers are with you and your family. Be strong and get well soon. We need to take in a Phillies/Mets game with our children in the years ahead. God Bless. Coach Hyde
MessageDear Coach Fleury, If one person can get through this, it is you. My family and I will be keeping you in our prayers the next few months. Never give up
Messagecoach fluery- you are an inspiration to me, and to all. your strength and courage have always amazed and inspired me. I have done well with my transplant, and i KNOW that if i can handle it, you will definitely be able to. keep fighting, and my thoughts and prayers are always with you.
MessageJust a quick note to let you know Nancy & I are thinking of you and pray your treatment is progressing successfully. See you soon around campus.
MessageI'm a friend of your cousin's, Jen Wilson... you've always inspired me through your stories which Jen has always shared with me. You and your family are in my thoughts and in my prayers every day. I pray for you to continue enjoying every minute of your life, with your family, at your career. Your strength and endurance and optimism continue to inspire. God Bless.
MessageBrian - You have always led by example and as a result have had a positive impact on tons of lives along the way. Although I haven't seen you in close to ten years, you have been in my thoughts and prayers. My wife Anne and I live right outside of Boston so please let us know if there anything we can do for you or your family during your stay. All the best - Tim Fortune
MessageHey Bub - Since long before your struggle began you've been an inspiration to me. And to this day, the way you carry yourself, live your life and look at the world give me things to aspire to. Your friendship means the world to me and you are always in the forefront of my thoughts and prayers. And while apparently my bone marrow can't cut the mustard (which has really left me with some deep feelings of inadequacy), I'm always at the ready to do anything to help you, Jen and Timmy out, Today, tomorrow and forever. live strong my friend. eric
MessageGlad to see that things are finally moving along for you and this next step. I did see Jen and she filled me in but I wanted to wish you well with the procedure. You deserve the very best and everyone is pulling for all of you. I'm sure that I speak for everyone at MHS and hope you realize that we'll all be there for you and your family in any way we can help. I am hopeful that this is the last big thing you'll have to go through. My thoughts are with you and your family and the wonderful donor. I look forward to all of the positive messages to come and wish you a speedy recovery. Pat Mattos
MessageHi Brian, While you will soon be leaving for Boston for the biggest game of your life, as always you will not be alone. We, the hundreds of people that think about you every single day, will be coming with you. You will have all of our thoughts, all of our prayers, and most of all our strength and optimism which you can draw from whenever you need. You have touched so many lives throughout your life, I wonder if you truly can grasp the impact you have had on so many people. (Well after reading all of these entries, you must). My children are so inspired by you and they haven't even seen you in a while. Nicole did a report on you in school when she had to write about a real-life hero and they all pray for you to get better every night (although Sarah and Ryan refer to you as Abbie's Uncle). My grandmother wishes you well, too. She is here for dinner tonight and I showed her your website. She said your grandmother would have been proud. Please know that we are all thinking about you and praying for you and we love you. Jenni, Mike, Nicole, Ryan and Sarah Wilson
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, My thoughts and prayers are with you and Jen and Timmy. I am sure that for every one of the many people who have written here, there are dozens more who care very much but haven't yet found the words.
MessageMy thoughts are with you and your family throught this difficult fight. Keep strong and stay the course! Bill Henderson
MessageBubba, All I did was blink my eyes and a year or two has past since I saw you and your family at Eric Ruhalter's. After reading all of the things on this website written by students, peers, supervisors and family and friends it is abundantly clear to me that you never changed - you were like this as a youth. You were leagues above us all in sports and yet you had no trace of any "attitude", which was (unfortunately) common for that time period. The word "humble" seems to sum it up best... Best wishes to you as you make your way up to Boston - Lance Motown '86
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MessageDear Mr. Fleury, Last week I had the pleasure of meeting your mother for the first time. Knowing the way in which you conduct your life with such great humility and grace, it came as no surprise to me that your mom is so courageous and loving. I hope I was able to convey to her what an amazing son she and your dad raised because Matt and Mike have had the great good fortune to know you at Delbarton. When they describe you the words honorable, fair and kind are always used. We think of you and your family so often and you are always in our prayers. May God bless you and keep you safe and may you and your family feel His love always. With all our best wishes and prayers, Jan and Tony
MessageBrian, Sue just came in and told me about your website. She had been outside with Cynnie and ran into your Mom while she was taking a walk. I'm glad to hear that a match has been found and the transplant will happen soon. The speach by Fr. Luke and Dan's letter say it all. You are a remarkable person. You are my hero. I draw inspiration from you every day. Please know that you are in our prayers. May God bless you always, Coach K (The not-so-famous-one)
MessageBrian, All the love & prayers of you family and friends, will be where you will draw your strenght from to get you throught the days ahead. God will be watching over you, Jen & Timmy. Love Jean & Ron
MessageBrian, I recently drove past Morris Plains Boro school on the way to visit my Mom and Dad. When I looked over at the athletic fields I instantly had a flashback to when we played baseball together. The first thought that came to mind was having to move WAY BACK in center field whenever it was your turn to take batting practice. You were strong back then ... and you are even stronger today. The best of luck in Boston. I'm praying for you. More importantly, my Mom is praying for you too!
MessageBryan - I am the CFO for Rentokil Pest Control in Atlanta. I work with your Dad and have been keeping up with your progress through him. Ed may have told you about me (and my 2nd bout with Breast Cancer last year). I must tell you, I have been inspired by your strength and positive attitude, just through the stories your Dad has shared with me. He is very proud of you to say the least. The main reason I am emailing you is to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and your doctors as you enter this next phase of treatment. I believe in prayer, and it helped me to know that people all over the world were lifting up prayers on my behalf. They are doing the same for you. Take care and I will be looking forward for great news through Ed. Deb
MessageCoach Fleury, I want you to know that my family and I are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. I am looking forward to seeing you at Delbarton soon.
MessageBrian - it's been a long time since we have spoken but I have been keeping up to date through your father and your sister, and through reading stories about you on the Internet. Both of my kids have heard your story and know what an inspiration you are through reading testimonials like the one on the home page of this site. My son, who is 16 (yes - 16!) and is now playing varsity ball, would definitely like the opportunity to meet you. I just spoke to Jill and she updated me on the latest - just wanted to know that myself and my family are thinking of you and wish you all of the best. Steve Tremitiere
MessageBrian - it's been a long time since we have spoken but I have been keeping up to date through your father and your sister, and through reading stories about you on the Internet. Both of my kids have heard your story and know what an inspiration you are through reading testimonials like the one on the home page of this site. My son, who is 16 (yes - 16!) and is now playing varsity ball, would definitely like the opportunity to meet you. I just spoke to Jill and she updated me on the latest - just wanted to know that myself and my family are thinking of you and wish you all of the best. Steve Tremitiere
MessageJohn Krauss was kind enough to send me this web site information. I will forward it to Jack, Kerry, Tara and Mark so they can send you their love and best wishes as I am sending mine to you and your family. You came into our lives in Morris Plains through your friendship with Kerry and your inspiration to Mark in baseball. Tara knew you at Delaware, so you were always important to all of us. Our prayers are with you as you undergo your bone marrow transplant. You are one of the most admired people in the country and have been an ispiration to everyone who knows you. Andree Manheimer
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MessageDear Coach, I wanted to wish you my best for the upcoming months. You have been an inspiration to everybody around campus and throughout the community. My family and I wish you all the best and thank you for being a wonderful example of what perseverance is truly about.May God bless you and your family. Sincerely, Mike D'Urso
MessageDear Coach Fleury, On behalf of the entire Cherry family, we send our best regards for the upcoming months and your recovery. You truly are an inspiration to the Delbarton community and everything that surrounds it. You have only encouraged people to reach their greatest potential in the classroom and on the playing field; EVERYONE is very grateful for your tremendous commitment and generosity. You are in our family’s thoughts and prayers for the upcoming months and we only wish that you get better as soon as possible. May God bless you and your family for a speedy recovery. Sincerely, The Cherry’s
MessageBrian- we are so happy to see your website and follow your progress as you do "what you gotta do" and we have nothing but optimistic thoughts that this will all be worth it in the long run. If Jen or anyone needs anything, please know that we would be more than glad to help out in any way. We will think of you and pray for you and wish you a speedy recovery. Lots of love to you and your family - Tom and Cynnie McGrath
MessageBrian, I am Joe Quinn's youngest daughter, Colleen. I am not sure if you remember me. He told me today about your trip to Boston and I just wanted to let you know that you are going to do great! I can recall sitting on the bleachers and watching you play baseball at Community Park. You are an extraordinary athlete. My visits to N.J. always included a silent pray for you and your family no matter what I was doing. I wish you, your wife and son all the happiness in the world. Colleen
MessageBrian It is amazing to see how many lives you have touched over these years. You really are an inspiration to us all. There's a pretty cool quote from "Mr. Rodgers" yes Mr. Rodgers that I hope you will think of while your in Boston - Brian- "If you could only sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to the people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person" It has been great reconnecting with you and meeting your family after all these years. Please know that we are praying for you, Jen and Timmy. Stay strong - keep fighting. Lots of love, Eileen, Bruce, Brian and Will
Messagejust read the update. I know you will be as ready as anyone can possibly be. thank you for sharing this with us, and prayers to you and your family as the process continues. Love, Barbara
MessageGood Luck, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. GOD BLESS YOU.
MessageHey Coach Fleury, Even though I never had the priviledge of having you as a coach or as a teacher, you still had such a presence and influence over my 4 years at Delbarton. Hope to see ya on the sidelines at Homecoming again this year. Know that our prayers are with you and your family. -The Passaro Family
MessageHey Brian What a wonderful website , classy for a classy young man. I want everyone to know that in addition to the wonderful comments about you on the opening Home Page....you are are also an outstanding administrator and I have really enjoyed working with you on the golf outings that benefit the athletic department and all of the work we did together on the new ice rink. Your business instincts are right on, you are terrific with people and enjoyable to work with. Needless to say, we will miss you this Fall....at the Golf outing on September 27th....the Football games...Athletic Booster meetings...but we will carry on as if you were there to lead us on Brian and look forward to keeping in touch with you via this wonderful website. You and your wonderful young family are in our thoughts and prayers at all times. Larry
MessageUncle Brian and Aunt Jen, Good luck tommorow and wed. We will see you on thursday. I love you. Emma
MessageJust a note to let you know that my family is remembering yours in our prayers. May God watch over you and give you His peace. - Dave
MessageBub: What a great website! Our family wishes you the best in the upcoming months. I think now is as good a time as any to put on your "ROCKY" songs just as we did back in the little league days! Good luck to you and your family and that little Timmy looks like a catcher if ever I saw one. Red
MessageHey Brian - We are thinking about you, Jen and Timmy today and everyday in these upcoming weeks and months. You are a great man. We truly value your friendship and we have always viewed your humble strength and positive outlook as a yardstick by which life should be measured. We will be here for you and your family forever. With all of our love and support - Rik, Joanna & Isabella
MessageBrian, Pat Genova just tipped me off on this website. Please know that your friends at Seton Hall Prep will be praying for you with hope that the upcoming procedure will be successful. You are truly an inspiration Brian. Please do not hesitate to ask if there is anything we can do for you. God Bless you. Joe
MessageBrian, Caryl and I send you our prayers and our love. Your steadfast courage is a model for all of us. You are foremost in our thoughts. Godspeed. Alan & Caryl
MessageHey Coach, Just wanted to let you know that you have been in all our family's thoughts and prayers. Continue to be an inspiration to us and the Delbarton community. -Frankie Hager, Pat Rutter, Kevin Rutter
MessageBran, I'm sure you're greeting the news about the bone marrow donor with ambivalent feelings--the news of a terrific match is certainly promising--but probably pretty scarey as well. You will be in Boston by the time we get home from Maine. I had wanted to give you a big hug before you left, but you know my prayers and love and best wishes are with you. Keep thinking positive thoughts--and I know that all the prayers and love and best wishes of those who love you will pull you through this--and there are a lot of us in your fan club! Love, Shelly
MessageBrian,get home! Your family loves you, we love you. God speed and God bless! Ron and Ann
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MessageHi Brian, I don't know if you remember me but Jill is good friends with my husband, Bryan Gray. Jill keeps us informed of your progress and we think of you often. We pray that the transplant is successful for you. Please send our best wishes along to your family as well. Take Care and God Bless You, Kristin
MessageBrian - Tess, David and I have you in our prayers now more than ever at this critical time. We look forward to your return to New Jersey and your eventual return to coaching and teaching at Delbarton next year. You are an inspiration to us all in so many ways. God Bless.
MessageJust want to wish you the very best of luck on the transplant and we'll be thinking and praying for you as well as checking into the web site. God bless. Mr. & Mrs. Duffy
MessageDear Brian: I am praying for your speedy recovery. We have hockey and basebal coming up and we need your support. Hope your're feeling OK. Hurry up and get better. Let's have dinner as soon as possible. Miss you, Tess
MessageMr. Fleury, I was very excited to read about the donor they found and am sure the surgery will go very well. Please know I hold you in my prayers every night and look forward to seeing you when you return to Delbarton. Thank you for always setting the example in sportsmanship and fairness on and off the field. You are one of the greatest men I know and an inspiring role model. Best of luck. -Joe
MessageWhat a super website--I've loved reading it. I thought I was your biggest fan--guess there's a lot of us out there. To the three of you--you know how much we love you. I pray every day--Boston is the answer. Keep fighting the fight and pull your strength from each other. Timmy is the luckiest little guy--what a team you are. I love you. DY
MessageDear Uncle Brian, I just wanted to let you know that while you're in the hospital you should know that I feel really bad for you and hope you get better soon1 Love' shannon
MessageWe're very much aware of your impending hospital stay and surgery. I have worked with lots of patients & families in various stages of illness. Both of you have attitudes that I wish I could bottle and share proportionally to those who simply freeze, deny, allow anxiety or hopelessness to rule. Yet every person does the best at the time. We're sending M&K $20 to take you out for icecream, or a few treats for Timmy. Everyone will be taking their cues from you, as they well should. Nonetheless I trust you have special confidants whom you can share all your feelings with - & I know you do. The ripple effect from the core of Brian to Jen to your immediate families to intimate friends to community and beyond...we are all connected & surround you in a huddle of support, love and prayer as you dive forward. Love, Debbie & Tim
MessageCoach Fleury, You will always represent not only what Delbarton is, but also what it aspires to be. You and your family are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you all the best for a speedy recovery, Chris
MessageCoach, We, as a Delbarton community and family, are all behind you in this tough time. With love and support you will make it through adversity and never look back on what you had to go through. Good luck Coach and God bless, Cory
MessageBrian, You and your family are in our daily prayers. You are a wonderful role model for all of us. The Delbarton community is blessed to have you. Wishing you all the best! Angela, Tony, Anthony & Dan Moschella
MessageBrian, I'm glad Jill and I had a chance to see you yesterday before you left for Boston and we leave for Fla. My thoughts and prayers will be with you while you are on this most difficult journey. The strength you've exhibited throughout the past 6 and a half years (since I've been a part of the Fleury family) has been inspirational, to say the least. I look foward to seeing you in Boston and talking baseball, like we always do. And don't worry, I did not put any four letter words or derogatory remarks in this note like your other brother-in-law! Stay strong, Andy
MessageYo Brian Good web site. What is with everyone, wheres the laughter. I got a funny story for you before I go on. Last week I was standing in line at a check out counter of a grocery store and I was very surprised when a very attractive woman behind me said, "Hello!" Her face was beaming. I gave her that "who are you look," and couldn't remember ever having seen her before. Then, noticing my look, she figured she had made a mistake and apologized. "Look," she said "I'm really sorry but when I first saw you, I thought you were the father of one of my children," and walked out of the store. I completely was dumbfounded and thought to myself, "What is the world coming to? Here is an attractive woman who can't keep track of who fathers her children! Then I got a little panicky. "I don't remember her," I thought but, MAYBE....during one of the wild parties when I was younger maybe I did father her child! I ran from the store and caught her in the parking lot and asked, "Are you the girl I met at a party and then we got really drunk and then you know what happened next right? "No", she said with a horrified look on her face. "I'm your daughters second grade teacher!" Now thats a good one. Listen seriously keep up the good thoughts, smiles and laughs. I truly believe no one is tougher than you, Jen and Timmy. Get better soon so we can hit another Park. Next time I will keep an eye, Ha Ha, on Tim. As you know Dy, me and the Kids are there for you guys no matter what you need. Make sure Jen reaches out to us. Give me a call, Alright I gotta get mushy too. Love ya and thinking of you pal. Kevin
MessageBrian, Our family has you in our thoughts and prayers. May all things go smoothly. We look forward to your return to school where you have made such a difference! Bob, Carol, Bobby, Eric, Brennan, Michael and Matt Bicknese
MessageBri, Jen and Timmy, you are in our thoughts and in our prayers every day. We know this treatment in Boston will be the end of this chapter in your lives. The next ones will be filled with love, laughter, happiness and wonderful health. Reading this website is inspirational, as Brian, you are to all those you meet (even some who haven't had the pleasure of making your acquaintance!!) The one exception would have to be Kevin's message. I want to know why he's going to have to keep an eye on Tim on your next roadtrip ??? Know that we love you and are sending positive thoughts and prayers to Boston. Love ya. Karole, Tim, Anna and Tommy
MessageBrian, Just read your update. Godspeed from the entire Delbarton family.
MessageBrian, I have been reading all these wonderful messages about you and your family. It seems that EVERYONE knows how special you are all. I was reading several messages that talked about memories from not too long ago. Suddenly it occurred to me that the best memeory any of us can have is to one day say, " Remember when Brian had to fight so hard to beat his cancer? Thank God those days are over and he's healthy again!" Brian, I believe with all my heart that that day is not too far off. Our good wished go with you and your family to Boston next week. Get well real soon! Aunt Lois & Uncle GAry
MessageWe just wanted to wish you all the best on your trip to Boston next week. Our thoughts are with you and your family and know things will go well. Since we have been at Delbarton, it has been a great experience for David and our family. But beyond that, we feel very fortunate and lucky to have crossed paths with an exceptional person like you. You have had and will continue to have a meaningful impact on all of us and our lives are better for it. We can't wait to see you back on campus. We look forward to you being back on the field, in the 3rd base box right down the line where all your fans will be watching. God Bless. The Weinstein's.....Loren, Janis, Alison and Dave
MessageBrian- Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you go through this incredible process. I am so glad that you do not have to wait any longer and can begin what I believe will be a successful, but long ordeal. Please know that we are thinking about you and send positive thoughts your way! Love, Sally and Alec Walsh
MessageBrian & Family, Know that you in our thoughts and prayers...We honor the place in you which is of love, truth, of light and of peace. When you are so often in that place in you , and we in that place within ourselves...We are One. God Bless Brian/the Quinns
MessageBrian, We love you and are praying for you and Jen and Timmy. We want to see you home in the neighborhood really soon! Love Maggie and Art
MessageHi Brian, I know you're leaving on Monday for Beantown, my home town, and I wanted to wish you luck and I hope that things go smoothly for you. I know they will take good care of you up there. Who knows you might find yourself becoming a Red Sox fan! That's pretty much the only baseball that you will find on t.v., so when in Rome!! Your Mom would freak! You will be in my thoughts and prayers as will Jen and Timmy. Tell Jen not to hestitate to call if you guys need anything at all. Take care!
MessageBrian: My thoughts and prayers are with you, Jen, and Timmy. Your "biggest fan" (of course your sister Jill) has kept me up to speed on your journey. Thinking of you and wishing you the best and a speedy recovery. Amy
MessageHey B, J, and T: Hopefully we'll talk to you, over the phone, before you begin all the procedures...but, we just wanted you all to know that we are here if you need anything and we love you guys! Smooches and well wishes, Kels, Matt, & Marley
MessageDear Brian, We are now living in Sedona Arizona, but wanted you to know that we often think of you and keep you in our prayers. We saw your Mom in church this summer while visiting NJ and she told us of the pending bone marrow transplant. Please know that you will be in all our prayers here in Sedona. Love, Rose Ann and Frank and family PS Love the picture of you and the little guy!
MessageBrian - I once read an article by a sportswriter who argued that each position in baseball has its own rhythm. He thought that when you played a position long enough, and if you loved the game enough, that you would embody the pulse of your position in all aspects of your life. He said he could watch a man walk down the street and tell if he played first or third, or if he was a .300 hitter or a .250 hitter. When I met you, I think I knew that you were a catcher. In the short time I’ve known you at school, I can see the way you lead from behind the plate. You direct us, and you’re tough back there. Most importantly, when we surround ourselves with your stories and your laughter, your presence is the proof that we’re home. My thoughts are always in Boston in autumn - only now I’ve moved them from Fenway over to you and your family. -Brandon
Messagedear brian, you looked so good at the may 15th communion at st. virgil's that i had no idea you had this upcoming surgery planned. i will offer my daily masses & communions for you & pray for a quick, complete recovery. my love & prayers to you & your beautiful family. carole plaxe
MessageDear Brian: I am praying for you every day. I am so excited to hear that you have a donor. I know the upcoming weeks will be hard, but it will all be worth it. Can't ait to see you. Remind Jen that I can hlp with Timmy anythime. We live around the corner and would love to play with him. Best always, Tess
MessageBrian, We are all with you! May God bless you during these next few weeks and months. Giles
MessageBrian, We are all with you! May God bless you during these next few weeks and months. Giles
MessageHi Brian, I found out about your transplant thru my family and I wanted to send on my best wishes to you during your time in Boston. I know this ordeal must be hard on you and your family and that's why I'll be keeping you, your wife, and Timmy in my thoughts and prayers. Your presence at Delbarton has always been one of the school's most valuable assets, setting the standard for character and professionalism. Return home strong-Return home soon.
MessageCoach Fleur, First, know that you are, of course and as always, in our thoughts and prayers. Second, let me share a story with you, because after the thousands that you have told us, its time that one of us told you one. You once looked at our team after a bad loss to Seton Hall and told us that if we were ever going to be successful, we would have to take on the responsibility of leading for each other. You told us that we needed to act so that each player could depend on every one of his teammates to be his support, or as you put it, his rock. We all knew, though, that you were our rock. Just know that that is still the case, as we look to you as our rock. But also know that I hope that you look to us as your own rock, always there to support and strenghthen you. Good luck in Beantown this week and in the coming weeks and make sure that you get back to school safe and sound. Sors
MessageDear Coach Fleury, On behalf of Douglas his father and myself, we wish for you every benefit that modern medicine has to offer. We know that with Father's Luke's blessing that God is on your side. You will never really know how much you have meant to our family. Our thoughts are with you. Pat Bell
MessageBrian, If there is ANYTHING that we can do for you, Jen or Timmy while you are up here, PLEASE don't hesitate to ask. Needless to say, our prayers and best wishes are with you. All my love, Brian
MessageBrian, Our thoughts and prayers have followed you for a long time. As they have for your parents, sisters, and now your wife and son. God speed you thru this time and come home asap. Mrs. T
MessageDear Brian and Family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you and will continue with after the transplant for the months you will face ahead. As an RN who worked at Hackensack University on the Stem Cell Transplant floor I have a very real understanding of what it is that you and your family are going through. If in the future I can be of any help to you, please don not hesitate to call me. In the meantime, love, prayers, and positive thoughts are coming your way today and for the months ahead. Sincerely, The DeRenzi Family
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MessageDear Brian, I hope your first day of treatment has gone smoothly. I was out of town when I read that a donor who is a very good match for you had been found. That made my day. I keep you, Jen, Timmy, the rest of your family, your donor and your doctors in my prayers. I trust that all of the personal qualities that you model for us all everyday will serve you well as you take this challenging step in your quest for health. Take care, Brian. Love, Pat Crapo
MessageBrian, Whats up? I was told about how your doing from talking with Jamie Hare and Mone. Just wanted to let you know that your in my family's thoughts and prayers. Let your family know all of us Evans' said hello. Rob
MessageHey Brian thinking of you, Jen and Timmy......Save the date notices went out for our fall golf outing which will be on September 27 (Tuesday) this year....I will be seeing Dan W this week and will keep in touch with him on our plans.... Hockey camp has started and I hear thru the grapevine that Coach Shatel is actually smiling once and a while...... Alot of people have been asking me about you and I am sending them to your classy, wonderful website........Please tell Timmy that Matty is looking forward to getting him on the ice when he comes home....hang in there Coach....we all think about you everyday Larry
MessageHi Brian – It has been a LONG time, but I wanted to let you know that I was diagnosed with Hodgkins in 1998. I thought of you and your fight a great deal while I was going through treatment. You’ve been an inspiration to me, keep fighting and know that we are all praying for you! Cyndi
MessageHi Brian!! Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery.
MessageAll our prayers are with you all every second of the day. We miss you! We are so glad that you had that wonderful time on Nantucket together, a place that we hold dear in our hearts, as we do you. When ever, where ever you need us, we will be there. Much love, All of us
MessageBrian, It's been a long time but we keep tabs on you through your family and have now found out about this website. What a nice tribute to you!! You have touched so many lives! Just wanted you to know that you and your family are in our prayers and we wish you all the best! You deserve it!! Jason Karr and family
MessageBrian - I just found your website link on Delbarton's website and although I have heard you were in Boston awaiting the transplant, it was good to read your words and check out the website. Please know that you, you family and other loved ones are in my prayers. You must know by now how well you are loved by the entire Delbarton community and its is my hope that you can feel the "hugs" being generated by such a great community. With love - The Caputo Family
MessageDear Fleury Family: Just a quick little email to let you know we are thinking and praying for you. We hope all goes well. Jen thanks so much for Melanie's present. It was so thoughtful of you to remember us. I gave Kelly a birth announcement so that you may see the baby. We hope to see you soon. All the best, Helena and Shane Smith
MessageCoach, The past three years you have explained to your players your belief in the phrase "I am third", meaning your family comes first, your players, coaches, and friends come second and you come third. Which was why I was not surprised when you called me the day before you left for Boston to see how I was doing with my lung. That simple example of everything you beleive in just reminded me of how great a man you are and how great of a leader you are. You told us right before we beat No. 1 ranked Seton Hall this year that we can do anything we truly beleive in. We all truly beleive you are going to make it through this and I know your strength, both physical and mental, will get you through this. You, Jen, and Timmy will always been in my prayers. Love, Scott
MessageBrian, Jen & Timmy, I just went to the Dana Farber site for the first time, very impressive. Between the topnotch medical team and the family/friends support there in Boston and back home, this is an easy win. Please know, this day and everyday you are in our thoughts and prayers. Much love always, Donna, Chuck, Chels & Derek "when you are at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR
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MessageBrian--our thoughts and prayers are with you always. You have no idea what an influence you had on so many people in Morris Plains! Mr. & Mrs. Giannantonio
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MessageBrian, You are an inspiration to us all. You and your family will be in our prayers. Vinod & Mary K. Kurian
MessageHi B - Spoke with Pat last evening and all of her news was so good and positive. Your pick line is in and you handled it beautifully, as expected. I just think that is an indication as to how this whole procedure will go! Beautifully! Think about you all the time and pray constantly that the next week will go fast for you. Pat said Timmy was in to visit - can't wait to see the picture. God Bless and will keep tabs on you daily - but I promise not to write that often.Love ya, Aunt Pert.
MessageBrian, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You are a brilliant man who has touched so many with your charisma and personality. Best wishes for a speedy recovery. Biju Kurian
MessageC'mon Bubbs!! Pull through this one like it's a tough ballgame!!! Praying for your good health and success to continue a normal, happy life with your beautiful family. Please have Jen forward any needs/assistance to the community. There are so many that want to help you! Best of luck to you. Hoping to see you walking town real soon... Lots of love....
MessageB - YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS, CONSTANTLY. YOU ARE A STRONG AND DETERMINED FIGHTER, AS SHOWN BY YOUR HISTORY. CONTINUE TO DO SO. I AM IN YOUR CORNER ALL THE WAY AND WILL GET YOU ON SEVERAL PRAYER LISTS THAT I AM INVOLVED IN. I AM STILL SEARCHING TO FIND SOMEONE WHO HAS A BAD WORD TO SAY ABOUT YOU. SO FAR, NO LUCK! LOVE YA, BILL.
MessageHi Brian! Our thoughts and prayers are with you at such a trying time for you. You are awesome to still be on the winning side of this long battle, victory is in sight! All the best to you and Jen. Tracy and Steve Flanagan
MessageDear Brian, This web-site is a wonderful testimony of all the love and support from your family, friends and the Delbarton community. As you read each message, you are reminded of what an enormously positive impact you have had on the people you have touched. Whether it is at home, school or on the baseball field, please know that you are forever in our hearts. We pray that everything goes well for you in Boston and you are back home soon. With love and our prayers to you and your family, The Langs
MessageJust heard the news from my mom ( she got an email from Aunt Pat), that the pick line went well and you are doing well. We will continue to pray that everything goes well as you continue your treatment and get ready for the marrow transplant. Can't wait to see the pictures of Timmy in his gown and mask! Bet that made your day, Bri! Love, Karen
MessageBrian, Our thoughts and prayers are with you,, Jen and Timmy as they have been every day for these last four years. As a matter of fact, we've thrown in many prayers for your Mom and Dad, as well as for Jill and family and Carrie and family. Keep your spirits up (well, duuuh, I guess I don't have to tell YOU that!)and we all look forward to the day when you're back home. This website is a GREAT idea! Diane and Frank.
MessageBrian, Just wanted to say good luck and god bless to a great man. You are not just an inspiration to the Delbarton community, but to anyone who has ever crossed your path. As a coach, I try to study you and hope one day I can be half of what you are. As a person, you have become the standard of what ever man should be like. From the whole Morristown High School community, good luck and come home soon. Your Friend, Todd
MessageHi Brian, Andy and I have been thinking about you and just want to wish you the very best. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family that you may get through yet another ordeal, and that it may bring you back to a healthy life again. This web site idea is great.
MessageHey Mr. Fluery its Kevin Hubschmann and I hope everything goes well and the whole Hubschmann family is praying for you.
MessageDear Uncle Brian, I hope you are not feeling to sick. I want you to be better and come home soon. I love you. Abbie
MessageDear Uncle Brian, I want you to be better soon. Tell Timmy I'm doing a good job taking care of Batman & Joker for him. I love you. Jay
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MessageHey Uncle Brian, Just want to let you know I played with Chet and Bubba for a while the other day,they are doing well and said in "dog talk" that they miss you,Aunt Jen and Timmy but they are keeping each other company and being really good boys! We all miss you so much but we will see you soon! If I dont see you when Mommy and Daddy go to Boston, they will give you a huge hug just from me to you. Love, Emma
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MessageBrian, Hope you are doing well...by the time you get home hopefully the Redsox's will have won the AL East and the Yankees will be making vacation plans. Pete and I are tring to come up with a prank for another neighbor who is a Yankee fan... I suggested we tint their poolwater "RED"... Pete didn't seem to jump at that idea. I am looking forward to meeting up with you when you return home. Matthew still loves his baseball and is hoping the Met's win the wildcard in the NL. He had a very productive baseball season and an even better swim season as he made the Junior Olympic level in swiming in four different events. You need to give him some catching advise... Best of luck... And well stay in touch. Rich
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I wish you well and want you to know that my family and I are praying for you. Good luck this week, Mike Wroblewski
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, We just want you to know that we are keeping a eye on the garden (yum yum) and the house. Sure looks great. Hope all is going as planned and we can't wait to see you home soon. All our love, Dennis, Dodi, Meghan and Kaitlyn
MessageCoach Fleury: My family and I wish you all the best in your operation, our prayers are always with you. Everyone has the utmost confidence and faith that you will bounce back like you always do. With love and respect. Mike DeFazio
MessageBrian/Jen/Tim Our love and prayers are with you. Good luck this week. Tell Timmy POP-POP said hello. Mickey & John
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy - Just a short note to say you are in our thoughts and prayers every day. You are a great inspiration to so many people. Your faith and determination are so strong. We pray that all goes well and wish you all the strength and faith you need. You are a TOUGH guy Brian and deserve nothing but the best. Love and prayers - Marty and Marilyn Reilly
MessageBrian, It is obvious that you are truely an inspiration to everyone in the Delbarton community. I am the fortunate one who has come to know you over the last year through my role working with you regarding the athletic boosters. I cannot express how impressed I am with your positive outlook everyday and the impact you have had on our sons. You are a true hero to them and someone we all look up to. A day does not go by that we don't think and pray for you, Jen and Timmy and what you guys are going through. Hang in there, especially this week. Our prayers are with you and your donor for a successful transplant. Looking forward to your return. The Esposito's
MessageI will keep you and your family in my prayers. May you be granted strength during this time of trial and may God bless you and your family and grant you His peace. God+Bless Deacon Roy (Luke Rabinowitz '07)
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Brian you are an inspiration to us all. Mike and Donna
MessageDear Brian, This site is a great idea, we often wonder how you're doing, and now we know first-hand! It's amazing how many lives you and your family have touched, it's also amazing what an effect one person can have on an entire community. You and Jen are truly a special couple, we wish you only the best, now and always. Our thoughts and prayers are with you...come home soon! Dana, Tony & Nicole
MessageMr. Fleury, Everyone has such nice things to say about you, which is a testament to how important a role you have played in so many people's lives. Some of my favorite moments in life thus far have taken place under your tutelage both in the classroom and on the baseball field at Delbarton. I wish you the best with your battle and your family will stay in my prayers. Ryan Baker
MessageHi Brian, The sentiments have all been said . . . wishing you well . . . praying for you . . . thinking of you. But, some things bear repeating . . . to you from us . . . our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. We pray that you continue to have the tenacity, resolve, and determination to get well, coupled with the gentleness and kindness that draws you close to our hearts. Love to Jen & Timmy.
MessageBrian - the Petrucci Family is thinking about you. Keep pushing - see you on the side lines soon. Jim
MessageHi Brian - your website was forwarded to me by Dana - what a wonderful way to share your journey with your friends. You have such tremendous support from the community. I was so happy to see they found a donor for you! Wishing you all the best in your effort to beat this thing and put it behind you once and for all! Please know we will be keeping you and your family in our prayers Sincerly- Maria, Dave, Amanda, Elyse and David
MessageBrian, Just wanted you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I've enjoyed reading the impact you've had on so many in the Delbarton Community. Sounds like they really need you. Get back to them soon, once the great doctors in Boston help you get better. Danny Pompeo
MessageBrian, You have been referred to on this website by many names: Brian, Bubba, Coach, Mr. Fleury, brother, uncle, son, father, husband, friend (I'm sure I missed some). Some knew you when you were born, or when you were 5, or 25, and some have never met you at all- but no matter what your title, they all know the same Brian Fleury. After practically growing up in your house, I know how proud your family has always been of you, and it is obvious your fan club spreads way beyond just your family. May the support and love of friends and family carry you, Jen and Timmy back home safe and healthy. Sending hugs and love, Kelly, Chris, Katie, Christopher and Kevin
MessageHey Uncle Brian and Aunt Jen, We saw Kath today and she gave us the toy from Boston, I love it and I keep asking Mommy how the hammerhead shark got in the toy! We miss you so,so,so,so,so,so much!!!!! Hey by the way Kath told me Timmy looks so cute in his mask, you tell those nurses to step off my man. We love and miss you. Love, Emma
Messagewell your big day is coming and between conversations with your mom as we pass walking/running and carrie at the pool or soccer field (all star player Abbie is on our team this year!), your family cant be more supportive and loving in your time of need. hope it didnt take a battle as long as this to find how special you are to all you touch! best of luck wednesday. will be hoping to hear great news from carrie when she returns. you are not alone there wednesday! so many thoughts and prayers coming your way. god bless you---although he has in many ways. Love from all us crowleys. SEE you soon....
MessageCoach Fleury,you are in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. I know you will do great tomorrow. I'm looking forward to seeing you back in school. Jack McGuigan
MessageBrian, It may be too late for you to read this before your procedure tomorrow; I hope that it is not. You have been in my thoughts all summer. Please know that as you read all the wishes from your players and your students, you don't just inspire them, you inspire their parents as well. You are the real deal and I am proud to know you. Godspeed, see you soon. Terry, Linda, Jack '08 & Kevin '09
MessageDear Coach Fleury - Just wanted to let you know that your in mine and my family's thoughts and prayers. I hope all goes well, and I'm looking forward to seeing you back at school - Will Gesicki
MessageBrian: Just wanted to let you know that my whole family is thinking of you and praying that all goes well. Look forward to seeing you soon. Love, Kevin, Dina, Holly & Tommy
MessageWe, along with the Wave XC Team, are wishing you the best and remembering you in our prayers. John, Peg, Mike, Lauren, Katy, and Granny
MessageBubba- My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know you'll persevere as you always have and look forward to seeing you soon! God Bless!
MessageWhats up Coach - I just wanted to let you know that we are all thinking of you every day. If I could pick one person in my life that I had full confidence could beat this, it would be you. I think I might come up for a visit when I get my heart checked in Boston in September. Hopefully I will see you than. Maybe I will get to hang with Timmy. My family and I all love you and will continue to pray for you. See you soon. - Goldy
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MessageHey Bri, Good luck tomorrow-know that all our prayers will surround you and help get you through this long awaited day, then you can begin to heal and return to us. That will be a day to celebrate! All our love to your incredibly strong wife Jen and your wonderful son Tim.We will keep all your family in our thoughts and prayers. God bless all of you! Hurry home! Love Lorraine and Frank too!
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I'm Dave Weinstein's sister and I know tomorrow is a very important day for you and your family. From all the entries on this website, it is so incredibly clear how loved you are by so many people and how your experiences have touched so many of us. It is just so obvious how your strength and positive attitude radiates around you. If I could bottle up the stuff you are made of and sell it, this world would be a much better place and I'd be a very rich woman! You are an unbelievable man to have perservered through this difficult process and it is a true pleasure to be connected to you through the Delbarton baseball family. I will be in my usual lawn chair next to my Mom and Dad next Spring and I look forward to watching you on the third baseline coaching away!!! Best of luck Mr. Fleury. Love, Alison Weinstein
MessageMr. Fleury, I just wanted to say that my family and I wish you the best of luck tomorrow and that we will be thinking about you and praying for you.
MessageMr. Fleury- It's very simple - you have been, are, and always will be the man. No one can deny that. Whether it's coaching on the ball fields, teaching in the classroom, lording over the Athletic Office, or just flat-out beating this thing, you're the man for the job. Your determination and integrity show in everything you say and do, as evidenced by all these great posts. Know that the Popper family's (and the entire Delbarton community's) prayers are with you and your family. You're the man. Steve and Matt Popper
MessageHi Mr. Fleury, I just wanted to wish you good luck tomorrow and that I hope we can see you back at school as soon as possible teaching, coaching, and heading our athletic programs. My family and I keep you in our prayers.
MessageBrian, Just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you today and every day. We pray that all goes well tomorrow. Our love and prayers to Jen and Timmy. Keep the faith - God Bless, The Honicky Family
MessageHey Coach Fleury, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Good luck tomorrow. I look forward to seeing you back at Delbarton teaching and coaching next year.
MessageBri, You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Tomorrow you will be a rock - like always! Like our man Bob Dylan said "don't think twice, it's alright"...bull your neck and go get it done. I will talk to you soon. WE LOVE YOU. Brian, Melanie, Lexi & Mary
MessageCoach Fleury, You are truly an inspiration and a staple of the Delbarton community. After finally spending time on the baseball diamond with you for parts of the spring and the summer, I told my brother that you were the ultimate coach. He responded, "He's the ultimate man". We all look forward to having you back at Delbarton this year. In the meantime, you, your wife, and Timmy have been and will be in our thoughts and prayers.
MessageCoach Fleury, You are truly a legend at Delbarton and we anxiously await good news and your return. You are in the thoughts and prayers of all.
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy- We wish you the best for tomorrow. We can't stop thinking about you and praying everything goes well. We love you guys. Love, Matt, Becca, PJ and Emily
MessageBrian, Motivational song of the day: "Just what makes that little ole ant think he can move that rubber tree plant..... he's got high hopes! " In fact we all have high hopes and a lot of faith. We have been praying for you but heaven keeps telling us that all circuits are busy, can you please pray again later. They are inundated with prayers on your behalf!! Sending love and well wishes to you and your family, Kelly, Dan, Trevor, Connor, and Kelsey.
MessageHey coach, I am writing to let you know that my thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family since I first learned of your medical history. In these trying times it is the close friends that help us through and if there is anything that either myself or my family can do, either big or small, to help out please never be afraid to ask. I will continue to pray for you and your family, much love, David Lewis Jr.
MessageBrian, Jen, and Timmy, Just wanted to let you know that our prayers our with you today as Brian gets the marrow. We know that he will come through this great as he has done with everything else. We are thinking of you all today and look forward to hearing the newest update on Brian. Love, Karen, Jonathan, Morgan, and Ryan
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MessageDear Jen, Brian and Timmy, Your all are in our thoughts and prayers daily. Love, The Leslies
MessageHappy Birthday Brian. August 23 is the beginning of your new lease on life. God bless you and God bless your donor. Our thoughts today for you are of joy and anxiety because we know that the next few months will be hard, filled with lots of tests and anticipation. But on the other had we know that you will prevail, and the thought of you coming out the other end of this cancer free...all of our prayers will have been answered. Stay strong, God speed, we love you. Jenni, Mike, Nicole, Ryan and Sarah
MessageToday's your day! I am absolutely confident that this is the beginning of a new phase in your life! With this transplant, I pray that you will go on to have a "less stressful" life, one filled only with the USUAL ups and downs most people endure. With SO many people praying for you, I don't see how you can miss!!! God bless you, Jen & Timmy! Aunt Lois & Uncle Gary
MessageDear Brian We know you through the eyes of your father and our dear colleague, Ed. But we follow your progress closely and wish you everything of the best. From all at Rentokil Initial in the UK.
MessageBrian, Jen & Timmy - Our thoughts and prayers are with you everyday. We have made it a tradition as we ride down Franklin pass your house to say an extra prayer and boy do we drive up and down alot. I never relized how much until lately. We look forward to the updates on the website and are anticipating and hoping for all good news. Jerry is looking forward to being able to talk baseball again - soon. God Bless - Jerry, Melissa, Brett & Jenna Brophy
MessageI've read this at least ten times already, but when I woke about ten minutes ago the first things I thought of were you, Jen, Timmy, and the big day you all have ahead of you. I wish you tbe best of luck. Thank you for all you've done to make my dad so happy over the past year. Now get the hell back there before someone figures out he's a maroon imposter. = ) My thoughts and prayers are with you all as well as the rest of the Barnicle crew's. Godspeed.
MessageCoach- You have touched so many lives and hearts over the years, and I know that you will continue to do so. God bless you, Jen, and Tim. Please know that there are thousands of people you have touched who are praying for you, and who cannot wait to see you back home. Thank you for everything and best of luck in Boston. Love, Clint
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MessageCoach Fleury, Jen, and Timmy- Good luck today and I hope that everything goes well. I just wanted to say that my family and I continue to think and pray for you everyday. You have truly been such a great role model not only to me but to everyone else in your life. I know that you will get through this difficult time and I'm looking forward to seeing you in school and on the field. Keep the faith, Darren
MessageBrian - You, Jen & Timmy have been with me in spirit all summer & most especially when I was up in Maine where all great energies dance. I throw my arms around you tightly in thought & prayer to stay strong & send you a smile that you have helped to keep on my face all these years. Love always, Di
MessageDear Coach Fleury, My thoughts and prayers are with you today. You are an outstanding coach and an even better person. You have taught me so many things over the past 2 years, not only in baseball, but with life. Thank you for everything you have done for me and Good luck today, I will be praying for you. Love, Greg Sherry
MessageOUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS HAVE BEEN WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOU ARE TRULY AN INSPIRATION TO ALL. JOANN & RON CHESNUT
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy our prayers are with you today, and always. I just spoke to Carrie and she has kept me updated on your progress in Boston. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Debbie, Connor and Brendan
MessageHi Mr. Fleury, I don't think that Coach Shatel ever knew about the angel connection and his team last year but during the hockey season the energy and friendship of the players and the parents was so extraordinary that the mom's felt a special bond, a mother's karma so to speak. We all felt so blessed to be a part of each other's lives, especially those of our sons who remained so positive, gracious and strong in their commitment to each other and the team. So before each game the mother's sent up special prayers to the angels to protect the players and help them do the best they could. We never asked for victories because, quite frankly, God has more pressing issues to deal with but we always asked that the angels watch over the kids. They always did. The moms like to think that their karma and God's grace contributed to that amazing season. In light of His response to our obvious extraordinary "gift"to effect the universe (and Delbarton hockey)we would like to extend our prayers for His constant vigilance and safe keeping for you and your wonderful wife and son. May the angels watch over you so that you feel safe and loved. You are.
MessageDear Brian,Jen,and Timmy, Today is big. We are all with you in spirit,love and prayer. The Riordan Family
MessageCoach Fleur, Big day today, huh? We are all praying and thinking about you, Mrs. Fleury, and Timmy constantly and are anxious to hear how you do today and in the coming weeks. I can't wait for the day when I come home and walk into your office to have a conversation. Good luck today and I'll see you soon. Sors
MessageTo the Fluery family.As I await to take my son to Univeristy next week where he will be playing baseball for Tufts thanks to Brian. I wish for you the same day sometime in the future where you will be planning your trip to take Timmy to college as a family. Our thoughts are with you all today and in the days to come that everything speeds to a pefect recovery. God Bless.
MessageBrian and Jen, Caryn and I have been thinking about you constantly. Hope today goes well. Our thoughts and prayers are with the both of you. Chas
Messagebrian.....we're so proud of you and this exhausting journey that you're on....our thoughts are with you everyday......when i stop at the dunkin donut, i assume that maybe i'll see you.....won't be long til you can "touch me up" for a free donut and coffee again!! and there's nothing like fenway park!! bernie and bev hubert
MessageBrian. Just wanted to wish you well today. I know everything will be successful. You and Jen are truly an inspiration to everyone. Stay strong and I know you'll get through this.
MessageDear Brian and Family, We hope everything is going well for you in Boston. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Lucia and Jim Nodoro
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, This next week I will be going off to college and I have been thinking quite a bit about Delbarton. Having going there for the past six years of my life, it's hard to imagine going to any other school. It's because of Delbarton's strong emphasis on the term "community" that has made it so special. The community at this school has made it such a joy to come back to every fall. While some people see Delbarton's strong community in activities like sportings events, after thinking about what made Delbarton so special was its heroes. You are without a doubt one of the biggest heroes at the school. Your tenacity and strong will is something to admire, as well as emulate for all the young men at Delbarton. I wish you and your family the best throughout this difficult period as you will be in my prayers.
MessageBrian-again just a short note to let you know how much you and your family were in our prayers today! Your name has been added to our prayer list at Our Lady of the Woods Church in Palos Park,IL and also to Cyndi and Rob's parishes in Naperville and Geneva, IL. I know that prayers and wonderful doctors will help God send His Miracle to YOU!!
MessageCoach, I know you just had your surgery today, and I wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers have been with you through this entire ordeal. Over the past few years you have taught me more than you can imagine. You taught me how to execute bunt defenses and how to hit a curveball, but more importantly you taught me what it truly means to be a man. You taught me about courage, strength, perseverance, and the true power that your attitude can have. Simply making that choice when you wake up every morning (like you have talked to the team about so many times) can change everything, just like it has for you. I have no doubts that you will beat this disease once again and that you will be back coaching third base on the diamond soon enough. Thanks for everything, coach, you have made the biggest difference at Delbarton, and everybody there is eagerly awaiting your return. God Bless. -Bick PS - shoot me an email sometime, I'd love to chat with you about anything, and definitely let me know when you're allowed to have visitors, I'll be the first one in line to see you.
MessageHi Brian and family, I hope you have begun your protocol for your transplant. I want you to know that we are happy to help your wife and son while you are in Boston. I had spoken with Jill a while back, and offered to have your son play here in Norwell (25miles south of Boston), with my children and Jill, so your wife can spend private time with you. The offer is still out there. God keep giving you strength. Keep your spirit positive. Sincerely, Sharon.
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, Just wanted to let you know that I have been thinking of all of you. You have been in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to be. Volleyball season has begun here at Chatham High School and please know that we dedicate this season to you. Good Luck and Take Care! Jen Fenton Kessler
MessageButch and I send our love and prayers to you. We think of you every day and know you are going to be well. Hope to see you soon. Bev Acker
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MessageDear Brian, My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family everday. God Bless you Pam DeFilippis
MessageBrian - we heard from Jill this morning that you came through like a champ. Great News. Keep up the good work - we are all with you.
MessageDear Brian and Family, We hope all is going well in Boston. We think about you and pray for you every day. We heard you got the transplant last night. We know this is the first step towards better things to come. We miss Shirley's desserts and her uplifting presence at the office. Craig misses trash-talking to her about the Yankees (by the way they lost last night - too bad). We're sure your Delbarton family misses all of you as much as we do. We're looking forward to hearing good news and your lives getting back to normal real soon. Love, The Schiffners
MessageMr. Fleury - Just wanted to let you know that the thoughts and prayers of me and my family are with you always. We wish you the best and know you will get through this.
MessageHi Brian.. Heard from Carrie and Pete this morning, and we are so excited that everything went smoothly, and you are doing well. We are praying for you, and constantly thinking of you, Jen and Timmy. Hope to see you back in town soon! Love to you and your family... Beth, Kevin, Christina and Shana
MessageBrian... every time I walk down the hallway and pass your door I miss seeing you behind your desk. It reminds me to say a prayer on your behalf each and every time I make a pass. May God grant you the courage and strength to fight through this medical passage and return to us healthy. With much love, Marty
MessageDear Coach: Hope you are doing well Brian. Our thoughts and prayers are with you! Julie's grandmother met your Mom at church the other day. We wish you all the best and a speedy recovery! We started Freshman Soccer tryouts today. Luckily for the kids it is nice out- low 80's and not humid. We have good numbers this year with 33 kids out for the team, the most in many years. Unfortunately that could mean that we have to cut a few but we shall see. We have a lot of younger brothers going out for the team including a young Cortese, Mergner, Mulligan, Levinsky, etc. Julie and Mackenzie are doing well. Julie sends her best. We had a great time seeing you and Jen and Tim at Shatel's barbecue. I have to go to lunch and get ready for our next practice with Special Ed Thompson. I hope you are doing well. Take care Brian! JT
MessageBrian, Jen & Timmy- We wish you all the best in the days ahead. I pray for you whenever I look out the window and see your house. You are an inspiraton to many! God Bless you! Chris, Larry, Sean and Julia Hoey
MessageWe are thinking about you!!! You are in our prayers and we love you.
MessageDear Brian, Cheryl and I have been praying for you. We prayed that a donor would be found - prayer answered. We now are praying that you will have a speedy recovery. May God bless you and your family. Sincerely, Cheryl and Andy Provence
MessageBrian It was so wonderful this morning when Jill told us that the "big event" took place last night and that as we speak the "new bone marrow" is at work providing you with the offense / defense required to kick the "H" out of this ugly, indiscriminate disease...... I know that as the fall teams start up their practices and with the start of the new school year just weeks away there is no place that you would rather be than "on the job" doing what you do best....running Delbarton's outstanding athletic program...know that you are in the hearts and minds of everyone here and that we all eagerly await your return......PS did you hide all of your Yankee gear.....do they know up there that they are going down this year.(aren't they??) We wish you Jen and Timmy everything that is good in this world....fight the fight, coach Larry
MessageHey Guys...just wanted to check in, sounds like things are going well, talked to AP tonight. We're thinking of you and love you! Jen, I'm hoping I catch you this weekend on the phone, but call if you need anything. we love you guys-amy and joe
MessageBrian I always knew you were chosen and after reading alot of your mail I believe God has in someway allowed all us to to know you either personally or through your family or students or friends and co-workers to experience some of your life and some of your pain. You and your family have had more then anyone should have to endore and yet God has given you hope and we all cling to that and pray. You are still teaching us and still being a real example to all of us and I know you will win this long battle which will continue to give us the hope we all search for.
MessageBrian and Jen, Remember us? We were your next door neighbors the first year that John taught at Delbarton (1994-5). When we knew you, you had just gotten married and had a wonderful yellow lab (I've forgotten his name--Chet?) and we had a little cocker spaniel puppy. I can see from your website that both of our families have grown since then! Your son is so handsome! Aren't little boys fun? We have three little boys now and they are a handful! John just finished up his residency in internal medicine at UVA and we've relocated to Chapel Hill NC. It was strange timing that John found this website the day after Brian must have received his transplant. We will be thinking of you and hoping that Brian's recovery goes as smoothly as possible. We're keeping you in our prayers :) Please keep in touch. Christen & John Holly
MessageDearest Brian--Eight years ago, I was hit by a car while riding my bicycle in NYC. And, as you know, I used you as an inspiration to get through the surgeries and rehabilitation. Just three weeks ago, I underwent an emergency 'three level fusion' in my cervical spine (another repercussion of the accident). After the surgery, I was scared and in a lot of pain; but I continued to think of you and your unwavering courage, and I found the strength that I needed to recover with some kind of grace. I would think to myself, "Bubba's been through a lot worse than this! I can do it! I can make it through this!" I don't know if you will ever know what an incredible inspiration you are for every-single person you come into contact with. I, for one, thank you for being such a beacon of strength. I pray that your recovery will be quick and easy, and that you'll continue to take refuge in your family and friends, who, so obviously, think the world of you. Love and Blessings, Donna
MessageBrian, I just returned from the football scrimmage. We looked good, even though a few of our injured starters were sidelined. The Bergen Catholic team was not as strong as last year's. The Wave and BC each had one touchdown. The St. John Vianney team wasn't competitive. Our 2 TDs to its 1. Even though the Union HS team was BIG, we bested it 2 TDs to 1. I was happy to hear from Lorraine this morning that your surgery went well. The monks are praying for you every day, and when we ramp up the Mothers' Guild, you will have 468 moms praying for you every day. I take comfort knowing that you are recuperating in the shadow of Fenway Park. I hope that the balls sailing over the Green Monster off the bats of Manny R. and David O. don't dsturb your rest. Come back to us soon. Father Richard
MessageBrian, We've been reading your news everyday, keeping you in our thoughts and prayers every minute. The ordeal you and your family have been going through has overwhelmed the entire Delbarton community, because the love and respect we all have for you is immeasurable. Hopefully the worst is over and the healing will soon begin. You know all those wonderful stories you've told to your students over the years--about courage and fortitude and resolution--just keep telling them to yourself! May God bless you and send you home real soon. Love, Shelly
MessageBubba, Our thoughts and prayers are with you through these trying times for you and your family. You have touched the lives of so many people in the past, and when you recover from your transplant I am sure you will touch many more. If you or your family need anything at all I will drop what I am doing to come and help (I still have 3 weeks vacation this year if you need me to drive you or your family anywhere). Please do not hesitate to call (973-989-8799) your health is more important than anything my family has going on in our lives. You are in our prayers every night. Love the Brophys Tommy, Colleen, Megan, Kevin
MessageHey mr. fleury! This is james Mumma and i just wanted to tell you i hope all is going well and that me and my family all have you in our hearts.
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Julie and I would like to say hello and send you our best wishes, thoughts, and prayers. We hope the procedure went well the other night and that Brian is doing well. Mackenzie is doing well. She is now sitting up on her own and trying to crawl up our chest when we hold her. She is now nine weeks old. She is usually sleeping for a good chunk of the night which is good news. Frosh soccer is going well. Good group of kids. We should be OK. A lot of younger brothers out there. We hope to scrimmage Ramapo next Friday and see where we are at. I have to run to practice now but I wanted to check in and send you our best wishes. Take care guys. JT
MessageCoach Fleury, I just wanted to say you are in my families thoughts and prayers everyday. I have not had the oppertunity to have you as a teacher or as a coach, but that is unnecessary to learn from you. You are a true leader by example, a true inspiration. I know you will keep fighting this and we all can't wait to see you back at school. Best Wishes, Patrick and the Coleman Family
MessageHey Mr Fleury - Hope the procedure went well, I just wanted to reiterate that you have the entire Delbarton community behind you, and I don't think there's a person at Delbarton who you haven't in some way inspired. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. - Nathaniel Robinson
MessageBrian, You are an inspiration to us all. Someone commented the other day that they felt you were ready to take on this next procedure. I said: "Brian...he's always ready. No matter what it is." God Bless you Brian, Jen, and Timmy. John
MessageHi Brian, Kelly Gleason at Delbarton just let us know about this great website of yours. We just wanted you to know that you are in our prayers. Jake attended Delbarton tennis camp this summer but missed 2 days due to Osgood Slotters - leg/joint pains due to rapid/uneven growth. He did enjoy the days he made it, though. He will be applying to Delbarton this fall for next year. Fingers crossed! Will attended baseball camp and had a ball (no pun intended). We ran into Ken Heffner at a wedding and he said Carrie and maybe Jen and Timmy would be staying at his condo when they are visiting in Boston. Please say hello to Carrie from me. Wishing you all the best - Cathy and Bill Huff
MessageJust wanted to send my love your way! I am slowly getting everything packed for my move and can't wait to have you all over for dinner! Thinking of you as always~ All my love~ schwartzie :-)
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I just wanted to check in and find out how you're doing and let you know that we're praying for you very hard and hope that you make a full recovery as soon as possible. Delbarton doesn't feel like Delbarton without you there. God bless. Neil
MessageAin't nobody like you. I love you. Stay strong. Mick
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Great news that the transplant went well! I was so psyched when I checked in this morning before my tennis lessons to see your update. I am glad that Brian is doing better. I am sure it was a difficult process. Julie and I send our best wishes and prayers to you both and we hope Tim is doing well. Let us know if there is ever anything we can do on this end for you guys. Brian is someone we respect and admire. How many people can you say that about? We think about him every day. I hope both of your families are doing well to. Take care and good luck with the days to come. John, Julie, and Mackenzie Thompson
MessageTimmy toured Fenway!!!! Now there's something to really lift his dad's spirits. This is all wonderful news about how everything is going so far. Just imagine how many prayerful wishes are coming your way - they are being answered! You both have such strength and courage and are such an inspiration to all who know and love you. God bless. Maggie
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy: We follow your progress every day and what progress it's been! Everything so far has fallen into place and now we wait for your quiet strength and unbelievable courage to take over. With the help of about a million prayers a day! Everyone is pulling for you Coach. You inspire us each day. God bless you all. John, Anne and Matty
MessageGood luck with the surgery and recovery, hope everything goes well. With Love, The Siddiqui Family
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy - we were so thrilled to hear that the transplant was a success, but not to our surprise that another battle has been won! Continue your fight and you'll be back in good ol' Morris Plains before you know it. If there's anything we can do - please, just let us know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families! Love - Matt and Jen
MessageJust read the updates... so glad to hear it went well... thank you so much for this website and the updates... it helps all of us who care so much for you stay updated and in touch... we have been thinking about you so much this week... hope Timmy is enjoying his tour of Boston... Jen, when you have a few mins, feel free to call if there is anything we can do, even if it is just keeping you company or coming to hang out with Timmy! Bri-stay strong (which you do better than anyone in the world)... love you guys... thoughts always with you... Love, Mere, Scott, Lily and Jack
MessageWe were happy to hear from Brian that the transplant went well. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
MessageHope all continues to move in a positive fashion! Love to you all. Barbara
MessageBrian, We are encouraged by the good news that the procedure went well, and are wishing you great luck over the next stretch. Know that Katherine, Benjamin, Beatrice and I are pulling for you. You, Jen and Timmy are in our prayers and thoughts. The school will be diminished by your absence, but made stronger by your example. Thanks, and good luck, Rob
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello again from Motown. Hope Brian is continuing to feel better and adjust to the transplant. He is in our prayers and thoughts each day. We know he can do it. We are doing well here in Jersey. We had a nice weekend with Mackenzie visiting Julie's relatives. She is really starting to recongize her surroundings and is so much more alert. Unfortunately yesterday she was a bit cranky but that happens. The good news was she slept through the night last night and usually does so which is good on us parents. My frosh soccer squad continues to look good. We have some good kids out there. Varsity Soccer is in the midst of their retreat as we speak and they should be very good as well. Keep rooting for the Sox. If Brian stays in Mass too long he will become a Sox fan! Please give him our best. Take care guys. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie!
MessageBrian: I just checked the news update. Great to see you posting a message and feeling well. Hang in there ace! You are the man. JT
MessageBub, All the best to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Manahans - Marc, Ann Marie, Maddy and Jack
MessageBrian, Glad to see the latest update. You, Jen and Timmy are always on our minds and in our prayers! Continue to progress and we look forward to getting you back. You and your family are an incredible witness, Brian......The Jabbours, Jerry, Jean, Jerry Jr., John and Baby #3 TBD.
MessageBrian, It's been a Long time since we talked. Your website is great. My best wishes to you and your family. You have alot of people who are very supportive of you! I wish you a speedy recovery. Godspeed. Best regards
MessageNow that you have started this difficult journey to health,with the loves of your life at your side,Jen and Timmy,please know that you are deep in my heart every second.When you wrote W.I.T. in your baseball hat 18 years ago,it wasn't just a gesture-you did it.Last week we watched you do W.I.T.again with remarkable strength and amazing grace.Jen,you have done a tremendous job taking care of every detail to protect Brian and care for him.These messages from so many show you Brian,that to know you is to love you.I love you,Mom
MessageCoach Fluery, Its great to read your updates and see how well you are doing. You are now in my Mom's daily prayers (you are in excellent company!), and I wish you and your family all the very best. -Bernie
MessageWhen Fr. Luke said how great it would be to be known as Brian's father he said it all.Being with you,Jen and Timmy this week and witnessing first hand,once again,your attitude and approach to everything that comes your way continues to amaze me.You did good!!!It's a wonderful thing to learn how to live your life from your son.We read the messages every day and it makes us proud to see how many lives you have touched and the support they are all giving back.Keep up the good work and we are all waiting for you to be back on the baseball field.Jen will keep things under control,she is doing a great job.Remember to keep those lace's tied tight at the top!Stay well! I love you. Dad
MessageB - I hope all is well...it sounds like you have rounded first and are headed for second base..keep chugging.... new pics look great and updates to the website are greatly appreciated by everyone. just finished reading the miracle of st. anthony. what a great book! ..i am trying to think of what coach hurley might say to you at this time....hard to imagine, but i know it would be good! you have been my source for a good read, so if you have any new ones let me know. we miss you around here and anxiously wait for your return! best, chuck
MessageBubs: Not many people still call you that but when you called me a few weeks back to ask how I was feeling I'm sure I called you "Bubs". That is who you are. You know how Barb and I feel about the Fleury clan. We feel like we are all one family and your parents and us have six kids. By the way, Bubba and Chet are eating like kings with you know who taking care of them. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Barb & Gary
MessageBrian......wrapping up another day at the office and was so pleased to see your posting of the great news......that you are in your Boston home with your lovely, supportive family, feeling well enough to personaly give the update.......it is remarkable that your donor is from overseas.....also I am quite sure that the process of the transplant has changed dramatically from your 2nd one years ago...this should also be reason for increased optimism.....all of the coporate quality progams dictate...that an improved process improves results.....the Yankees are doing their share for keeping your spirits up.....the photos that Jen posted are great... Timmy is chip off the old block...boy does he look like his dad.... Coach....you are the man...we are all pulling for you and wish you and your family the very best. Larry
MessageBrian, It was wonderful to read the update and to see the new pictures of you and your family. It looks like Timmy is entering the age of dinosaurs! It goes without saying that you are an inspiration to so many others, and Jen truly is a remarkable woman. We all are keeping the faith that soon you will see the successful fruits of the transplant. Our prayers are for you and your family, the doctors and nurses, as well as the donor. In faith, hope and love, The Gleasons
MessageBrian, I love the new photos. Tell Jen, I am going digital! I started this weekend at Baseball Heaven. You would have been very proud of your Delbarton players! Your update sounds wonderful. So glad you can be at home with Jen & Timmy. You remain in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Mary
MessageHello Fleury family!!!! You are all so amazing... I can't tell you how your messages have kept us all so bouyant while you endure such a difficult time. That said, we have to thank you for being so mindful of the helpless masses of friends and well wishers that so anxiously await the news. True to form you just blow us away. Massive prayers your way for a continued successful healing; physically , mentally, and emotionally. God Bless, Ellen and Mike Harding Matt, Eric, Luke, and Nick Too!!
MessageHey Bub- It sure has been quite some time since we have spoken or seen one another. I spoke with Jill last week and she informed me of this site... Like many others you are in my prayers and wish a speedy recovery, I need to see you here in AZ in March.....Getting married! All the best!! Cousin Brian
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, I am so happy to hear everything is going well! You are all in my thoughts and prayers everyday.As always if there is ever anything I can do for you,you know where to find me.Please tell Timmy that "Aunt Anne" sends her love and that I totally loved my"MANNIE and PEDDIE".Brian stay strong.I can not wait till your all home in Morris Plains!!!With Love,Anne (Kyle,Andrew and Matthew,too!}
MessageBrian, It has been too long. Its hard to imagine that it has been ten years since Klingenstein. Brian Day told me about your recent struggles. Hang in there, buddy. I will be praying for you and Jen. When this is all over, Mexican Food on me. God Bless, Michael Denning
MessageHi Brian, we are thinking of you often, and hope everything is going well. We just got back from our trip to Alaska and we are exhausted, we had a great time. I will pray for you and your family. Love Cindy
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I hope that when u come home everything is going to ok. Everybody is praying and hoping that u came back safe and sound and we will all feel much better. Get well soon. Michele Whalen
MessageHi Brian, Friend of Jen Wilson writing again... you continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Your strength and courage are an inspiration. We're so glad to hear that you're safely through the transplant and out of the hospital... and so fast! Good for you! God Bless you and Jen... you're truly lucky to have each other. Keep up the great work, here's to a speedy recovery! Jessica Sibona and Family
Messagehey! great to hear from you! the photos are great! Love and prayers continue for you all, and yes, we will send special thanks for the donor as well. It will be great to eventually learn who that person is!I guess we will have to wait for that one. so, take good and special care, and may your body take over and do what you need to do! We will miss you here , but the email/web site connection is fabulous.Barbara
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, We are friends with your sister Carrie as well as Joe "Mac" being my brother(in-law). With knowing both of them, we have known of your strong will and wonderful outlook of dealing with your illness. You are such an inspiration to each life that you touch and even people you don't know. Our son Jack is in the same grade as your neice Abbie and he loves to play baseball. He plans on attending Delbarton (because there are no girls...remember he is only 8) but also because we have told him about you. We were driving by Delbarton and he asked to drive through so he could see the ball fields. He's going for sure now. So you have a new player in 7 years. We'll have him ready for you. Finally, in our home after we say prayers each night, we say "special God Blesses" and you have been included in our "God Blesses" and will be continued to be included until you are back on that ball field. Phil,Marge, Brennan and Jack (Class of 2015)
MessageI am in 8th grade at Delbarton and keep you in my prayers every night. Hope you continue to get well, and will be back at school soon. Sincerely, Paul
MessageVery best wishes and God Bless! Teri Polly (Jill's Assistant at Hershey!).
MessageHi Brian - Best wishes and hope for a quick recovery. The pictures look great. You are in our prayers. Greg & Megan
MessageHi guys. I love the pictures you added. I am so happy to hear that things are moving along well. Every day is another milestone. Please call if I can come and help--even for a couple days. I'd love to. I guess things can settle down a little now for you Jen--not as much running. You all need to rest. Brian--your a total hottie in your blue mask. Just had to tell you. We'll talk to you soon. Love ya. Dy.
MessageBub, just wanted to say how much it meant for me to be there with you, Jen & Tim last week during such a difficult time. I'm glad I could be there to help with Tim. I'm an expert now on drawing ninja turtles! I can't believe there was a time when we were young that you would not go downstairs in the dark without me. We've come a long way since then but one thing never changes and that is how proud I am of my big brother and how much I love him. We can't wait for the three of you to be home. Give our love to Jen & Timmy. Pete, Carrie, Abbie, Jay & Bradley
MessageCongrats on making it out of the hospital even though you had to bear down through the fire alarm incident! I'm happy to hear that the surgery went well. Hanne, the girls, and I are always praying for you. I'm almost done with Buzz Bissinger's 3 Nights in August, having read most of it during my three day roadtrip to St. Louis. I saw the Cards play the Braves twice in somewhat of a lop-sided affair for one squad one day and the other the next. Busch Stadium was awesome! I can see why players (aside from playing for LaRussa) consider St. Louis to be baseball heaven. Pujols is the real deal. Hang in there; We miss you! EK
MessageSorry for such a long radio silence. I have been down in Macon caring for some ailing parents. Glad to hear that the process has successfully occured. Things are hectic here with the Jones Gang.....Lt. Grier Jones - USMC is currently in 29 Palms, Calif for mountain and desert training which is part of the advanced infantry training. He has been assigned to the 3rd Batallion, 8th Marine Regiment at Camp LeJuene, NC....will assume command of his platoon in October; unit gets deployed to Fallujah Feb 1. We are very proud and very scared. Spoke with football coach Chan Gailey down at Georgia Tech yesterday.....they open vs Auburn at Auburn Sat night.....ESPN. S.I. listed them as the 5th hardest schedule in the country....OUCH. What fool would schedule Va Tech, Miami, Auburn, UGA, UVA, Md.,UNC, etc. Take care and I will call soon. Libby sends her love......Gary
Messagehey!! You look so good! I've kept checking for the photos, heard they were going up...hope you feel as good as you look! love you guys-amy
MessageDear Brian, Jen, Tim and all your family- You are such an example of love, and an inspiration of strength and motivation! I am going to send over the biggest carrot cake ever when you say the word! You are all in our thoughts every day! We watched you grow up, and we want to watch you get old!!!!!! ( Like us!) Love from The Longs
MessageJen, Brian and Timmy, What a great site for all those cheering for you, and there is a lot, no doubt. It certainly is a statement about the kind of lives you are living and the kind of people you both are. The new photos are great too. It's good to see all the smiles. If it is possible, can I request a future shot of Jen in a mask and maybe some type of hat? Whatever you can arrange. Wishing you all the best!
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope all is well and Brian continues to get better and better. We are thinking of you. Julie is home sick so it has been a hectic day with baby and her being sick. We have to go to the doctor's tomorrow. I have been Mr. Mom while she is getting bed rest. Mackenzie is now smiling and reacting to things you say. Amazing! We hope you are doing well and wish for your speedy return. Take care.! JT, Julie and Mackenzie
MessageAll I know is that since Timmy's visit to Fenway the Yankees have been on a tear-one and a half back and climbing! Stay in Boston as long as necessary!! The thoughts and prayers of the whole Doherty family are with you and yours. Best, Kelly
MessageHey Coach, It was great to read your last post updating everyone. I, along with all your Delbarton family here in D.C, am praying for you, your family, and will throw your European donor into the mix as well. That is pretty cool. Hope you're being well supplied with Take 5 candy bars. If not have no fears, I'll try to locate a case of those delicious treats for us both. Love ya Coach. -Clint
MessageDear Brian--We were so happy to see that you are out of the hospital. We know the road ahead will not be easy for you, but we also know the tremendous amount of courage and will to live that you have. You are truly very special and you and your family will always be in our prayers. We are always here for you if you need anything. Love, Mr. and Mrs. Broph
MessageDear Brian, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you. Love and sincerest good wishes, Agatha and Jim Emmer
MessageDear Jen and Brian, I am so glad to hear things are progressing so well. You are both very special and certainly handle things in the most positive way. If there is anything I can help with you know I am there. In the meantime I will pray for your recovery and for your donor. Love Eileen
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MessageBrian and Jen, I am DyAnne's mother-in-law. I have been asking her and Kevin for updates on you constantly and today she gave me your website. I just want you to know that you have been and will continue to be in my prayers. You, Brian, are truly an inspiration. Much love to you and your family. Iknow I don't have to tell you to keep up the battle. Love, Valerie Going
MessageHey Brian, Just to let you know that I am thinking and praying for you and your family. You are truly an inspiration!! Best / Bert Levine (p.s. Do you think you could help me with my slider this coming spring??)
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy: So glad to hear that everything is going as planned. Hope ou're feeling better. We will keep you, your family and especially the donor in our prayers. Can't wait to see you again. Hang in there, Tess
MessageI've followed your journey for over twenty years. Your accomplishments, your victories, your trials. From your parents, your grandfather and Aunt Theresa - I've kept up with it all. I believe you will continue to persevere and inspire many more as you always do. You are in great hands. Wonderful things come out of Boston. I know that because my husband is from there! You, your family, your doctors and your donor are in my prayers. Love, Terri
MessageI've followed your journey for over twenty years. Your accomplishments, your victories, your trials. From your parents, your grandfather and Aunt Theresa - I've kept up with it all. I believe you will continue to persevere and inspire many more as you always do. You are in great hands. Wonderful things come out of Boston. I know that because my husband is from there! You, your family, your doctors and your donor are in my prayers. Love, Terri
MessageWe love seeing your family pictures. As you know, your son steals the show. He's so boyish, absolutely adorable. Please know that you are with us daily in our hearts and prayers. God has a plan for your life, and He also has the power to bring blessings out of any experience you face. Please keep the faith that everything will work out according to His wonderful purposes for you. Jen is a saint. Her love for you is to be admired and a beautiful lesson for all to adhere. My children talk about your mentorship to them quite often.I know you know we're all here for you, you've earned our respect and love, Peter, Sharon, Peter John, Daniel and Alex Cocoziello
MessageDear Brian: Hope everything is going well for you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. May God watch over you and bless you for a speedy recovery. We hope to see you back in Morris Plains real soon! Love from Mr. & Mrs. Schaedel
MessageHi Brian, So glad to hear that the transplant went well and that you are able to have the support of your family there with you. I continue to remember you in my prayers. Love, Fran
MessageSo good to hear that things are going well. Wanted to let you know that Coach Casey, the Baseball Coach from Tufts University, and Douglas and his father and I were talking about you this morning as we dropped Douglas off at school. The Coach had a room full of Baseball players waiting for his new freshman to help them move in the dorms. Coach Casey talked about your chat during Select Fest and was wishing you well as all of the rest of us are. As we drove away from Tufts Douglas'father and I were again reminded just how much you did for our son, I hope you know that we can never thank you enough. Wishing you a very sucessful recovery. Pat Bell
MessageBrian, Your courageous leadership, determination, and willing spirit will enable you the stamina to go the distance. We continue to keep you, Jen, and Timmy in our prayers. God Bless and we wait your return.
MessageMr. Fleury, My whole family wants to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers every night and that we hope you make a speedy recovery. We know the fight is challenging but we know you can do it, and we all look forward to seeing you soon. Best Wishes, Patrick, Chris, Tim, Mike, Michael & Mary
MessageHey Uncle Brian,Aunt Jen and Timmy, I just got to see the new pictures today because I am over Grandma and Pop Pops on their computer because ours at home is being fixed. We went to go visit Kath at school today and Aunt Jen you would be so proud of her she has the most awesome garden at school I am already eyeing up a pumpkin for me and Timmy, (we will use a whole tub of purell on it) then we went to the mall (I really had to twist Mommy's arm to go,ha,ha) because that as you know since 3 years ago is the wishing water fountain we go to wish Uncle Brian better so today we put lots of extra change in for lots of luck. We know that this is only the begining of an extremely difficult road for you both physically and mentally but we know this will pay off in the end and you guys deserve it so,so,so much. We miss you tons. P.S Jen when you are done with the book let me know the book to follow looks even better so far. We love you, Bruce, Kelli and Emma
MessageCoach Fleury, I was so excited to hear everything went extremely well last week with the transplant. Also, I was at orientation yesterday and just wanted to let you know that the incoming freshman and seventh graders are a great group of guys. They all had you in their prayers and can't wait to have you back on campus. All the best. Sincerely, Eric
MessageBrian: Wednesday, August 31st -- just finished girls night out with Jill at LaCampagna in Morristown. She is great and we spoke a lot about you, Jen and Timmy. Saw your new entry and pictures ... Timmy is beautiful and looks like a combo of Dane and Jill... you too... You look great in the pictures. Many thoughts, prayers, and lots of love to you, Jen and Timmy ..... and thanks for the reminder for your donor -- the greatest of all!!!!! Be well and strong, Amy
MessageBrian: I just discovered your website. (Nick told me about it today.) I am thrilled to hear of your progress. I understand that you are home now and I join all of your friends in praying for continued good news. The pictures on the website are inspiring. As you know from our abbreviated conversation, I somewhat torn by the desire on one hand to attempt to talk with you and try to do something (anything) to help and on the other hand to stay out of your hair and not impose on your precious time. I know that you have many closer friends and family members that you should be spending your time with. Please know that my lack of communication is certainly not indifference and you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. I look forward to the day that your complete recovery has been assurred and I can take up a little of your time without reticence. God be with you. Glenn
MessageB: Just wanted to let you know we're keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. Keep fighting and we hope to see you soon. Go Sox! Tom, Lisa and Lucy
MessageCoach Fleury, Jen, and Timmy, We Would like you to know you all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers during this time. We thank you for the example of courage you have shown to the Delbarton community. May God continue to bless and protect your recovery. The Hager Family
MessageHey Brian- We've been thinking about you a lot and hope that this week continues to go well. I am now in the Vineyard enjoying these last days of summer. You are absolutely right - it is something else that your donor came from Europe. That gives us all hope for our future, doesn't it? I will keep him in our prayers too. Loved the pictures! Good luck and my best wishes to your family, Sally
MessageMr. Fleury: We are new to Delbarton, with our son, John, entering 7th grade this year. We know the school through the Visceglia family (I'm a friend of Peter, class of 1976). We heard recently of your illness. We are Christian and pray regularly as a family. We will be praying for you, that the Lord sustains you and your family and grants you a full recovery. Kind regards, Mark Hastings
MessageBubba Kid - Thrilled to hear you're doing okay. If I didn't know you, I'd be overwhelmed at all the great things people are writing about you. Knowing you, I just nod along as I read. I think about you and Jen often. Good luck - can't wait to catch up.
MessageCoach, you look great in those pics! Took down a Hungry Man this morning at the Mo Plains diner and thought of you. Can't wait until you're back in action. My prayers are with you, always, and I can't wait to catch up with you when you're back up and running again down here. Talk soon. Kaager
MessageBrian, Sue and I just returned from visiting Joe and his family in Knoxville,TN. It was an easy drive, but long. Glad to hear that the procedure went well and that you are out of the hospital. You and your family are always in our prayers. God bless, John
MessageCoach Fleury, I wanted you to know that you are in all of our thoughts and prayers. Everyone is looking forward to be seeing you at school and on the field. You are truly an inspiration to us all.
MessageBrian, I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I look forward to seeing you soon! Paul
MessageHey B: Was reading some of the lovely messages sent your way. All deserved and soooooo true. However, the one from a "Dy" girl sounded a little funny to me. What does she know of a "hottie". Tell her to stay in Babylon - Boston has enough beans - without her! Continue to get stronger, big guy and know we think, talk and pray every day for the three of you. Love ya. Aunt Pert
Messagemr fleury, we have not met but are new delbarton parents; kevin is a freshman. we know of you from many friends, and neighbors and are familiar with brigham womans'and childrens hospital. certainly hope this finds you on a good day with lots of good vibes. you clearly are an amazing individual and we look forward to making your acquaintance when you are back at school. all the best to you for continued strength and recovery and to your family for love and support. take good care, the mcgregor family
MessageHi Brian - I hope you are doing well. It must be nice to have Jen and Timmy around you in the apartment. God willing very soon you will all be back in Morris Plains where you belong. Be sure to cheer your old coach on tomorrow nite - its the start of a new era under the Golden Dome. Tess and I keep you, Jen and Timmy in our prayers every day. Stay strong. Dave
MessageBrian, Hope you feel better and stronger each day. Our son, Christian '08, does not play baseball but he has friends that do. They are only now about to enter 10th grade so I don't even know what their exposure has been to you. Still, they speak so highly of you and look forward to your coaching them. Be back soon. Mark '71, Holly & Christian '08.
MessageBrian, Jen, and Timmy, So glad to hear that everything went well. We will continue to pray for you to regain your strength and also for that amazing donor!! I have to agree with Dy that you are a hottie, however, I think that Timmy steals the show and is a little hottie with that mask and gloves on!! What a little heart breaker. Jen, baracade the doors..........the girls will be knocking soon! Continue to keep up your spirits and know that you have such a support group within your family and your extended family. Love to you Jen- Hope you are doing okay! I hope that when things settle down, we can get together. Love, Karen, Jonathan, Ryan and Morgan
MessageBrian,Jen and Timmy, I was driving home tonight and for some reason I started to laugh and Emma was like Mommy why are you cracking up? And I said I just had a flashback to when Uncle Brian and Daddy were telling me an Aunt Jen the story of "hey Delaware" that time you and Bruce were at the beach, do not ask me why I thought of it but I did, so now I totally have that saying in my head. Of course Emma did not find the humor in it so I thought I had to share it with you. Talk to you soon. We miss you!!!!!
MessageBrian: Our prays are with you at all times, we ask abhout you when we are around Father Luke or Father Giles. As we were putting up the TENTS last Saturday at the football field for the upcoming championship season, Father Giles made his way over(OF COURSE AFTER WE WERE DONE PUTTING UP THREE TENTs, ONLY KIDDING)to talk with the fathers about the upcoming season, he also gave us a postive update on your operation and spirits. It as great to hear you and your family were doing great. We had our game scrimmage last night against Ridge, the boys did fine (28-7), then had our kickoff BBQ, again many thoughts and discussions with regards to your speedy recovery. Brian if there is anything your family needs please do not hesitate to ask. Remember to keep smiling, God and the Delbarton community will get you to the next level, a speedy and postive recovery. Again we will pray for you and your family. Rich Conforti
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy- just want to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Your strength is an inspiration. Jim asks about Timmy whenever we drive by your house (and Abby asks about the dogs.)Our prayers are with you.
MessageBrian Glad to hear that things are going well. Liz and I are thinking of you. How is the so du ku going ? Mike Beach
MessageDear Brian & Jen - So glad to read your updates and learn that things are going well - modern medicine really is mazing. Just want to let you know we're thinking of you and praying that everything continues to go well.
MessageHey guys--hope you are enjoying Jim and Erin. I'm glad to hear you've been out, Bri, that must make a difference. How much NickJr. do you watch each day? Jen--I was so happy to talk to you. You guys are in it to win it. Listen Bri--there's a craft fair coming in October and Timmy's gonna have to give you all your pills, shots, chang your lines etc. that day so you better start showing him what to do now. The summer of 2005 is almost over--good for you guys. Keep up the good work. We love you. Talk again soon. Between now and October you might have to teach Timmy how to roast a turkey breast, too, just in case we want to stop at Red Lobster!!!! xoxoxoxoxox DY
MessageGlad to hear things are going well and progressing nicely... I've got you guys in my thoughts and prayers each day.
MessageBrian: I am happy to report that I laughed out loud last night reading your last update when you said Timmy's exposure to the Red Sox might be a problem. In my mind I could see you saying that with a sly grin on your face and it lifts me up to hear your thinking out loud like that. Stay strong and good things will continue to happen, and don't forget, in case of a Sox emergency, Matty is an hour away and can rescue Timmy from those evil New Englanders. John
MessageCoach Fleur, I was driving back from the ND Pitt game today, which the Irish of course won, and we were at a rest stop eating lunch. Out of the blue, I remembered our Florida trip three years ago when you asked Loree if he had ever drank soda through a Twizzlers. I laughed, but then I realized that I had never done it. So of course i bit the ends off of the Twizzlers and downed my sprite. Thanks for the suggestion. It was great. I was really glad to read that you are doing much better and that you got outside for a while. Everyone here is praying for you and thinking about you constantly. Keep getting better so that you can get back where you belong, at school on the field. Sors
MessageBrian, Glad to hear things are going well. As always, you remain in our prayers and we'll be sure to include your donor as well. I feel like I also have to pray that Timmy doesn't turn into a Red Sox fan! Perish the thought! Stay strong. You are a very special person. Hope to see you soon. The Intravaia Family
MessageBrian, Glad to know that things are moving along. As you know, school begins this Wednesday and we'll sure miss you not being here, although we know you're here in spirit. Dan-O seems to be quite busy in the new position and I'm sure he'll do a great job of keeping the ship afloat until you get back. Give my former dancing partner my best as well as to Timmy and know that we at St. Mary's Abbey pray for you daily. And what's this about Timmy getting into Red Sox gear? The next thing you know, he'll want to work at Peck with JK so that they can cheer them on together! Remind that boy that he lives in Yankee territory and is allowed to only pull for them! Blessings, Fr. Anthony
MessageHi Brian, Each day lots of things make me think of you and remind me to pray for you and everyone who is helping you return to health. Today I was reminded of you by a TV ad for Singulair, an asthma medication. In it, a little boy says, "I love baseball so much. If I could play it instead of sleep, I would." I hope you'll be playing and coaching baseball again in a few months, Brian. Peace, Pat Crapo
MessageHello Brian (and Jen)! Happy Labor Day! This is the holiday created to honor workers all over, but you should be on top of that list because of how hard you are working!!!! It's all going to pay off when you, Jen and Timmy are back home in Morris Plains. You are a tremendous inspiration to us!!! Bub- Keep up the hard work. You are always in our thoughts and our prayers. It's funny how My dad, Kevin and I still call you Bubba! All of our love, Kristi and Craig
MessageYou and your family are in our thoughts and prayers every day...you and your family are so very brave Coach. we were so glad to see that you were "up and about" for a walk today at only 9 days post transplant...hope you know how everyone is pulling for you to get through this very tough time..you are so very special to so many people...take good care.....Leanos family
MessageHi Brian: With school starting tomorrow, I've been thinking about you and your family and how odd it will feel to walk by the athletic office and not see you there. Dano will give it his all, but we'll all miss you. Everyone has been saying such nice things on this board, so I thought I'd just cut all the mush and say, "Stop loafing around in Boston and get back here soon!" . . . . I guess you can tell from my bedside manner why I became a teacher, not a doctor.... On a serious note, you and your family are in our prayers. Hang in there. People have been talking about how much they admire you as a coach, and that's true, but my most fervent hope is to see you back in the classroom ASAP. Kevin
MessageBrian-What wonderful news! The power of prayer cannot be denied!!! As the ND game was on Saturday night,fond memories of MORRIS PLAINS/MORRISTOWN were hashed/rehashed with the Evans family-and, of course, many of those memories included you and your family. I also learned a few new things-some of the "shenanigins"that took place at the pool,ball field, Boro school, the little park next to the library-seems like Bubba, Dwight, Red, Woody, Broph, Joe MAC, and hared some good good times!! One thing we all agreed on, -The FLEURY family along with the Conover, McGrath, Ryan, Krause, Brophy, Cuzzo, Giannantonio, Bonanno, Scrone families made our stay in NJ wonderful!! Loved the pictures of your son, what a cutie pie!! Our thoughts and prayers for you and your family continue!!
MessageHey Coach, my Dad and I are praying for you and we hope to see ya soon! We love ya and we are with you!
MessageHi Brian. I hope everything continues well. Keep fighting. Know that you are in our prayers. God bless, Josh, Andrea, and Lara
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope you had a great Labor Day weekend. Julie and I hope that Brian is feeling well and continuing to recover and that Timmy is enjoying himself. You are always in our prayers. It will be wierd not to see Brian around here as school begins this week. Get well and come back soon! We had a great Labor Day weekend. We went up to my folks place in Amherst Mass with Mackenzie for the first time. Quite a production to get up there as we had to stop twice to feed her but we made it and my folks were quite happy to see her. It was a great visit. Mackenzie was great in the car, didn't cry at all. In addition, she was able to sleep through the night at my folks place which we didn't know if that would happen or not. I am now busy getting ready for the opening day of school. Tons to do. Brian warned me last year that you only get busier once kids are in the picture and he was right! Hope all is well. Take care ace. JT
MessageDear Brian, We think of you often and you are in our prayers and thoughts. Thank God for Jen and Timmy and the support they provide. Everyone here at the Del asks about you and wants a speedy recovery for you. Take care and enjoy Beantown, Marguerite, Stacey, and Cynthia, Chris, Lisa and Laurie
MessageHey brian i am glad to hear that things seem like they are going well .. we all think about you.. christine, aunt marg etc..I cant believe how big your son got since the last time we saw him.. which is i guess last year at one of the foot ball games.. all is going well here.. i am getting married oct 2nd at perona farms.. you met Ralph but i dont know if you remeber him.. (at cutters).. we meet with everyone this week to go over arrangements. this wedding stuff is much harder than what it looks...especially when not a bridezilla.. ha..ha..anyway .. figured i drop an email.. keep doing well.. I am glad you got a chance to go outside the weather has been great..nothing like sept and oct days.. cool and sunny. lisa bove
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy.....Good to hear from you Coach....we all look forward to and appreciate your updates.....I can well imagine that you are getting some cabin fever up there.....it won't be long before you're back in Yankee territory...don't worry about Timmy...once a fan always a fan .........stay positive.....if any part of your recovery is based upon an unbelievabe support network for you and your family.....this is in the bag....done deal....you're the man, Brian..........Larry PS I don't think Dave should be reserving rooms for the national championship yet, do you....
MessageCoach Fleury: I just wanted to let you know that my family and are praying for you and are looking forward to seeing you return to Delbarton soon. You are an inspiration to everyone! All the best, Mike
MessageBrian, I just found out last night that you're up in Boston. I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always remember how kind you were to me my first week at Delbarton; helping me locate a closet full of tennis balls in the gym, for some science lab I was doing. It was then that I realized you were one of a kind. Your offer for me to use the workout machines still conjures up a quite an image. Imagine me with all those athletes. Anything is possible. I wish you all the best! Best Regards, Meryle
MessageHey guys! I hope you are all hanging in their. I wanted you to know that Beth and I are thinking of you. You are all in our prayers. We look forward to spending time with you when you feel better. Please let us know if their is anything we can do to make your lives easier during this tough period. Your strength and courage is an inspiration to us all. We love you!! Jamie and Beth
MessageCoach Fleury, I am honored to have you as a coach. You are the biggest inspiration in my life and I wish you a strong and fast recovery. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Dylan
MessageJill and I have become dear friends over the years, having worked together in Florida. I have also met your parents and feel as if I know you as well! I wanted to send my good wishes for your recovery and will look forward to our actually meeting in person one of these days! Keep up the good fight, you have an incredibly support system of friends and family who think the world of you! Jan Tucker
MessageBrian, You and your family are an inspiration to us and our three grown children. You are all in our thoughts and prayers daily. Love, Gary and Debbie Richenaker (I work with Shirley at Internal Medicine of Morristown)
MessageHi Brian, Jen and little slugger, Please know that everyday we think of you and hope your doing well. Our prayers and thoughts are with you always to get you through this trying time. We are sending you lots of positive energy to help you cope with the days to come. From our mouths to gods ears...GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY TODAY, TONIGHT, TOMORROW AND ALWAYS. Love the Russo Family Paul, Cynthia, Michael and Matthew
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, Just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. The Andreotti's
MessageHey guys. Good to hear that the surgery was successful. Jen, keep him in line like you always do. Brian, as your dad said in his posting, it is truly amazing to see how many people you have affected and inspired. Keep fighting and we will continue to pray for you. Timmy, Red Sox Nation is an evil, evil place. I'm praying for you too!
Messagecoach fleury- we just started school today. everyone here misses you greatly and is really pulling for you. if anyone can do this it's you. i have the utmost faith. hang tough. mike
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope all is well with you and that Brian feels well. He is in our thoughts and prayers. We missed you guys at the faculty picnic last night. School is now in full swing again. Today is the big first day of classes. Great to be back in the classroom. I love the first day back when you see your new classes for the first time. I seem to have good kids this year. A small IR class but good kids there as well. My soccer team is doing well but has a ways to go. We lost our first scrimmage against Ramapo and then tied Columbia yesterday. Team was a bit "Chippy" (Brian loves that word) or dirty in the scrimmage so I have to address that issue quickly. We are very deep and talented though, just have to get the right lineup out there. I am sure the coverage of the Hurricane is aggravating Brian. He has missed some good political discussions regarding the disaster already. I have to get more work done now for my classes as I will have less time at home now. Please know that we think of you each and every day and that the entire school is thinking about you and praying for your speedy recovery. Take care. JT
MessageDear Brian PS: Let Timmy wear Red Sox gear! It is time he moved away from the dark side and rooted for a real franchise anyhow! Get him a George Scott glove. JT
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, We drove by Delbarton today and realized that for the first time in about 12 years we didn't have a son at school in one way or another. It was a very surreal feeling. It occured to me that it must feel that way to you also, to be far from home and the energy of the first days of school. For the students and faculty who miss you so much, it must be especially difficult. We hope that the prayers and good wishes that are sent to you will be the lifelines that bring you back home soon. Our very best to you, Jen, and Timmy and to your donor who gave such an incredible gift. Sincerely, Jan and Tony
MessageHi Brian: I don't know if you remember me. My name is Dave Brewster. I played baseball against you when I was at Roxbury High (I was older) and also in the Morris County Majors. I am still playing in MCM and I have been president for a few years now. When in high school I used to watch you catch to pick up some pointers on how to play the position. Having followed your story for several years I now do the same for a lesson on character and courage. Please know that my thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family. Dave
MessageBrian, Nice to hear you got outside for a short walk- with mask and gloves. Glad to see that you haven't lost your sense of humor. When you get back to MP,I'll go trick or trearing with you. I'll go as a pirate with a wooden leg and a hook on my left arm. All the best to you and your family. God bless, John
MessageGood morning neighbors, We missed you yesterday as the kids started school. I missed you even more when the crusts of my brownies had to go into the garbage!! SMILE The house next door has not closed as of yet. Not sure what the hold up is but I promise to let you know as soon as I do. We sure miss you. Love, Dennis, Dodi, Meghan and Katy
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hey guys. Hope all is well and that you had a good day yesterday and that Tim is wearing his Red Sox gear with pride! The first day of school was great yesterday. Great to be back in the classroom. I have great kids in class. Kids seem younger and younger each year as I guess I am getting old! We had the soccer picnic last night after practice. Good time. Mr. Donovan, Father Luke, and Coach Whalen all mentioned you and the school is going to keep you in their thoughts at all functions. I met a bunch of the frosh parents at the picnic and they seem like a great group. The soccer captains blew the traditional horn to kick off the season. Looks like the varsity has another good team. Five sophomores made the varsity and PJ Levinsky has been particularly strong thus far. You lined them up another nice schedule as they begin the season with Scotch Plains this Friday. We play Bergen Catholic on Monday. Once again you have given us a great schedule. I counted at least nine tough games. I am psyched that we are going to St. Benedicts this year. That is always an adventure. I love when a ball is kicked over the huge fence around the field and it is stolen by some kid in the streets! One year we played St. Benedicts on a town field away from the school when Dugan was my assistant and we found syringes on the field and Doogie told the ref the field was unplayable until someone got these off the field. I haven't heard from him in awhile but I think he may be trying to live in England now where his daughter is. That is the last I heard. I hope you are doing well. Julie and I send you our best. Julie and Mackenzie had a great time at the Faculty Picnic. A lot of new babies there including Kovachiks, Conns, Flanagans, Lolia's etc. The school misses you a great deal and is looking forward to your return. I hope you are doing well. Give our best to Jen and Tim as well ace. JT Manny Sanguillen, Steve Yeager, and Bob Montgomery
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello again guys. We just had our first morning meeting here at Delbarton. We began with a prayer for you. The school is keeping you in their thoughts and prayers as often as possible. Steve Popper gave an outstanding speech as class president as well. He will do a great job this year. Hope this note finds you in good spirits and good health. All our best. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie Buck Martinez, George Mitterwald, Johnny Bench
MessageHi Guys, I just thought I would check in. Brian, so glad you were feeling well enough for a walk outside. I love the image of the attire but it did bring Michael Jackson to mind. Maybe Jen can whip up something to embelish the mask... Martha's new show is only four days away- Lucky man!! As for Timmy and the Red Sox, you could always curb his fondess for them by introducing that other spring sport :) Love to you all, Donna
MessageWow- Thank you Brian for your descriptive explanation of what you are experiencing. Your metaphor of the hostile takeover is I guess exactly what is happening. I am glad to hear that the early signs are good-despite your feeling poorly. We miss you here! I keep expecting to see you in your desk but I know that you are thinking about us here. Our department (Kelsey, Brandon and I) are working on revising your writing guide. I hope you like it. My son is looking at the school on Sat. Hard to believe..... best wishes to you and your family and please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Sally
MessageHi Brian. Early stages or not, that is terrific news. It is great to hear that things are moving in the right direction. Thank you so much for all of the updates. I'm sure that at the end of a long, exhausting day, on top of not feeling well, the last thing you feel like doing is recapping it for us. We all really appreciate it (I may even be able to take Carrie and Jill off of speed dial...I'm sure they would thank you for that). We will continue to pray for you and your donor...and of course Jen, Timmy, your family, your doctors, your nurses, your friends, your students, your co-workers, Chet, Bubba, Batman, Joker (did I forget anyone?) God speed, think positive, stay strong and we love you!! Jenni, Mike, Nicole, Ryan and Sarah.
MessageGet Better Mr. Fleury...I hope to see you soon
MessageHey Mr. Fleury- Hope you are doing well and feeling great. Know that you are missed here at school. We're all pulling for you. David Infante.
MessageHey Mr. FLeury its john chrin. Hope everything goes well and you can make a speedy recovery. Delbarton is not the same with out you. I will keep you in my prayers. Chrinny
MessageHey Mr. Fleury- It's awesome to hear that your donor cells are beginning to make cells on their own. We're starting a new year, but it's simply not the same without your presence. Never forget, however, that the entire Delbarton community still feels your leadership and your determined spirit each and every day. Thanks for updating us all on your condition and can't wait to see you back at Delbarton. Stay strong. -Steve Popper
MessageHi Brian. I learned about your website from Father Giles. I remember meeting you for the first time eight years ago when you interviewed Ryan for admission to seventh grade at Delbarton. You immediately made him feel at ease and you were so welcoming to our family. We are grateful for the example of perseverance, courage, humility and faith that you have provided for our sons and the Delbarton community. May God bless you and your family with a complete recovery and a bright, healthy future. May God also bless your donor and the wonderful medical staff at Dana Farber for making it possible. You are all in our prayers. Love, Eileen, Les, Chris, Ryan, Kelsey and Maura
MessageDear Brian - We were down the shore for a few weeks and just got home and read your news. We are so happy things seem to be going good and just find your courage such an inspiration - you are the greatest and always have been. Yes you are correct - Morris Plains is beautiful at this time of year. It is all waiting for you. School has started and all the grandchildren are back to the grind and, of course, Kathy's boys have started fall baseball and hockey again. Her Robert even found out he has Mr. Waldek for Math. Seems so funny to be going around again. Enjoyed the pictures of all of you. Timmy is his dad's son without question. He is just the cutest - we are so glad he is with you. Jen is just a very special person. You deserve each other. Will go for now - love and prayers to you all. Fondly - Marty and Marilyn Reilly
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, Hope you are feeling well and recover quickly Tim Soulas
Messagecoach fleury- first morning meeting today and your presense was undeniably felt. i hear that you're making awesome progress. we all wish you the best. hang tough. -mike campbell
MessageYou're in my prayers.
MessageDear Mr. Fleury,
MessageHey Mr. Fleury- Hope you are getting better day by day. It's hard not seeing your face on campus, but hopefully you will be back soon. I will keep you in my prayers. Patrick Sullivan
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I heard about your illness over the summer and then at today's assembly. Although I am fairly new to Delbarton, (I am just starting eighth grade now) I've heard so many great things about you already.You have really built such a great sports program here at Delbarton. I am really looking forward to playing baseball for you when I am in high school. I can't imagine what you must go through every day in dealing with your illness. Please know that there are so many people here, including me, who are praying for you and your family every day. Sincerely, Matthew Voda
MessageHey Coach Fleury, its John Dunham. I am just writing to let you know that I am loving my experience at Delbarton. I know that this experience will only get better with your healthy return. You have had such a positive influence on me so far...from playing against you last spring to meeting you on the field this summer. My family and I are praying for you, and I look forward to seeing you when you come home. Good luck with everything and I hope to see you soon. -John Dunham
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, i hope all is well. I know that you will make it through this operation and recovery with flying colors. I know this because i and the rest of the delbarton community, is behind you, in every step of the way. I hope that you are enjoying time with your family, and i will keep you in my prayers everyday. Sincerely, Matthew Van Orden
MessageGet Better Mr. Fleury...You are being missed!
MessageMr. Fleury, Stay strong. We are all pulling for you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Dave Balog
MessageDear Mr. Fluery, Hi. I am sure that you don't know me but i sure know you. I feel terrible that bad things have to happen to such great and accomplished people. I don't know you personaly but from what I have heard you are one of the best coaches, mentors, and english teachers around, and if I could measure up to that when i am older than that would be great. Thankyou for all of the great work that you have done for all of us at delbarton.I hope that you get better and can come back to us soon.P.S. I need you back if I play varsity baseball in high school. sincerly, brendan
MessageI really hope your feeling well. I know you well; in fact, i dont know if we have even ever met. However, after hearing about your condition and how well you are handeling it, i felt that i would take the time to let you know that your outlook is an ispiration to me and sums up my entire view on Delbarton's additude. I, like so many, am offering prayers and support to fall back on. Get better soon so you can come visit your other family back here on campus!!
Messagehey coach, i was happy to hear that you were doing fine, right on scheduale. Just keep fighting and come back the same guy that everyone loves
Messagehi mr. flery. i'm just dropping by to say hello and i hope that your recovery goes well. our family is praying for you and keeping you in our thoughts. -ross lazio
MessageHey Coach! We are all missing you here. I can't tell you enough how much I appreciate everything you do. Your aditude about everything that is going on is incredible. You truely are the biggiest inspiration I have ever had. I hope things are going well. I get updates every once in a while from either coach Sig's, coach Bower's, and father Luke and they all seem to miss you as much as I and everyone else in Delbarton. I can't tell you how many people from all over ask me about you, and I being lucky enough to know you, get to tell them about how amazing you truely are. My prayers are with you coach. Just keep it up. I hope to hear from you soon.
MessageBrian, We missed you at the coaches' meeting tonight but we were all thinking of you. It sounds like your recovery is going well. Like everyone here, I wish you a speedy and complete recovery. The cross country team and the rest of the coaching staff will be thinking of you as we head into the first race this weekend. - Andrew
MessageCoach Fleury, I just wanted to say that my prayers are with you all the way. I hope everything goes well and i know it will because you are such a wonderful person and there are hundreds of people who are with you every step of the way. you are such an inspiration to me along with the whole Delbarton community. i am praying for you everyday in confidence that you will be back at Delbarton soon again. best of luck - Angelo
MessageBri-just read your update... you are amazing! thanks for keeping us all informed... we are always thinking of you and anxious to hear the latest. Love the photos... tell Jen to keep them coming... they really make us smile! Love you guys and hope to see you soon. Love, Mere Scott Lily and Jack
MessageCoach Fleury, I'm glad to hear that everything went well in Boston. You are a true inspiration to me and the whole Delbarton community. Thank you for always being there and we can't wait to have you back. You are always in my thoughts and prayers.God Bless. -Tom
MessageCoach Fleury, I hope you are doing well and I can't wait to see you again. We all miss you. We are all praying for you.
Messagecoach fleury, i just wanted to let you know that it was nice to hear about your successfull progress in your recovery at the morning meeting this morning, it is great to hear that and well continue to pray for you and think about you
MessageCoach Fleury,we all wish you a successful and save recovery. We cant wait to have you back on campus its not the same without you. Always in our thoughts and prayers and I wish the best to you and your family - Joe
MessageCoach Fleury,we all wish you a successful and save recovery. We cant wait to have you back on campus its not the same without you. Always in our thoughts and prayers and I wish the best to you and your family - Joe
MessageSUPER!!!! Glad to hear things are progressing well. You all remain in our prayers daily. Dr Ho sounds fantastic...I'm sure he's got you on the road to recovery. Get well soon. Aunt Lois
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: What's up ace? Hope this message finds you in good spirits and good health. I watched the Pats Raiders game over at Swope's house last night. Chris Jepson also showed up. Good time. They made fun of me for liking Tim Dwight. Pats looked pretty good in opener though their defense gave up some big plays. Brady was solid as usual. Can you find a better person in pro sports than that guy? Soccer opens up today at 4:30 vs. Scotch Plains. That is a great game that you lined up for them. Scotch Plains is one of the best teams in the state. We had our coaches meeting last night. Dano was in rare form. He reiterated your message about the tools being in the shed and told the story again. Good stuff. Tough new rule about ejections but a good one from the NJISAA. We got Newark Academy to keep the dates of their tournament on the same weekend. They asked us to move and we said well .... No! Girls court usage seems to be going OK. Not too much trash or conflicts. Mackenzie is doing well. She continues to sleep through the night, knock on wood! Hope Tim is doing well and enjoying being a Red Sox fan. I hope you are doing well. The whole school is thinking about you. Take care chief JT Darrel Porter, Ted Simmons, Biff Pocoroba
MessageMr. Fleury, I just wanted to let you know that my family's thoughts and prayers are with you and that we hope you can make a speedy recovery.
MessageMr. Fleury, I have heard that your recovery is going according to schedule, and I wouldn't want anything less. I wish you the best and hope to see you back in Delbarton soon.
MessageWe all appreciate what you do for Delbarton and I hope you have a speedy recovery.
MessageHey Bry, Hope all is well up north, although I am a little concerned about Timmy's growing fixation with the Red Sox nation. This cannot be allowed to continue. After last night's Patriots win I'm thoroughly fed up with Beantown pride. I cannot wait for a return to the days when the Sawx and Pats play second fiddle to Good Will Hunting, Cape Cod potatoe chips, and Nantucket reds. All the best and see you soon ET
MessageHi Brian - Thanks for the updates. We all pray that your toughest days are behind you. Great pictures with Timmy. Should be a great weekend. God willing, three things will happen: 1. Delbarton will win in football. 2. By Sunday nite the Yanks will be only 1 game behind Boston. 3. Larry will be proven wrong because the Irish destroy Wolverines. All the best!
MessageHi Brian, It is always good to hear from you in your updates, although the last one tugged at our heart strings. You always manage to display your positive attitude in spite of what you’re going through. I liken the appearance of your updates to the Pope’s appearance at his Vatican window at noon on Sundays. He appears, says a few words, and the crowd cheers, just like everyone is cheering for you. Our thoughts and daily prayers are still coming your way. Our best to Jen & Timmy.
MessageIt’s been a long time, but I still see your youthful enthusiasm and that twinkle in you eye when I looked at the pictures on your site. I remember when we were in 6th grade when we all knew you would be a baseball star – you were a star then, in HS, college, but more importantly we’ve all learned it’s better to star in what really matters - living a good life. You’ve always been an inspiration. I hope you still write a book you told me about years ago – I think you even had a title, something like Post No Dreams. I think you mentioned it when you were coming back from your first go round with cancer and were at GW playing ball. I admire you for continuing to post your dreams – dreams change and it’s great to embrace them, live them and do the best with what comes our way. You and your family are prime examples of making the best of what comes your way. I wish you a quick and successful recovery and hope to see you running around the park with Timmy sometime when I’m in NJ visiting my Mom. I want my son to meet you because as a baseball lover I want him to know that you exemplify the greatest hero off the field. Lots of love to you, Jen and Timmy. Sincerely, Kim
MessageGet better soon
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, Hope you get well soon
MessageMy thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
MessageBrian, Sounds like you have had a rough week. Even though you have hit a rough spot, it seems like you have been able to keep your positive attitude and sense of humor through this ordeal. Keep up that spirit! You are truly a man of strength and awe to be feeling so bad and take the time to give all of us updates! Keep up that positve spirit! I love the pictures of those two masked men! I am still wondering when are we going to see Jen in a mask? As always, you, Jen and Timmy are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Karen, Jonathan, Ryan, and Morgan
MessageBrian, So wonderful to read your latest message. This donor sounds like he could have been the miracle we've all been praying for. Have you gotten to meet him? Even though you've obviously been feeling terrible, your body seems to be responding well. What good news! We all know how tough you are! And that you are going to win this! You have more people pulling for you than you can imagine. Have you started to write your book yet? Love, Shelly
MessageIt's good to hear that your recovery is going well, Mr. Fleury. I hope and pray that the rest of your recovery goes well and that you come back to Delbarton soon.
MessageDear Brian, Being out of the Delbarton loop these days I wasn't up on all of this until Jon sent me the link. But please know that I will be keeping you and your donor and of course JEn and Timmy in my prayers. I have so much respect for you and the way in which you live your life each day. Anne Yardley
MessageI pray that you and your family recieve God's best during this time, and I believe God's best is in your, your family's, and everyone's heart. Take Care, J.r.
MessageBrian, All's right with the world: the Irish beat the Wolverines. Abdel and the other guys out there are "flying." On a sad note, in spite of an excellent performance last night in Pequannock, Max Dorne is out for the season - a very unfortunate tackle that broke his ankle, but he'll be back for lacrosse. Frosh ftbl did well; soccer played very well but lost to Scotch Plains at the last minute, 1-0, but JV won 4-0. You probably heard all this, but, in a word, it was a proud weekent for the Wave. Everyone's asking for you and praying for you. Thanks for keeping us up to date. You know we are going to have a ball in your name on Nov. 10; plans are jelling. You would be so proud of Wave sports this season. A principal characteristic across the board? The young athletes are stepping up: 7 sophs in varsity soccer, great speed in 10th and 11th football, and real depth in cross country. We are reloadinging, not merely rebuilding - just like yourself. And, yes, we are thinking and praying great thoughts about your Donor. Again, if you feel up to it, get that book written: Men at Work II, by Brian Fleury. Get well. We need you back here. Giles
MessageBrian, I hope you're feeling better and wish you a speedy and complete recovery. You may remember me from when I was the sports editor at Suburban Trends. I now have a website called highschoolcoachescorner.com. I will soon upload an article to the website (hopefully on Monday). I talked with Father Luke and Dan Whelan, in addition to Dave Doty at Caldwell and Hutch at Chatham to do this article. Best wishes, Neil Paley
MessageHope you are moving along in your recovery, best of luck!!
MessageDear COach Fleury, I would like to wish you great health and luck while you go through treatment and remember that you are an inspiration to all of us that you came in contact with at Delbarton. I never had you as a coach but I felt your influence throughout the other sports I played at Delbarton. Thank you for everything and I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Sorry to hear Brian that you had a rough week health wise. Hang in there ace. I am glad you feel good about your doctor in this situation. We went to a block party in Morris Plains yesterday. Julie had met a woman when walking with Mackenzie who invited us. So, we were interlopers from Burnham road at a block party around Fairchild and Raymond streets. One of the couples we hung out with knew Bruce's Dad and Bruce. Their son had played for Bruce's Dad and they loved him. The bloc party was a lot of fun and it was good to know there are normal neighbors near us as people on our street are a bit bizarre. We had a great time and Mackenzie was the life of the party as usual. SHe is really responsive now and smiles and reacts to things you do. Soccer team lost to Scotch Plains on Friday 1-0. I haven't heard about football vs. Peq. but I am sure you have heard by now. Don't worry, the soccer game was not "chippy". I know that bugs you! We went by your house the other day and everything looks good. YOur lawn isn't ruined like mine. Ours is just brown! Well, we miss you at Delbarton. Hope this week is an easier one for you as you continue to recover. All our best to you and your family. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie.
MessageGoing through some family videos with the kids...hysterical. Christmas at the Fleurys on Elder Drive with me dancing like a lunatic in the corner, and you and Carrie doing your slow "sway"..you swinging your baseball bat, and while you certainly made contact at an early age, you couldn't differentiate between third and first base, how far you've come! Who would have known what was in store for our lives as adults back then? I'm so proud of the man you have become, and how well you "play in the uniform you were given."..your words. I miss you and carry you, Jen and Timmy in my heart everyday. Much Love..Jill
MessageHey Coach Fleury, Hope all is well, and that you are making a speedy recovery, you are really missed around school, and we cant wait to have you back. Hope to see you soon.
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, you are greatly missed at delbarton this year, and you are in our thoughts and prayers where ever we are or whatever were doing. Good luck with your recovery and I hope to see you as soon as possible! Go Green Wave!
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I just wanted to say that my family and I are praying for you and we hope to see you around school sometime soon. Andrew Schweitzer '06
MessageHey Brian, It sounds by your recent note that you're dealing pretty well. Should we expect anything less? Missed you at the soccer game vs Scotch Plains. Coach Whalen is trying his best to fill your shoes but the emails and phone calls seem to be giving him a great appreciation of what you had to deal with at Delbarton everyday. The Leanos family gives you our best. Brendan went with the DeGeorges' yesterday to take Dan down to Princeton for orientation. Carol said today that he even met some girls already. Go Dan!!! Joe helped me make a tape today of Brendan to send to some college coaches. It sure would have been easier if he had just played lax, but to no avail. He still seems to like this game called baseball. Thank goodness that Joe pitched , otherwise yours truly wouldn't be able to lift up the phone tommorrow at work. Anyway, just a quick note to say that we're thinking of you! Touch base if you feel up to it. All the best! Tom Leanos and family
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MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope today finds you in good spirits and in good health and that Tim is having a ball! We keep meeting people who speak highly of you and send you their best. My frosh soccer team opens up today vs. Bergen Catholic. We beat them 7-0 last year at their place on the turf so hopefully they have a better squad this year. They usually do. Team looks good. We had a good practice on Friday. Kids are starting to get it. We still aren't there yet though. We have one of the deepest teams in a long time. I guess admissions is getting it done for soccer! I have 27 kids and almost all of them can play in a big game so it gives us a lot of flexibility. Saw a great movie on the Discovery channel last night on flight 93 on 911. It was well done. I missed lots of it helping Julie with Mackenzie but you should see it when you get a chance. It is definitely right up your alley though maybe liberal Massachusetts is starting to rub off on you a bit during your state in the great city of Boston. Speaking of Boston, Sox look like they are going to take the division though I don't think they have the pitching to go all the way. As long as the Yanks don't do it I am fine. Pats look good and Jets look terrible so that is also good news for now for us Mass boys. Well, I have to get some work done before the school mass. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Take care guys. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie Sanguillen, Grote, Ferguson
MessageCoach, I stopped by the other day before heading back to school and Fr. Giles showed me this website. I wanted to wish you and your family all the best in these upcoming weeks. I look foward to reading the updates and hearing all the good news from Boston. Hope to see you down the third base line soon. With my thoughts and prayers, Tim
MessageHi Brian, Jen & Timmy: So glad to hear the news that your new immune system is engrafting. I know you have many hurdles yet to go, but this was definitely a big one. I am always amazed and humbled by these wonderful, loving, and sacrificing human beings that give so much of themselves for a total stranger. You, your family and your donor will be in my family's prayers.
MessageHello Fleury Family! I hope all is well. Just a little note to let you know we are thinking and praying for you all. Tyler is so excited that Timmy is in his class agai. I showed him the pictures you posted of Timmy and he can't wait for him to come back!! Praying that all goes well, Helena Smith
MessageHey Brian! Thanks for your message last week--it was great to hear your voice. Unfortunately Scotch Plains was able to slip in a goal in the final two minutes of the game. They had a guy with a monster throw (40 yards) who could reach the back post on a line drive and a 6'4 target! I was proud of the boys, you would have been too. The updates we get from Lorraine and Bruce about you have been encouraging. You are spoken about every day. With your permission, I would like to dedicate the 2005 varsity soccer season to you (Luke likes the idea but I'm not sure what you think of it.) Just let me know. Stay strong and talk to you soon. Give Jen and Timmy our love.
MessageMr. Fleury, Just sending my best wishes. Thank you for being such an important person in our school. Your's truly, Geoffrey Muller
MessageHi guys--Happy Monday--hope you are all hanging in there. Everyone is back to school--Kate had her first full day today. It was a strange feeling to be alone for so many hours. I officially have no excuse for a messy house anymore...I'll have to come up with something quick. Amy came home today too. Hopefully that is over. Are you tired of Boston yet? Keep up the good work, Bri. You guys are on your way. We had our block party this weekend. Its always a fun, very long, day. The kids are liking school. Kate is still a little afraid of the bus, but she's doing it. Tell Timmy we said hi. We miss you guysand I think about you all the time. We love you-hang in there. XOXOXODy
MessageMr. Fleury- I hope you are doing well, everyone at school and in the surrounding community are praying for you. There isn't a school meeting or mass where your name is not mentioned. Once again, I hope all is going well and you will remain in our prayers. Sincerely, Pat Donovan
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I'm a sophomore at Delbarton wishing for the best for you and your family. You're in our prayers. Tim
MessageHey Mr. Fleury. Hope you are doing well. You are in my prayers, and everyone elses at Delbarton. Joseph Marano
MessageHey Mr. Fleury. Hope you are doing well. You are in my prayers, and everyone elses at Delbarton. Joseph Marano
MessageCoach, I am thrilled to hear how well you are doing. Everyone at School is praying for a quick and healthy recovery. Stay strong coach.--Frankie
MessageBrian, good luck with everything. You are in my prayers. ~Chris O'Brien
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MessageDear Brian, Though we have only had one real conversation -the day I picked up Joe's varsity letter back in the summer of 2000 after he kept forgetting it ... you had told me about how your father had yours framed; you'll be happy to know I followed your advice - I have been following your progress through Joe. I happened upon your website looking for something else on the Delbarton page. Needless to say I am very happy to hear the news of your improvement and my prayers and thoughts are with you for a full and rapid recovery. My mother has a habit of reminding me that "God works in mysterious ways." Just when the cynicism starts building in up in me, I read things like I just have for the past half hour and seeing the outpouring of love and support is awesome. It is a testament to who you are, to how you have positively touched so many people, and to the "family" we call Delbarton. When my Dad passed away three years ago I found his college scrapbook. On one of the first pages was an old postcard and written on it was a verse from Colossians, "In all things, give thanks." It was the way he lived and I wondered if I could say the same of myself. From my last half hour's reading, clearly, you have learned that one better than I. All the best and get back soon - you are clearly missed. Best regards, Gary Andrasko
MessageHi Brian, Jen and Tim, Everything sounds like its going pretty well. We wish you the best and pray for all of you every day. We enjoyed the pictures. Its good to see all of you and hear what's going on. We drive by your house and check it out every time we go to the Shop Rite or Bottle King??? It looks great and we can't wait for you to be back in MoPlains. The Barnicles
MessageMr. Fleury, I am a Delbarton sophmore, and I want to wish you good luck in your recovery. I know that everyone at Delbarton has missed you very much. -Taylor Doherty
MessageDear Brian, You have become such a handsome young man with such a beautiful family - and such a success! My thoughts are with you and hope all is going well. Love Deb (Lehr) Steubing (Jill's friend from college)
MessageHey Mr. Fleury! It's been a while since I left you a message so I thought it would be a nice gesture to reaffirm my support for you. The school has been (rightly) mentioning you in every moment possible. As you have certainly heard, everyone at the Delbarton Community is behind you 120%. I just thought I’d drop by and say “hey”. Hope to see you soon. -Pat
MessageBrian: Thanks for posting an update. I can't imagine where you get the strength to fight this battle...and yet, knowing you only as much as I've been priveledged to, it doesn't surprise me at all. Its like a game gone well into extra innings and one 240 pound base runner after another has crashed into you at home plate and yet you keep getting back up and throwing out the next guy who tries to steal. I know Jen and Timmy are a big part of that strength and I'm glad they're with you. My prayers are coming along for the ride with the parayers of hundreds of others to help in the cause. Keep it up and come home soon. Glenn
MessageHey Mr. Fleury we are all praying for you and hoping you are feeling better. Good Luck! Andrew
MessageHey Mr. Fleury we are all praying for you and hoping you are feeling better. Good Luck! Andrew
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope this message finds you in good health and good spirits. Picutres on your photo gallery are great! All our best to you guys. We tied our first game vs. Bergen Catholic 1-1. We played well but couldn't quite finish. Don't worry Brian, it wasn't a "chippy" game. Actually I was proud of the kids as they toned down the overly physical, at times bordering on dirty play that we showed at times in our scrimmages. Our best player told another kid to shut up during game so he sat for much of the game before softy Eddie said to put him back in. I think we win if he is in there the whole game but those lessons are more important than winning. We scored in the second half to tie it and had a lot of chances to win in the second half. Varsity beat DePaul 6-1. It is a good day when the Eagles lose! Now I can give Hartle a hard time about it in addition to giving him a hard time for being from PA. My classes are good though two kids dropped after the first day! Hope you have a good day today up in Boston! Take care. JT Buck Martinez, Fran Healy, Paul Casanova
MessageDear Brian--I'm so glad to hear that the donor's bone marrow is starting to reproduce itself in your system. Keep your spirits high and know that all of the Brophy's are praying for your speedy (and pain-free as possible!)recovery. Love, Donna
MessageThank you for sharing the details of your life with all of us. You are thought of often and kept in our prayers.
MessageMr. Fleury, I just wanted to wish you well and hope for a speedy recovery. I hope to see you back at Delbarton School and let you know that you are in my prayers. Ben Tolkowsky
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I hope your feeling well and we all look to forward to seeing you coach the baseball team to a state championship this coming spring. Best wishes to you and your family. Sincerely, Cameron Seligmann
MessageCoach Fleury, I hope you have a speedy recovery, and are able to return to school soon. You are in my family's prayers
MessageHey I hope you are doing great. Luke
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, Although you never taught or coached me, I feel like I know you from all of the wonderful things that friends and fellow students have told me about you. I hope all of your treatments go well and you can return to Delbarton as soon as possible.
MessageBrian, Just thinking about you. I wish we could have talked the other day. You know I'll be thinking of you, I'm going to the DePaul game this week. I know you love the football. Just wanted to send you a message.
MessageMr. Fluery, Everyone here at Delbarton is praying for you and wishing for your speedy recovery. This school is simply not the same without you and I will look forward to seeing you again in the halls soon. cheers, theo
MessageCoach Fleury: We just learned about this wonderful Link. With all the friends you have and all the people you have so deeply and positively influenced, it's likely to have more 'hits' than Google! The Reynolds Family will keep you (and your donor) in our thoughts and prayers and look forward to seeing you back on campus and on YOUR sidelines. Steve
MessageMr. Fleury, your presence is missed at the school. I hope and pray that you have a speedy recovery and return to Delbarton soon. -Anthony Cerrone
MessageWe all miss you and will continue to pray for you. You are an important member of our community. We hope your treatment goes smoothly.
MessageHey Coach! We're all missing you. I just found out today that you were coached by Charley Weiss of Notre Dame. That's so cool... considering I'm a huge ND fan. You gotta tell me about him sometime... talk to you soon
MessageHope to see you on the Baseball Field later this spring...I'm a big fan of Delbarton baseball and can't wait to see your team back on the field.
MessageDear Brian,Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope all is well with you up in Boston and that you are feeling well. We have been using your writing guide in our classes of late and the kids really take to it and find it easy to understand and master. I think it is a great model for the kids to utilize. Seems like a long time ago when you put that together. We have our second game today vs. West Orange. They are always good. I am glad you lined that one up as they were one of the better teams in the NOrthern Hills Conference. Hopefully we will play better. It seems our star player has learned his lesson and was practice captain yesterday. We ran three progressions for his mistakes in our first game. GOt to teach them early about class and professionalism. Mackenzie is now going through a growth spurt so she is a handful for Julie after dinner with constant feedings but she is still a joy. She is really starting to play with us which is pretty cool. Steve Popper is doing a great job as school president. We raised a ton of money for Katrina (of course that was all Bush's fault!) and I believe we broke records for how much we raised. I have to get to work now and get ready for my classes. I hope you are doing well. Julie and I send you and your family all the best. Everyone is thinking about you every day. Delbarton is not the same without you so get back here as soon as you can. Take care. JT
MessageWhats Up BUBBA, I JUST WANTED TO TAKE THE TIME OUT AND LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS AND THAT I HAVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT YOU FOR QUIT SOME TIME..SORRY IT TOOK ME SO LONG TO POST THIS...YOU ARE TRULY A GREAT FRIEND AND PERSON... HANG IN THERE...YOU ARE TRULY "MORRISTOWN TUFF" I LOVE YOU GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS.. I TELL MY SON STORIES ABOUT US FROM BACK IN THE DAYS ALL THE TIME.....
MessageWhats Up BUBBA, I JUST WANTED TO TAKE THE TIME OUT AND LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS AND THAT I HAVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT YOU FOR QUIT SOME TIME..SORRY IT TOOK ME SO LONG TO POST THIS...YOU ARE TRULY A GREAT FRIEND AND PERSON... HANG IN THERE...YOU ARE TRULY "MORRISTOWN TUFF" I LOVE YOU GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS.. I TELL MY SON STORIES ABOUT US FROM BACK IN THE DAYS ALL THE TIME.....
MessageBubba, I hope this email finds you in good spirits. Just wanted to say good luck with your treatments. There is a lot of love on this website and you should be proud of the life example you have set for your students. You have heard all of the clichés before...but.. Just be the man you are! My prayers are with you. Email back when your feeling up to it. Tom
MessageHi Fleurys! I am hoping the week has improved for you and bad times pass in light speed. Well it finally happened, it just started raining here. All of the flora around here is burned out and beige with the exception of one green lush residence in Morris Plains. Someone is taking very good care of the house, not to worry. Back to school nite went very well. All the faculty was looking spiffy and eager although one smiling face was missing from the pack. We do have so many blessings but need you to get back soon and fill the void. love to you, Jen and Timmy, Donna
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MessageDear Brian, We're a new family at Del (Geoff- '09) and we keep hearing about what a great person you are! Last night was Back to School & so many of your collegues mentioned how they're praying for you and miss you not being on campus. It was a great night and my son loves his new school! I wanted to let you know that you're in our prayers and I am looking forward to meeting you soon. Sincerely, Claire (Gene & Geoff) Preston
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, You all are always in our prayers. We are so thankful that all is going well, or at least,as expected; we know it is a rough road for all of you but you are strong in your love for each other and in your faith and that's a powerful force.
MessageMr. Fleury, It is encouraging te read that the procedure is going well in the early stages. I recently picked up "A Prayer for Owen Meaney" off my bookshelf after coming home from college for good, and immediately thought of you and freshman year English class 8 years ago. Whether you know it or not, you have taught myself and others a great deal about growing up to be responsible, respectful men, and for that I am grateful. You and your family are in my prayers. Please continue to get better each day.
MessageHey Uncle Brian,Aunt Jen and Timmy, Hope this week is a better week for you then last week. We miss you so much, tell Aunt Jen to take care of that finger and tell Timmy when he starts school again he is going to love his class. So many familiar faces from last year. Everyone is asking me ,Mommy and Daddy about all of you and EVERYONE is thinking of you. We love you!!!! Love, Emma
MessageI wish you the best of luck with your bone marrow transplant. You are very important to everyone at Delbarton.
MessageMr. Fleury you are in my family and my prayers. You are not alone going through this we are all behind you praying and hoping that you will be alright, Patrick Hand
MessageHEY THERE BRIAN! I SPOKE WITH BRIAN BOWERS TODAY AND WAS HOPING I COULD GET TO YOU SOMEHOW. JUST WANTED TO SEE HOW YOU'RE FEELING. YOU'RE IN MY PRAYERS AND WISH YOU A SPEEDY AND SAFE RECOVERY. IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO, PLEASE LET ME KNOW.
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I was so sorry to hear that you were in the hospital again. From the looks of things on the website though, it seems like the treatment has been going well, which was great to hear. Thinking about times on the baseball field, in English class, or anywhere else always brings back such nice memories for me. I remember when we read Moby Dick in English and you told us how much it meant to you when you read it the first time you had to fight this thing. One line I'll never forget you going over is "All men live enveloped in whale lines." You’ve always been such an inspiration to me and have affected me in such a great way. I always enjoyed taking what you had to say to heart. It has meant so much to me over the years. I wish all the best to you and your family during this tough time, and hope that things keep moving in the positive direction. Take care, Pete
MessageMr. Fleury, In my time here at Delbarton, I have always taken for granted our full and challenging athletic schedules. Moving up through the Delbarton Soccer Ranks (go JV!), I have learned that hard work and great amounts of time are needed to arrange our schedules. Multiply that by the 11 or 12 sports we have here and I cannot imagine the hard work and effort you put into your job. I wish you a speedy and painless recovery, and you will always be in my prayers.
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I just wanted to write to say the thoughts and prayers of myself and my family are with you. We all know how strong you are and how much you deserve to get through this. Your courage and faith have been inspiring to say the least and we all hope to see you again real soon.
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hope this message finds you in good spirits up in Mass. At least you guys are in Mass. That should help a lot! Julie is going out with Kelly Shatel and some of the other Delbarton wives on Friday night for dinner. Nice of Kelly to ask her to join them. She could use a break. So, I will be in charge on Friday night! Mackenzie can get pretty wild after dinner, especially without her Mom so I will have to pull out the magic. I missed the first faculty hoops for the first time since I started working here in 1989. An historic moment! I have injured my heel and don't want to further injure it to prevent me from giving tennis lessons. I hope it is not a bone spur, Doc Rod thought it could be. I have been wearing a heel pad which helps a bit. I will get back out on the hard wood floors if I can but I will be pretty busy at home. My goal is to be the oldest faculty hoops player of all time. I am still schooling Hartle at 42. Our game vs. West Orange yesterday got canceled due to thunderstorms. As you know, they had a kid get struck and killed by lightning so they were not going to take any chances. Hopefully we will make that game up as it is always a good one. Their team was quite a crew. Every other word was a four letter word. I guess we are spoiled here with the great kids we have. We play Caldwell today away unless there are more thunderstorms and lightning. I have parent orientation tonight. Give em the ten minute speel on AP Euro! Always good to see the parents, many of them I already know from soccer, hoops, camps, and tennis. Well, I need to get ready for the school day now. Our thoughts are with you guys. Get well soon and get back to Delbarton where you belong. Take care. JT, Julie, Mackenzie, and Maverick
MessageHey Bri... Just a quick note to say hello and see how you're doing. Hope all is well and God Bless... Sean Flanagan
MessageHi Mr. Fleury. You're an incredible role model and inspiration to us all back here at Delbarton. I hope that everything goes perfectly for you and you can return here as fast as you are able to! Karl Mayer and Family
MessageBrian-I am the most technologically impaired person on earth so my email communication is infrequent and brief.Nevertheless,I wanted you to know that you and your family are always in our thoughts and prayers and that we will do anything you need.
MessageBrian-I am the most technologically impaired person on earth so my email communication is infrequent and brief.Nevertheless,I wanted you to know that you and your family are always in our thoughts and prayers,and that we would do anything you need to help. I can only try to imagine what you are going through but I am certain that you and you family will continue to face this challenge with great faith and courage to a cure. Please let us know if there is anything you need.Best wishes for a speedy and complete recovery.JMR
MessageBrian........great hearing from you....pleased that there is some progress.....as I have shared with you in the past.....this process will produce for you ......this is your time.....for nothing but good news going forward.........Speaking of good news the Fall Golf Classic is almost sold out again this year.....I know this event is special to you and your beloved athletic program.....this yearly sell out is a tribute to you and your coaching staff all of which make up the outstanding and well respected Delbarton Sports Program............keep your eye on the ball coach and know that we are all pulling for you and we really miss your presence at school and around the campus and ball fields...its not the same without you.......Larry
MessageDear Brian: We want you to know that our family is thinking of you everyday and keeping you in our prayers. Alex is so proud to be part of the Delbarton commitment to excellence that you have created and modeled everyday. We value that and your love of family enormously, and are privileged to know you and support you in every way possible. Thank you for your kindness, honesty and humor! Sincerely, Tim Thew and Jan, Christy & Alex
MessageBrian and Jen - Thinking of you both and praying for you all - Talked to Pete Horan yesterday and he said things were doing pretty well - so good to hear good things about you, Brian. Love and prayers - Marty and Marilyn
MessageBrian, I guess you know that there was a really nice article in The Star Ledger on Wed. I didn't know you were tight with Charlie. When you and Scott were in MHS, I came to see you guys play at the old Sussex Ave field. Harry introduced me to Charlie. I'm sure he dosen't remember me, but I remember that day very well. My long term memory is very good, but strokes really mess-up short term. When you were looking at colleges, I was hoping you would attend ND. Three problems: it's cold in South Bend; they weren't The "Beast-Of-The-East" like they are now; and it would have been a violation if I talked to you about ND. Maybe now you'll end up teaching and coaching there someday. That's a good gig.- Timmy would go to school free. I had plans to go to ND this weekend for Charlie's first home game. A friend of 50 years has driven me to a game every year since 1999. Unfortunately, he hurt his back last weekend, and his Dr. cancelled our trip.( probably a USC grad) At our age, we're thankful it's "just" a bad back. He's already had two stents put in his heart. We all hope and pray that you have more up days than down ones. Pretty scary masks you and Timmy had. God bless, John
MessageHey Brian All of our prayers have been answered hearing that you are doing well (all things considered). You have been through more than most people experience in a lifetime, let alone Jen adding to the fun with all of her ailments. I told her I would give her plenty of attention and to stop taking it away from you! The pictures are great and really show what a special family you are. You will stay in my prayers, as you always have, to recover and return to your wonderful life at home. Take care - Jamie Davis
MessageHi, my name is Nick Hellmuth and I am a student-athlete at Delbarton. I am currently a sophmore who plays basketball and baseball. I got to hear you speak on different occasions and have realized what a miracle your life has been. Ever since I met you I have wanted to play baseball under you. Im possitive that even just one year of your coaching will change my perspective of life. You are an amazing man and dont't let this little setback discourage you. I give you all my prayers and wishes will your journey ahead. From your friend, Nicholas George Hellmuth
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MessageDear Mr. Fleury,Everyone I know and my family admire you and your bravery for going through this life threatening operation. However the good news is you made it through. We are all praying for you and wish you the best.
MessageDear Mr. Fleury: I just wanted you to know that you are an inspiration to me, and that I highly admire your courage. You are truly amazing and I can not wait to see you back at Delbarton. We all miss you and are all praying for you. - Jason.
MessageDea Brianr, I've composed this note a thousand times, but the words come out clumsily and awkwardly. I guess, primarily, I just want to thank you for the dramatic and positive impact you have on my family: from your teaching of the Anderson boys about baseball and life, to your words of inspiration and hope to my dad following his fateful diagnosis, to the role-model you provide everyday, showing me, my family, and all the other people fortunate enough to know you what true courage is. Perhaps you know, or perhaps you don't, Brian,that you have touched my life many, many times. The zeal and the passion with which you live your life provides a daily reminder to all of the people who know you how truly special is each breath we take. You are, and always will be,a household name in the home of my family, and I haven't the words to properly thank you.Please know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers. Kenny Sachs
MessageMr. Fleury, I hope you are feeling better. You have a strong group of supporters following you every step of the way. Kevin Prior
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello from Delbarton. Hope you guys are well. Things here are good. Construction on art building is in full swing and doesn't seem to be causing any major problems with the runnning of school. We will have no school this Tuesday due to water being cut off due to construction. We went all the way to Caldwell yesterday for a game but they never showed. Apparently they had called Delbarton at 2:15 and left a message that they had canceled but never got to us. It really started to pour when we were warming up. So, two days in a row with games called due to weather. Hopefully we make them up .Today just practice unless there is lightning. We had parent orientation last night. I had four in a row in the same room and then I was done which was nice. Good to see the parents. The night was well organized. This weekend I have a bunch of tennis lessons lined up. Julie goes out with Kelly Shatel, Joanna Dugan, Liz Kovachik, and Melanie Bowers tonight and I will be holding down the fort at home. Hope you guys are well. We look forward to your return. Take care. JT GENE TENACE, DUANE JOSEPHSON, GARY ALLENSON
MessageHi Brian: Glad to see the recovery is slow but steady, as it needs to be. Thanks for the updates--they really help all of us. Anne got a note from Jen the slicer/dicer and it sounds like things are moving along well. Keep up the good work and we will all keep up our prayers. An unbeatable combination! All the best. John
MessageHey coach- I'm sure you don't remember me but my name is Murphy McCurdy. I just want to let you know how many people you truly are effecting with the way you battle this awefull disease. I'll see you when you get back!
MessageCoach Fluery, I've spent the past hour sitting here reading the countless number of e-mails of love, good wishes, and praise for you, Jenn and Timmy in this difficult time. It truly is an accurate reflection of how many lives you have touched over the years. Personally, I have always looked up to you as more than a Coach or a Teacher. I have looked up to you as a benchmark of poise, courage, and true selflessness for my life. You more or less gave me my delbarton experience and it has been an honor to become friends with so many great people out of that. Beyond the friends and relationships, you have given me much more than playing time or a Spring Break Trip to Florida, you taught me how to conduct myself in a way that would make my family, my teammates, my coaches and my school proud. "I am third" is an inspiration for all of your players lives and reflects the heart and soul of our baseball team and our school, you. You showed our baseball team how to win, and win with class and integrity. It's these lessons, not the ones taught in the classroom or on the field, but the lessons that were learned through discussions in your office or on the bus ride home from an away game that I hold dear to me. Coach, you will always be in my thoughts and prayers, no matter where you are or the circumstances...Give my best to Jenn and Timmy as well. I couldn't be more proud to call you a Coach and more importantly a friend. Love Always, Napp
MessageCoach Fluery, I've spent the past hour sitting here reading the countless number of e-mails of love, good wishes, and praise for you, Jenn and Timmy in this difficult time. It truly is an accurate reflection of how many lives you have touched over the years. Personally, I have always looked up to you as more than a Coach or a Teacher. I have looked up to you as a benchmark of poise, courage, and true selflessness for my life. You more or less gave me my delbarton experience and it has been an honor to become friends with so many great people out of that. Beyond the friends and relationships, you have given me much more than playing time or a Spring Break Trip to Florida, you taught me how to conduct myself in a way that would make my family, my teammates, my coaches and my school proud. "I am third" is an inspiration for all of your players lives and reflects the heart and soul of our baseball team and our school, you. You showed our baseball team how to win, and win with class and integrity. It's these lessons, not the ones taught in the classroom or on the field, but the lessons that were learned through discussions in your office or on the bus ride home from an away game that I hold dear to me. Coach, you will always be in my thoughts and prayers, no matter where you are or the circumstances...Give my best to Jenn and Timmy as well. I couldn't be more proud to call you a Coach and more importantly a friend. Love Always, Napp
MessageBrian--Just got off the phone with Chris and he clued me in to your web site. Thanks for keeping all of us in the Delbarton family updated on your progress. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you, Jen and Tim. Your courage is an inspiration to us all. We are thrilled that everything looks positive as we continue to pray for your complete recovery. Get well, the Verrones PS: Glad to hear your arm didn't fall off--someone needs to throw BP next spring.
Messageour thoughts, prayers, and good wishes go out to you. we hope soon to see you again very soon coaching another winning team. you are and have always been a winner since i first meet you as a 15 year old. you will win again against this disease just as my wife has done twice. milt and eve
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hope all is well up in Boston! I hope this note finds you in good spirits and good health. They are setting up for the football game now. Only thing missing is Coach Fleury running the show! Beautiful day for a game though a bit humid. I am giving a tennis lesson to the youngest Massey in a few minutes. Kid is getting good. Hopefully he gets into Delbarton next year as a ninth grader. Great kid. We had a great practice yesterday in practice. Did station work for about a half hour and it is great to see kids working hard at stations where there is no coach watching over them. The freshman team is really a great group of kids this year. We still had not played to our full potential until yesterday. We scrimmaged the JV team for the first time this year. We had waited a bit until our team was organizend and some of our injured guys had recovered because it is always a physical game with the JV (don't worry Brian it wasn't "chippy"). We ended up beating them 3-2 after 60 minutes! It was the best we had played all year long and I think the kids really turned the corner in this scrimmage against older and bigger kids. JV was missing a few key guys and will probably beat up on us next time we play and get some revenge but Eddie and I (Josh and I call Eddie Morton because of his "salty" personality of late!) were real happy with our team. We also played all 27 guys in the scrimmage. We have three games this week. There may be no school on TUesday due to no water on campus. I have to run to my lesson now. Julie had a great time last night with Kelly, Melanie, Joanna, and Liz. They all went to Attilio's restaurant. Great place. Julie used to be a hostess there way back when and knows the owner real well. Take care chief. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie RICH GEDMAN, TIM MCCARVER, ED OTT
Messagehello brian.......... i am still keeping abreast to your situation and hope you are progressing favorably... on eof thses days i hope to meet you face to face and that may come soon... my grandson has been taking an interest in attending delbarton if he can get in next year if things go well. my wife and i are keeping you in our prayers and hope to see you back at your position and doing the great job ..... keep well... tom
MessageHi Brian and family, I hope you are making progress every day. If it is not too much of an intrusion, I/we would like to send you a very delicious fruit arrangement (it was sent to me during my recovery and it was devoured in 2 days!). If this is okay, please tell me where to send it. We live in Norwell, MA on the South Shore of Boston. Shannon and I will be at the Jimmy Fund on the first Thursday in December for another check-up. If your son is around, maybe Shannon could play with him for a while, if that helps. Sincerely, Sharon from M.H.S.
MessageHi Brian! This is a blast from your past sending you all my best wishes and prayers during your recovery. Maria Cortese Scott has been keeping me updated and forwarded me this website. What an inspiration you are to so many young athletes, students, co-workers and friends. Reading through the website and some of the guest book made me realize that you have not changed. During our childhood you inspired and lead many and you are continuing to do that today. Best of luck and love. - Cathi Catizone Dioszeghy
MessageHi Uncle Brian, I think about you all of the time and I hope you will get better soon. I wrote about you in one of my papers at school. I got four pages of homework the other night already. I'll say a prayer for you tonight before I go to bed. Give Timmy and Aunt Jen a hug from me. I love you. Abbie
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MessageDear Mr Fleury,My name is Kevin McGregor and i am a freshman at Delbarton. I just wanted to tell you that you are an inspiration to me, my family, and all of us in the Delbarton community. Stay strong.
MessageDear Mr Fleury,My name is Kevin McGregor and i am a freshman at Delbarton. I just wanted to tell you that you are an inspiration to me, my family, and all of us in the Delbarton community. Stay strong.
MessageDear Mr Fleury,My name is Kevin McGregor and i am a freshman at Delbarton. I just wanted to tell you that you are an inspiration to me, my family, and all of us in the Delbarton community. Stay strong.
MessageMr Fleury, My name is Kevin McGregor and I am a freshman at Delbarton. I just wanted to let you know that you are an inspiration to me,my family, and all of us in the Delbarton community. Everyone here knows that your going to get through this. Stay Strong!
MessageHey Brian and Jen, I'm glad to hear that everything is going well for you in Boston. There is some big news for Pete and myself, this weekend we got engaged. We expect to see you at our wedding! You arer all in my prayers. Mary Ann
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy So glad to read your update! I am so happy for all of you! Its nice to hear your own words-for all your ordeal you remain a positive, humorous person! I thought of the ongoing "get Timmy to Fenway as often as possible debate" when I sold the Johnny Damon book, "Idiot" yesterday at the Bookstore. Did you want a copy??? haha Keep up the great recovery! Love from the Longs
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hope you guys are doing well! It is as beautiful Sunday afternoon here. Unfortunately I will be giving tennis lessons all day but it is better than digging a ditch! I have the Sisco brothers at noon. BOth were in our sports camp and both are good tennis players. The oldest is also a good hoop and soccer player. Great kids. I am starting to get the hang of taking care of Mackenzie on my own. Friday night was rough as I couldn't get her to take the bottle for about an hour. Last night Julie's step Mom showed me a trick to get her to feed more easily. SHe is a nurse and always has two babies dangling from her arms at the hospital. So, this morning when Julie was at the gym I did pretty well with Mackenzie. So, a big moment for me as Dad. Julie had a lot of fun with some of the Delbarton wives on Friday night at Attilios. She hopes to do it again some time. She has also met a lot of people in our neighborhood. YOu really meet more people once you have a babay. Pats have big game today vs. Carolina. Dangerous game. I went with Eagles in the elimination pool that I am in. They should beat the niners even with a banged up McNabb. It is a lot of fun to give Hartle a hard time about the Eagles! We have three games this week. Play Madison on Monday and should beat them pretty easily if history is any judge of their usual talent. Tougher games vs. Millburn on Wednesday at their place and Whippany Park at home. WP played us tough last year in MCT tournie. YOu continue to give us great games. They have changed the frosh and JV tournies to only two days with two games a day. Could be rough but it might ease up scheduling problems and make each game a bigger deal with all the teams at one site. We shall see. I think the head guy is trying to get me to be site manager but I ain't biting on that one. I got enough on my plate right now. I am not sure how the football team did yesterday but I am sure you have heard by now. I don't get a chance to get to those games anymore. All I know is Coach Beach is the man! He ran a conditioning and speed and agility work out at a tennis camp I worked at last summer and did some amazing stuff. Well, I have to go give five hours of tennis lessons now. At least it is a nice day! I hope you are feeling good today and get a chance to watch some sports on TV and rest. We miss you around here very much. Get well soon and get back here ace. JT BUCK MARTINEZ, RICK DEMPSEY, DAVE DUNCAN
MessageHey Coach Fleury, my name is Brendan Renehan and I am a sophmore at Delbarton. I played freshman baseball so I had the pleasure to meet you a few times. You are in my thoughts and prayers everyday during this difficult time. You are an inspiration to me and everyone at Delbarton. I wish you luck and hope that you can stay strong during this difficult time. Brendan Renehan
MessageDear Mr. Fleury: We know you best through our little guy, Will. He met Timmy at Little Gym, and we are so amazed at the athletic talent he received from you and your wife. Anyway, we wish you the best in these difficult times and will continue to keep you in our prayers.
MessageCoach Fleur, It was great to hear that you are doing so well with the treatments. It makes our week when we hear that you are doing well. Baseball is going well, and I got my first fall hit in my first at bat on Thursday. Still working hard and paying my dues in the bullpen. Keep going strong and I'll see you soon back at school. Sors
MessageBrian- Glad to hear things are going a little better this week and the marrow is doing its job. The pics of you and Timmy and Jen are adorable..you are like the three muskateers- you fight together!! Please take care and if there is ANYTHING we can do to help, just let us know!! p.s. I have to let Jen know that you STILL have the greenest lawn on the street! Everyone else's is yellow! I dont know how you do it! Chris, Larry, Sean and Julia Hoey
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MessageBrian, We just wanted you to know our prayers and thoughts are with you. We were so happy to read that you were feeling better. It was a beautiful weekend in Morris County, very summer like. We can't wait to have you home. Love, Kevin and Deanna
MessageI love reading your messages. maybe you can post a picture of all the art work you and Tim are creating! Give my best to Jen, and hang in there! Love, Barbara
MessageCoach Fleury, I'm glad to hear you are doing well. We all miss you here. My family and I wish you our best, you are in our prayers.
MessageDear Brian, I never got to meet you before you went in the hospital although I wanted to. You were off to Boston the day I came in to see you. My name is Pam Koch I have been praying for you from afar. Our whole family has. My son Rob Koch graduated from Delbarton in 1997 and our son Tim Koch will graduate this year. I have walked a similar journey personally in the last two years. My bone marrow transplant was May 26,2004 it was an unrelated doner for Leukemia.(AML)A by product of medicine I took for Breast Cancer nine years ago.I am working at Sloan Kettering with Dr.Ann Jakubowski. You are certainly a "hero" to us experiencing a second transplant.Please know we are all standing on the side lines shouting, "come on Brian you can do this"! My son Rob and his dad are N.D. grads. Over my door in my room as I was going through the transplant Rob put up a sign that all the Notre Dame football players hit as they go out to win the game and it reads "Play Like A Champion Today". As I would walk each day in my room in circles I would reach up and hit it for my husband and for my kids. Some days I hardly had the strength. I have a great faith in God and I love Josh Groban! On the day after the transplant I wrote a prayer while listening to "You Raise Me Up" and I share this with you as I close: A PRAYER OF THANKSGIVING AMONG THE WINGS Oh Great Creator of all creatures great and small Of all those wise and wonderful you made them all. Thank You for the people of the wings who raise us up when times are trying. Thank you for the risk takers for life.... most especially the donor who said,"yes" that a stranger might know life. Thank you for the peacemakers and the healers Our families and friends Nurses,doctors,pastoral caregivers, and caregivers. They are the shadow of you in our midst. Bountiful bless them all for their goodness and light and continue to send them like butterflies over the gardens of life that they might hold others in darkness up by their wings to behold their beauty. AMEN PS I found out later my donor was a member of the air force a true person of the Wings!!! Blessings and only Good thoughts Pam
MessageCoach! Hope you had a good weekend and are feeling better. I am sure you have to go through some tough procedures and feel lousy at times so hang in there. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. I was just thinking how often you are part of my life here at Delbarton. Each day I make reference to your writing guide for example. I bet that seems like ages ago when you do that. We still find that to be the best guide for our kids. Now if we can just get the English department to agree .... We also always make references to your philosophy on sports in Freshman soccer. You have certainly had an impact on me and my kids even when you are not around. Well, my Pats took it on the chin yesterday. I told you in the last message that that was a dangerous game for them. The Jets finally won. I think you are a Jets man. Did you see that Isaac BRuce passed Don Maynard in total yards receiving? Don Maynard, Joe Namath's favorite target back in the 70's, was my favorite receiver as a kid. I still have his football card! My brother and I have thousands of cards. Who knows what we will do with them. He will probably sell them and take all the money. He is always swindling me, that is why he is a high powered businessman and I have trouble balancing my checkbook. Julie's grandmother saw your Mom at church the other day. Your Mom figured out who she was and has spoken to her a few times. I hope your folks are doing well. Julie's grandmother is a saint. Without her we would be lost. SHe came over for dinner last night after helping Julie with some errands. I have been obsessed with one of your least favorite chores, watering the lawn! My lawn has taken a beating from the summer and I have vowed to get it back to where it was. I end up watering at 6:15am for that is about the only time I can find to get it done. I hope Barnicle rigged up that irrigation system for you so you don't have to water when you get back. I think you said that Jen does all of the watering anyhow. We play Madison in soccer today at home. I feel good about our team after our big win over the JV. I think we have really turned the corner and will start to play well. We got the right lineup on the field now and the right rotation off the bench. I have 27 guys so it is hard to get them all in the game and impossible in close games but I really try. We played all 27 a lot vs. JV last Friday. I cam remember playing Madison during my first year as Frosh coach with Tom Dugan. It was my first away game here. We played them on a field which had a manhole cover exposed on one side but painted white for players to avoid. I remember Mark Aromando scoring a goal with a few minutes left to get us the win. We went undefeated that year and in many ways that is still my best team. I don't know if you knew those guys but they were amazing (Ramee, Gannon, Gueriero, Zusai, Von Zuben, Kroll, Brannen, etc.) ONe of my favorite groups. Coaching with Doogie was a lot of fun but I have to say that Ed THompson is the all star assistant coach. He does all the nitty gritty stuff no one wants to do and does it well. He is also tough on the kids and demands their best at all times. It is funny to work with a guy that you coached and taught back in the day. That would be neat if a Danny DeGeorge came back here and worked with you some day. If I could pick one former tennis player I wanted to come back it would be Eddie. I observed Fred Storz on Friday. I am trying to do one observation a week here before my school work piles up too much and before the spring term when I am too busy with tennis. Freddie did an excellent job. It is always funny when you first walk in and sit down to do an observation. The kids look at you and don't know what is going on. It is almost like they think they are in trouble. The class gets real quiet until they realize what is going on. Freddie did a nice exercise on cheating and plagiarism with the freshman. He has been a great hire for us in the history department. Guy works hard. That is what I always tell people who start working here. Like you said with coaching, there is no secret to being a great teacher, you just have to work hard. SOme people get it and some don't. I guess Jay is taking on your class this year. That was real nice of him to do that. I am sure the kids were looking forward to having you in the classroom. I heard from John Holly the other day. Do you remember him? He is now in NC and is a doctor and has four kids. Well, I have to get back to work. I am observing Ed THompson second block and I am giving the first test of the year to my sophomores. You can feel the panic in the air. HOpe you are doing well. Julie and I send our best. Mackenzie is really getting big. Julie and her are like two peas in a pod. It is neat to watch. Hope Jen and Tim are well and I hope today is a good day for you. Take care coach. You are the man. JT JORGE PASADA, THURMAN MUNSON, FRAN HEALY
MessageBrian, Jen and # 8 & 18............Just checking in thanks for your recent update......everything appears to be progressing as planned....steady as she goes.....Bruce, Matty , Doug and I knocked the little white ball around yesterday.....Bruce's game has come a long way this summer.......Your Fall Golf outing is booked (actually overbooked) which is great news ......have a great week....you are the man, coach............Larry
MessageBrian, You've been blessed with courage, strength and family. May you now be blessed with good health. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. All the Best, Mark and Ann Horan
MessageBrian, I writing to touch base with you and your family. How are things going in Boston? I want you to know that you are in our prayers and that your courage is an inspiration to all who know you. Please let me know if you need anything. All the best to you and your family. "Shep" John Sheppard
MessageHey- I just clicked on and read your postings. Amazing, to say the least. I have been praying for you and sending ALL of you light every day!!! I love how you keep including the donor in your prayers. Bri, this is what makes you such an amazing and beautiful soul! In the midst of your own trauma, still able to be gratefull for the kindness of another. Lets hear it for Timmy and "the locker room"! Know my love is with you!!!!!! JM
MessageBrian - Just read your latest update. We are thrilled that you seem to be doing so well. Keep up your spirit - loads of prayers - Marty and Marilyn
MessageHey Coach, Thanks for being such an inspiration for us all. You will be greatly missed this year, but your presense will always be felt. I wish you the best of luck with your recovery. God bless, John Twomey
MessageBrian, I saw the football guys(in the new pictures) but I didn't see the Giants- where are they? I love you and bye. love Riley Brian, We are so glad to hear you are all doing well (despite Jen's trip to the ER). We are thinking of you guys. After seeing the newest pictures Stephen(HUGE Yankee fan) thanks you for turning Riley into a Red Socks fan- you know Riley is Timmy's Fan club president. Again our thoughts and prayers are with you. love, laura and stephen
MessageGet better the Green Wave misses you!
MessageHi Brian, Being an Oprah fan, I was reading her magazine, “O,” in the sleepless hours of last night. I came across a quote that made me stop and think of you: “Your whole life is a rehearsal for the moment you are in now."—Judith Malina. It seems to ring true. You’ve rehearsed well and your performance during this critical time has us in awe. We applaud your performance. Feel better! Love to Jen & Timmy.
MessageBrian, I wanted to let you know that everyone at GT is thinking about you in your recovery and battle with cancer.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
MessageBrian, I'm glad that you have had recent good news. Sounds encouraging! Everyone at NJSIAA is pulling for you. I know that your athletic background will play a big part in your recovery. I was sorry to read that Jen cut her finger. However, she's a lacrosse player and, unlike baseball players, little injuries don't keep her from playing. All kidding aside, I hope you're able to see some of the baseball on TV. This year there appear to be great pennant races. Keep up your spirits, because as you know, attitude is a big part of your recovery. If there is anything we can do to help, don't hesitate to call upon us. Bob
MessageCoach Fluery: Hope all is well in your recovery, our prays are with you everyday. As my wife and I pulled up to the football field at 10:00 am on Saturday for our 1st home football game it was somewhat of a weird feeling not seeing you getting everything jump started for the start of a great day, but as we started putting up all the ballons,flags, and signs I can only feel that you were with us in spirit. I know in my heart that next year for our 1st game you will be there directing all of us on what to do for the day. Stay postive and with all of our prays we will see you on the Delbarton campus real soon. Go Yanks!!! 1/2 game out Sincerely Rich and Mimma Conforti
MessageI can't wait to have you back at school. Feel Better.
MessageHey Brian! I'm so happy to hear things are going well and getting progressively better. Coach-- sorry to hear about your finger, that's a bummer. I have been thinking about you guys a lot lately, and I wanted to let you know that you are constantly on my mind and in my prayers. My love to you and the whole family. -- Linds
MessageHi Brian, What can I say, we all miss you soooo much! Delbarton just isnt the same without you. Your in my prayers everyday and I know that you will be back here with us real soon. Take care of yourself, get lots of rest, and send our love to that beautiful family of yours. love, kathy
MessageHey there... thanks for the update! I had to write a quick note to tell you how much i love the new pictures... great job on the helmets and football players! Keep the pictures coming... they bring us all such joy! Hugs and kisses to all... Jen i will talk to you soon! Love, Mere, Scott, Lily and Jack
MessageHi Brian, Sorry to be remiss in writing you sooner, but we both have a free period right now, so we thought we'd drop you a line to see how you are doing. First of all, we would both like to say you are sorely missed around here. I often wander in your office, and it's a shock to see an empty chair behind your desk. On the other hand, Dano is holding up the fort pretty well, and as Anne says, "he has better jokes than Brian!" We both appreciate your updates on your website on your progress. Please keep it up, it really helps us stay connected to you and your situation. Anne especially loves all the stories about Timmy. (Anne is wondering right now whether she sounds like a moron...please say yes.) Many people I meet have urged me to send their best wishes, among them Cliff Back, Mike George, Jack DuBois (the newly hired NJSIAA hotshot), and Carol Kulik. I ran into Laura Caruso yesterday, and she also wants to add her regards and wishes for continued recovery. Give my best to Jen, she sounds like a real trooper in your updates. Hope all is well, and that you are not being inundated with the misery of Red Sox Nation. Wayne & Anne
MessageBrain, Bumped into Fr. Giles on sunday and he gave me an update of your progress. I do follow your web updates and I'm always moved by your courage. You are the guy I want next to me in the foxhole if things got crazy. Keep up the great attitude, my thoughts and more importantly prayers are with you. Rich
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Sorry I didn't check in yesterday but we had no school yesterday due to water shut off from construction and I don't have e-mail at home right now. I hope this note finds you in good health and good spirits. Hang in there ace. On Monday we played Madison in freshman soccer. We beat them 1-0. We had about fifteen chances to score from ten feet away but couldn't finish. The bad part about that was that I couldn't get everyone in because if we happen to give up a cheap goal on our end we end up tying a team we should beat so I got 23 out of 27 in. Not bad. We had the ref who has MS and is an older Italian gentleman. I think you know who he is. Nice guy. The Madison coach hated him from the moment he walked on the field. I guess he had a run in with him in a previous game. I didn't get it because the guy is so nice. Anyhow, the Madison coach is just berating this guy the whole game for no reason. Screaming at him on the field. He really should have been thrown out and the ref really had thick skin to not say something or at least give him a card. I almost said something because it was that bad but I figured it really wasn't my place to put this guy in line and could cause a confrontation. Madison frosh were better this year. One third of their team was Hispanic, first time I have seen that. The coach said the demographics of the school is slowly changing there as well so more kids are playing soccer there now. On Tuesday I took advantage of the day off to get a lot done. I went to the doctor for a cold and for a heel injury I have had for about a year now. You know, when you keep schooling Eddie and Hartle in tennis and basketball at 42 it will eventually catch up with you. The doctor gave me some stuff to do so hopefully I won't have to get it operated on if it is actually a bone spur. I am getting old! I also graded tests and cleaned the house for Julie. SHe quarantined me from the baby with my cold and all! Julie's gram says she loves your Mom and enjoys talking to her at church. Julie's gram baby sat Mackenzie last night for us. Today we play good old Millburn in soccer. They always give us a tough game, especially if we play on this one small field that they have. WHen Danny DeGeorge was a freshman soccer player he scored a goal with twenty seconds left on that field to give us the win. I still remember that! What a great kid he is! We need more kids like him here. I know he was one of your favorites. Millburn used to have a coach that was there the whole time since I was coaching who I really respected but he is gone. THere are only a few schools who still have the same frosh coach since I started in 1989 which is Chatham (that guy hates me!), Lawrenceville, and Passaic Valley! Thats it. So, either it is a tribute to my longevity or it shows that I haven't gone very far in 16 years. Take your pick. Baseball is coming down to the wire. I hope you are able to keep up on the season. How about the INdians down the stretch! If WHite Sox choke that will be one of the biggest chokes in sports history. My brother lives in Cleveland and goes to Indians games from time to time. You see, if I moved to Cleveland I could be an INdians fan and a Red Sox fan but if you move to NJ or NY you can't become a Yankees fan if you are a Sox fan. You know what I am talking about ace. Well, I have to actually get some work done this block before my senior IR class. Good group this year, Catlett, Jones, Dangerfield, Eng, Peck, Anelli, Breen, Hart, Masi, and Schalfly. I love that class because there is no pressure or deadlines to meet like in AP. You can just enjoy the material and debate stuff for as long as you want. SPeaking of debates, we are having a History Club Forum on Hurricane Katrina this Friday. Hopefully we get good turn out. I made my kids go so that is a built in crowd of 90 kids right there! Take care chief. JT, Julie, Mackenzie HOWARD, BERRA, DIAZ
MessageMr. Fleury- My delbarton career (class 01') had one flaw: I never had you as a teacher/coach. Alot of my close friends had you as amentor and nothing but praise comes from their mouth. I wish you the best of luck. Regards, Arun Agarwal
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I'm sending along my best wishes to you let you know that everyone at Delbarton is thinking of you and pulling for you. We all hope to see you back soon; the halls of Delbarton are not the same without you. Best wishes, Chris
Messagehey coach fleury. i hope that everything is going well. just want to let you know i have been thinking about you and i hope to see you soon. my mom and dad send their best wishes as well.
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, A note to let you know that I have been thinking of you and your family every day and praying for your recovery and good health. My parents have been keeping my up-to-date on your progress, and I just learned today about your website. It was great to read your posts and catch-up on your progress. I will continue to pray that you have more ups than downs. You have such incredible character and determination, and you have been such a terrific role model for all us at Delbarton. We’re with you every step of the way through your recovery. I miss everyone at Delbarton dearly, but I am doing well at Deerfield --- really hitting the books and working out a lot. Please tell Mrs. Fleury and Timmy that I’m thinking of them and anxious to see all of you soon. Love, Michael P.S. – tell Timmy to forget those NFL uniforms and helmets and start concentrating on the NHL!
MessageHey Coach, It was good to hear about you, Tim, and Mrs. Fleury (hope her finger is alright). Just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you and praying for you each and every day...Not much to report on in DC. I actually turned down tickets to see Bonds play the Nats tonight. Putting my studies first cost me a first-hand view of HR number 706. What can ya do though. Best of luck making all the NFL uniforms/helmets. Don't forget the Giants have new road uni's this year!! Love you Coach, Clint
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope all is well in Boston. I hope this message finds you in good spirits and good health. YOu continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. They are having a prayer service in your honor during conference block today so my nervous sophomores will have to miss out on extra help for one day! We beat Millburn 2-0 yesterday at their place. We played them on a small little field way in the back of the campus, same field that Danny DeGeorge won the game for us with a last second goal. Millburn had some big kids on their team and were decent. Had a good goalie. We played OK. St. Benedicts beat their frosh 8-0 so that is not a good sign for us. We play those scrubs next week at their place. I haven't been there in awhile. The field is behind the school surrounded by barbed wire and if the ball goes over the fence it doesn't come back! It is the soccer mecca of New Jersey. Not for the faint of heart though. We may scrimmage the JV again today as they want revenge for their loss to us last week. I talked to Barnicle and their team is doing pretty well. ONly one loss thus far but he says the competition has been pretty weak in the conference. JV and Varsity Soccer beat Millburn as well. I was talking to some of the parents and they said the varsity got a talking to from Dave after some "Chippy" play by us! Usually it is the other way around so I am sure Dave was upset. I know you hate chippy play but I bet you were a chippy soccer player back in the day. Well, maybe not. Mackenzie and Julie are doing well. Mackenzie won't take a bottle from other people when Julie is out so we are trying to work on that. Her step Mom, who is a nurse, only had limited success last night. It is amazing to watch Julie with the baby. SHe is a mama's girl so far but I don't have what she wants if you know what I mean! Well, I have to grade some tests that kids took yesterday. Got to get them back quickly! I hope you are doing well. The whole school will be thinking about you today at the prayer service. Take care chief JT, Julie, and Mackenzie CERRONE, FREEHAN, MITTERWALD
MessageHi Guys, Brian,I was so glad to hear the fevers have passed.It sounds like you are making steady progress, which we never doubted. You keep up the good work! I couldnt help but think of you as the news is absorbed with Hurricane Rita on her way to Texas. Having never been to Texas, my only vision of the state is the one you planted in my mind with your comical story of the lovely visit to Jen's family. Hysterical- always :) Speaking of Jen, gosh was I so very sorry to hear of the kitchen accident. I know you are relying on canned veggies for Brian's safety so you will unfortunately have to face the can opener again. Knowing Jen she may have destroyed this one to show it she would not be beat by it. Pampered Chef makes a can opener that creates smooth edges when it opens the can. And people think women just drink at these home show parties. If I can get one to you, I will. In the meantime, take care of each other and Timmy. Love to you all, Donna
MessageHi Guys, Brian,I was so glad to hear the fevers have passed.It sounds like you are making steady progress, which we never doubted. You keep up the good work! I couldnt help but think of you as the news is absorbed with Hurricane Rita on her way to Texas. Having never been to Texas, my only vision of the state is the one you planted in my mind with your comical story of the lovely visit to Jen's family. Hysterical- always :) Speaking of Jen, gosh was I so very sorry to hear of the kitchen accident. I know you are relying on canned veggies for Brian's safety so you will unfortunately have to face the can opener again. Knowing Jen she may have destroyed this one to show it she would not be beat by it. Pampered Chef makes a can opener that creates smooth edges when it opens the can. And people think women just drink at these home show parties. If I can get one to you, I will. In the meantime, take care of each other and Timmy. Love to you all, Donna
MessageHey Brian-- things are going well down here. I just hope Timmy isn't sporting any Tom Brady uniforms. That would be upsetting. So yeah, things are good. No worries although Dano made me the official voice of the Green Wave this year and I am feeling increasingly comfortable with my new role. This could be dangerous for the team and the fans. Hopefully I'll find a way to contain any stupid comments and/or observations I may have. Anyways everything else is fine and rest assure all traditions remain intact. All the best, Eddie T
MessageBrian, it is so great to hear about you and your family. We are so pleased with your continued progress. We think of you every day and speak of you often. I particularly think of you when I'm in the kitchen cooking dinner and hear the crack of the bat 50 to 100 times coming from the basement. However, it's a sound I've grown to love and am accustomed to. The boys miss you very much! Get yourself well, keep your spirits high, and hurry home. The Palumbo Family
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MessageLast week's report looked encouraging. Hope things continue to improve. The Campbells and Anthonys are doing well. Chip and Tim are both doing well in lax at Middlebury and Villanova, Wade is in London and Cam is now a Wake Forest grad. As always, your courage is an inspiration to all of us and you are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless
MessageHey Brian and Jen, All of your fans at Chatham High School are sending out love, hope and lots of good vibes to you, Jen and Tim. Keep on kicking CANCER BUTT!!!
MessageDearest Brian, Not a day goes bye that I don't think of you and your wonderful family. We are praying for you and you are my hero...loving life and living it every minute! I have put your name in the daily prayers of St. Mary's of the Isle Church on Nantucket, where I go frequently. My love and best wishes and support are with you always...Pat
MessageBrian, Jen, and Timmy, We are so glad to hear that your rough days have passed and that you are doing well. We will keep praying that each day will continue to bring you strength and that your rough days will be less and less. Jen-I am glad that you escaped major injury from your can opener incident. Hope that you are healing nicely. I love the apartment. Timmy and Brian are doing a great job creating the perfect locker room. I can't wait to see more pictures of the progress. Brian, you still look like a hottie-crooked hair and all. Can't even tell in the pictures! Much love to all of you and as always, you are top on the list for thoughts and prayers. Love, Karen, Jonathan, Morgan, and Ryan
MessageBest of luck, Mr. Fleury. We will keep you in our prayers.
MessageCoach Fluery, I can't wait to see you back at school and on the baseball diamond. You are in my prayers everyday and I know, with your determination, you will be able to overcome this obstacle. Get well soon!
MessageCoach Fluery, I can't wait to see you back at school and on the baseball diamond. You are in my prayers everyday and I know, with your determination, you will be able to overcome this obstacle. Get well soon!
MessageBrian- Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers as you continue to fight on. We read each sign of positive progress with joy. It appears from the pictures that you and Timmy have yet to draw the Giants helmet. Always smart to save the best for last! Mike-Suzie-Ryan-Michael-Jack& Timmy
MessageBrian, You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. I hope the results of the recent tests are favorable and that you'll be able to come home soon. Being in a hospital for a long period of time is not fun. The Fall Season has started off well. Very little rain which make the AD's around the State happy. (No make-ups) As you know Boyd Sands and Jim Loper will be retiring at the end of the year. They will be missed. Steve Timko will be the new Executive Director. I'll take over some of Jim's duties with rules, eligibility, etc. We have hired two new Ass't Directors. Jack Dubois, who you know, and and Larry White from South Jersey. Larry has an officiating background (He served as a minor league umpire for five years) and will oversee baseball. Once again best wishes to Jen, and Tim. I hope they're able to get to see some of Boston. Its a beautiful city especially in the Fall. Bob
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys! Hope you are all doing well in the best state in the country! I hope this message finds you in good spirits and that today was a good day for you in your treatment. We had a great History Club forum today on Hurricane Katrina. About 100 kids and ten teachers were in attendance. Great discussion. Mature, respectful, insightful, and intelligent. One would be hard pressed to find a group of 100 adults who could conduct themselves as well as our kids did. Topics ranged from who was to blame, to racism, to are we prepared for another such disaster. We hope to do a lot more. We began the session with a moment to pray and think about you! You are always in our thoughts. Today we play Whippany Park in Soccer. We only beat them 1-0 last year. They kind of took us by surprise a bit so we have been drumming it into the heads of our kids to be ready. We are also working on our shell formation, called "Amherst" after my soccer team who was pretty bad and the ball was always in our end because our offense stunk so we as defenders had to hold off the other team the whole game, to get ready for St. Benedicts. The varsity beat St. Benedicts two years ago by playing in a shell formation. We didn't go with the shell the last two years because we thought it might send the wrong message to the kids but we lost so this year right into the shell and hope for the upset. Got to be realistic. Kids are on board and understand why we are doing it. We play St. Benedicts next week at their place. Awesome game you lined up for us. OUr captains are Matt Mulligan and Logan True, two kids that Coach Fleury would love. Mulligan is apparently also a great wrestler. We took Mackenzie to Julie's Mom's house last night and then had a rare chance to go out to dinner. I am sure you remember those days! We went out to the Quiet Man in Dover. Great place, good Irish food. Mackenzie had fun with her grandma but she really only wants Julie! She is a mama's girl. Julie and Mackenzie may come by my game today. No big plans this weekend. I am giving a bunch of tennis lessons. We have a christening to go to on Sunday. Hope you guys have a nice weekend. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie BUCK MARTINEZ, GENE TENACE, RAY HUNDLEY
MessageGreat to hear that things are looking Up, Hey bud..if its ok.. what are the names of your doners.. i have a huge email chain and i want to have everyone on it send them a kind word and to let them know what a great service they have done for us all. As far as they tuff family moments.. hang in there... 'THIS TOO SHALL PASS" Hi, MR and MRS Flurey.... I keep thinking about that song i heard at you house many many years ago and I cant actaully write it here because of the content ...it went something like P me off you *$^%*%* JERK!!!! LOL SORRY! it was country western..i find myself singing that song and laughing out loud!!!!
MessageGreat to hear that things are looking Up, Hey bud..if its ok.. what are the names of your doners.. i have a huge email chain and i want to have everyone on it send them a kind word and to let them know what a great service they have done for us all. As far as they tuff family moments.. hang in there... 'THIS TOO SHALL PASS" Hi, MR and MRS Flurey.... I keep thinking about that song i heard at you house many many years ago and I cant actaully write it here because of the content ...it went something like P me off you *$^%*%* JERK!!!! LOL SORRY! it was country western..i find myself singing that song and laughing out loud!!!!
Messagehey! I just checked your message and your photos. Both are great. Your young man Tim is certainly talented (probably with some help from mom and dad), but I am impressed! Special kudos to Tim! I meant to ask last time-- did Jen really cut a tendon in her finger? I hope she gets all movement back and is continuing to heal well. as always, prayers for your recovery continue, and, thanks for the reminder to pray for your donor. God bless and keep you all.I look forward to your next entry and good news! Barbara
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MessageBrian, I said an extra special prayer for you today hoping that the chimera test brings positive news! Congratulations on the 30 day benchmark. Dr. Ho and the donor are right up there on my prayer list. If I remember correctly from cell biology class (25 years ago) the T-helper cells and the B cells should start doing their thing. We had a nice prayer service for you at school yesterday. The songs and readings that Fr. Luke chose were great. Lots of love and get well wishes were sent your way. I am sure you got them. Ran by your house today and I must say the yard looks terrific, the mum plants marking the start of the autumn season and patiently waiting your return. Is Jen catching any of Martha Stewart's daytime show? Pretty soon it will be time to plan the Halloweeen costumes. Timmy's NFL helmet wall is really coming along. It would make terrific wall paper for a child's room. You could market it with crayons for the children to color it themselves. Heck, you could make sport specific wall paper...Maybe you are on to something...Keep drawing...wishing the three of you a great weekend, Kelly
MessageDear Brian, Just wanted to let you know how happy we are that everything is going well with your recovery. It's great news that you may be able to come home for short periods of time. I understand completely, however, about not being allowed any visitors if and when you do come home...it's just too critical of a time period right now to get any infections etc., especially since you are doing so well. As much as we all would love to see you, we'll just have to wait for Dr. Ho to give us the "OK"!!! Please continue to take care of yourself and give our best to Jen and Timmy. We miss you very much. As ever, Janis, Loren, Alison & David
Messagehi Mr. fleury, I hope you get better soon, as we keep you in our thoughts in everything we do. You mean alot to the school and delbarton community. You are an inspiration to us all.
MessageMr. Fleury, I am a new Freshman, but just wanted you to know my family's prays and thoughts are with you. Godspeed.
MessageBrian, It has been so long since I have seen you but you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. My heart smiles so when I think of those childhood memories of Borough School. I never doubted for a minute the kind of impact you would have on so many lives. My blessings of peace and comfort with you and your family. Dana
MessageBrian, I just noticed my wife revealed she is an Oprah fan!....and you thought you had trouble! I was trying to keep that a secret! You and your family's "inner strength" is more obvious with each day as it passes. There is truly no heavier pressure we can bear than to deal with watching those we care most about, live through a time when they are most vulnerable. As hard as it is, you have shown the strength to beat the odds all through your "test of time." I'm sure you will all be able to look back some day and say....it was hell....but it was worth it! We will try to keep an eye on your parents for you. Why....because you guys are "worth it!" Good Luck and God speed! M/M Bonanno
MessageBrian: Glad to hear things are tracking well for you. One question -- you really don't have to answer -- what is with Timmy's Red Sox shirt?????? Be well, Amy
MessageWow! Timmy took the photo of Mom and Dad??? Can I get him to do some shooting for me for Delbarton Today? I'll put him to work on sports whenever he's ready! Brian and Jen, as to how you two are enduring this great trial, please know that everyone is in such awe of your bravery. The prayers are continuing! With Love, Maggie
MessageHey Brian, I just wanted to drop you a short note to say hey. Kevin is settling in nicely at school and attended the pray service the other day. We continue to think of you and pray for you all daily. Stay strong. Terry, Linda, Jack, and Kevin
MessageDear Brian, Jen, Mackenzie: Hello guys! I hope this note finds you in good spirits and good health. I just got done with some tennis lessons and I had to find some directions to a christening we are going to here at school so I thought I would drop you a line. We hope you are feeling well. Our thoughts are with you. Yesterday I gave five hours of tennis lessons. WHile I was there I could observe the whole process of the preparations for the football game as I was there from 9 to 2. The first people to appear were Doc Rod and the trainers. Then some of the Dads started to show up and start setting up the tents and refreshment stand. Someone put on the CD of all of the music related to football like Monday Night Football theme and the theme song from Remember the Titans. I love that compilation, especially the songs from the old NFL films shows. Gets you pumped. I heard Ed Thompson call the game. He is now the voice of the Green Wave. He did a good job. Delbarton was only up 6-0 at half when I left but I believe they won 26-0 at the end. Millburn is no state football power! Now I have to go home and get ready for a party at someone's house for a christening. I am sure Mackenzie will be a big hit. Julie brought here to our game on Friday and all the Moms grabbed her and wouldn't give her back! We beat WHippany Park 7-0. They weren't that good and only had 12 guys. We are now getting ready for St. Benedicts on Tuesday. Hope you are feeling OK. Hang in there. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie BILL PLUMMER, JOHNNY EDWARDS, RAY FOSSE
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MessageBrian,Jen and "diving coach fluery"- I finally had a chance to browse through your web link(as you may not know, we are not online at home). I so enjoyed seeing all of your faces, you are all definatley a missed presence at delbarton. Although it is only your physical presence that is not on that campus, because your name and plight for good health is a topic that is basically continual at the school. Please know that you are mentioned at our dinner table prayers every night (over our chicken nuggets and french fries -yes jen, ketchup,popcorn and potatoe chips are still vegetables!!) You are all in our thoughts and prayers, we look forward to your recovery and return home. As always, we would be honored to be called on to assist you all in any way. Our love to all-
MessageCoach Fluery: Its Sunday evening and I am just sitting here waiting for the Giants/Charger game, and was thinking of you and your family. Hope your visit to the hospital for your procedure went fine. As you probably already know the boys beat Millburn Saturday 26-0, on to Madison next week. I guess Timmy is a RED SOX fan, great baseball this week, looks like the last three games of the season in Boston will determine the divison. I hope the next helment that you and Timmy draw are the Giants. We continue to pray for you and your family and I know that the results you receive from your tests will only be postive results for your road to recovery. GO WAVE!! GO YANKS!!! Sincerely Richard Conforti Sr
MessageWe were happy to read that you might have the opportunity to come home for a few days. Keep up the good work! Always in our prayers - the cohens, bev, bob, matt and lauren
MessageWe are praying for you and wishing you a speedy recovery and looking forward to when you can spend those beautiful fall days at Delbarton again.
MessageHi Brian: I just finished speaking with your dad. He gave me the URL for your site. I am speachless at the intensity of the care that your friends and students feel for you. Good Luck! Michael
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope you had a great Sunday. I just read the school newspaper and there is a beautiful article about Brian by David Weinstein (great kid!). If you didn't see it I can send it up to you as it is pretty neat. Shows how many kids are thinking about you and what kind of an impact Brian has had on so many young men here at Delbarton. We had a nice Sunday. I baby sat Mackenzie in the morning and then did two tennis lessons. We then went to a christening over in Wharton. I snuck away and watched the Jets lose (yes!) and then the Pats win (nice!) So a good day of sports including a Sox win to keep that race tied. Great segment on ESPN inside the lines about kids who fled hurricane Katrina and are now playing football at other high schools. Now their old schools are opening up again and having a season and they don't know whether they should stay or go back. Interesting stuff. Their old coach said that these towns "looted" his players while the other communities say they were simply trying to help these kids out. We have a big practice today to get ready for St. Benedicts tomorrow! I hope we beat them, they really have no class on the freshman level. We shall see. They are awful good. My classes are now finishing up the Renaissance, Coach Donovan's favorite subject. It is not mine but I try to make it as interesting as possible. I know that you used to always go to Renaissance festivals and dress in all black. Well, I have to get back to class. I hope you are doing well. Hang in there and get back here soon. Take care. Jt, Julie, and Mackenzie RODRIGUEZ, VARITEK, BATEMAN
MessageWe check your "News" often and continue to pray for you, Jen, Tim and your donor. It would truly be wonderful for your family to make it home for a few, getting to sit in your own couch and watch TV, Tim sleeping in his own bed . . . We are sure from the many notes and emails, you know how we at Delbarton are here for you and your family. God speed, George, Colleen, Stephen 06, Mark 08 and Brian.
MessageWe check your "News" often and continue to pray for you, Jen, Tim and your donor. It would truly be wonderful for your family to make it home for a few, getting to sit in your own couch and watch TV, Tim sleeping in his own bed . . . We are sure from the many notes and emails, you know how we at Delbarton are here for you and your family. God speed, George, Colleen, Stephen 06, Mark 08 and Brian.
MessageHello Fleury Family! I was so happy today to be home and get an update on your progress Bri. I had a very small and short experience with Luke (7yrs) in the hospital for 9 days recovering from E Coli 0157. Very violent illness with plenty of scares. He is home now, thinner, weaker but fully recoverable. I have a new appreciation for Jen's strength as a care giver and spouse under such trying times. And the power of prayer has almost become tangible in our experience. This leaves me even more confident in your ability to recover and enjoy the wonder of your lives. Tim took a great photo and you both look amazing. So great to see!! Be well and don't forget to udate us all soon. May today feel sunny and bright in your hearts and heads! The Harding crew... Ellen Mike and boys
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, Although this is my first message, I have thought and prayed for you all, all summer long. Chip and Timmy join me in sending our never ending admiration for you as you continue your fight. And we pray for your continued strength and faith during this particularly difficult and painful time. I just spent a long weekend with all my Boston college roommates and cheered the Red Sox on (I have been a quiet Red Sox fan ever since college!!!!) love to you all, cindy campbell
MessageDear Brian, The rain tonight should be good for your baseball field. We've been keeping an eye on it from the football field. There are 2 Reynolds at Delbarton now, and Matt sends you his best. We all think about you all the time. This website is really nice for us, just to know how you are. When you can take visitors, you're going to have to manage the crowds in the way citizens are being allowed back into Houston, by region. We look forward to your full recovery and return home. Feel well. Love, Julia Reynolds
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MessageWhats up Coach - I was just watching Tears of the Sun on television, and doing work of course on this rainy Monday night and I was just thinking of you because the last time I watched it was in the movie theatre in Florida when the Spring training game we were at got rained out. Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and you are in my prayers. - Goldy
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I hope that you are feeling better up in Boston. I'm now in 9th grade and have Mr. Shatel for geometry. I'm on the freshman football team with Mr. Sigrist. I'm on the line, playing mostly defense. We are 2-1, having lost an exciting game against Don Bosco last Saturday. My family and I wish you a speedy recovery and hope that you are at home in New Jersey soon. If you are in Boston this weekend, I hope that you bring the Yankees good luck. Sincerely, Peter Solomon P.S. I had a little problem sending this e-mail, so you may have gotten some other e-mail before this.
MessageDear Brian and Jen, So happy to hear you are home for a while. I am sure it feels so good to be back. I know your dogs missed you and are most likely thrilled to see you. You are in my prayers and thoughts daily. Be well. Love, Val
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Great pictures in your photo gallery! I like the football helmets. That is stuff that my brother and I did as kids. One time we had to stay at my parents friends house while they went to Cancun. We had no baseball or football cards, no electric football teams, etc. Thus, we made drawings of our own football cards and then used them for the games we used to play. Years later my parents friends gave Dave and I mugs with some of the pictures of the football players on them! Tim is getting big! He is some kid! You guys have a great looking family. We hope all of you are doing well during the difficult time. Glad to hear you can come home in between visits. I know you have a lot of people offering you various things but if there is anything we can do let us know. We are right down the road. If you need me to do anything with your lawn for example let me know. We had a great practice in the rain yesterday to prepare for St. Benedicts today. We worked on our shell formation. We call it Amherst. We call it Amherst because when I played soccer at Amherst High our offense was so bad that the ball was in our end the whole game and we just tried to keep the other team from scoring. The kids have been working on this formation for a week now. Lets hope it pays off. Playing at their place on the turf in Newark is no picnic. An intimidating atmosphere and I hope our kids go in with confidence. The last time we were there we tied them 0-0 when Josh was my assistant coach. Alex Mafeo made some huge saves and Charlie Clarke came off the bench to give us great minutes. Eddie laced up the cleats in practice and played on the St. Benedicts scout team. His size twenty shoes give him a real advantage in soccer. My classes are going well. Kids are eager and workign hard. I had two drop out so far, hopefully that is it. They have their first essay due on Wednesday. I have been giving extra help on their rough drafts every free second. I used to let them submit drafts for help but I found I got about 50 rough drafts three days before the essay was due and it was simply too much to do. WIth Mackenzie at home now I don't have that kind of time so now it has to be a face to face meeting to go over the rough draft. Hopefully that will still work. THe kids like your writing guideline and seem to really understand it. If only we could have gotten your boy Bill Gillard to buy into it as well! Shatel is blowing me off for study hall duty to go play golf. Slacker! My golf career was short lived. I try to hit it like a baseball or tennis ball. My Dad is real good but I never caught on. Well, I have to go run off some tests, do some progress reports, finish an observation write up, grade some quizzes, etc. The life of a teacher. I hope you are doing well. Drop me an e-mail some time if you need anything. Great to see Timmy with a Red SOx shirt on! Go SOx! Take care chief. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie JOHNNY OATES, BO DIAZ, DAVE DUNCAN
MessageCoach Fleury, Wanted to let you know that Douglas has is not far from you all all being at Tufts. The first few weeks was hard on all of us, letting your kid go to college is not easy task. Thank goodness for his Baseball budies. Such a nice way to have instint freinds, thanks again for helping that happen for him. Meanwhile there does not a day go by that we do not think about you and your family, especially that little boy. Douglas turned 18 on Sunday,and I only wish for you that you are around to spend his 18th birthday with him. Pat Bell
MessageBrian: I have lived with my wife and 2 boys in Morris Plains for the past 13 years and even though I have never met you, I have heard many wonderful things about you. I am a big baseball fan, as are my sons, and I have been told that you were probably the most talented player ever to come out of Morris Plains. Something to be proud of without a doubt. More importantly though, I've been told that you have battled a life threatening medical condition for many years with courage and class and have always put those you love, especially your family and those with whom you work daily with at Delbarton, ahead of your own struggles. You sound like the kind of role model I would want my boys to look up to. My brother-in-law unfortunately passed away 2 years ago from brain cancer and left behind 5 kids. My sister has struggled but continued to keep fighting daily. You obviously have many of the same qualities. It is said that often the darkest moments define who we are. We may never meet, although I would enjoy the opportunity, but please know that you and your family are in my prayers. I have no doubt that you will continue your battle and remain such an important part of our community for many many years to come.
MessageGood news and great pictures! Keep it going. Love, Fran
MessageBrian, We all are look forward to seeing you back in Morris Plains. This past summer my boys were swimming for MP team. I was having flashbacks. "Tina is still the coach." Those were great times. Memories are everything. Be strong Gerry
MessageDear Mr Fleury, I just wanted to let you know that you are in my families as well as my own thoughts and prayers for a healthy recovery. Best Regards, Michael Burke
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MessageThere is going to be a benefit for Brian in Morris Plains on October 16 from 9:00 to 3:00 - The Morris Plains Fire Department is hosting a Car Wash & Bake Sale to help Brian in his "fight for life".
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: We tied St. Benedicts 0-0! Great game. I never want to tie but at least we didn't lose to one of the best programs in the country. Kids followed our game plan to a "T" and played with a lot of heart. We actually had chances to win in the second half but couldn't quite finish. Craig Melcher made some amazing saves to keep us in the game. Nice to play them and not have them do a victory lap and sing in our faces! No class. Varsity lost 5-0. I guess they were overmatched this year and couldn't pull off the miracle. JV won 3-1. Theo Patsalos-Fox had a hat trick against them so good job for them. I have to post new essay assignment on turnitin.com now and run off some tests before heading home to see Mackenzie. I hope Tim is doing well. Take care and keep your spirits up! JT, Julie, and Mackenzie DUANE JOSEPHSON, BOB BOONE, JOE TORRE
MessageMr. and Mrs. Fleury, Our thoughts and prayers have been with you. Michael, Mom and I all keep updated through the website. We enjoy the family photos very much. I still remember having Mrs. Fleury as my Health teacher in 6th grade at Frelinghuysen and then thinking it was "out of this world" when Michael became friendly with Mr. Fleury at Delbarton. If you are ever in need of a babysitter or help in anyway, feel free to email or call me. We will continue to follow your recovery through this website. Best wishes. - The Burke Family
MessageBrian, Jen, Timmy, Good job with the helmets although I know Timmy is the one doing all the drawing cause Brian has no artistic ability. Where's the Giants!? Good to hear things are going well, and I am sure you will be hearing more good news on your transplant in the next couple days. Mary Ann and I keep you in our daily prayers, especially Timmy because he is up there with all those wacko Red Sox fans. Even Mary Ann thinks those people are crazy, and she is from Philly! Pete and Mary Ann
MessageBubba, I saw you walking today along Mountain Way with your family. I didn't pay much attention until I had passed you and realized that it was in fact you. God Bless you and your inspiration and witness to all of us here in Morris Plains. I saw Pete Horan a few hours later and told him I saw you and he couldn't believe it. He had to call Carrie and confirm it. Brian I hear so much about you from people all over this state. Seems as though everyone knows of your fight and is praying for you. God bless and know you are in my families prayers daily. Mark Karr
MessageBrian, I just got the update from Kelli while also getting an e-mail from Melissa Brophy regarding the 10/16 fundraiser. Sounds like you are on the upswing and most importantly in the comfort of your own home. Had a great time teaching your nephew T-Ball his summer at Community Park. It's amazing to see the energy these kids have. I was actually at Morristown High School this evening and was walking down the pathway from the senior lot flashing back on what a 4-year experience that was. I'll never forget my freshman year, scared out of mind that someone like Joey Infinito was going to catch me in the bathroom and make me do pushups. One learned quick to keep to themselves and not annoy the upper classman at any cost. One day I was walking to school and headed down that same path from the senior lot and saw you coming the other way. Knew who you were based on having grown up in Morristown and heard the success you had playing ball. As I walked by (with my head down) you simply said something like, "hey...all going good for you this week" obviously realizing that I was a 5'5" lost freshman. I quickly said "yea...thanks" all while trying to sound somewhat cool. While very simple it made the whole high school situation, at least for the day, seem less scary and that we weren't invisible as freshman. (Important Note: I still had to do push-up for Infinito along side my buddy Jeff Alleborn. At least I had company). Even after that day you still gave the quick "hey" and "hello" in the hallway leading up to the first freshman baseball practice when you and a few other seniors came to help us in the gym. We all crammed around the batting cage as you talked the basics of hitting. All mesmerized by your knowledge of the game. The other story worth noting was when my buddy Charlie Scherzer was dating your sister Carrie. I think it was when you were on home from break from your time at Georgia Tech. We were in the basement while you were upstairs with someone like McGrath playing pool. As I came up the stairs you asked if Charlie and I wanted to play a game of pool against the two of you. Not one to turn down a challenge I proceeded to rack, break and spill the beer I left on the edge of the table all over the felt. I darn near puked out of fear/embarrassment but you gave the quick, "no worries...simple accident...just get something quickly to clean it up". All with a slight smile obviously realizing that I was prepared to shrivel up in the corner but doing your best to make it a non-issue for me. If memory serves you fella's smoked us pretty bad that night. Why tell those two ridiculous and uneventful stories? They are the two I tell people that hear about your unfortunate illness through vehicles like the Star Ledger but don't know you as a person. While our interaction has been limited at best your reaction in those two brief meetings gave a clear picture of who you are as a person and the values that you live by. Always treating others the same way you would want to be treated. That is why I'm never shocked that you have an endless list of people looking to assist both you and your family. My wife Wendy and I will be there to help in anyway. Be good! Chris Johnson
MessageHey Coach. We lost a tough game to St. Benedict's today, 5-0. It wasn't really the outcome we were expecting, and everybody on the team is kind of shocked at how dominantly they played, especially after the close games the past two years. Hopefully a good week of practice will get us back on track and get us ready to pick up our conference schedule again next week and also the start of the county tournament on October 9th. Everybody on the team is wearing yellow sweatbands on our left arms with the number 18 written on them, so you're still a major part of our team even if you're not in school right now. Hope everything keeps going well, and I'm looking forward to your return home.
MessageDear Coach Fleury, like many others I have been following your progress on your website and praying for your recovery. You and your family are in our prayers. You are an inspiration to all of us. Jim, Angela, Vincent & John
MessageHi Brian (and Timmy and Jen) I just wanted to tell Timmy that my son Allie is envious of the helmets-wow, what a gallery! Who is his favorite team? My son's is the Packers-and he even got to fly out to Wisconsin to see them. Lucky boy! I like the Steelers-have you done their helmet yet? Brian, I am so glad to hear things are progressing smoothly. That makes my day. Best wishes to all of you, Sally
MessageCoach Fleury, You have been an incredible inspiration to me. Ever since I witnessed you coaching 3rd base while undergoing treatment you have given me a whole new perspective on life. I often think of you when times get difficult during my own journey. Good luck with your upcoming transplant, you deserve the best. Very respectfully, Gary "Skipper" Windt Midshipman 1/C US Naval Academy Morristown High Baseball Captain '01-'02
MessageHi Brian, I'm a former Livingston High School baseball coach. I coached and played for John Schmitt, I recently became an administrator in Sparta. I heard about your current situation through some coaches in the area. I just wanted to offer my prayers to you and your family, and wish you a speedy recovery. My faith taught me that we receive from God in the same measure we give to others. You must have some great things in store for you. I've heard and read many things about your committment to your family, job, and teams. Your in my thoughts and prayers. Dave
MessageBrian and Jen, We think of you often and always keep you in our prayers. Keep strong and your spirits high! Love, The O'Brien Family
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I just wanted to let you know that I wish you the best. I check in regularly to make sure everything is well. I'm at school and love it, but can't wait to come back for homecoming in just over a week. I love the pictures of you and timmy, there awesome. Sincerely, Hugh Fiddes
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I just wanted to let you know that I wish you the best. I check in regularly to make sure everything is well. I'm at school and love it, but can't wait to come back for homecoming in just over a week. I love the pictures of you and timmy, there awesome. Sincerely, Hugh Fiddes
MessageBrian- Glad to hear that things are progressing well. Like everyone around here I've been thinking about you quite often. Living on campus I get a first-hand glimpse of the investment banker-esque hours that Dano's been putting in to hold down the fort. It's been impressive to see everyone rally around him to keep things going around here. I've been thinking a lot lately about fishing with you, Jen, and Tim this summer. It was such a pleasure to have you guys on the water... without a doubt one of my best memories of the summer. I actually sold my boat last week in hopes of buying one that, well, floats a little more consistently. I'm already looking forward to getting you guys out for round 2 next year! I hope that everything continues to progress well for you. As always we'll be thinking of you and praying for your quick and healthy return. Take care Brian. -Joe
Messagehey coach, i heard that things were going very good and you were on scheduale. That is great news for everyone at delbarton to hear. Ill be seein you soon and good luck but i know you dont need it.
MessageDear Brian - It's funny (and I am aware of how odd it is to use this word in anything even remotely connected to what you are going through) but even though I have probably only met you a handful of times, I have always felt a strong and immediate connection to you. And now reading through your website, it has become apparent to me that I am perhaps not alone in this. You are just "that type of guy." So it is with this love and connection that I feel for you that I send my greatest blessings of strength and full recovery to you. You are truly a bright light. And the world needs bright lights. I will see you again soon. Until then... God Bless you and your family, Brian. Love, Glenn "Bergy" Berkenkamp PS Anything you or your boy needs from LA, please do not hesitate to ask.
MessageHi Brian! I just read your last update. I'm glad that you are still thinking positively, although I would expect nothing less from you. You are such an incredible role model! Since I have so much free time during my cervical spine surgery recovery, I started a website devoted to uplifting, life affirming stories. I hope you'll visit it if you ever need a 'lift'; and I REALLY hope that you can write a story that I can add to the site. Here's the address: jaibhakti.blogspot.com Love to you, and know that you continue to be an inspiration to me! Donna Brophy
MessageBrian.......I was just checking out your website and really notice a difference in Timmy....he is growing up and(unfortunately) losing that adorable baby face but turning into a handsome young guy..........that's an impressive mural of NFL helmets you guys are working on....as I mentioned to you our fall golf outing was a success and you were greatly missed at lunch and rolling in with the van and all the coaches for our reception a the end of the day....Danno and your guys covered very well for you.....you realy are like a favorte "brother" to all of those guys.....I wish you Jen and Timmy a nice day, coach......Larry
MessageBrian.......I was just checking out the photo gallery and really notice a differene in Timmy....he is growing up and (unfortunately)losing that adorable baby face but turning into a handsome young guy.........I know you have shared with me from time to time your unhappiness with the fact that Timmy has had to see you hurting and not feeling well......also take comfort knowing that you have been and are an "outstanding" dad to that precious "little guy" ........the quality time with him that you have made a priority from the day he was born......has and will serve him well.....Timmy could not have been blessed with a better mom or dad............by the way that is a very impressive mural of NFL helmets you guys are working on...................as I have mentioned to you the Delbarton Fall Golf Classic at Plainfield was a success and you were missed at lunch and rolling in with the van and all of your coaches for our reception at the end of the day.....Danno and your guys covered very well for you......in addition to being their boss.....you are like a "favorite" brother to all of those guys.......I wish you, Jen and Timmy a nice day, coach.......Larry
MessageBrian, I just read your news page and are glad to hear about you and your family. You are in all of our hearts at West Milford and we know you will persevere. Dad says hello and is looking forward to debating the strike zone with you and Shatel someday soon. Good luck to you and Jen with your future procedures and I look forward to speaking with you. Sincerely, Joe Trentacosta
MessageHi Brian and Jen - Just thinking of you all - Our prayers are with you - Fondly - Marty and Marilyn Reilly
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, i hope your doing ok, i remember when i used to live behind you and i would always go over and bother bubba and chet, those were good times. Anyway i hope you have a great year and i will see you at homeoming. My prayers are with you and your family
MessageHey Coach. I just read Fr. Luke's speach and Dan DeGeorge's essay and they hit the nail on the head. Your ability to inspire transcends baseball fields and English classes. You have made everyday life your classroom. Your devotion, warmth, and indomitable strength in the face of tremendous obstacles has been an awe-inspiring lesson for so many. I'm glad to hear you hit Dr. Ho's benchmark with a head of steam. And I'm sure you are as excited as I am, being in the Boston area, that the Red Sox have a very legitimate shot at watching the playoffs from home. God bless you, Mrs. Fleury, and Timmy, and I hope you have a good day. -Mike Riordan
MessageBrian, Just wanted to let you know that I finished the Toronto marathon! I just missed my goal of breaking four hours - 4 hours, 3 minutes and 35 seconds. But I was able to raise close to $2500 for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society with some more donations still coming in. I send my best wishes for continued success in your recovery. I am leaving Caldwell as of tomorrow, 9/30, to be the AD up at Westwood in Bergen County. I am glad that I have had the opportunity to work with you the last year. You have definitely inspired me to do many things in my personal and professional life including run a marathon. I also know that running a marathon cannot compare to the obstacles that you have overcome and will continue to overcome. I look forward to seeing you at the DAANJ convention and at other events in the years to come. Stay strong and God bless. David Doty
MessageBrian - Marty just told me that he saw you walking the other day with Jen and Timmy. That is such great news that you came home for a bit - keep up the good work - you are a strong person - Fondly Marty and Marilyn Reilly
MessageBrian Just a note to say Hi. I am sure being home has brightened your days a bit. We think and pray for you often. Love to Jen and Timmy - Be well, stay strong. The Honicky Family
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I heard you were home and wanted to wish you the best. We all miss you and pray for you daily. Can't wait to see you again. -Pat Pirozzi
Messagehope you feel better
Message"Bubba-Brian" Seems like just yesterday you were sitting next to me in Brother Malachy's History class my freshman year at Delbarton, where you were a visiting 8th grader and I had one job to do - to recruit you to Del...well we all know the result - although we made it the County Final vs Mo-Town in '85 (where an All-State catcher threw out a skinny infielder from the Borough twice attempting to steal - both times the ball was waiting there at second base before I was able to even get into my slide...) Del's baseball program was no-where near the program it is today, thanks to a coach named Fleury! Believe it or not Bubba, almost 20 years after your first visit to Del, I was given another shot at recruiting - this time w/ my brother Brian (swimmer), and again was not able to close the deal - Brian went on to Seton Hall (boo...). con't
Message2 of 3 Bubba - As I think you know, we have six kids out here in Chicago...and our oldest two are boys (Andrew and Sam)and they are in 8th and 6th grade. Probably because of their ages - and their activities (sports, sleepovers, etc) I regularly think about our time together during those years and what is was like trading sleepovers - playing nerf hoops in your kitchen, wrestling w/ Barney, playing 'knee football' downstairs in your basement or upstairs in the family room, staying up late watching HBO or playing Intellivision football, telling each other which of the 6th-8th grade girls we had the hots for...those were the days...of course you beat me in everything - especially w/ the 6th-8-th grade girls! (it was nice that though when you'd bring over Mike Gentile once in while - or Dwight - and then I could win something for a change)...do you remember the night I was sleep walking into your parents room? Do you remember the night I ate too much ice cream and puked all over your downstairs bathroom? do you remember the night when we picked NBA basketball players that most resembled our dads (if you do then tell me who we picked - I still remember...).
MessageBubba 3 of 3. Back to the point about how you beat me at everything (which was true...and rarely was anything ever close...), you rose to 'legend status' a long time ago. And you continue your 'legend status' even through to today - what you've accomplished in sports, in academics, w/ your family, at Delbarton, and in your long battles...Bubba I describe you to my kids all the time - and they truly believe in 'Bubba, the legend'! We cut out the article from Delbarton Today where you entered the Del Hall of Fame, and in the article you were referenced as one of the top baseball players in NJ history! We pray for you here in Chicago Bubba, and we know you will pull through - as you always do! Just one thing - you must get Timmy out of the BoSox garb right away - we have some real work to do this weekend, and we need Timmy in pinstripes!
MessageBubba 3 of 3. Back to the point about how you beat me at everything (which was true...and rarely was anything ever close...), you rose to 'legend status' a long time ago. And you continue your 'legend status' even through to today - what you've accomplished in sports, in academics, w/ your family, at Delbarton, and in your long battles...Bubba I describe you to my kids all the time - and they truly believe in 'Bubba, the legend'! We cut out the article from Delbarton Today where you entered the Del Hall of Fame, and in the article you were referenced as one of the top baseball players in NJ history! We pray for you here in Chicago Bubba, and we know you will pull through - as you always do! Just one thing - you must get Timmy out of the BoSox garb right away - we have some real work to do this weekend, and we need Timmy in pinstripes!
MessageCoach- Its great to hear that your back home. We can't wait to see you back at Delbarton. We will continue to pray for you. Frankie Hager
MessageWelcome home Brian! I'm sure that your walk this morning was just great. That briskness in the air must have felt super.We miss you! The Leanos'
Messagewelcome back to New Jersey, what good news. I hope you get to enjoy the beautiful fall days that are ahead. We are all rooting for you and your family. Love, The Murphys.
MessageWELCOME HOME Brian, Jen & Timmy!!!! Glad to hear that you got a few weeks of reprieve and that you continue to stay in good spirits. We love you and are praying for you as always. Is it good or bad that you have left Boston just before "the" series??
MessageBrian - You don't know me, but I work with your Dad and have for around 9 years or so. I live in Atlanta, so I don't get to see him very much, but he is one of my favorite people! He is a great boss and I will miss working with him (I'm sure you're aware the Atlanta region was just sold). He has kept us up to date on your condition, and I just wanted to say what an inspiration you are to so many people, even those that you don't know. I don't know of anyone that has handled such a debilitating disease with such grace and determination. You and your Dad must be very much alike. I see those same qualities in him. I would hope to be like both of you in similar situations. Just know that lots of prayers are being said for you & your family here in Atlanta. You guys are never far from our thoughts. Nell Willis P.S. I'm keeping watch on Notre Dame and your former coach, Charlie Weiss. They're doing great so far! Love the helmet & uniform mural!!
MessageHey Mr.Fleury, im a freshman at Delbarton.I hope you feel better soon.
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: I have been e-mailing you of late but I thought I should post here again. Great to hear you are home and with your family. Great news Brian. Hang in there. Everything will work out. With so many people pulling for you and praying for you it has to. Things at Delbarton are good. It is hard to believe the fall midterm is around the corner. Where does the time go? My classe are going well. I am trying to put together a history writing guide, much of it is based on your guide. Barnacle is going to look at it and give me some feedback. In a word, he is the man! I have had three kids drop out this year which is unusual. Otherwise, great kids in class. Frosh soccer is now 4-0-2. YOu lined up another great game for us with Clifton. We beat them 1-0 in a tough, scrappy, physical, well played game. Our JV also only beat them 3-2. Great program they have. I hope we play them again. They are going to invite us to a frosh tournie next year. SPeaking of tournies, we are in the frosh and Jv tournies now. They start on Sunday. We shall see if all three levels can sweep the field! NO wonder some of the AD's want us out! Julie and Mackenzie are doing well. I had a lesson not show up today so I am dropping you a line before I go back and finish my six hours of lessons. Then home to dinner with the family. Can't wait. Mackenzie really looks like her Dad right now (poor kid). I took care of her this morning while Julie was at the gym. It went well. Well, I have to go back and do my last lesson of the day. I hope you are doing well. I am sure it is stressful at times but always remember you have literally thousands of people pulling for you. Take care chief. JT FRED KENDALL, CHRIS CANNIZARO, MIKE IVIE
MessageBrian, Glad to hear the good news that you were back in Morris Plasins. After the stroke I was in the hospitals for about 9 weeks. I know what it's like to finally sleep in your own bed again. We'll keep praying for all of you and hope that your progress to good health is smooth and rapid. ND has two home games in Sept of 06. I'm sure Charlie could get you some good seats. JK
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Well an average day for Boston fans. While Sox got in they didn't get in as divisional champs. I was confused at first because initially people said if they won two out of three there would be a one game playoff. I even told Julie's grandmother the news must be wrong on the TV about Yanks as champs. But people failed to mention that their had to be a tie with Indians as well for the one game playoff. It is just as well. One game playoffs takes me back to that traumatic moment in my childhood when we ran home to watch the one game playoff between the Yankees and Red Sox (when play off games were actually during the day instead of at midnight!) and saw Bucky Dent rip out the hearts of Red SOx nation with a home run. That guy is still living off that one HR to this day. So, we will take the wild card scenario. MY brother was at the last Indians game. Ever been to Jacobs field? I went there with my brother. It is pretty cool park actually. If I moved to Cleveland (though why would I?) I could become an INdians fan but you can't move to Jersey/New York area and become a Yankees fan. You know that. Then the Pats got spanked by Chargers at home ending streak of home victories. Oh well. Pats have too many injuries on Defense. Though they made up for injuries last year without Bruschi and Harrison they are in trouble. We shall see. IT is still early but they have some big holes. I think that this also shows that Steelers are overrated. At least Pats aren't as bad off as your Jets!! Put Vinny in baby. No game today. Just practice. We have games Thursday and Friday and then I think Sunday for counties. We were just giving Don MacDonald a hard time for coaching girls tennis over at Far Hills. The AD called me about a coach and I recommended Don and Delbarton gave the OK. Don says it is quite a different world coaching girls middle school tennis but he seems to be enjoying it. For the first time in 16 years I am not playing faculty hoops! Maybe I will make an appearance but it is tough. Now I know why all the guys who had kids couldn't make it! YOu are either working or helping out at home. Mackenzie is doing well. She and I played last night for an hour until she wanted her Mom again. Julie's Mom came over and helped out last night. We are getting a lot of help which is great. I hope you are feeling good today and get a chance to get outside. It is another gorgeous day. Take care chief. You are the man. JT JEFF TORBORG (SORRY, ONLY ONE CATCHER FROM NOW ON!)
MessageHey Jen & Brian - It's Kevin's sister. I just took a look at your website and am so happy to hear that you are back home (if only for a short visit). You must all be so happy to be in familiar surroundings. Brian I'm happy to see that things have been going well for you. I am also quite impressed with your artistic abilities - who knew you were such a master with a crayon!! Keep your spirits up and feel well. We'll be thinking of you! And Jen....crafting is my life!! Tee-hee Love, Kim
MessageBrian and family: I hope you are feeling ok and hanging in there. I have been following your progress and wish you the best. Stay strong and remain positive and good things will happen. I am reading a great book called "No Excuses" and thought of you. You are a true inspiration for so many people and I wish you strength through this process. Your friend, Dennis McCaffery
MessageBrian, Jen, and Timmy, So glad to hear you are home. What better medicine than to be in your own bed and familiar surroundings. Even though you need to return to Boston soon, the trip back home must feel so good. Bri-I am glad things are progressing and that you continue to make the medical strides. Keep up your positive attitude and enjoy your familiar surroundings with Jen and Timmy. Jen-Hope you are doing well and know that I think about you often and pray for you also to stay strong. We will continue to pray and are so happy that you are home and are doing so well. Love, Karen, Jonathan, Morgan, and Ryan
MessageHey Brian! What fabulous news! You must be thrilled to be home, as well as Jen and Timmy. Great story about him quickly hitting slap shots and whiffle balls.., kids are great aren't they? So reilient...let's just play another game. BTW, I agree with you on the NFL helmets...they are trying way too hard! I was wondering if you got a chance to read Armstrong's War yet? Sounds like your treatment is going well, save for the one scare you had...Full receovery is right around the corner now, so hang in there and keep fighting. I and everyone in the Fuller family pray for you and yours evcery day, and we will also keep your donor in our prayers as well. FYI, Brian's Aunt left Kessler last week and came home, still in a wheel chair, but also walking with a walker (baby steps), and they say that over time she may just get back 100% of her feeling and motor skills in her legs. But like you, she is thrilled just to be home. I am anxious to see you, and your infectious smile...let me know when you can have visiotrs...we'll come by wiht some grub and beers!!! Best, Tom and the Fuller Family
MessageHey Coach, I hope things are going well for you. I'm always thinking of you. I can't tell you how much of an inspiration you are to me. I can't tell you enough coach. You are incredible! My family is praying for you. I hope things are going smoothly. We all miss you. I'm so glad to hear that you are back home and doing well. Hopefully I'll get to talk to you soon.
MessageBrian..... I just wanted to let you know that i am thinking about you and know that you will pull through. my cousin, christopher verrone, told me about what you were goimg through and i wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and I know that you will prevail. all the best to you and enjoy the playoffs.....although dealing with those boston fans can be painful. hang in there!!! Jb
MessageHi Jen and Brian - Although it's been a while since I have been in touch, you are in my thoughts and prayers regularly. The love and courage you exude are truly remarkable! Please feel free to call/email if you need anything up in Boston. I'm here! Lots of love to you and Timmy!
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I'm glad to hear that things are going well and that you and your family had the chance to come home for a bit. Keep up the good work and me and my family's thoughts are prayers are with you.
MessageBrian - We've never met, but I've known about you for what seems like forever. I know your mom from Dr. Bippart's office and had a bone marrow transplant on the same day as you back in Jan. 1994. My sister, Kim, is the florist at the ShopRite in Morris Plains and she frequently sees your mom and gets updates. I also think you know my brother, Keith DePugh. I just wanted to let you know that you are always in my prayers, as well as my family's prayers and my heart goes out to you. You are a constant source of strength to those around you and those you have never even met. I wish you the best with your new transplant and hope that it finally leads you down the path to a clean bill of health. May God bless you!! - Maureen
MessageBri, Just wanted to say "hello." We are all getting ready for homecoming. While it may rain, I suspect we'll play unless we get thunder and lightening. Soccer is doing very well, ranked 3rd in the county tournament, and football has great cohesion, the best I've seen in years, and will go far. I say Mass every Sunday in Bergen County at a parish where all the BC and St. Joe's coaches go. St. Joe's scouts have scouted every game we've played, and are worried. We have so much depth! In the meantime, we are all saddened by Max Dorne's and Cam Seligmann's injuries. Also, today Willie Jollie spoke to the kids for 1 1/2 hours - spectacular motivational speaker - many of the seniors feld he was the most moving and life changing of all the great speakers we've had at the Del since they entered. I know you do not need to hear this, but we are all thinking of you and praying for you. As you must know, the entire School comes together and prays for you every week without fail, at Luke's insistence. And, listen, how about that book - I'm sure you are very often distracted, but when you feel well and comfortable, keep writing. Finally, based on your much appreciated "updates," it sounds like you are heading for second, or are rounding second heading for third, on what will be an inside the park home run. All the best. We are all there with you. Giles
MessageHey Coach Fleury- here I am on tonight typing a paper for Mr. Puchniak and I decided to stall a little bit by checking out your website...it was probably the best decision I made all day. There are so many people that are supportive of you that it took almost half an hour to even skim most of them. I have come to the realization of how many people you have touched in the past. As I enter my third year at Delbarton as a freshman, Ive come to see who the real heroes are at the school. You are definately one of those people. There is no other person at Delbarton that is more insperational than you, Coach Fleury. As a middle schooler in my first two years I haven't had the privelege of having you as a coach or teacher. I pray every day that you will able to return to the school, so that you will be able to inspire not just the Delbarton students of the past, but the Delbarton students of the future. I am so thankful I go to a school like Delbarton where there are people like you that are associated with it. I wish you good luck with your recovery and I can't wait to see you when you return. God bless, AJ Briand '09
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hope you are doing well today Brian! We walked by your house two days ago. Our thoughts are with you. Delbarton did something you would really appreciate the other day. They had an assembly to say thanks and goodbye to Michelle from the cafeteria. It was really a special moment. SHe was very moved. I know that you always reminded us to thank those members of the "staff" who get things done behind the scenes and to make sure our students treat them with the respect they deserve. It was really one of the best moments at Delbarton that I have seen. Tonight we have CPR training! We shall see who fails the test this year. I am betting on Kovachik. We play Montville tomorrow and Pingry on Friday. No game over homecoming weekend. Unfortunately it may rain and it will be cold this weekend but hopefully that doesn't dampen the festivities. We have a party to go to on both Saturday and Sunday. Dave Donovan has set up a new program where the assistant coaches switch levels on a given day. Jake Ross and OD came to my practice yesterday while Eddie went to Middle School. Jake had some great stuff for us and it was really a great idea. Kids really responded well to having a varsity assistant at our practice. Last night we went shopping. I walked Mackenzie up and down the walkway at the new mall on Route ten while Julie got some quick shopping in. Mackenzie loved it. We are trying to figure out different things to do to keep her busy and happy. It is a full time job! She is definitely a Mama's girl. I have to get back to work now. Never enough time in the day to get stuff done. I hope you are doing well. Hang in there chief. I am sure you are upset about the White Sox hammering the Red Sox last night. Take care. JT JERRY GROTE
MessageHey Brian, I'm just doing a quick drive-by to say hello. That's fabulous that you're able to spend some time back at the house, there truly is no place like home. As always you are in our thoughts and our prayers daily. Terry
MessageBrian, I am always aware of what is happening in your life at Delbarton. As you know, I keep in touch with Dennis Anderson and he updates me on a regular basis. I hope that you are doing well and I will be looking at the papers for the results of Delbarton baseball action. Rick
MessageDear Brian, Jennifer, and Timmy, Our prayers are with you guys! Keep us posted on the prognosis! God is with you! love, Sue & Graham
MessageHey Coach Fleury,I just wanted to wish you luck on a speedy recovery. You have been in my thoughts and prayers through these past few months, and the whole school can't wait for you to come back. Good luck and thanks for all your hard work and dedication that goes toward making this school such a great place. Sincerely, Alex Benz
MessageDear Coach: Hope all is well. I am getting ready to go to CPR. Forty people signed up! I guess I will feel safe around Delbarton now. We just scrimmaged JV in practice. They got their revenge and beat us 4-1. We played all our guys and they put the pedal to the metal and went with their starters the whole way and crushed us. So, now we are even. When we get our sweeper and captain back it is another story baby. I am hoping for a free dinner at the CPR session. I am starved. Hopefully my SOx can bounce back tonight. I got a lot of crap from kids today but hey, they are Yankee fans, nuff said. How long are you at home? Enjoy. I am right around the corner if you need any help with house or lawn or if you need baby sitter for Tim. Take care chief. JT
MessageCoach Flur: El cuerpo here, I ve been checking in with the website every couple days. Awesome to read that things have been going in an upwards direction for you. I keep you and your famimily in my thoughts and prayers every week at mass and I am confident that you will bounce back as you always do. Please give my regards to Mrs. Fleury as well. Keep truckin. SIncerely, El Cuerpo
MessageJust a quick note to say I'm thinking of you and to send my very best to you and your family. Take care and I will see you soon.
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope you are still at home and enjoying yourself. We have had a nice stretch of weather so hopefully you get to get outside once in awhile. Feel better and hang in there! We beat Montville today 5-0. They are the third seed in the Frosh tournie and we are the 4th. So, I guess the seeding was wrong! We played well, got a shutout, all 27 kids played, and we didn't get any cards. That is the measure of success at this level. Kids have been great. We have about five kids who can make the varsity next year. Varsity beat Montville 2-0. They got hosed at seeding mtg for counties but what is new. They play this Sunday I believe against Whippany Park. I am giving my third test of the year tomorrow. I can't believe the fall midterm is almost here. Scary. When you measure time by school year it really flies. Julie's step mother is baby sitting now so I will head home in a bit. Just gave a lesson until it got dark. I don't like when it gets dark this early. Well, I should finish copying tests and head home to see the family. Just wanted to drop you a line and say hello. We are all thinking about you. Ed Kim spoke about you at the last assembly and Dave Weinstein and Mark Van Orden are helping to organzie the car wash in your honor. I will take both cars over there! Take care chief. JT ELLIE HENDRICKS
MessageGlad to hear that you're back home for a spell. As unimaginably difficult as your battle has been, your will to endure and prevail continues to inspire us. Your messages sound positive and I am encouraged that each small, laborious step is in the right direction and on the path to a cure. Know that, through our thoughts and prayers, we walk with you, Jen and Timmy on that path.
MessageBrian; Hope all is well with you and your family. Tell Timmy the Red Sox have the White Sox right where they want them down 2-0. Homecoming is this Saturday against Caldwell. They are calling for Rain, but it still will be an amazing day like it always is. The football team looks like a strong unit, they are a team of unity and has lots of talent. I am happy you and your famiy had a chance to come home and enjoy the little things in life that people take for granted, like a backyard or just sitting in your own living room watching a baseball or football game. Our prays our with you each day, stay focused and keep the positive thoughts. We will miss you at Homecoming. Sincerely Rich Conforti
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hope all is well today on this rainy dreary day. I hope this note finds you in good spirits and in good health. Last night our dog was in obvious pain and discomfort. We looked at his tail and he had either a cut or sore or something there so I drove him over to the emergency vet hospital on Rt. 10. They took him back in the operating room to look at him. They brought him out later and they had shaved off his entire tail to get at a hot spot there to allow it to heal. The only problem is that tail probably won't grow back! The poor dog is running around with a pig tail. It is sad! I wish I had waited to go to our regular vet over on 53. We play the Pingoes today. It is always good to beat the Pingoes. They are usually pretty good on the Frosh level so it should be a real test. We are still without the services of our starting sweeper but we have had guys step up and fill in whenever we have had someone missing from the lineup. I just hope we get the game in today before it pours. I don't know if forecast is too good for tomorrow's homecoming. We shall see. Well, as we speak it is starting to pour. Luckily the game is up to us today so hopefully we won't cancel because of some rain! I have to get back to work and proctoring my lunch block test. Take care chief. All our best to you guys! JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageHi Coach Fleury, I hope everything is going well for you. I hope you can see the light at the end of the tunnel becoming brighter every day. You are in our daily thoughts and prayers. See you soon, Carol McMahon
MessageHey Coach Fleury. I am a freshman here at Delbarton School. After reading this website, which took almost an hour to get half way, I realize how important you are to the whole Delbarton program. I hope to one day be able to brag that you are my coach for baseball. You are in my prayers. Stay strong. God Bless. Jack Reynolds
MessageAs always Brian, if you need anything done at or around your house please call or email. I know you have a lot of support, but sometimes it is nice to spread out your help. Mike
MessageDear Brian~Not a day passes that you aren't in our thoughts and prayers. We miss your smile and presence around campus. Hugs and love to you and your family~all the Toia family
MessageI think if Tim thinks he can jump that high, he probably can(at least in his mind), after all he is your son!!! You remain an inspiration to all of us. We keep praying for you and your donor, The Nolle family (Paul 2010)
MessageHey Brian, Just reaching out to you, Jen, and Timmy on Homecoming--your day. We'll be thinking of you. Stay well!
MessageBrian,Jen and Timmy, It was great to see you on friday!!!!! I just sat down to read your news on this rainy dreary saturday. I just started to laugh so hard when I read your conversation with Timmy.My kids had to come in to see what was so funny!Thank God for Marfa! Thanks for the laugh. My prayers are with you and your donor.Love Anne(McEntee)
MessageBrian,Jen and Timmy, It was great to see you on friday!!!!! I just sat down to read your news on this rainy dreary saturday. I just started to laugh so hard when I read your conversation with Timmy.My kids had to come in to see what was so funny!Thank God for Marfa! Thanks for the laugh. My prayers are with you and your donor.Love Anne(McEntee)
MessageBrian,Jen and Timmy, It was great to see you on friday!!!!! I just sat down to read your news on this rainy dreary saturday. I just started to laugh so hard when I read your conversation with Timmy.My kids had to come in to see what was so funny!Thank God for Marfa! Thanks for the laugh. My prayers are with you and your donor.Love Anne(McEntee)
MessageBrian,Jen and Timmy, It was great to see you on friday!!!!! I just sat down to read your news on this rainy dreary saturday. I just started to laugh so hard when I read your conversation with Timmy.My kids had to come in to see what was so funny!Thank God for Marfa! Thanks for the laugh. My prayers are with you and your donor.Love Anne(McEntee)
MessageBrian,Jen and Timmy, It was great to see you on friday!!!!! I just sat down to read your news on this rainy dreary saturday. I just started to laugh so hard when I read your conversation with Timmy.My kids had to come in to see what was so funny!Thank God for Marfa! Thanks for the laugh. My prayers are with you and your donor.Love Anne(McEntee)
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MessageBrian,Jen and Timmy, It was great to see you on friday!!!!! I just sat down to read your news on this rainy dreary saturday. I just started to laugh so hard when I read your conversation with Timmy.My kids had to come in to see what was so funny!Thank God for Marfa! Thanks for the laugh. My prayers are with you and your donor.Love Anne(McEntee)
MessageBrian,Jen and Timmy, It was great to see you on friday!!!!! I just sat down to read your news on this rainy dreary saturday. I just started to laugh so hard when I read your conversation with Timmy.My kids had to come in to see what was so funny!Thank God for Marfa! Thanks for the laugh. My prayers are with you and your donor.Love Anne(McEntee)
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MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, It was wonderful to see you guys on friday!! I just sat down to read your news and I started laughing so hard the boys had to come in to see what was going on.Your conversation with Timmy was priceless.Thank God for Marfa! Thanks for the laugh.You are all always in my thoughts and prayers.Love Anne
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, It was wonderful to see you on Friday!!! I just sat down to read your news and I started to laugh so hard the boys had to come in to see what was going on. Your conversation with Timmy was priceless.Thank God for Marfa!!! Thanks for the laugh.You are all in my thoughts and prayers.Love,Anne
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, It was wonderful to see you on Friday!!! I just sat down to read your news and I started to laugh so hard the boys had to come in to see what was going on. Your conversation with Timmy was priceless.Thank God for Marfa!!! Thanks for the laugh.You are all in my thoughts and prayers.Love,Anne
MessageHi Brian, It's so good to know you are home, at least for awhile. There is not a day that goes by at Delbarton that we are not thinking of you and praying for your speedy return. The school just isn't the same without you. It sounds like Timmy is keeping your spirits up--isn't it amazing how wonderful children can be. What a blessing. We continue to pray for you--and your most generous and wonderful donor--and WE MISS YOU! Love, Shelly
MessageHye Guys, I am so sorry about the last hundred messages you got!!! My computer was stuck and I kept pressing submit. Don't tell Joe and Maureen they will deny knowing me!XOXO Anne
MessageHey Mr. Fleury- I just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers. All my best, Griffin Gannon
MessageBrian, Jen, & Timmy- We are glad to hear you are spending some time back in Morris Plains, and enjoying the comfort of your own home- especially the beauty of fall, none of which we have on the west coast. I absolutely loved your conversation with Tim- the patience, caring and nuturing he is learning from you and Jen are qualities that many of us don't have. Taking a moment to truly see things through our childrens eyes is sometimes hard to do, but you are both obviously doing a fine job. Tim is lucky to have you as parents, and I know Brian, you learned from the best too! Take care-your families, and donor are in our prayers. Chris, Kelly, Katie, Christopher & Kevin
Messagehey mr. fleury, hope everything is going well for you. Homecoming was fun today, however, not the best. It was quite cold and rainy, though the energy that surrounds the delabrton spectators can do none other than overwhelm. BBest wishes, rob
Messagehey mr. fleury, hope everything is going well for you. Homecoming was fun today, however, not the best. It was quite cold and rainy, though the energy that surrounds the delabrton spectators can do none other than overwhelm. BBest wishes, rob
MessageBrian, I went to homecoming today and I just wanted to let you know that you would have been very proud of how great everything was. Neither rain, mud, wind or construction could dampen the spirit or love of the Delbarton community. I enjoyed your recent post about the coversation with Timmy , especially the Marfa part.I happened to catch the MArtha Stewart show the day we had off for construction, maybe Jen caught that episode. She invited everyone with the same name as hers to come and be part of the show or the audience. I wonder what it would be like to round up all the Brian Fleury's we could find. I pray for your family and your donor daily and I also pray that more people will come forward and register to be donors. Well gotta go build the ark now....Love to the three of you, Kelly
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MessageBrian, Jen, & Timmy- I'm glad to hear things are going well and that you are all back in good old Morris Plains. I think of you often and do my best to keep updated between the site and conversations with my dad. I hear Homecoming was a big success despite the rain. Many people at the high school and around town constantly ask of you and want you to know that MHS is behind you all down this long road. Hopefully you are enjoying this pretty time of year, and I'm sure Timmy is carefully planning his Halloween costume. For us foolish faithful ones, make him a Met; someday they will again be the team everyone cheers for. Until then, I keep my faith in all of you. Godspeed. Katy
MessageHi Brian, Jen and Timmy! We are so glad you are all home even if its only for a short time - I am sure that it is a welcome return! Jen it was so great to see you out in the yard....as always, you've got the nicest yard on the block! Rob, the kids and I have thought of all of you so often and said prayers daily for you. We have been keeping up to date on your progress with Carrie and Pete and hope you know that we are available to all of you for anything....please don't ever hesitate to have Carrie ask if you need our help! As always, we will be praying for the love, strength and laughter that will help you all get through yet another bump in the road. Sending lots of love and many prayers! The Kellers - Kathy, Rob, Robert, Brian, Shannon and Jack - give us a call if you need anything - 973-267-3853 -
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy- It's great to see you in the yard and walking around Morris Plains. I hope it won't be long until you are able to have your friends and family over to just hang out and not worry about anything. I know that means alot to you guys. The other day, Sean saw Timmy out in the yard and wanted to show him his new "Bionicle" toy (don't ask!) ...but I explained to him he would have to wait a little while. Maybe, someday soon, we can get a little "Franklin Place" baseball team together..of course, Timmy would be the Captain!! Our blessings are still with you and your donor. Take Care! Chrissy, Larry, Sean and Julia Hoey p.s. I think Martha Stewart better watch her back!!
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MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy: Just read your latest update. So glad you are enjoying your time at home. Sounds like you and Timmy have lots of fun together. That is so great and important. Ride by every so often and so glad you can be at your beautiful home for awhile. Jen has such a great job of decorating as usual. Hi Jen. Keep all of you and your donor in our prayers. Keep up the tough fight. Remember, my favorite saying is "Yu can sink or swim" and we know you are and always have been a great swimmer. Fondly - Marty and Marilyn Reilly
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MessageIt is an honor to have you as a neighbor and friend... there isn't a day that goes by w/o thoughts of "The Fleurys"... we love you, Jen and Timmy, as always we are only a "jump over the fence away" much love, Nicole- Scot and kids
MessageHi Coach Fleury, I'm thrilled to hear that everything seems to be going according to plan and that you got to come home and enjoy some of the fall in NJ. Keep fighting. - Kevin
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MessageBrian: Just in case you might want a break from daytime TV and might be interested in some news about one of your former players, I'll give you an update on Erik. He has started 8 of the 10 games that Yale has played so far this year. He was playing well until recently when an off game resulted in a 2 game sit-down. He was back in the lineup this past Saturday but they have three good keepers and anything can happen so he just takes it day-to-day. All keepers have off-days and there is so much competition that you have to expect to share the job to some extent. He recently admitted that missing out on his senior year of baseball was a mistake and he regrets it now, although he also believes that the soccer experiences he had that spring probably did help him prepare for college soccer. Well, I'll cut it short here but I look forward to seeing you sometime soon when you are strong enough to be in public circulation. Take care and say hello to Jen for me. And enjoy that Timmy. He sounds like a pistol. I remember those days. In fact, I am going to e-mail you a picture of me and Erik that was taken when he was about 2 or so. I'll send it to your work e-mail. Its funny because I was icing my knee after running and he came in and started to imitate me. He's been icing his knees ever since. See you soon. Glenn
MessageCoach, just found out about this website over the weekend and have spent the last few hours on it getting all caught up on your situation. I am not at all surprised about the kind comments and support from everyone, as you always seem to leave a positive impression on people. I am watching the Yankees as I type this and I hope you are doing the same. It’s been a tough one, thus far, but I’m pretty sure they’re going to pull it off. I’m thinking the Yanks could really use my blazing speed as a replacement for Tony Womack later on in the game (unfortunately, from the looks of it, I think Timmy might relate better to the analogy of Brian Roberts from the Red Sox last year). Speaking of blazing speed, I actually ran into Jermaine last weekend, which was a pleasant surprise. Haven’t seen him in years but seems like he is doing really well. Keep the pictures coming. That Miami t-shirt is a great one. I actually laughed when I saw it b/c it reminded me of the time we went to the Miami baseball game and had the wonderful opportunity to “meet the team” in the locker room afterwards. I heard that was Taro’s favorite part of the season (Sorry, Taro). Hope I got a smile out of you….you certainly provided us with a fair share of those. On a more serious note, keep battling and you will come out on top. You are one of the greatest men I have ever met--a true gladiator and a role model if there ever was one. I look forward to seeing you and the team on the diamond this spring. Best Wishes, Bic P.S. What kind of crazy uniforms does the team have now? Please tell me you still have the green mesh jerseys and black hats…..man, did we look awesome in those!
MessageBrian, Leave it to a sports writer to be one of the last people to learn about this website. It's about time you find out about a story I've never got around to telling you. Back in the summer/fall of '97, when I was first diagnosed with the Crohn's and had my 10-day hospital stay and almost two months away from the office, all of my doctors and the various nurses and technicians were impressed with my attitude to the point where when I was hospitalized, I was apparently the patient of choice on my floor. The secret to it all back then and in the years since was that I had you as a role model. Knowing not just what you've faced, but the way you've faced it, has given me all the perspective that I need for my situation, as well as the required mindset to deal with everything else along the way. You've been in my thoughts and prayers every day. And now that I've learned of your website, keep going with those updates. They're very entertaining! All the best to you and the entire family, Sean
MessageCoach Fleury, I hope you are doing well and I wanted to let you know that you are always in my family's thoughts and prayers. I glad to hear that you are back at home and hope for your safe return to us soon. Stay well-- Alex Thew
MessageHi, Brian...... You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers continually......I just wanted to take a quick moment to say "hello"......keep fighting the fight.....you have a phenominal amount of friends behind you!!! Your friend, Peter Peter J. Laverty 25 Hickory Place K-26 Chatham, NJ 07928 973-236-0072 (H) 908-930-4360 (C)
MessageHey Coach, I hope your doing better. I wanted you to know that you, Jen and Timmy are in my thoughts in prayers. I hope to see you very soon! Dave Tully
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy: We know how excited you all must be to be in your home and I am sure the dogs are at least that excited, if not more! Heck, they played with me for a half hour when we dropped something off before your arrival and they had never seen me before! So I can only imagine what they did to Timmy. Your messages lift all of our spirits and I hope you don't mind getting ours either. Somehow we all feel better. Just keep getting your strength back and follow the doctor's orders and the good lord will do the rest. Certainly we remind Him about it enough. All the best. John and Anne
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MessageHi Brian, So enjoyed reading your last posting of the conversation between you and Timmy. Very cute. Similar to a conversation Mr. B and I were having during the Yankee game last night. I still can’t get it all straight. I was just getting interested and the Yankees lost. Oh, well, maybe next year. Seriously, we think and speak of you often, Brian, and you are in our daily prayers. Best regards to all.
Messagehey Mr. Fleury! Just wanted to let you know that your in me and my family's prayers. Get better soon so we can see you around delbarton.
MessageHi Brian, I just read your update and your conversation with Timmy. Made me smile! Thank you. I also am reflecting on the praying mantis that was on my window at Delbarton this evening before I left the school. and I was feeling blessed just to see it looking in on the school. You are so right about patience-- it really helps to stay in the moment so one can enjoy exactly where they are. Keep those updates coming, and I keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. I downloaded your photos so I have a visual reminder as well. Blessings and love, Barbara
MessageCoach: Just wanted to drop you a quick email and say hello. HomeComing was kind of wet, as you can imagine. The boys went on to beat Caldwell 34-7, Chris McBride took the opening kickoff back for a TD, team looks great and have a big game Saturday against Poly. Its there Homecoming, I feel confident we will come away with another victory. Probably will put the Green Wave in the top 20. This is going to be the year we reach the state finals. Hope all is well with you and your family. Hopefully your days are becoming more and more brighter on your road to recovery. I know next year you will bring sunshine to Delbartons HomeComing. Keep smiling and keep those postive thoughts. Sincerely Rich Conforti
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys! Sorry I havent been in touch of late. We had the long weekend and we don't have an e-mail account at home. Hope this message finds you in good spirits and good health. Glad to hear you are still home and that you are able to go for walks in Morris Plains! Great stuff! Homecoming weekend was a monsoon! We decided not to go with Mackenzie in the rain and we stayed home with her and got a lot done around the house. Still trying to finish many house projects. Slowly but surely things are falling into place. No reason to get stressed about it! We went to surprise birthday party for Chris Jepson on Saturday night at Mollie's parents house. I haven't seen the O'Briens in years and it was great to see Marty O'Brien. Marty has really turned into an outstanding young man and I spoke with him for a good part of the night. He has spent four missions as a pilot in Afghanistan. It was fascinating to talk to him about his experiences there. He really had some unique insights that you don't get on the news. For example, there has been much debate about foreign fighters in Afgh. and Iraq. Marty stated that foreign fighters make up a large part of the forces fighting against us. He said that kids from Pakistan are brainwashed in school at a young age, given drugs, and sent across the border to attack us. Sounds like situation in Somalia in 90's. In addition, he said that families in Africa sell their kids to their terrorists with the promise that they and their child will go to heaven if their child conducts a terrrorist attack. Where is this in the media? Marty said the Afghans have come a long way with their own defense force and he has worked with soldiers and pilots from many other countries including South Koreans. I was so impressed with how articulate, thoughtful, polite, and engaging he was. I hope all of our kids turn out as well as he did. Not many serve our country like that so he is special. I also saw Brian Donohoe there. He played soccer for me way back when and Marty was a student of mine. They both asked for you and Marty really had some nice things to say about you. I told him about this website so hopefully he checks in soon. JK and EK were also at the birthday party. John is doing well at Peck. Good to see him. Julie left party to feed Mackenzie and then come back but it still wasn't enough. SHe had a rough night and punished us for going out! Last night though she finally took a bottle! Huge step. Now Julie can go out on her own from time to time and not worry. Big step. On Sunday night we went to a going away party for Julie's sister. She is off to California to try her luck in acting. She has done some stuff out there already and in New York. Julie did that for awhile but found this amazing teacher to spend her life with and settled in as a social worker! Who knows, she might have made it big if not for me! I got a lot of work done over the weekend for school and around the house and got to spend some quality time with Mackenzie so a great weekend. I hope you guys had a great weekend as well. With the weather the sports program is in chaos. Poor Dano is pulling what hair he has left out trying to reschedule stuff. I think we will lose a lot of games for good on our schedule and may not even play the Frosh adn JV soccer tournies when all is said and done. Oh well. Hopefully that doesn't happen. SO far we are undefeated and doing well. This rain is killing us though. It seemed to have saved my lawn at home though. I was talking to one of my students who plays football on the way up to lunch about their game on homecoming. He remarked that he wished they were in a tougher conference. I immediatley thought of you and told him of how you tried to give all sports the toughest schedule possible, like our frosh schedule and had tried to line up tough games for homecoming instead of patsies. He readily agreed. I love that mentality. I hate when all you are trying to do is keep the score down. It is good to be nervous and it is not the end of the world if you lose to a good team and don't go undefeated and learn important lessons. Well, I am proctoring a PSAT exam now so I should pay attention! Hope you are feeling well my friend. Take care. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. JT, Julie and baby Mackenzie!
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys! Sorry I havent been in touch of late. We had the long weekend and we don't have an e-mail account at home. Hope this message finds you in good spirits and good health. Glad to hear you are still home and that you are able to go for walks in Morris Plains! Great stuff! Homecoming weekend was a monsoon! We decided not to go with Mackenzie in the rain and we stayed home with her and got a lot done around the house. Still trying to finish many house projects. Slowly but surely things are falling into place. No reason to get stressed about it! We went to surprise birthday party for Chris Jepson on Saturday night at Mollie's parents house. I haven't seen the O'Briens in years and it was great to see Marty O'Brien. Marty has really turned into an outstanding young man and I spoke with him for a good part of the night. He has spent four missions as a pilot in Afghanistan. It was fascinating to talk to him about his experiences there. He really had some unique insights that you don't get on the news. For example, there has been much debate about foreign fighters in Afgh. and Iraq. Marty stated that foreign fighters make up a large part of the forces fighting against us. He said that kids from Pakistan are brainwashed in school at a young age, given drugs, and sent across the border to attack us. Sounds like situation in Somalia in 90's. In addition, he said that families in Africa sell their kids to their terrorists with the promise that they and their child will go to heaven if their child conducts a terrrorist attack. Where is this in the media? Marty said the Afghans have come a long way with their own defense force and he has worked with soldiers and pilots from many other countries including South Koreans. I was so impressed with how articulate, thoughtful, polite, and engaging he was. I hope all of our kids turn out as well as he did. Not many serve our country like that so he is special. I also saw Brian Donohoe there. He played soccer for me way back when and Marty was a student of mine. They both asked for you and Marty really had some nice things to say about you. I told him about this website so hopefully he checks in soon. JK and EK were also at the birthday party. John is doing well at Peck. Good to see him. Julie left party to feed Mackenzie and then come back but it still wasn't enough. SHe had a rough night and punished us for going out! Last night though she finally took a bottle! Huge step. Now Julie can go out on her own from time to time and not worry. Big step. On Sunday night we went to a going away party for Julie's sister. She is off to California to try her luck in acting. She has done some stuff out there already and in New York. Julie did that for awhile but found this amazing teacher to spend her life with and settled in as a social worker! Who knows, she might have made it big if not for me! I got a lot of work done over the weekend for school and around the house and got to spend some quality time with Mackenzie so a great weekend. I hope you guys had a great weekend as well. With the weather the sports program is in chaos. Poor Dano is pulling what hair he has left out trying to reschedule stuff. I think we will lose a lot of games for good on our schedule and may not even play the Frosh adn JV soccer tournies when all is said and done. Oh well. Hopefully that doesn't happen. SO far we are undefeated and doing well. This rain is killing us though. It seemed to have saved my lawn at home though. I was talking to one of my students who plays football on the way up to lunch about their game on homecoming. He remarked that he wished they were in a tougher conference. I immediatley thought of you and told him of how you tried to give all sports the toughest schedule possible, like our frosh schedule and had tried to line up tough games for homecoming instead of patsies. He readily agreed. I love that mentality. I hate when all you are trying to do is keep the score down. It is good to be nervous and it is not the end of the world if you lose to a good team and don't go undefeated and learn important lessons. Well, I am proctoring a PSAT exam now so I should pay attention! Hope you are feeling well my friend. Take care. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. JT, Julie and baby Mackenzie!
MessageBrian, Our family wishes you the best in your journey I know you can complete. You have been so strong and outgoing since this began. I drive by your house every day to pick up my son at my mom's on Keenan Place and often think of you and Carrie. Best wishes to you all. Kim, Glen & Hunter Jankowski
MessageBrian, I really enjoyed reading your 10/7/05 message. It brought back many fond memories of when our guys were little. Jimmy never said he could jump high(I was the only one in the family who had serious hops), he just climbed everything he could. I came outside one day and my three-year-old son was sitting on the top of the Court Rd-Parker Drive street sign in our front lawn. He was always strong. It's a good thing Sue wasn't home. "Her" would have fainted. I'm glad you've had the opportunity to spend time at home with Jen and Timmy. That is really good and needed for your recovery. Have some fun, share some laughs. God bless, John
MessageIt was our first Homecoming, and a Wonderful event no matter what the weather did. We feel your presence every time we turn in from Rt. 24 to got to an event at the School. We hope you are enjoying the autumn with Jen and Timmy, and you r road to recovery is swift. Our love and thouhgts are with you. The Eschmann,and Romano Families
Messagehey mr. fleury just wanted to wish you the best and hope you are doing well, my family continues to pray for you.
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope this message finds you in good spirits. We saw you in your window the other day when we drove by. Hope all is well. Our thoughts are with you. This rain is really the pits. We actually were able to practice in the gym with the JV for the first time ever as Varsity soccer and football were at different sites. We had a massive indoor soccer tournament which was a lot of fun for the kids. What we will do for the rest of the week is difficult to say with the weather. They reorganized the frosh and JV tournies so hopefully it still happens. Mackenzie took a bottle again last night with Julie's step mother so we are happy about that. She also sat in her swing for the first time without having a fit and watched Baby Einstein. The English Department came out with a writing guide this week beating us to the punch as we had been working on one. THey based it on your original guide! Wow! I couldn't believe it. After years of trying to get both departments to use your guide we have finally reached common ground. A real nice preamble dedicated to you in the beginning of the packet. Their writing guide is excellent What was nice to see was that what they are doing is not much different from what we are doing in History. Well, I have to teach class now. Time to talk about the Age of Discovery. Hope you are doing well and let Tim win those games! JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageHey Mr. Fleury- I'm so glad to hear you're doing well at home. Just wanted to let you know that Homecoming, although it was an incredibly fun time and my personal favorite ever, still wasn't the same without you. We taped the Homecoming Pep Rally for you, and we're looking into making a VHS or DVD copy for you - I'm sure you'll enjoy watching us make idiots of ourselves. As always, thanks so much for all that you do for Delbarton. You continue to inspire us. When you return, I think you'll find that your presence never left us. I hope you continue to do well and always remember that the entire Delbarton community is behind you every step of the way. Best wishes, Steve Popper
MessageDear Brian, As you gather your strength for this difficult journey ahead is there anything I can do to help? You are such an amazing warrior but even the best warrior needs an army to fight the battle.Please consider the Storms family as part of that army and count on us. Your photo gallery is so adorable. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Mary Ann
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope this message finds you in good health and good spirits. Try to survive this rain! We had another game canceled today and now the Frosh Soccer tournament is off so that is very disappointing. We may try to organize our own mini frosh and JV tournie if we can fit it in the schedule. Maybe invite Seton Hall, Bergen Catholic, Morrris Catholic, Don Bosco, or St. Benedicts (though I don't like the way the St. Benedicts program conducts itself!). We shall see. A lot of headaches for poor Dano to figure out with all of this rain. We play Seton Hall on Monday if weather holds up. Always a huge game. Another great game that you lined up for us. My guys are out on a run now with Eddie. I have a heel injury so I let him run them into the ground. Mackenzie is doing well. She has now taken a bottle three nights in a row so we are psyched. My folks come to visit us in November to see their granddaugher again. It is tough with them far away. Hope you are doing well chief. enjoy baseball playoffs and playing with Tim. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageDear Uncle Brian, I miss you so much!I just had a sleepover at my friends house.Tell Timmy and Aunt Jen i said hello. love,Abbie
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MessageDear Mr. Fleury - I hope you get better soon. I just had a sleepover with Abbie. Say hi to Timmy and Mrs. Fleury and the dogs.Thanks Love,Shannon Keller p.s go Delbarton !
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. I hope this message finds you in good spirits and good health. The rain has finally stopped so you can enjoy your walks in Morris Plains! Our game vs. Madison was canceled yesterday and the Frosh tournie was canceled so kids were a bit upset. We might organize our own tournie if we can pull it off in the time remaining! Maybe it could become a tradition here. It would be better than the other one! I am now proctoring Admissions tests for 9th graders. I actually could have done some lessons because it is getting nice out but this is fine. I can work on my grades. I have one last stack left to do before Monday! First round of essays were pretty good and the kids did fairly well on the first three full period tests of the year. I can't believe it is already the fall midterm! Crazy. Football team is off to Poly Prep. Big game. Dave Donovan has to do jury duty for a murder trial so he will be out four days a week. People have picked up his duties but he will be sorely missed. Josh and Jake will handle soccer in his absence. I guess the teacher excuse no longer holds with them but Dave actually is looking forward to it. We had dinner with Julie's grandmother last night. Mackenzie looked like a real person when we were out looking around and mumbling baby gibberish. She now enjoys watching videos for the first time as she watches Baby Einstein. She is almost too big for the car seat now! Julie has her hands full but is doing a great job. Tomorrow I give tennis lessons from 11:00 to 6:30 so I will be busy. Got to get my grades done today. I hope you are doing well. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care ace. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageHI you guys! we have been thinking of and praying for you daily...glad to hear all is according to plan..timmy looks adorable and i love the artwork...sorry about jen's finger...we are all plugging along..emery and hannah are working out alot since neither are playing a fall sport and both are all about LAX!!! we were able to see cameron and vandy play last weekend in philly at a fallball tournament..she looks great on and off the field..and will be home for @ 36 hours next weekend. she LOVES school, the team, and even mandatory study hall which she says is a godsend...we are counting our blessings that she is so happy! Keep hanging in there...Jen, i know you are "coaching" this game plan as well as you do lax...and if you ever want to chat give me a call...or if we can do anything else for you guys , you know we will........be well.......garrett and the gang
MessageDear Brian and Jen, We are Melanie Bowers' parents. We want you to know how much we are thinking of you and wishing you well. This is such a courageous journey you are making. We know that everyone is sending you their thoughts and prayers and we just wanted to add to them. You are an inspiration to all of us. Keep on "keepin' on" and good luck in all your future challenges. Love, Lynn and Nancy Webster
MessageHey Mr. Fleury! My family and I are extremely happy and relived to here that you are doing well and almost at a full recovery. When my family and I are up in Boston for Thanksgiving, we will sure be thinking about you. It is great that you are able to be home, which also shows how far along your recovery is. Luckilly, the best time of the year, baseball season, is less tahn five months away, which is always something to look forward to. Unfortunatly, things did not turn out so well for the Mets this year :(, but we still have many things to look forward to next year! (New players as well as another year with beltran, Pedro, Reyes and Wright) You can atleast rest assured that the Red Sox did not advance. Also, even though I am sure you know by now, we had a big win over Poly Prep, and it is pretty cool that we can watch it on MSG (I am watching it now, thats why I am up this late). I hope that you continue doing well with your recovery and hope to see you back at Delbarton soon! Garett and the Figueroa's
MessageDear Brian, I have been a friend of Jenny Wilson's for years. She has kept me up to date of your progress while my dad suffered a glioblastoma, and unfortunately died last yr. You have SOOO much strength brian and Jen has always been SOO proud of you as she told your wonderful (but sad) tale of your ongoing search for freedom from your tumor. I just wanted to say how proud I am of you to continue with this fight!!!!! You are amazing,strong, and a real hero in so many eyes!!!!! good luck and God bless....Lynn
MessageCoach: Just wanted to follow up from my message during the week, we took Poly Prep yesterday 14-6 final. The boys practiced hard all week for this victory and now hopefully we will be ranked in the top 20. This is another step towards our state championship this year. Hope all is well and that your days are full of happiness and peace. I know that you have approached day 60, keep the postive thoughts like we all are doing for you and your family. Up next Montville. Go Green Wave!!! Sincerely Rich Conforti
MessageHey Coach! I was looking at all my old stuff the other day and i came acrosse a chatham baseball shirt. I don't know if you remember but I remember when you coached that clinic. It reminded me of one distinct play where I hit a pop up and didn't run full speed to first. The pitcher caught it and I came off the field and sat down on the bench next to you. You told me that you should always run it out even if you think the pitcher is going to catch it. Just this little lesson you taught me about baseball really I took to my heart. I think it is beacuse of you that I have the work ethic that I have today and I really appreciate it coach. I will never again 'jog to first' about anything. Thanks so much coach. My prayers are with you and your family coach. I hope you and Timmy enjoyed the footballs.
MessageHey Coach Fleury, Hope this notes finds you feeling stronger each day. I know you have a tough battle to fight, and everyone is praying for you. We're anxious to see you soon. Take care, Chris
MessageDear Coach, I hope this note finds you feeling well. I'm watching the ALCS as I write. School is going great even though Mr. Thompson's class is a killer. Just so you know, I haven't forgotten your advice. You are always in our prayers. Jack
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hope this message finds you in good health and good spirits. Nice weekend for a change! A bit windy on Sunday. My tennis students were almost blown away but we persevered and kept going. I gave lessons from 11 to 6! Good kids. two of them hope to go to Delbarton one day. I think both of them can get in but we will see. Mackenzie is starting to be a handful! I guess we were fortunate for the first few months. Now she is a bit more fussy each day but Julie is on top of it and I do my best when I am home. One of my jobs is to rock her to sleep at night. Luckily last night was an easy one and she went off to sleep. I was so tired though that I didn't hear her wake up in the middle of the night several times. We have to get a new furnace for our house! It is always something. Today we play Seton Hall. Hopefully game will happpen. I think all of that wind over the weekend helped dry out the fields. Varsity soccer lost vs. Morristown yesterday, your homies! I couldn't believe. I had to work all day Sunday so I didn't go and I just found out this morning (I never have time to read the paper anymore!) tough loss for the guys. Apparently it could have even been worse if Will Walsh (Great Kid!) doesn't make some big saves. I am surprised we are out already. My squad is still doing well. We have only given up one goal the whole year! I just realized that the other day, and we gave up that goal in the first game of the year. Lets see how long that lasts. White Sox in the WOrld Series! You know, I just can't get excited about that! I guess once the Sox are out I lose interest. At least if the Yanks are still in I root against them. Now it doesn't really grab me. Pats lost in Denver. They are 3-3! Haven't lost three games since 2001! But they are still in first in their division which is weak now. Good to see Jets get beat by Bills! Almost makes up for Pats loss. I think Edwards days may be numbered. Well, I have to call Furnace company! Hope you enjoy this nice fall day! Take care ace. JT
MessageHi Brian ~ This is nothing more than another name added to your forever long fan list .... I just wanted to let you know that I think of you every time I run (literally) past your house. And if I'm not running past ~ I'm driving by, so therefore I think of you everyday. It doesn't surprise me one little bit to see the amount of love and support that surrounds you so like I said before ~ I'm just adding a little more to the mix! Love to you and your whole family. MaryGrace
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope all is well. Hope you enjoyed the nice weather yesterday. Its about time! We had a tough game with Seton Hall. They took it to us and beat us 3-0. In addition, our kids did not conduct themselves in the most exemplary fashion and have to learn about dealing with defeat. While there were no cards or fights or swearing, there were a few things that happened that I wasn't happy with. So today's practice will be "fun" for them! Back to work. No undefeated season this year I guess. Mackenzie was squealing and yelling a lot yesterday for the first time. Always neat to see the changes in her each day! I am sure you know about that. Well, I have to proctor a test and do some progress reports! I hope this note finds you in good spirits. All our best to all of you guys. Take care. JT
MessageBrian & Jenn, the new photos are great! Stay strong. We continue to keep you all in our prayers. October baseball is the best... did you see that game last night. They kept on fighting to play another day! We miss you. Best ---Mary
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MessageHi coach,I just wanted to tell you that football is going geat and the team prays for you all the time and your always in everyones thoughts as we go through this exciting season. get better soon, our school needs you
MessageHey Coach, I was thinking about you alot today, and I just wanted to relate to you how much of an inspiration you are for myself and countless others in the Delbarton community. Hearing about all the trials you have faced and defeated is truly both inspiring and amazing. I hope the treatments are going well and hope to see you make in school soon. Rob
Messagehey coach, i hope your doing well, your in my prayers...I cant wait to see you around school to talk baseball..everyone misses you! Greg
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hope you guys are doing well! I hope this note finds you in good spirits and good health. I watched the Delbarton Poly Prep game on TV last night. Great game. Coach Bowers was on the screen a lot! That field looked awful. Great to see Mark Van Orden doing so well on football. I had him in soccer as a freshman and he was my co-captain. Great kid. I know he did a lot to help organize the car wash for you in Morris Plains. We had a great practice yesterday. Kids responded well and worked hard. We really ran them into the ground. We scrimmaged the JV at the end of practice and lost 2-1 but played well. If we had played it closer to the vest and only went with starters we might have stole one from them but I was happy to see all of the kids play well and play hard against older and faster kids. The second scrimmage that we had with them got a little out of hand so I reffed this one and it all were better behaved! You can't fight the law baby. We play Millburn today. Beat them 2-0 at their place but they were good. We have lost a lot of games off of the schedule and hope to pick up some more here at the end. Weird season. We even had several games canceled before the monsoon week so we are really short on games. We are only 5-1-2 at this point! Poor Dano has his hands full with rescheduling as I am sure you can relate to! I wish other schools would invite us to their frosh tournies. I know that there at least three out there but we don't get the invite. My kids just took a test on the Age of Discovery. Fourth test of the year. They are turning in their second essay of the year, A DBQ on the Black Death, tomorrow. They all come for extra help on their writing so between before school sessions and conference block I am giving about an hour of extra help, mainly on writing, a day. These kids are driven. We went to Julie's great grandmother's 98th birthday party last night over in Denville. She is doing real well. The whole Ciardi clan was there and Mackenzie was the hit as usual! She is a ham. OUr dog is slowly recovering from having his tail shaved off! We finally took the cone off his head. He gets no attention now that Mackenzie is here! Well, I have to grade some tests and do some more progress reports. Hope you are doing well coach. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageBrian and Jen - You are in our prayers today as usual - Just pray that everything is going well - Keep up the strong battle you have been doing - You are such an inspiration - Fondly - Marty and Marilyn Reilly
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MessageBrian and Jen: Great to get the update. I know this is a critical time and you know that you have all of our prayers and thoughts every day. Hurry back from Boston. All our best. John and Anne
MessageBrian, Hang in there. You have come a long way. You and your family are in the thoughts and prayers of al of us in the Delbarton Community. Tim Earner Wilkerson Trans
MessageCoach, Hope you continue your great progress. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you. Best of luck with the upcoming scans... Last Friday was the fall midterm, already 1/6th through the school year... You probably know, but our game against Poly Prep was on MSG High school game of the week, and we won 14-6--great game... the Morris Plains Fire Department car wash had a great turnout of Delbarton students the day after the game... tough lost for Charlie Weis, did you see the game? Coach, we can't wait to see you back at Delbarton. Frankie Hager
MessageDear Brian and Jen Thank you for the updates-you are always in our prayers, and its good to hear from you. Good luck on your next step- your positive attitude is a major plus through all these trying times. Anyway, YOU enjoy the beautiful days, too, and remember there are so many people praying for you all 24/7! Love from the Longs
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys! Hope all is well with you and that this note finds you in good spirits and good health. We are doing well. We went to a birthday party last night, yes another one, for one of Julie's friends daughter. Good time but Mackenzie was a bit overwhelmed and tired so we left early. Too many people there. We beat Millburn yesterday 2-0 to improve to 6-1-2. We played well and got everyone into the game. Kids bounced back well from our loss to Seton Hall two days ago. Today we are back with the JV for practice as there is a middle school home game. We are going to mix up the two teams into three teams at the end of practice and have a fun tournament so to speak. When you mix the kids up it lowers the intensity and animosity level a bit from when we scrimmage against each other and it allows all kids to get a chance to play evenly. So, that should be good. Rob Puckniak gave a good talk in church today. We also kept the freshman class afterwards and Father Luke gave a great speech on how they should be treating each other. I have to go to class. Hope all is well. take care chief. You are the man! JT
MessageHi Brian, I wanted to wish you luck on your Pet scan on Monday. I was so happy to hear that things are moving along so well, that is great news. This past Sunday,10/16, at the Morris Plains fire house, the car wash/bake sale was a true testament to how much people care about you and your family. It was so wonderful to see all the hundreds of people come out and support you. Again, good luck on Monday. All the best, Val
Messagehey Brian, thinking of you...hope your days are good ones... What's Timmy going to be for Halloween? Tell him Cooper is a green ferocious Dragon! ( at least now that is until the next "idea" that pops into his head) Please tell your lovely wife to take it "easy" with the Halloween decor... we all know how she can start w/ one little decoration here and then it leads to "there" and "there...." Be well! Love Nicole and gang
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy: our thoughts are of you this weekend, please come home safe... The Wilces
MessageDear Brian, Jenn and Timmy, Hope all is well in Boston. Just to let you know that the "special God Blesses" are still being said each night for all of you. The car wash was truly a great out pouring of love for your whole family. Make sure you check your email for some great pictures. Take care, Love, The McEntees (Phil, Marge,Brennan and Jack)
Messagehey coach its jake, i hope you get a chance to read this and that everything is going well, i know if anyone has the mental and physical toughness to beat this its you, everyone here at villanova is praying for you. best wishes jake
MessageMr. Fluery, five years have gone by without me being able to get to know you well, but that does not change the effect you are having on my life. You are such a positive influence on the way I try to live my life today and I, and the rest of the Delbarton Community, cannot wait to have you back healthy. Our thoughts and prayers are always with you, as are the prayers of my family and I. Much love, Kiel Zsitvay
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: We hope that this message finds you guys in good spirits and Brian in good health. Hopefully you could enjoy the nice fall weekend we had, or at least on Sunday. We had a good weekend. We went to a birthday party for Ray and Shereen Bernaz's daughter over at a pumpkin farm in Chester. We went with Ryan and Tina MacNaughton. Good time but a bit cold for Mackenzie. Luckily she slept the whole time. Otherwise hung out with Mackenzie and did school work. Mackenzie is getting close to rolling over and she now squeals a lot. We try to give her "tummy time" but she doesn't like it much. Got to toughen this kid up! I got a lot of school work done as well. Trying to get grading done and progress reports done for all students before parent teacher meetings this week. Can't believe that is already here. Time flies. It was good to see Ryan and Tina over the weekend. They are doing well. Their son is only a few days older than Mackenzie. Ryan is coaching three sports and teaching history over at Hanover Park and likes it. His furnace seized up and oil and soot got all over their finished basement so they are dealing with that right now. I am still alive in an eliminator pool I am in. Went with the Redskins over the 49ers and they killed them. So seven weeks gone and I am still alive. I didn't organize a pool here this year. Not enough time to run it. I hope you guys are doing well. I have to go prep some quizzes now. Take care. Go White Sox JT, Julie, and Mackenzie PS: Great show on Chicago Black Sox on ESPN the other day. I didn't realize gambling and fixing games was so prevalent then and that this was just one more incident back then. JT
MessageDear Brian, I am sooo pleased to see how well you look, so strong and ready to be healthy. If Lance Armstrong hadn't written a book already,your updates could certainly make a wonderful read. JJ is almost 6 months post transplant and doing great. We hope that he will return to Princeton for the Spring semester. But as you know it's day by day. All our best thoughts and prayers. All the Zaks
MessageBrian: Just wanted to give you the latest update, the footbal team is ranked #17 in the Star ledger after our win over Montville on Saturday (37-7). The team looked great and really are starting to play great football. We were currently in the 4th spot in Power points in our group. The next game is against West Milford, we will pick up some nice power points with a win, we hopefully will finish as a 2 seed to get a home playoff game. Hope all is well with you and your family. I know the next few weeks are important ones in your recovery, I know that with all the Delbarton support and prays only great results will come out of the next 40 days. keep those positive thoughts and I hope each day is filled with up peace & health. Sincerely Rich Conforti
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. I just read your update from the 19th. Sounds like things are going well with procedure. Hang in there! Another rainy day here at Delbarton! I guess games will probably be off later today. What a nightmare. We had a good practice yesterday. Got a lot done. It is this time of year where it is a challenge to keep the frosh focused and serious in practice. We are supposed to play Ridge, always a great Frosh team, today but I bet it will be canceled with this weather. We have Lawrenceville tomorrow and Caldwell make up game this Saturday. I can't believe there are only two weeks left in the season! Scary. Then a bit of time off from coaching and then on to Middle SChool hoops! We had more work done on our house yesterday. Same woman that did Kelly and Bruce's house. She hadn't been there in months and I left her a couple of messages to get back over as soon as she could and I guess she didn't like the tone! But she did come back and Julie is happy. The house is almost done. I would have liked it done before Mackenzie arrived but what can you do now. My classes are going well but it is a mad race to cover everything you have to cover each day. Kids are working hard and are fun in class. We are on the fifth unit of the year. Kids are doing debates in class now and they have gone pretty well. I have to start working on Puerto Rico trip soon! I am also trying to find a club to host our tournie but so far no takers. I have to get some more work done. Hope you are doing well. How about them Falcons!! Vick is sick. Take care chief. JT, JUlie, and Mackenzie
MessageHi, Uncle Brian! I am in math and my math group just wanted to say, "HELLO." Dane, Rachel, Tayler,Sarah,Lindsay,Sean,Casondra, Taran, Nicole, and Mrs Kenny. P.S. Your nephew is one terrific kid! jek
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, Just reading your latest update and wanted to wish you the best in this latest stage of the battle. My life is one of the countless that you have touched over the years and your optimism and joy for living life continues to inspire and amaze me. All the best, Scott
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, just heard about the website. i know you've got a lotta messages, but one more won't hurt. i hope all's well with you. i'd say good luck but A)i'm too confident you'll be fine and B) when you beat this thing, it's not gonna be from luck, it's gonna come from you. you're the man, don't know how else to say it. i don't know who i'm hoping to, but i just hope...ttyl
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MessageMr.Fleury, You have influenced and inspired the lives of so many. I know you will continue to do so for years to come. My prayers are with you and your family. -Richie
MessageBrian- Craig Paris sent me an e-mail with a link to your website. I haven't had the pleasure to meet you personally; however once you get better,perhaps I can buy you a beverage of your choice at Hennessey's. My family and I will keep you in our prayers. We are all pulling for you. regards Bob Rouse '79
MessageBrian: I ran into Fr. Giles the other day, and he brought me up to speed. You've got the courage of entire army. It is clear that has rubbed off on many of the kids going through Delbarton. You are a huge asset to all of us. Best wishes for another successful bout. Go forth with faith. - Woody
MessageBEF, 5 paragraph essays. Baseball = life. Tissue boxes pale in comparison to the crushing strength of bare hands. Swing for the fences if you know a scout is watching. These were some of the essential lessons (amongst a few others too I guess) that made going to English class freshman year so meaningful. Although that was almost 10 years ago it seems like it was only yesterday. I think that speaks of the powerful impact you have as both a teacher and a role model. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Ed S.
MessageDear Mr. Fleury and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with. Watching the Astros in the World Series and seeing Biggio out there reminds me of you & your legendary playing days on the diamond. Best wishes for a speedy recovery! Ryan Nish
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I just want to say that my prayers are with you and your family. When I got on campus here in Boston this fall, I heard that you were in Brigham and Women’s Hospital. So I decided to hop on the "T" for the first time and come to visit you; to see how you were doing. However, when I arrived, the nurses had told me that you had been discharged the previous week. I couldn't believe that I was a week too late. I bought a Boston University shirt for you that I will give to you personally the next time I see you, which I hope is soon. Once again, you are in my prayers and in the prayers of my entire family. See you soon Coach. Chris Stackpole
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I just want to say that my prayers are with you and your family. When I got on campus here in Boston this fall, I heard that you were in Brigham and Women’s Hospital. So I decided to hop on the "T" for the first time and come to visit you; to see how you were doing. However, when I arrived, the nurses had told me that you had been discharged the previous week. I couldn't believe that I was a week too late. I bought a Boston University shirt for you that I will give to you personally the next time I see you, which I hope is soon. Once again, you are in my prayers and in the prayers of my entire family. See you soon Coach. Chris Stackpole
MessageBrian, I wanted to take a moment to wish you continued strength and courage on your way to a recovery. I also wanted to take a moment to thank you for a small yet significant phone call you made on my behalf to Jack Mott in the spring of 1994. Before your call he wasn't going to hire me, and afterwards he changed his mind. It led to nearly a decade of good memories and a chance to be around some remarkable people, including but not limited to Harry Shatel and John Zamos. Thanks again for your help, I hope I can help return the favor through my thoughts and prayers.
MessageCoach Fleury- Rarely a day goes by when I don't think back to teaching and coaching at Delbarton in 90's. It was a very special place to work, and you were a major part of that. Through the years, you have continued to help steer Delbarton in a direction that ensures it will always be a unique place to work and go to school. I look forward to seeing you back at Delbarton, "coaching the guys up", for yet another great year. Take care, and all the best to you and your family from Michelle and me. -Coach JMac
MessageMr. Fleury, I just now learned about your medical situation, and wanted to send my best wishes. Although we haven't stayed in touch in recent years, I have always been extraordinarily thankful for the opportunity to have had you as a teacher, coach, and mentor. You had a powerful, positive impact on me at a particularly important time of my life. I wish you all the best, and I know that you have the strength to face whatever challenges lay ahead. When something makes your knees buckle, you are the kind of man who stands right back up. Sincerely, Christian Yarnell Vilnius, Lithuania
MessageMr. Fleury- I’ve always said the experience I had at Delbarton was one of the best in my life. And you were a big reason for that. You always had this way of pushing, without pushing. The encouragement and optimism you always showed was so invaluable to me. You are an excellent coach, teacher, and mentor. I cannot thank you enough for what you had taught me during my four years at Delbarton. You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
MessageHello Brain and Fleury Family, You and your entire family will be in my family's thoughts and prayers. I am sure Brian doesn't remember me, but I remember him well. I remember how fierce a competitor you were when we playing baseball against each other in high school. I very jealous of all your abilities on and off the field. You allways showed great strength, determination, persistance, leadership, most of all you had the courage to succeed where others failed. You where an inspiration to me then and you still are. Hang tough like I know you will. It's your destiny to succeed in whatever you set out to do. Use that Guardian Angel! Fr. Luke introduced me to mine many years ago and it continues to help guide me everyday. Ken Wedholm and Family
MessageCoach Fleury, You were not only my best teacher and coach at Delbarton, but the best example to me of how to be a man. Your courage, strength, and determination are things that I truly admire. Stay strong and you and your family are in my prayers.
MessageDear Brian, Craig sent me the link to your website.We haven't met in person but I feel as if I know you. I graduated from Delbarton in 1964 and my son's Jim and Bill in 92&98.I think Delbarton is one of the most special places in the world and it's people like you who make it that way.I will be praying for you and your family. Get back to the Del soon.All my best Jim
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope all is well with you. I just got a really nice note from Mike Defeo who saw one of my entries on your website. Great to hear from him and it is nice to know that Delbarton alums are checking in with you. Our game vs. Ridge got canceled yesterday due to the rain. We play Lawrenceville today, always a big challenge for us. Hopefully the field has recovered from yesterday's storm but at this point there is no reason to save the field. I used the extra time in the afternoon yesterday to get some grading done and prepare for the parent teacher conferences this Thursday. I try to give each parent an individual summary of their son's progress. I actually look forward to the conferences, I guess I am crazy! Last night we went to Julie's Mom's house for dinner to say goodbye to Julie's sister who is off to California to be an actress. Julie almost did that until she met me, poor woman.. she would have been famous and rich by now! Mackenzie was well behaved at the party. We have to get a new furnace and Dixon Oil is coming over tomorrow for that. I hate stuff like that, especially when it comes time to pay them. My brother and his wife will have a baby any day now. Another girl as they already know. I have a ton of recs to write and will probably have to knock them off this weekend. I am writing recs for: Popper, Troy, Weinstein, Catlett, Peck, Anelli, Masi, Pigott, Hart, Eng, Young, Krinitiski, Hellauer, Marinari, Pirozzi, Schlafly, R. Donovan, etc. Quite a group. I will work the Thompson magic again. We were just told at ACademic Council that they may move back the dates of the AP exams! tHAT IS MUSIC TO MY EARS ACE. I need all the time I can get. It may screw up our schedule at the end of the year but it seems like we will go ahead and do it starting next year. Good stuff for the kids and the AP teachers. Otherwise it is a mad race to get them ready. It won't be long now before Middle SChool hoops starts! Hard to believe that is almost here. My team this year will be small but hopefuly we can put a strong team together out there. Well, got to go to lunch block class and teach about the Stuart Kings. Hope all is well with you. ENjoy the WOrld Series and the brisk fall weather this week and enjoy your visit with Father Luke. I am sure you only have limited visitors but if you ever want Julie and I to come over we certainly will. Take care chief! JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageBubba (does anyone still call you that ?), My family and I will pray for you to continue on your recovery. Good luck. Mike Curtis
MessageBrian -- As a Delbarton alum you have not met, I want to tell you that I have always taken special interest in your role at Delbarton. This is not because of your struggle with cancer, but beause of the clear passion with which you have approached both teaching and all that Delbarton should mean for the boys who go there. It has simply been really evident to me from all I have heard and read that you have embraced the whole experience and that the guys there are better off for it. As you combat with your disease, they are learning from you now more than ever. That is something to be really proud of. Best of luck with your treatment. Please know that we are all pulling for you and that you are a real inspiration for all of us. JD Moriarty '90
MessageDear Mr Fleury, You may or may not remember me, since it's been a little while and so many new faces must go by for you each year. I took your AP English class back in Fall '95, Spring '96. As I look back on my academic life, your class is one that always stands out in my memory. I have never enjoyed quite class quite as much, and I really took so much away from it. All the other classes I took in college were always measured against my experience in your classroom. Even though I ended up as an engineer, I like to think that your class made me a reader for life. You and your family are in my thoughts. Sincerely Swope Fleming, '97
MessageBrian and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you guys, what an inspiration you have been to so many of us that have passed through Trinity Hall...much love, your friend always George
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello chief. I hope this note finds you in good health and good spirits. We have a nice brisk fall day, best weather of the year in my book. I am on break in between sessions for parent teacher conferences. So far so good. I actually enjoy these conferences. A couple of parents said that they have read my entries on your guestbook and one Dad in particular enjoyed the baseball players I listed so I guess I have to do that again. We have nothing today for soccer and then play Caldwell on Saturday. We beat Lawrenceville 7-0 on Wednesday. Just did some conditioning at yesterday's practice as field was a mess. Looking forward to the dinner for you in November. Tennis parents are auctioning off a tennis function hosted by me at Mendham Racquet Club. YOu know that will go for big bucks. I have to work on some college recs now. I have no idea how all of these will get done in time! Hope you are doing well. Take care ace. JT ALL TIME PIRATES PITCHING STAFF: STEVE BLASS DOC ELLIS JOHN CANDY MAN CANDELERA KENT TEKULVE BOB VEALE
MessageMr. Fleury - I just found out about this web-site, which is curious because I was actually thinking about you recently and wondering how you were doing. I was at my mother's house a few weeks ago and was cleaning out a bunch of boxes full of old school papers. I found my folder from the senior english class I took with you and on one paper I had mis-spelled a word in my title. You just wrote "Not off to a good start, John," which was an understatement to say the least. But seriously, I've saved a lot of the poems and essays we read in your class, and am grateful to have had a teacher who introduced me to so many new writers (I have read almost every Tim O'Brien book by now, even the ones that aren't about Vietnam). I wish you and your family the best, and my prayers are with you. Thanks, John Servidea '95
MessageMr. Fleury - I just found out about this web-site, which is curious because I was actually thinking about you recently and wondering how you were doing. I was at my mother's house a few weeks ago and was cleaning out a bunch of boxes full of old school papers. I found my folder from the senior english class I took with you and on one paper I had mis-spelled a word in my title. You just wrote "Not off to a good start, John," which was an understatement to say the least. But seriously, I've saved a lot of the poems and essays we read in your class, and am grateful to have had a teacher who introduced me to so many new writers (I have read almost every Tim O'Brien book by now, even the ones that aren't about Vietnam). I wish you and your family the best, and my prayers are with you. Thanks, John Servidea '95
MessageBrian - We're praying for you - keep eating all the bananas!!!!!!!!!!!!! and the green leafy vegetables!!!! Keep up your spirit and fight - that's what Brian Fleury is made of. Love to Jen and Timmy - Have fun on Halloween Timmy. Fondly - Marty and Marilyn Reilly
MessageBrian: You are unquestionably the bravest guy I know. I understand that your treatment is going along as hoped. What that tells me is that prayers are answered. Where some would have thrown in the towel, you remain true to form and forge ahead. Not only are all your friend rooting and praying for you, God is on your side. You've done so much for so many, God won't take you from us. As I go through the College process with Donnie, I can't help but remember the day he was told that he'd been accepted at Delbarton. You were there. Four years later, he's about to move on to his next four years and my prayers would be answered if you were there again. Brian, you've touched the lives of so many people. Not seeing you up at school is a strange feeling. Please get well soon so that I can watch the hand of Brian touch all the kids that will be starting their jouney through The Delbarton experience. We miss you Brian and will stand by you for any need that you might have. Our prayers will always include our love and healthy wishes for the bravest guy I know. Get well soon, Don, Diane, and Donnie
MessageBrian-THANK YOU so much for your updates.Love the photos, Timmy sounds like quite a character, and a cutie pie, too. You and your family continue to be in our thoughts and prayers! God Bless.
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MessageCoach Fleury, We miss you at Delbarton. It definitely isn't the same without you, and I can't wait for you to come back. I'm keeping you in my prayers. Keep fighting. -Dylan
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Great day today! Beautiful weather, Halloween, soccer practice this afternoon, candy review session in class for test, and Pats won last night and Eagles lost! How about Bruschi coming back and playing last night vs. Bills after a stroke last year and leading them to victory? HE played in 64 out of 77 defensive plays. The guys is amazing, or crazy. He is up there with the other great linebackers of the Pats, do you remember STEVE NELSON, ANDRE TIPPET, ROD SHOATE, TED JOHNSON, AND RAY COSTICK? ALL PATRIOTS GREATS. We beat Caldwell on Saturday. Seven kids were late to our pregame meeting so none of them started nor played until end of first half. Got to teach them a lesson though I think they were late because of their parents!! We have three games this week and then our frosh soccer party on Sunday at Doherty's house. Should be good. I usually give a little speech but you have heard that schtick before. I can't wait for Halloween tonight. Mackenzie will be a lady bug. She is not going out to trick or treat but will be in costume when people arrive. Hope Tim has fun tonight. I had to do 19 college recs! I am almost done. It was rough but I have about three left now. We have no school on Wednesday so I can catch up on some things then and actually see my baby. I have to give some extra help now and then go to practice. I hope you are feeling well. Take care chief. JT ALL TIME MET LINEUP CATCHER: JERRY GROTE FIRST BASE: ED KRANEPOOL SECOND BASE: FELIX MILAN THIRD BASE: HOWARD JOHNSON SHORTSTOP: BUD HARELSON OUTFIELD: CLEON JONES OUTFIELD: TOMMY AGEE OUTFIELD: RON SWOBODA PITCHERS: TOM SEAVER, JON MATLACK, JON KOOSMAN, DWIGHT GOODEN, TUG MCGRAW LATER ACE. jt
MessageBrian, I read your update and was glad to read that the test results were largely good. I had a very rare homecoming miss this year. The weather was lousy and with all the construction it could not have been terribly picturesque. If you had to miss one this was probably a good one. My son (Christian '08) and I flew down to Dallas and went to the Texas - OU game at the Cotton Bowl. I've gone to about 10 of them but Christian has never seen a college game in that sort of atmosphere. I don't think anything in the northeast can match it. The weather was sensational. As intense as it is there is nothing vulgar or improper in the stands. There is lots of very good natured ribbing and bantering but nothing like what you see at the Meadowlands. The Cotton Bowl seats about 70,000 and each school gets exactly half the tickets so the stadium is 1/2 red and 1/2 burnt orange. Then on Sunday morning Christian and I got up and drove the 200 miles to Austin to visit UT. The easiest (and ugliest)200 miles I've ever driven and Austin is a really neat town. The topography of Texas is butt ugly until you get to the hill country and Austin is surrounded by hills and lakes with the Colorado River running right through it. Anyway, keep us informed and get well soon.
MessageCoach, I just found out about this site, I feel terrible that I haven't been in touch before this. Im happy that you have new oppertunities for treatment up in Boston because I dont think I will ever forget you at Bergan Catholic during the state playoffs that championship year. Treatment from the backpack fighting to get out there to coach third. The love and commitment you gave us under those circumstances left a mark on me and every other player and parent, or anybody else that has every met you, im sure. You and Timmy and your wife are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope to see you back in your office at Delbarton... or better yet on the field taking another state title. Best Wishes -Los
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys! Hope this note finds you in good health and good spirits. I hope you were able to enjoy Halloween last night. Mackenzie was a lady bug. It was awesome. We only took her to two houses and then two dogs attacked us so that was it. We had a fair amount of trick or treaters. Julie made special Halloween treat bags for kids. Pretty neat. Julie's Mom was over as well to help out. I can't wait until Mackenzie can actually go out and trick or treat! My brother and his wife had a baby girl last night so that is the big news. Everyone is healthy and happy. Her name is Mollie. So, two girls so far for the Thompson boys, or Thompson twins as we were called in college! We have a game today vs. Montville. THree left. We had a good practice yesterday as we continue to try to keep them focused down the stretch. Our second team was able to tie the first team 0-0 in our shell formation so I was happy with that. A lot of the back ups have come a LONG way this year. We hope to win out the last string of games but we have a tough schedule. The Frosh soccer party is this Sunday at the Doherty's house. Should be fun. I will give my annual speech about each player. Parents usually enjoy that. I am hoping to put together a program for the parents for our last game on Saturday but finding the time to do it may be rough. Julie went into Newark today to take Mackenzie in to see her old colleagues where she worked as a social worker near the court house. Brave of her! Mackenzie is usually good around people though. We don't have school tomorrow with the Benedictine colloquim in session so a rare day off. I have a game and I have a ton of grading to do (50 tests, 38 essays) so I will be busy anyhow. I finally got my 19 college recs done today. That was rough but I was happy with the final results. We are having a debate on the War in Iraq on Thursday. Peck, Catlett, and Weinstein against Hart, Popper, and Schlafly. SHould be good. Unfortunately it has to be in my classroom as there is no space anywhere. Well, I have to get some stuff done before my game. I hope you are doing well. OUr thoughts and prayers are with you. Here is my all time Red Sox lineup (hey, its the guys I like!) CATCHER: FISK FIRST BASE: GEORGE SCOTT SECOND BASE: JERRY REMY THIRD BASE: BUTCH HOBSON SHORSTOP: LUIS APARICIO (EXCEPT HE TRIPPED GOING AROUND THIRD BASE COSTING THE SOX THE PENANT RACE) LEFT FIELD: YAZ CENTER FIELD: LYNN RIGHT FIELD: DWIGHT EVANS STARTING PITCHING: (CLEMENS AND MARTINEZ WOULD NEVER EVER MAKE MY TEAM!) LUIS TIANT BILL LEE RAY CULP BOB STANLEY DENNIS ECKERSLY
MessageBrian - It's amazing to read through this guestbook and realize the impact you've had on so many kids. As my daughter's kindergarten year progresses, I'm beginning to understand the enormous importance of teachers (and people)like you both. We are following your progress and are thinking of you, Jen and Timmy often. You all deserve the best! Love, Kathy, Don, Matigan, Mary Grace and Will P.S. Sounds like Timmy gets his lightning speed from Jen :)
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope all is well with you! No school today but I am here before my game getting ready. We play Ridge today and it should be a great game. Beautiful day for a soccer game. We won yesterday vs. Montville 3-0. Played well. All kids got in. Got a shutout. No cards. They were a bit dirty but we survived. I know you don't like it when other teams are chippy. Unfortunately, the Varsity Soccer team lost their state game in double OT to Bergen Catholic in the first round of the states. They were up 2-0 at half and in control but then made some mistakes in the second half to allow BC to come back and win. THey have one more game today. Too bad because they really had a nice team this year. Can't always win. We get spoiled around here sometimes. I can't believe my season is almost over. Time flies. Soon I will be trying to get Middle SChool kids to learn our system in hoops and pulling my hair out! BUt I enjoy it, only real contact I have with the little guys. I don't know how many more years I will keep coaching three seasons but this year it has worked so far. Mainly because Julie does such an amazing job. We got photos today of Halloween. Great pics of Mackenzie. We will send you guys one. My brother and his wife and their new baby are doing well. Great news. Lots of girls lately! Well, I am going to go down to the field and get ready for Ridge. Hope you are feeling well and can enjoy this nice weather a bit. Take care ace. JT ALL TIME TIGERS LINEUP CATCHER: FREEHAN FIRST BASE: NORTHRUP SECOND BASE: MCAULIFFE THIRD BASE: RODRIGUEZ SHORT STOP: BRINKMAN OUTFIELD: KALINE OUTFIELD: HORTON OUTFIELD: STANLEY PITCHERS: HILLER LOLICH J. NIEKRO FIDRYCH JT, JULIE AND MACKENZIE
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MessageA great tribute to a truly fantastic person. We're all thinking about you, Mr. Fleury!
MessageA great tribute to a truly fantastic person. We're all thinking about you, Mr. Fleury!
MessageHey Coach, Hope those magnesium pills don't taste like all that spinach. I guess it worked for Popeye, but spinach just never did it for me. Hope Timmy got loads of candy on Halloween. Praying for you and thinking of you. Love you, Coach. Clint
MessageHey Coach Fleury, It's nice to see the good news. Hope you continue to do well. Keeping you and your family in my prayers, Tim
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope all is well with you. We are doing well. We got some great pictures of Mackenzie developed yesterday. We will send you a copy. We tied Ridge yesterday 1-1. They got a fluke goal but otherwise we dominated. Just couldn't put another one in before time ran out. One more game this Saturday vs. Mendham and then Frosh Soccer Party on Sunday at Doherty's house. We are about to have a student debate on the War in Iraq during confernce block. SHould be a good one. Varsity Soccer won their last game yesterday vs. Montville to end their season. It won't be long before I am doing Middle SChool hoops. Had about twenty kids come in for extra help this morning on their writing. They are wearing me out! BUt, good to see them work on their writing skills. Turnitin.com seems to be working again well. I have to get ready for the debate. I hope you are well and I hope Timmy had a great Halloween. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Take care Coach! JT ALL TIME ORIOLES LINEUP CATCHER: ELLIE HENDRICKS FIRST BASE: BOOG POWELL SECOND BASE: DAVEY JOHNSON THIRD BASE: BROOKS ROBINSON SHORTSTOP: CAL RIPKEN OUTFIELD: FRANK ROBINSON OUTFEILD: PAUL BLAIR OUTFIELD: MERV RETTEMUND PITCHERS; MIKE PALMER DAVE MCNALLY MIKE CUELLAR MIKE FLANAGAN JT
MessageHi Brian, I laughed out loud when I read the quote from Timmy in your latest update. Too cute. Keep sharing the stories; they’re adorable. Went to a wedding recently and the theme from invitation-to-thank you notes was, “’Love Out Loud.” You capture that same theme and feeling when you talk about Jen and Timmy. Lovely family. From all the Bonannos, we continue to wish you all the best. (You already know that you’re in our thoughts and prayers.)
MessageBrian, Hoping these links may provide some help in conjuntion w/ your treatments. All the best, to you and your family Brian. 4 links below- Copy and paste: http://www.cancermed.com http://burzynskipatientgroup.org/stories.html http://www.mnwelldir.org/docs/cancer1/antineoplastons.htm http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0938530666/103-3648700-7757469?v=glance&n=283155&n=507846&s=books&v=glance (book is titled: The Burzynski Breakthrough.. can get it on Amazon.com)
MessageHi Brian--As you probably know, we were disappointed that the season we devoted to you ended rather abruptly this week. We won the Conference cleanly (13-0-0)-- something we did not do the last two years. So we decided that we would forego the County and State victories so they could be yours in your fight against cancer. God bless Brian. Give Jen and Tim our best!
MessageMr Fleury I was a member of this years varsity soccer team that dedicated its season to you. Im sure you know by now that we had a tough loss in the first round of the states, something which we have not been very accustomed to over the past few years. Although it is tough to lose like that, we really are able to put into perspective that soccer is just a game, and what your doing everyday is for real. We were truly inspired by you every game this season wearing those yellow bands, and im sure all the team will continue to think about you, regardless of the fact that the season is done. Keep up your fighting
MessageBrian, Keep on Keeping on. You are inspiration to me as a man. A quality individual of supreme character and resolve. Best to you and yours.
MessageHi Brian, Just another quick stop to say hey and let you know we're still thinking of you guys. I'm anxious to get an update, hope all is well. The McGuigans
MessageHi Jen, Brian and Timmy. Its been a long time! I've been keeping up with your family through Kathy and just wanted you to know that I'm thinking about you and praying that all goes well for your family. You have been through so much and have done it with such grace that you are truly an inspiration. Hope Timmy had a great Holloween. Kathy's kids were characters from "Annie": Annie(Matigan),Miss Hannigan(Mary), and Sandy the dog(Will). We are enjoying them so much. Love to you all. Mrs.H
MessageJen & Bri... Spoke to JR last eve and he sent me this link. As I sit in my office this Friday morning reading thru all the information and testimonials and reflect back on my own relationship with you both, I am struck by how much good has been generated by the two of you from something so difficult to embrace and truly understand. We are always told that the true test of chracter is not what happens to an individual, but how he responds to it. This whole story is such a powerful mirror that everyone who knows you both must look into and say, "How have I reacted to the things that have happened to me?" I dare say that in most cases and certainly in my own, the answer is...not nearly as bravely, positively or as selfless. The gift that you've given to us all is the filter upon which we can peer thru and see only what is truly important about life as well as how ridiculously unimportant all the crap is that we surround and worry ourselves with on a day-to-day basis. The clarity on life your story provides to those who know you is silencing. Thank you for that gift and thank you for standing in the face of true adversity and showing us all what it means to make the world a better place to live All my Love and Prayers...Kent
MessageBub, I was thinking about you last night as I was cleaning out my basement and I came across a photo album that had a couple of pics from our old MP All-Star days (remember the Blue Astros uniforms?) I also have acouple of pics from down the shore when we were like 12 years old. pretty funny stuff. Stay strong, were all praying for you. Dwight
MessageMr. Fleury, I'm a member of the varsity soccer team this year as well and as you've been notified we lost in our first round of the state playoffs. Despite the tough loss and end to the season, we decided as a team that we needed to put things into perspective. Throughout the season we thought of you before our games in team prayers as well as in our own personal prayers. Our courage inspired us not only to play hard during the season but to be better people as well. In reality, there are far more important things in life than Delbarton winning a third straight soccer state championship. It certainly would have been nice but most importantly we are all hoping for your recovery and return to the Delbarton community.
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MessageJust wanted to let you know that we're all thinking about you. You are one special guy, and never, ever, forget the inspiration that you provide for so many. Keep up the fight. Matt
MessageAs a member of the Delbarton varsity soccer team, I wanted to personally let you know the inspiration you have been to the team. We dedictaed our season to you, and kept you in our prayers at every game. Your courage in the midst of adversity is something that we all admire, and hope to learn from and follow. - Scott
MessageHi Brian, It has been quite a while (18 years...)since you coached me in Little League back home in Morris Plains. I'm living down in Atlanta now, just a few blocks from the Tech ball field. I proudly think of you when I put on my Yellow Jackets Baseball tee-shirt to cheer on the team. My entire family is thinking of you and your family and sending our best wishes and support.
MessageHey Coach, I just want to thank you for the inspiration that you provided for us throughout our soccer season. Even though we didn't accomplish the things that we set out to accomplish at the beginning of the season, praying for you before every game and wearing the yellow wristbands as a part of our uniform helped to ground us and put our season in perspective I think. I'm obviously disappointed with the way the season ended, but i'm certainly not going to let it ruin my year. Now its time to start getting ready for baseball season. Can't wait for Florida and your healthy return to Delbarton, Coach.
MessageCoach / Brian, You continue to be a tremendous inspiration to us all in the courageous way you fight your infirmities . . . I just wish the struggle did not require so many "extra innings" . . . Please know that you'll continue always to be in my thoughts & prayers . . . Your fan base of supporters & well wishers would surely exceed the capacity of most major league stadiums - & that says something remarkable about you . . . All The Best, Stephen Cefalu '95 (LF, #13)
MessageCoach, I hope your in good spirits. I was a memeber of the varsity soccer team this year, and I'm sure you have been getting a lot of messages from us, and for good reason. This year, whether you realize it or not, you contributed in huge part to our team. While our successes on the field may not match some of the past, I believe this year the team thrived in our successes off the field. Sports far exceed the boundaries of the playing field, and I think it was you that helped a lot of us realize that. I can only truly speak for myself, but I know the rest of the team shares this sentiment. Your struggle and fight is an incredilbe example to us all, and for that, you cannot even begin to fathom how much we appreciate and admire you. Wins and losses are not nearly as important as victories and defeats, and while this year we may have had a few losses, they were far exceeded by our victories. You help us to put our season into perspective coach, and whether you have met all of us or not, you have certainly touched us all, and for that, we are all in your debt. My sincerest thanks. -Patrick Pirozzi
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. We hope that you had a great weekend and that you are feeling well. Father Luke continues to keep you at the forefront of the school's thoughts and prayers whenever we come together as a school. It is great to see. Hope the treatment continues to go well. Let us know how you are feeling. We are doing well. We had a busy but enjoyable weekend. My team had its traditional last day of practice on Friday where Eddie and I draft two teams and then have a series of competitions culminating in a scrimmage to determine the victor. My team, down 17-12 going into the scrimmage won to take the title away from Eddie. You got to teach him a lesson from time to time. On Saturday we had a great game vs. Mendham with forty minute halves instead of 30 (By the way we should see if our conference will change that rule as most other conferences have now decided upon 35 or 40 minute halves). Mendham scored first but then we scored in second half to tie it up and send it to overtime. Unfortunatley the scored in the first two minutes of overtime on a controversial play to win. NOthing you could do about it at that point. A great game between two evenly matched teams. We had the freshman soccer party yesterday at Kelly Doherty's house. What a beautiful home. My house would fit in their living room. It was a great party and every kid was there. Father Luke gave a great talk and I gave my traditional speech about every player. Julie came and brought Mackenzie and Mackenzie was the hit of the party as usual. She is doing real well. I gave seven hours of tennis lessons over the weekend to take advantage of the continuing mild weather. I have a heel injury so it is difficult to get through them but it was beautiful outside. My folks come to visit this weekend to see their grandchild. Looking forward to that. We will celebrate my Mom's 75th birthday when they are here. Huge game tonight for Pats! I don't know if they can keep their luck up with the Colts this time with their patchwork secondary but you gotta believe. Pro Hockey has started, but who cares? I have to give some extra help now. Hope you are well. Enjoy the mild weather. Hope Tim is well. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie ALL TIME TWINS LINEUP: CATHER: GEORGE MITTERWALD FIRST BASE: HARMON KILLEBREW SECOND BASE: ROD CAREW THIRD BASE: ERIC SODERHOLM SHORTSTOP: DANNY THOMPSON OUTFIELD: TONY OLIVA OUTFIELD; KIRBY PUCKET OUTFIELD: CESAR TOVAR PITCHERS: JIM PERRY JIM KAAT BERT BLYLEVEN
MessageBrian, Hoping these links may provide some help in conjuntion w/ your treatments. All the best, to you and your family Brian. 4 links below- Copy and paste: http://www.cancermed.com http://burzynskipatientgroup.org/stories.html http://www.mnwelldir.org/docs/cancer1/antineoplastons.htm http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0938530666/103-3648700-7757469?v=glance&n=283155&n=507846&s=books&v=glance (book is titled: The Burzynski Breakthrough.. can get it on Amazon.com)
MessageBrian: Thanks for the update. I check each day for the latest news. Great photos!! Keep them coming. When it comes to superheros, Timmy doesn't have to go to the movies or comic books to find one. He lives with one. I look forward to seeing all of our mutual friends on Thursday evening. There will be a lot of positive energy there all directed up to you. Keep fighting. See you soon. gcg
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hope all is well with you guys. NOt a good day for me as I am tired from staying up and watching the Pats get crushed by the COlts!! I guess Peyton got his revenge finally. I don't think the Pats are going anywhere. Probably gave my last tennis lesson of the year yesterday. It is still nice out. We had a gas leak yesterday and they had to evacuate the gym and I think Trinity. It is cleared up now. Construction seems to be going well on the arts building. I have a middle school hoop meeting this week. We will probably start next week with tryouts. We shall see how many boys come to the meeting. Patrick Pirozzi will continue to help me with them. He does an amazing job with the little guys. We also have a tennis mtg this week believe it or not. GOt to get the Puerto Rico trip organized. I know, it is a tough life but hey someone has to do it. Mackenzie is doing well. I gave her a bath on Sunday. SHe loves it. Julie sings to her in the morning while she is in the shower to keep her content. Mackenzie is mesmerized by her mommy! I have to go to a History Club activity after school now and then get some of my leaves up! NOt looking forward to that. Hope all is well with you. Take care. JT JETS ALL TIME LINEUP QB: JOE NAMATH RB: JOHN RIGGINS RB: MATT SNELL WR: AL TOON WR: WAYNE CHREBETTE TE: RICH CASTER
MessageMr.Fleury, you have and still inspire the lives of many at Delbarton. I wish you the best of luck with your health. I pray for you everyday. Even though you have never coached me or taught me, I feel as though the Delbarton spirit brought me close to you. Fr. Luke and all our faculty members do a great job of reminding us how important and loved you are in our community. I am part of the Delbarton Swim team and hopefully JV tennis (It will be hard getting by Mr. Thompson's try-outs, however, I will enjoy it). I thank you for making my sports career at Delbarton fantastic. Take care, Dan Boguslavsky.
MessageHey Brian, Jen, and Tim God's blessings. Brian - now that soccer season's over I have a few moments to collect my thoughts. We finished first in the county tournament this season. I'm proud of our players. They worked hard without complaining. WE faced Pingry in the finals. The boys enjoyed that. You continue to be in our prayers and thoughts here. Let me know if there's anything Betty and I can do for you. We're happy to care for Tim if you need it, or I can run over to give some help you might need on the house -etc. Just let me know. You're a blessing to us and a continual inspiration. Rob
MessageHi Brian, Today my sister Nora had surgery to donate one of her kidneys to a stranger. In the weeks before her surgery, I told her about you and your European bone marrow donor. She was encouraged by your progress and is hopeful that her recipient will do well, too. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Pat Crapo
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. I hope this note finds you in good health and good spirits. We are doing well. Mackenzie had fun with Julie's Mom last night as she baby sat. She comes every Tuesday night. We have gotten a lot of help thus far. My folks arrive this Saturday and we will celebrate my Mom's birthday. We had about fifteen kids come after school yesterday for the movie "Enemy at the Gates" as part of the History Club activities. They enjoyed it. I think there are some kids who don't have much to do after school, especially now when it is in between sports. I am trying to organize as many as possible. It is difficult for me because I am busy but I think it is worth it. We are having a forum on the riots in France and French American relations in the war on terror this Monday. We have a faculty panel assembled that includes: Sanfacon, Kelley, E. Thompson, J. Thompson, Dugan, Rodriguez, and Hall. Should be good. We are looking forward to the dinner in your benefit tomorrow night! Should be a great night. Well, I have to give students extra help now as it is conference block. All our best to you. take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageMr. Fleury- I have been closely following your progress here for the past few months and it's great to hear that you are doing so well. I'm not too sure why it has taken me this long to actually write, I feel like I could write so much it's almost overwhelming. I do however want to say one thing before I forget or run out of room, thank you. Thank you for making my time at Delbarton so enjoyable, you made sure I kept my head on straight and truly made me feel welcomed. I really can't express the impact you have had on me...Hope you continue to feel better everyday... You are in my thoughts everyday... Jeff Parros
MessageBrian, It's good to hear you are feeling well and your spirits are up. Good luck in the next days - I'm sure the news will be good. Pete
MessageHey Guys, I love the pictures of Emma and Timmy. You just dont get cuter than that. Ahh the good old days. Chelsea should be getting her license in 21 days, as I hear the count down each morning. Brian, that's is the upside of being housebound, your safe indoors. Jen, be careful out there. The fashion show was Monday nite and apparently Lorraine cleaned up. Next year I'm sitting with her. Brian you really need to witness it one year as you are the athletic director and I can assure you the ticket auction is definitely a sport. Not for the meek! Kelsey did a fabulous job singing. People are always stunned at her amazing gift. Derek is in her class this year and he has now stopped referring to her as the she devil. This is major progress, you know him. We are looking forward to tomorrow nite. I'm sure it will be a huge success! I wish you luck with the liver test but really dont beleive you need. You're superman, kiddo! love, Donna
MessageHi Brian We are always asking Father Brian for the most recent updates on how you are doing. You know that you and your family are in our prayers always. Stay strong and we can't wait for you to come back to Delbarton. Tomorrow night is going to be packed and I'm sure it will be a huge success for a great person!!! Tim, Robin, Matthew, Caitlin, Meghan & Patrick Caffrey
MessageCoach, It was great to hear your voice the other night. I hope you are doing well. We all miss you at Delbarton and I can't wait to get back on the baseball field with you. I will continue to pray for you. Greg
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, You do not know me personally, but I am a junior at Chatham and I play for the Chatham Varsity Lacrosse team and we were just recently informed of Mrs. Fleury's leave of absence this coming spring. Although it is hard to hear, we all know it is for the best and I want you to know that you have our whole team behind you. Our prayers are with you and we're keeping high spirits. We are dedicating this season to you. God bless you and the best of luck. Love Helen
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, You do not know me personally, but I am a junior at Chatham and I play for the Chatham Varsity Lacrosse team and we were just recently informed of Mrs. Fleury's leave of absence this coming spring. Although it is hard to hear, we all know it is for the best and I want you to know that you have our whole team behind you. Our prayers are with you and we're keeping high spirits. We are dedicating this season to you. God bless you and the best of luck. Love Helen
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Timmy: Hope all goes well with the liver test Bri! Keep us informed. We are pulling for you and thinking of you. Great pics of Halloween!! I will send you some of Mackenzie. Looking forward to tonight. Got my suit dry cleaned and everything! Should be a great night. We will all be thinking of you. A ton of people on the faculty are going. Things at Delbarton are going well. I will meet with Middle School hoopsters this afternoon and then start tryouts next week. I hear a lot of kids are coming out. I hate to have to cut kids at that age. My students have a big test today on the Scientific Revolution. Now I get to grade them! I just observed Matt Kovachik's Ancient and Medieval History class. Great stuff. He does a great job. One of the keepers on the faculty in my book. We had some more work done on our house yesterday by out painter/decorator. Almost done. Starting to look like a finished home. Our painter did Bruce and Kelly's house as well. She is a hoot. Will talk to you for hours about her work. She is good though. I just signed papers to put new furnace in the house. Ouch! But it has to be done. I also have to get an estimate on my car as someone hit it Tuesday night and took off without leaving a note. Tons of damage. Still driveable but will need major body work. Well, I have to grade some more tests as I proctor this test. I hope you are doing well. We are right down the street if you need anything or want visitors. Hang in there coach. You are the man! Take care and good luck. John, Julie, and Mackenzie Thompson ALL TIME GIANTS LINEUP QB: PHIL SIMMS RB: LARRY JOHNSON RB: JOE MORRIS TE: BOB TUCKER WR: PHIL MCCONKEY WR: PLEXICO BURRIS
MessageBrian, I have never met you but I play lacrosse for Chatham, and am so sorry to hear of the difficult situation which you and your family face. It is very tough for all of us to accept the fact that Jen will not be our coach this upcoming season. However, we know that it is for the best and I just want to let you know that all of our love, thoughts, and prayers are with you and your family. I pray for you every day! much love, Natalie.
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I just some random thoughts for you. It’s really tough to express in words one’s feelings. I spent a lot of time thinking what I could say a have little to show. I guess that’s why the writers get the big bucks. I hope that your recovery is successful and that you are feeling better. Give my best to your family. In my opinion, people that live with pain and never complain are the most courageous of all. I had a grandfather with as much courage as you and I contain the utmost respect for men and women that always are upbeat and radiant. Always looking to inspire and never looking for sympathy, you are among the most courageous people in the world. That Vikings helmet looked really good. I think Timmy would look good in the Purple and Gold, well, maybe not this year. If I am able to inspire and befriend one tenth of the people you have, I will consider my life a successful one. Colgate is good so far. I’m making sure to only play Dash on the first floor. Shoot me an email anytime, I’d love to talk. I could tell you how great a person you are, but I don’t need to. The proof is in the vast number of people you have inspired through your life. You’re the best and it shows. Whoops, used “inspire” twice and too closely together. Always looking to improve my writing skills. Well, that’s all for now. Thanks for being one of the best teachers I have ever had. I hope you have a speedy recovery and you can get back to Delbarton ASAP. -Grafton
MessageBrian I just got in after attending the dinner in your honor and felt the need to drop you a quick note. It was mentioned a number of times tonight how you're in awe of the love and support that you've received. Well Bubbs, we're in awe of you for the love, courage and outright determination that you've displayed for the past 19 years. You are a messenger of God. Keep up the good fight and know that we're with you! Dennis
MessageDear Brian, and Jen and Timmy, I just returned from a wonderful, moving, inspirational evening where you were everyone's favorite topics of conversation. There was love and respect and optimism (and quite a bit of humor!) everywhere. What a tonic! Thank you! With warmest best wishes - Lindsay
MessageHi Brian- Just got home from a great nite from the begin prayer to the end...I don't want to go on and on because it is late but Mr. Shatel, your sister and father in-law, and of course the video where just so touching and you know me the tears are all there. You do know by now you are a very special person. I hope you know you touched alot of peoples hearts..I know I only worked with you the one year but you are someone very special and that big guy up there knows it.. By the way, I owe the whole Varsity team a Italian dinner, thanks to Joe Bellini--he's a great kid!! You're in are prayers always. Keep strong... Love The Caffrey Family
MessageHey Coach, I was just leaving you and your family a message to let you know that you're in my prayers. We're gonna miss you this season, but you'll be there in spirit, in each and every one of us! All the best, -Anna Valle
MessageBrian, Now I know why you were a catcher. Watching you at 3 or 4 years old - you ran like a slow old man at that age, too! Your sister was running you down. Great night. Amazing to see how many people you have touched - even those that have never spoken to you. I miss seeing you guys. Pete
MessageBrian- last night was a wonderful outpouring of love for you and Debbie and I really enjoyed being a part of it. We enjoyed Harry Shatel's remembrance of your playing days! I know how horrible diseases can be- my sister has MS. We hope that your recovery keeps going so you can return to school as soon as possible!!!! The Yula's
MessageTerrific time last night. Place was packed. Hope you're better each day.
MessageBrian - Jeanne and I were happy to be at the dinner last night. Lots of great reminders about all that you've meant to Delbarton and all of the work that you have yet to do on campus. Everyone looks forward to your quick return. Best, Jim Petrucci
MessageMr. Fleury, you don't know me but your wife was my coach for chatham lacrosse this past year. I just wanted to let you know that you, Mrs. Fleury, and Timmy are in my prayers, and I hope the best for you all. Coach Fleury, the Chatham girls lacrosse team will miss you very much this upcoming season, but we will work hard, stick together, and make you proud. This season is for you, Mr. Fluery, and Timmy! The best of luck to you all. Love Brittany.
MessageHi, Brian, Jen & Tim...... The dinner at the Marriott last night was SENSATIONAL.....I would guess that there were 450-500 guests....all thinking of the 3 of you!!! I wish you the best, Brian.....you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers always....hope to see you soon, pal! Your friend, Peter
MessageBrian, it was an honor and a pleasure to attend the dinner for you last night! The outpouring of love for you and your family was abundently obvious. You are truly an inspiration to us all.... We continue to pray for your improved health and can't wait to see you back at Delbarton! Our Best Wishes, Diane and Don Marinari
MessageCoach Fleury, all of my prayers and best wishes to you, your husband and Timmy in this very difficult time. Stay strong and hang in there! This season is for you! <3 Margi
MessageBrian - It was so nice to attend your banquet. It was such a testimony to the great person you have always been and continue to be. We were so happy for you at the end of the night and are so happy we could be a small part of the evening. You should be so proud for all the lives you have touched. Marty will be so happy if he gets the softball he bid on and for some unknown reason the Pete Rose ball. Cann't understand that but I guess it would bring back some of his old memories of baseball in the past. Again - we are so proud of you and all you have accomplished and continue to pray for you, your family and your donor. Fondly - Marty and Marilyn Reilly
MessageCoach: Hope all is well. Just wanted to update you on todays game, Delbarton 58- Bishop Ahr 13. The boys were great today and made up for last years opening round playoff defeat. This is a team on a mission to get to the State Finals. The coaches have done a great job preparing the boys for battle each week and they should be congratulated for job well done today. Next week another home playoff game against Immaculata. Hope all is well with you and your family, I know that after this past weeks banquet and the teams win today that you will get only good news on your results of your tests. Stay Postive and we are always praying and pulling for your recovery Sincerely Rich Conforti
MessageHi Guys, Wow, what an outstanding job Jill and Tess did with the dinner. It's mind boggling to think it could be pulled together in only 3 months time. They are dynamos. The event was filled with good people, lots of laughs and really cool auction items. Derek is THRILLED with a Jets package that Chuck won. I was in hot pursuit of a Diane Lopez painting that somehow went home with someone else. I am still unsure how that went down since I have honed my auction skills on Ebay for years. Jen, have you consumated a bid yet? Danny Whalen told me not to worry, he was sure I could buy in bulk from Diane. I'm not certain but I dont think that's how artists work. Coach Shatel, Jen's Dad and the video were both touching and humorous. Even the food was really good. The entire event was upbeat, light and joyful. I wish you today and each day out the same. Love,Donna
MessageHi Guys, Wow, what an outstanding job Jill and Tess did with the dinner. It's mind boggling to think it could be pulled together in only 3 months time. They are dynamos. The event was filled with good people, lots of laughs and really cool auction items. Derek is THRILLED with a Jets package that Chuck won. I was in hot pursuit of a Diane Lopez painting that somehow went home with someone else. I am still unsure how that went down since I have honed my auction skills on Ebay for years. Jen, have you consumated a bid yet? Danny Whalen told me not to worry, he was sure I could buy in bulk from Diane. I'm not certain but I dont think that's how artists work. Coach Shatel, Jen's Dad and the video were both touching and humorous. Even the food was really good. The entire event was upbeat, light and joyful. I wish you today and each day out the same. Love,Donna
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, My name is Kevin McGregor and Mr. Andrasko has been talking about you and your experiences in baseball and in life in our Spanish class. I justed wanted to say that your an inspiration to me and the entire Delbarton community. As a freshman, I am new to the school but I have realized how much you mean to everyone in this school. Just remember everyone in the Delbarton community is praying for you everyday.
MessageDear Mr Fleury, You probably dont know me but I am Peter Jones and I go to Delbarton. I hope that your treatment is going well and that you get better soon. I hope that your family is also doing well. I hope to meet when you come back to Delbarton. Feel better. Sincerely, Peter Jones
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Sorry I haven't checked in in a couple of days. My folks were up so it has been a hectic couple of days. We had a great time at the dinner and auction in your honor. There had to be 500 people there! It was amazing. The video was amazing to. Except it looked like your sister was schooling you in baseball as a little kid. Jen's Dad gave an amazing talk at the dinner. Wow, we were floored. So many people are with you Brian. That has to be an amazing feeling. Hang in t here. Julie and I are always thinking of you and we hope this note finds you in good health and good spirits. I saw a lot of people at the dinner including Dan Lacz and Matt Hanlon. Matt is working with autistic kids now. Awesome! I love that kid. We sat with Puck, Horner, Dugan, and Wayne. Talked to the Kolmars, Walshs, O'Donnells, McGuigans, etc. Great night though I take issue with some of the items being auctioned off like the 86 mets junk. Get that stuff out of here now. We had a great visit with my folks this weekend and we celebarated my Mom's 75th birthday. They had a blast with their granddaughter. Football had a huge win yesterday. Bowers has done an awesome job this year. Sounds like a great group. I have a few of the guys in class this year. Tough to play football and take AP Euro at the same time but I have a few who are doing it and thriving. We have our fall term Sunday night review session for the AP Euro fall term final in about 45 minutes in the Gregory Room. History, Jeopardy, and pizza. What else do you want? Well, Anthony Cerrone said girls when I said that in class but we will have a good time nonetheless. Got to get them ready. Luckily Julie lets me do this stuff even with Mackenzie around. Mackenzie is quite active now. She likes to hear the sound of her voice now and is squealing and yelling a lot now. We finally finished the nursery so Mackenzie can move in. I finished my leaves today though I am sure a bunch more will fall on the yard. Got my new leaf blower going. that thing is awesome. I start middle school hoops this week. my best player is out for a month so that is not good! Hopefuly there are some good 7th graders coming out. I know a couple of them from camp. Well, got to prepare for the review session. It was a special night on Thursday Brian. It says a lot about you my friend. A lot of people are with you from Delbarton to Mo Plains to Morristown. Hang in there and get back here soon. Take care. JT
MessageBrian, Jen, Timmy- Carrie filled me in on the success of Thursdays dinner, what a nice turnout! Although I wasn't there, my heart was with all of you. We are keeping the whole Fleury family and your donor in our prayers. Take care, Chris, Kelly, Katie, Chris and Kevin
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I want you to know that my family and I keep you in our thoughts and prayers. We hope you continue to improve and that all the news is good when you return to the doctor. Sincerely, Mike Wroblewski
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I am a new student to Delbarton but I've heard about you non stop during morning meetings and other prayers about your operation. I want to wish the best of luck to you and that I will see you possibly within this year or the next. From, Michael Plate
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I am Shane Conlin and i am a ninth grader at Delbarton and I am from Randolph I have heard great things about you from all of my techers and the morning meetings. I hope that you get well and you can come back to Delbarton so that i can meet you. Everyone here at Delbarton misses you and says great things about you everyday. From, Shane Conlin
MessageCOACH!!!!!!! I'm so happy that you came to talk to us. Every prayer and hope I have goes out to you and yours. come to our games!!!!!!!!! you were my only lacrosse coach and I learned all I know from you. I'm upset because one of my goals of the year was to become AMAZING at lacrosse, but now I have more incentive. I wanted to show you my hardwork and I hope to on the varsity field *fingers crossed and running lots*. soooooooooooooooo much love. love love love. MACKIE.
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope all is well with you. Another beautiful day. I hope that you get a chance to get outside today. We had a great review session last night with the sophomres. I think every sophomore I had came. Amazing. We got a lot done and had some fun. We alternate from going over a theme to playing jeopardy. Eventually we have one class as the jeopardy champ and lunch block pulled it out this year getting the final jeopardy question right. Today we had a great History Club Forum on the riots in France. When you get back to Delbarton I hope you can partake in some of the topics that may interest you. We had a faculty panel assembled to answer student questions about the situation in France. The panel included, Alan Kelley, Doc Rod, Rik Dugan, Special Ed Thompson, and Rob Puck Puchniak. The panel members had obviously done their homework and had some excellent things to contribute to the discussion. We had about sixty students and six teachers in attendance which was a nice turnout considering the fact that it was not made mandatory by any teacher. I hope to do at least one more before break. Unfortunately this job of History Club Moderator has been dumped in my lap this year until I find a full time club moderator but I enjoy it and if I want it to be as active and detailed as I do then I guess I should do it. I still can't get over the dinner for you at the Marriot. What a beautiful night. You have a lot of support. I start middle school hoop practice in two days. I am going with a new offense this year to try to do something to get us back on the winning track. If I only had some six foot two seventh graders out there I would be all set! It is a good group. About 26 kids signed up. I had to tell a couple of good kids that they were not going to Puerto Rico on the tennis trip. Not an easy conversation but it had to be done. I think we have the right guys on the trip but you hate to hurt a kids' feelings. We have had kids make the team when they were not selected to go on the trip so it can happen. Tennis is interesting because cuts is really in the hands of the kids. IF they win challenge matches they are ahead of other kids on the ladder and ultimately make the team. If they lose the drop down the ladder and may not make the team. We are trying to find cheap air fare to San Juan. Whenever I get a free moment I have to finalzie those plans. Well, I hope you are doing well. All our best to you and your family. Hang in there chief. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Take care Bri. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie ALL TIME OAKLAND A'S SQUAD CATCHER: GENE TENACE FIRST BASE: JOE RUDI SECOND BASE: DICK GREEN THIRD BASE: SAL BANDO SHORSTOP: BERT CAMPENARIS OUTFIELD: CLAUDELL WASHINGTON OUTFIELD: REGGIE JACKSON OUTFIELD: BILL NORTH PITCHERS: VIDA BLUE, CATFISH HUNTER, KEN HOLTZMAN, BLUE MOON ODOM, AND ROLLIE FINGERS
Messagedear mr fleury my name is pete and i go to delbarton. u dont really know me, but i jsut want u to know how much of an influence u are to me. u teach me to stand strong and never give up. my grandfather died of cancer this past month, and ur defeating it. u are strong and i hope to be too. ur in my paryers. thaks for bein a great influence
Messagedear mr fleury my name is pete and i go to delbarton. u dont really know me, but i jsut want u to know how much of an influence u are to me. u teach me to stand strong and never give up. my grandfather died of cancer this past month, and ur defeating it. u are strong and i hope to be too. ur in my paryers. thaks for bein a great influence
MessageDear Brian: Just checked the news here and see you are going back to Boston. Good luck with the tests!!! Beautiful letter here. I like the words from Gale Sayers movie. Anybody who doesn't cry as a kid watching Brian's Song is lying. Well, we are pulling for you my friend. I am sure the tests will all be good news. I just came back to school to try to get some pictures for Julie from a website but you can't print them, you have to buy them. It was part of her Mommy and baby group that she goes to. Great pictures. can't wait to get them. Well, I should run back home and help out with the family. Good luck Brian. At least you are back in the greatest state in the country now. Take care. Jt, JUlie and Mackenzie
MessageMr. Fleury, You do not know me personally, but I am one of Jen's players at Chatham. Along with the millions of people who are praying for you, I just thought I'd let you know that our entire team is with you 100%. You are in our prayers and we dedicate this entire season to you, Jen, and Timmy. This season is for you coach!! Good luck with everything, and if you are in need don't ever hesitate to call on us! BEST WISHES, Hannah Clark
MessageMr. Fleury - You do not know me personally, but I am one of Jen's players on Chatham. Along with the millions of people who care so much for you, I thought I'd let you know that our team is with you 100%. You are in our prayers as we dedicate this entire season to you, Jen, and Timmy. This season is for you coach!! If you ever need anything, don't hesistate to call on us!! BEST WISHES, Hannah
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hope you had a good trip up to Boston and are settled in up there. I hope this note finds you in good health and good spirits. Good luck with your tests. I am sure they are going to be great! We are pulling for you. My students are in the midst of preparing for the Fall term final examination this week. It is a great way to get them ready for the AP exam in the spring. We have a two day final, one day 50 out of 60 multiple choice and one day two out of eight essays. It is worth 20 percent of their grade. We had another good review session after school yesterday and will have another today. Class time is limited but I think they are ready. I have a ton of grading to do by Monday when grades are due but it will get done. Julie and Mackenzie had some great photos taken at their Mom and baby group yesterday. I know I am biased but that kid could be in commercials! She is going through so many changes right now, it is amazing. I hope you are doing well. My students are almost done with their discussion questions so it is back to class for me. Take care Bri. You are the man. JT
MessageBrian: Our thoughts and prayers are with you on your trip to Boston. We are sure the results will be positive! We couldn't believe the love that was present at the dinner. You have touched and inpsired so many more people than you will ever know! It was tremendous. You would have just looked around and said "This is awesome", and it was. What an outpouring. Keep up the good work and give a hug to Jen and Timmy from us. All the Goldsmiths
MessageHey Bri, Thinking about you a lot, as usual. Kick butt in Boston. Ellen
MessageCoach Fleury, I'm a freshman at Delbarton and have heard many great things about you. I hope you get well soon so I can meet you in person.
MessageCoach Fleury, I'm a freshman at Delbarton and have heard many great things about you. I hope you get well soon so I can meet you in person.
MessageCoach, Hope all the tests go well in Boston. My Prayers are with you! Greg
MessageHello Mr. Fleury, I just heard of your most recent struggle with illness and was compelled to write you a message. I have always thought extremely highly of you. You have touched my family and myself with your selfless thoughfulness and compassion. Hang in there and fight, yours is such a noble one, and you inspire others to do the same though you may not even know it Mike
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy We will be thinking about you as the holidays approach. You are going through so much, but thank God you are together as a family. We are praying for you, your family, your donor along with just saying Thank You to God for having, family and friends. Take care, we look forward to seeing you walking around town! Love from the Longs
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys! Hope all is well in Boston and that you are settled in and the tests are going well. We are thinking of you. I hope this note finds you in good spirits. Your message on the video to the crowd at the silent auction was amazing. I have one more day of preparation before the students take the final. it has been a mad race to get ready and has included sessions on Sunday night, before school, during conference block, and after school the past two days. I am "reviewed" out! I think they are ready. I am trying to make sure that they don't panic and don't blow off their other classes. Since their only homework since Monday was to study for this final they really shouldn't. I saw Jar Head last night with Julie's Dad. It was awful, at least I thought so. I can see why it might get awards for acting or screenplay but the message was weird and the tone was anti military and anti US in many ways. Now I don't get upset about movies like that but I just thought this one was weird and focused on too many weird aspects of troops being couped up in camp together. I didn't get it. My father in law was furious afterwards but I remained calm. Well, I have to go to class now. First day of middle school hoops today! I got Patrick Pirozzi, robbie Heallauer, and Patrick Sullivan helping out! 26 kids out for the team. take care. JT, Julie, and mackenzie
MessageBrian: I met you a few times with my father, Mike Sr., while he was coaching and involved with my younger brothers Thomas and Brian. Just wanted to let you know that my father was always very fond of you and we are all thinking of you. You are truly an amazing person. Hope your days are filled with continued success and belief that you will get well.
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MessageHello Brian, You remain in our prayers and we're certain your test results will be good news. You're just rounding the bases, and you've got the team behind you to make it home. The Delbarton community awaits you when you cross home plate. Our best to you and your family. - Dianne
MessageWhat is up Big Guy Just wanted to check in.
MessageBri... Great night last week! What a turnout and what a show of support for you and your family. It really was special. Hope you're doing well and looking forward to getting you back on the hilltop. God Bless... Sean
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hope all is well in Boston. You know at least you are in the greatest state in America right now so that must be of some comfort! Hope all is well and tests go well. You are in our thoughts and prayers as usual. Had a great practice yesterday with the Middle School basketball team. An eager group! We have about 25 kids out for the team. I have 12 8th graders out there which is tough because I don't know if I can keep all of them but we shall see. We look pretty good. We have put in a new offense and I think it will help us out a lot. I had a lot of help from Robbie Hellauer, Rob Delaney, Pat Sullivan, and Pat Pirozzi. Pirozzi has been my assistant coach for three years now and he does an excellent job, I think he is even better than some of my adult assistants that I have had in hoops! I hate to have to cut at this age but there is no way around it. It is great to start practicing now before the other teams are out. We have the new gym to ourselves for two hours and we can get a lot more done that way. One of our best players from last year, Matt DeRenzi, is hurt for a month so we will miss him for awhile. My students are taking the first part of their final right now. I think they are ready. We counted 48 themes that we had gone over in review sessions outside of class to get them ready! Crazy. They are a good group this year. Several gifted and talented kids. I was eliminated from the suicide pool that I am in when I picked the Giants to beat the Vikings! Oh well. I am in another pool now. Well, I have to get some major grading done during this final or I am in trouble this weekend. Hope all is well with you. Hang in there. All our best: JT Julie and Mackenzie
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MessageHey Coach, Im not sure if my last post went through, I kind of snapped on the keyboard and it might have submitted the message. Anyways, I was just saying hi and telling you that you are in everybody's prayers. Stay strong. Kevin Riordan
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello Fleurys! Hope all is well in Boston! Good luck with tests and treatment. You are in our thoughts and prayers each day. Starting to get cold here so I am sure it is getting cold in the great state of Massachusetts. You know, Boston doesn't even think Western Mass exists where I am from. MY Dad used to get mad when UMASS sports would barely be covered in the Boston Globe sports page. To them, the state ends at Worcester. Things at Delbarton are good. I am swamped with grading as the term ends and my students take a two day final examination. So far they have done pretty well on them but I have a long way to go before I am done. I am trying to get the majority of them done now in school as they are taking them. I never understood teachers who didn't grade while proctoring tests. You can get so much done. It forces you to sit there and grade. We had a good second practice yesterday for Middle School Hoops. Put in the 2-3 zone and offense vs. a 2-3 zone. Kids picked it up pretty quick. I have about five hoop players helping me with practice which is great because it is tough with 24 kids on your own. Robbie Hellauer has been a big help this week. We will make cuts on Tuesday before break. That is never easy but I guess it has to be done. We had dinner at Julie's grandmother's house yesterday after practice. That woman is a saint. Without her we would be in trouble. She is such a big help to us. My brother's baby Molly is doing well. I hope to see her soon but will definitely see her over Christmas at my folks. They are flying out to mass from Cleveland. They are more adventurous than we were but to each his own. IT will be fun to see the two girls together. Mackenzie had a rough night last night. She was up a lot. We think she might be teething now. I saw Taylor Price at school yesterday with his Mom. He is doing real well at Georgetown. They stopped by before going to a function named after Christopher Reeves in New York City. After talking to Taylor's Mom I realized they weren't just attending this function but Taylor had been one of six people in the country selected to speak at it! He is an inspiration. That kid never complains and is always in a good mood. Well, I got to get back to my stack of papers! I hope you are doing well. We send you our best. Hope everything goes well in Boston. Big game for football team this weekend! Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageBrian, Just making my daily visit to check for news and to read JT's post, thought I'd say hey on my way through. Hope all is well with you guys. Terry
MessageDear Brian- As a Freshman parent, I wanted to let you know that even during your temporary leave, your presence is felt. I have had the pleasure of meeting you on a few occasions, and you have allowed me to pick your brain regarding baseball. You are an inspiration to your peers, colleagues, and students, and “I Am Third” is a motto that we should all live by. Thank you for defining the Delbarton experience. My wife, sons, and I look forward to your speedy return. Best, Jim Cross
MessageBri-just wanted to say an early... HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I hope you, Jen and Timmy have a fun day together on your big day! Thanks for letting me borrow Jen briefly... it was great to see her. Good luck on this next phase... we think about you always, we look forward to your updates and of course to all of Jen's pictures (hint hint Jen... we want more!)! Love to all... Mere, Scott, Lily, Jack
MessageBubba - Happy Birthday on Tuesday! Wish I could have been there for your dinner a couple of weeks ago - it sounds like it was a great evening! Thanks for posting your speech; it was truly inspirational - as you are! You are in our prayers here in Chicago - keep us all updated on your progess in Boston. Good to see A-Rod win the MVP-the Yanks will be back next year. Woody
MessageHey Brian, Hope you're doing well. Unbeknownst (is that English?) to me I have an acquaintance who is also a survivor like you. She too has had two transplants and I would never have known. I was talking about your benefit dinner, which is how it came out. She wanted me to let you know that she is praying for you. I suspect that her prayers are special. Get well, friend! Paul
MessageHi, Brian..... Our young men were extremely impressive again....Brian Bowers and his staff have the guys running on all 8 cylinders....St. Joe's will be very formidable but our team will be ready!! I was at 11am Mass yesterday at school and I was thinking of you, as I often do....keep up the good fight, Brian....I pray for you every day....may God bless you!! Your friend, Peter
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Timmy: Hello guys. Hope all is well and that you had a restful and enjoyable weekend up in Boston. I drove past your house yesterday and noticed the trees that lined your driveway were cut down. Looks good. I finally got all of my leaves off the lawn and onto the street. Big job. We had a good weekend. We celebrated Julie's Dad's birthday at her grandmother's house on Friday night. On Saturday we got a lot of stuff done around the house and I graded papers for hours on end and then we went back to her grandmother's house again for dinner to see her great grandmother. On Sunday we went to Ryan and Tina MacNaughton's son's Christening in Whippany and then the reception in Madison. Only Delbarton people there was Brother Eamon. He is almost done with his studies to be ordained as a priest. It was good to see him and talk to him. He is a good man. Once his is done with studies he will be back in the classroom and back coaching. Both Ryan and his twin brother Mark said to pass on their good wishes to you so I am relaying that to you now. Ryan is doing well teaching and coaching at Hanover Park. His son Christian is a pistol. We are predicting that he and Mackenzie will be boyfriend girl friend some day but I told him that kid better watch out! His Dad is a presbyterian minister and we may join his church as I am Protestant and Julie has moved from Catholicism to Protestantism somewhat so we need to find a church to go to and to have our christening at. We would probably do a joint thing again with a Protestant minister and a Catholic priest conducting the ceremony like we did at our wedding as you remember. Sunday night we went over to Julie's Mom's house and I finished my grading and computing of grades while they played with the baby. I turned in my grades this morning. I still do it the old way and don't use the computer integrade. I like my system. I am a Luddite at heart. I also just finished my winter term syllabus for the kids so the whole winter term is planned out barring snow days. This afternoon I have the fourth day of hoop tryouts for Middle School basketball. The 8th graders are away at Gettysburg, my alma mater, on a trip to the battlefield so today will be just the 7th graders. That is good in a way because I can really look at the younger kids to see who is ready to make the team. Should be good. Well, I have to go to study hall now with Shatel. He does work in the backrooom while I lay down the law in the library. Hope you are feeling well and tests are great. You are the man. We continue to pray for you chief. Take care. Go Pats. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageWe have been following your progress and are in awe of you, your family and doctors and all that you have accomplished. The last update is wonderful new - you are all in our daily thoughts and prayers. Wishing you and yours a very blessed Thanksgiving. Angela, Anthony, Anthony and Dan Moschella
MessageBrian: We arre delighted to see that the news continues to be positive. Everything on schedule right now, and we can't ask for more than that. I have heard about the Tae Bo workout--a little personal advice--don't let Ruhalter and a video camera in the room. Amherst started this weekend and it looks like Matt is moving up the chain, so he's happy (but when is he not?) All the best to you, Jen, Tim and all the family for a great Thanksgiving--we continue to have much to be thankful for. John
MessageI saw Dave Lewis at the game on Saturday and he gave me a preview of your good news so looked forward to reading your latest update. We're all happy to hear it. I wanted you also to know that I have been watching Delbarton football since I got there in 1965 as a seventh grader and I don't think I can recall a team with more character than this one. When I first saw them in the beginning of the year I was not overly impressed and with Max Dorne going down for the season I was pretty concerned. But this group has just stepped up in a way the is incredibly unique and Jack McBride in this offense does a terrific Vince Young imitation. Whatever happens against St. Joe's will not put much of a damper on the season for me.
MessageHi Brian, Reading your latest update was reassuring and good to hear but let me backtrack a bit. The Silent Auction was a real tribute to you and your family and deserved to be the success it was. I was moved by several things that evening: the Fleury family film, the testimonials, but mostly by your letter. It depicted you so well that I needed to share it with close family & friends. The feedback I received was nothing less than I expected. Sentiments came back to me like: “I feel like I know him;” “Eloquent, so well written;” “He’s quite a man;” “I’ll continue to pray for him;” “I put his name in the prayer book at my church.” All this is just to let you know that you’ve touched more lives than you can imagine; all for the better; and for every life that you’ve touched, you’re assured of more prayers and positive thoughts. Happy Thanksgiving to you, Jen and Timmy. “Best” from all the Bonannos!
MessageBrian! what encouraging news!!! You and your family remain in our thoughts and prayers. Truly, 11/24 will be a day to be thankful for all of our blessings-especially good health. Continue to take good care of your self! I know your wife,son, parents and sisters must be so grate-ful for the GOOD NEWS!! I always knew you were the kind of person who is a good friend-but from reading the website you have been blessed with countless good friends too. Happy Turkey Day!
MessageCoach, I heard good things about your results. Thats great news. Im praying for you. I can't wait to see you back in school greg
MessageCoach, I heard good things about your results. Thats great news. Im praying for you. I can't wait to see you back in school greg
MessageHappy Birthday tomorrow Brian! Your positive attitude despite half your life with cancer is so inspirational. May all the years ahead be cancer free. I have such faith that you will beat it. You stay in my prayers. - Kim
MessageBrian: Your 11/21 post has given me quite a lift this evening. I am pleased and encouraged for you and your family. Another step along the path and another reason for Thanksgiving this week. gcg
MessageBub, Great news on your last visit to Boston. Hope you have a great birthday this week. (I always remember November b-days) Stay strong and you remain in my families prayers. Dwight
MessageHappy Birthday!!! Hope you have an especially happy day and a celebratory Thanksgiving. So Glad Boston went well Take care....ellen
MessageGreat update! Happy Thanksgiving to you and all of your family, friends, and also your donor! All the best, Tom and Annie Long
MessageHi Bub, Just wanted to wish you a happy birthday! Hope you three have a good day together. We love you. Pete, Carrie, Abbie, Jay and Bradley
Messagehey brian Just a note to let you know that when I heard you needed the transplant in july,I had your name added to our prayer list at the first reformed church of saddle brook,where i am a member. we have been following your progress ever since.we will keep you in our prayers every day.
MessageCoach,In this week of Thanksgiving, we are so thankful for your encouraging news. You are always in our prayers. It sounds like today is your Birthday- I am proud to share my own Birthday (today)with such a great man!! Have a great day with your family. Love and continued good health from all the Esposito's
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, Great to hear the good news regarding the Boston trip. I'm guessing, by reading the other entries, a big ole Happy Birthday is in order too! I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving.
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Timmy: Great news about the tests! Glad they went well. Glad you are back at home where you can enjoy Thanksgiving. Hang in there chief!! We are pulling for you. We hope you can enjoy Thanksgiving with family. We will be going up to Amherst, Mass to see my folks assuming the weather is good. It is supposed to be bad on Thursday. We were going to go up on Thursday but may not be able to. Julie took some great pictures of Mackenzie the other day which I think we will use as our Christmas card. We will send you guys one soon. I had a great practice with the 7th graders yesterday. There were only ten of them and we worked them pretty hard. Today is the rough day when we make cuts. I think I am ready but I really hate going through this, especially at this age. We should have a pretty good team. Unfortnately one of our best players, Matt DeRenzi (also a good baseball player!) is hurt but he will be back in December. I love MS hoops because it is really my only contact with the little guys and I love hoops. I covered Dave Donovan's philosphy class last Friday and his kids did a round table discussion as different philosophers throughout the ages. They did a great job even though it didn't count for a grade and Dave was not there. John Twomey ran it in Dave's absence and did a great job. I am going to have them do it in front of the school during a conference block. The History Club is really taking off now and I have some kids helping me run it now. I hope to make it a big deal at Delbarton if there is interest. I don't have a lot of time to devote to it but I get into the projects we organize so it is worth it. Football has been amazing this year. Two weeks and they are playing the finals against St. Joes at Rutgers. What a job that staff has done especially without Max. Hats off them. I don't know how they do all they do sometimes. Kovachik has started MS hockey but only has about 12 kids out this year. Eddie Thompson and I have to finish organizing the Puerto Rico trip. We are taking the following guys: Ryan Donovan, Donnie Marinari, Tim Walsh, Conor Pigott, Tim Koch, Reid Sandelands, Tim Thomson, Tim French, Theo Patsalos Fox, Tom Ligouri, Chris Zamierowski, and Christian Massey. Solid group. It will be hard to do what we did last year but we will try. We have to be solid at doubles to beat the top teams this year. Millburn will be the team to beat unfortunately. We have Thanksgiving service now so I have to run. I hope you have a great Thanksgiving and a great Birthday!!!!. Don't worry about your Jets, you can pull for the Giants instead. Pats are in trouble but should still make the playoffs I think. Take care. Jt, JUlie and Mackenzie WORST STARTING QB'S IN SUPERBOWL: TONY EASON DAVID WOODLEY STAN HUMPHRIES TRENT DILFER VINCE FERAGAMO BRAD JOHNSON
MessageHappy Birthday! & Happy Thanksgiving! It's amazing to read just how many individuals, prayer groups and churches are praying for you. Your good results are answers to those prayers. Stay strong. Regards to Jenn & Timmy. Love, Mary
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy- Hope you guys have a wonderful Thanksgiving...Glad to hear your tests went ok up in Boston. We are thinking of you and praying for you and your donor. Please dont hesitate to call us if you need ANYTHING....I go to the store several times a week and could pick something up for you. Also, Larry can snowblow your sidewalk when it snows...(that's if Dennis doesnt beat him to it!!!) Happy Thanksgiving! Love, Larry, Chris, Sean and Julia Hoey
MessageDear Brian, Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. The Quick family offers a prayer of Thanksgiving today for you, the wonderful doctors and staff at Dana Farber, and your donor. Have a great day. Les, Eileen, Chris, Ryan, Kelsey and Maura Quick
MessageHappy Thankgiving The best news no graft vs host disease, yeah! I think at four months JJ started to feel like he could do more, even though he wasn't supposed to. Now he is six months post transplant and is off all restrictions. Good luck Marcia Zak
MessageHey Mr. Fleury- I hope you're having a great Thanksgiving. We all have so much going on that it's sometimes difficult to keep things in perspective, to remember what keeps us grounded - the things we should all be truly thankful for. Thank you for always reminding us of what's really important. Enjoy the holiday. Steve Popper
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, Great test results! My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Matt DeRenzi
MessageMr. Fleury, It was great to hear about the good news from the doctors. You are such an inspiration to everyone in the Delbarton community. Happy Thanksgiving! Mike McGuire
MessageHi Brian and family, I have saved the emails from Jill and Jen for awhile. I just read the positive news regarding you test results...that's good. I am not aware of a specific fund that has been set up on your behalf and the behalf of your family. I would be honored to contribute to it and to such an outstanding person. At your conveniece, send me the information. Sincerely, Sharon, Peter, Morgen, Shannon and Jack Gallagher
MessageBrian- Great news on the tests. Keep up the effort and we will keep up the prayers! The soccer banquet is this week and as you probably know, we dedicted the season to you. Someone should have explained that winning a state title would have been a nice gift. Be that as it may, we left a couple of victories on the field this year. They are left for you to use. Use them well, my friend, and win these in a rout! With our love and prayers. Ken, Kris, Matt, Cate and Tommy Donovan
MessageHi Brian, I am delighted to hear the good news about your tests and that you are starting to be weened off of some of the drugs. I hope you all had a great Thanksgiving. You remain in my prayers. Take care, Brian. Love, Pat Crapo
Messagehello! I am always glad to read your updates. It is like being there with you-- at least a little bit. You are marvelous and express your thoughts so we get a glimpse of what you must be experiencing. The more I hear about Jen, the more I understand what a strong support she is to you as well. Meeting some of your friends and family the the auction and dinner was special-- and the video- fantastic! I hope your Thanksgiving was enjoyable, however different it had to be. Peace, and Blessings to you all. Barbara
MessageBrian- We didn't know it was your birthday on Tuesday... Happy Birthday! I just read your update and I am happy to hear that the tests went well. I'm up doing a little late night emailing (Rik has fallen asleep with Isa on the glider, his usual night time ritual) and was thinking of you guys. I love the pictues posted. Timmy looks great in his costume! You truly are an inspiration. Our prayers are with you. We wish you the love of family, the happiness of friends and health... always. All of our love, Joanna, Rik and Isabella
MessageBrian, It has been a while since we last spoke but you and your family have been in my thoughts. I wish we had connected before I moved out of Boston. This Thanksgiving it was great to read your latest update and I am THANKFUL for you and your never ending fight. You are an inspiration. I look forward to reading more. Bobby
MessageBrian We're thinking about you and your family! Know our prayers are always with you. George and Karen Ross (Stephen, Stuart and Jamie Goddard's mother and your parent's neighbors)
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hope you had a great Thanksgiving! We went up to Amherst to spend Thanksgiving with my folks. They were psyched to see Mackenzie and she was well behaved for most of the trip. It was quite a production getting up there but once there it was a great time. My Dad was psyched that Colgate was in the Division 1AA playoffs against New Hampshire. I didn't see who won that but NH was the first seed. Umass won that thing fairly recently. It is good to be back at Delbarton again. First day back is always interesting after a vacation. We are not studying enlightened despots in my AP European History class and the turning point battles of World War II in my IR Class. My sophomores are also preparing to put on another reenactment of the trial of Louis XVI in late Decemeber before break. My Pats took one on the chin yesterday at KC. Too many injuries and Brady finally played poorly. But, still in first and all remaining games but one are against below 500 teams ... like the JETS!! So, they should sneak into the playoffs but how far they go is questionable. I was happy to see my boy Tim Dwight play well at WR with all of the injuries. Delbarton football getting ready for big game with St. Joes. Pep rally this Friday and they are trying to organize a spirit bus. I doubt I will be able to go but it should be a great game. This Sunday we have the academic council retreat over at the Westin Hotel. Remember when you were the faculty rep on the Academic council? I miss your candor! I got some kind of a bug now which I am fighting. Hopefully some rest will knock it off. I thought of you on Friday before break. As I was leaving the gym after making final cuts for Middle School basketball I heard the distinct ding of baseballs hitting off of aluminum bats. I walked into the old gym and Sigrist was working with some kid on his hitting. I am sure that is one of your favorite sounds in the world> Well, I have one more class to teach before practice. Today is the first practice with the team that was selected. Good group. I am working on a couple of them to toughen them up a bit. All other winter sports started as well. 28 kids out for basketball from what I heard. I think wrestling has a lot of new interest this year with new coaches. Well, got to go to class. Hope you enjoyed Thanksgiving and your birthday and that this note finds you in great spirits and health. All our best to you guys. Hope you got our Thanksgiving card. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageCoach Fluery, It was so good to read your last post. Douglas was home for the first time since going to Tufts. We talked about your influence over him quite a bit. You would be so proud to have seen him all bundled up running and swimming everyday getting ready for his first college baseball season. I know I have said it before but I feel so grateful for everything that you did for Douglas while he was at Delbarton. I know his current devotion and dedication has so much to do with your lasting influence on him. You and your lovely family are in our thoughts, especially that adorable little boy of yours. God Bless you. Pat
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope this note finds you in good health and good spirits. Bobby Malone, name from the past, saw my notes to you here and just contacted me. Great to hear from him. He has been in touch with J.Mac, Sam, and Sully. He is down in Charlestown, SC now and doing well. HE was teaching in Boston. We are having our furnace put in today. Huge job. BUt, it had to be done. Dixon oil did it. I was out yesterday when they removed the asbestos from the furnace. I wouldn't want that job. Actually Doc McGeough said that the asbestos I had around the furnace is really not harmful at all. But it had to be done anyhow I guess. We had a great meeting today of all of the AP teachers. Some good topics discussed. We have the academic council retreat this Sunday which will continue this conversation. We stayed at Julie's grandmother's house while work was being done and invaded her home with our baby and dog. She is a saint. I have to get back to class now. I hope all is well. Enjoy the nice weather we are having if you get a chance to get outside. Take care ace. You are the man. JT BOG MONTGOMERY
MessageBrian-We have a mutual friend that you work with and that is how I know of you. I trust my friend when he speaks of you as being one of the greatest human beings he knows. I have heard and read of your tremendous strength and compassion for people. You are an example for us all to live by. I just wanted you to know that you, your wife, and son are in my prayers. My best wishes for a healthy, peaceful holiday and New Year.
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. I hope this message finds you in good spirits and good health! All our best to you guys. Our furnace is done! It is nice to have that done! So far so good. No problems. I may go down and tinker with it later today and adjust the L-9 valve in quadrant four. We had a great practice yesterday. We announced captains and worked on press break. Kids are playing pretty well. We open up on Tuesday vs. tough Ridge team. My student assistant Patrick Pirozzi continues to do a great job. I have also gotten help from Robbie Hellauer, Rob Delaney, and Pat Sullivan. SUlly is still the best Middle School player I have ever had. Varsity and JV hoops are in full swing. They had about 30 kids come out. They have already made a cut. That is good numbers for hoops. Sounds like a lot of kids went out for Freshman hoops as well. Wrestling program is going well also. SOme of my soccer players are wrestling now and doing well, especially Matty Mulligan. SOccer and wrestling is not a common combination. I was trying to think at lunch if there were others. I know that Danny Berger was a great soccer player and wrestler. My students have another test tomorrow on 18th century states. We had to race through some material today to get it done but they should be ready. They have their fourth essay of the year due on Monday on women during the Scientific Revolution. Then I get to grade them!! Red Sox have made some moves. NOt as good as when they traded Danny Cater for Sparkly Lyle or Cecil Cooper for George Scott but they got some pitching help baby! If they could only bring back good old Mike Torrez on the mound. Did you see that Ty Law is upset about being on the Jets? Serves him right for turning down the Pats offer for more money. Now he is on a 2-9 team. They said in the paper today that he goes back to Boston all the time and hangs out with McGinest, Warren, and Harrison. My folks are visiting my brother and seeing their other granddaughter out in Ohio for the first time. We will see her over CHristmas in Amherst. Looking forward to that. Well, I have to get ready for practice and grade some more papers. I hope you are doing well. We miss you around here. Take care and get back here soon. ALl our best to you and your family. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageHi Brian! What can I say??? Way too much time has past since we have been in touch. My cousin is at school at Delbarton and that's how I got your update. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Keep on fighting!! I can see (from reading) that you are still loved by all!!!! Looking forward to more good news. Love, Mar, Brian, Mia, Lila and Danny
MessageHappy Thanksgiving Fleury Family! Chuck and I recently attended the Lacrosse Hall of Fame induction ceremony for Tom Leanos. They are such a great family and Tom's passion and contribution to lacrosse is overwhelming. The event and Tom's speech was fabulous. While at this event I overheard a conversation about a high school boys lacrosse coaching position that has not been filled and the conversation drifted to possible applicants to fill the void. One man offered up a name of a recent college grad and the other(a wealthy businessman) rejected it stating that "he was a smart kid coming from a good school and would be looking for a professional job, not teaching or coaching". Yikes! I was greatful Chuck wasnt in earshot. Since it's never too late to give thanks... Thank you to all the teachers and coaches that have chosen, as my mother inlaw always said, a Noble profession, Thank you to the young Chatham lacrosse coach that took Chelsea to and from camp with her each day igniting her love of the game, Thank you to the young teaching couple that supported and fostered an at risk high school boy as their own, Thank you to the Athletic Director that attends all the meetings, games, dinners, banquets Thank you to the Headmaster that travels to Gettysburg with the middleschoolers each year to excite them with his passion for history, Thank you to the English teacher that comes in early and stays late to change the mind of a boy who HATES to write, Thank you for surrounding our children each day with honor, integrity and respect. How blessed and lucky we are. Thank you! love, Donna
MessageAs I read through and absorbed everything on this site several things became apparent to me. It is telling when an entire community mobilizes for an individual. In that regard, this site is a true testament to who you are and to how much everyone believes in you. And, it highlights the nature of the Delbarton brotherhood. We're there for you as I know you would be for us. Always. That idea is not easy to buy into when you're a new student participating in orientation before freshman year but, as anyone who is a part of Delbarton discovers, it is a truth. It's great to hear that the last batch of tests were so positive. I am sure that there are many more similar reports to come. I wish you and your family the best this holiday season and beyond. -Michael Pesce
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. I hope this note finds you in good health and good spirits. I hope treatment continues to go well. We are all pulling for you. Put in a new play in Middle School hoops practice yesterday. Took awhile for the kids to pick up on it but I think they are getting it. We only have a few more days before our first game. Varsity scrimmages St. Anthonys today. I went with Dano one year as all of his assistants were still coaching football at the time and it was an amazing thing to witness. The St. Anthony's program is amazing. I remember that game well. Jim Corn played out of his head and even crashed head first into a wall going for a loose ball during the game. They didn't win but they played hard against that team that year. I hope our guys are psyched to play them this year. I just talked to Pat Sullivan in the hallway and he said they were pumped to play them and would beat them! Well ... maybe. I hope! We had the soccer banquet last night. Great night. We didn't have the usual championships to celebrate but we did have a great time celebrating the great kids and parents in this program. Ken Donovan was the booster head and MC and he did a great job running the banquet. We began at 6 with reception and probably started the speeches around 6:30 and were done at 9:00 so that is pretty good. We gave out the annual Cory Williams award. I can still remember Cory staying after his Middle School practice and scrimmaging against my Freshman team. He was a great guy, and an a amazing soccer player when he was here as a student! He was a dominant sweeper back then. Meet Doshi got the Cory Williams award. He is a great kid. I think he even got cut from the JV program during his sophomore year but he stuck with it and now he got one of the most prestigious awards Delbarton gives out. I set the tone with a stellar speech for Frosh soccer and that really was the highlight of the night. Just kidding! Dave did his usual excellent job with the varsity presentation. His dry sense of humor cracks me up. The captains and two other seniors gave talks about the coaches and trainer. They were Matt Donovan who talked about Dave Donovan, Conor Esposito who talked about Jake Ross, Brendan Leanos who talked about Josh Hartle, Patrick Pirozzi who talked about Mike Cook the trainer, and Greg Sperazza who just talked. They were great. Real funny. Leanos just ripped Hartle with one funny story after another about Josh. Especially funny were his comments about Hartle as a basketball coach. He noted that Josh started him at shooting guard even though he was terrible at shooting! Greg Spaz Sperraza was also real funny. He talked about finding the Frosh Soccer championship trophy in the back of the bus in the winter of his freshman year and taking it home with him (Bumiller had it on the bus not me!) and then his house burned down and so did the trophy. So, that mystery is solved. So, all in all a great night. Father Luke gave a great talk at the end. He gave Earl Williams a tribute for continuing to come to our Soccer banquets and giving out the Cory Williams award. Finally, you were certainly mentioned in every speech. We all thanked you for what you have done for the soccer program and we all kept you in our prayers. Ken Donoovan said some really nice things about you as well as Dave Donovan and Father Luke. IT was great that the varsity soccer team dedicated their season to you. I know you don't like "chippy" play in soccer (!) but you were a central aspect of the banquet. So, I hope that brightens your day today. If not, go back and look at highlight reels of Denny Doyle for the Red Sox. Enjoy your day. I have to go grade some more papers. Take care chief. John,Julie, and Mackenzie Thompson FRITZ PETERSON
MessageBrian; I check this site at least once a day while I'm at work to see the news as it comes in. I must say that your last message was quite a relief for all of us. I'm sure it was much more so for you. As all who post on this site, My entire family is pulling for you and we know that things will continue to improve. I talk to Jason often and I told him about this site. I believe that he did send a message. He often asks for new information about you. I'm looking forward to seeing some games this spring. It doesn't matter how long it has been since Jason's graduation. I still think of Delbarton baseball as home and I come to the games to forget about all the troubles that can heap up on a person. I will be seeing you coaching third base this spring and I will be sitting in my chair on the left field foul line. See you then, Rick
MessageDear Coach: Good pep rally today for the state game. I had to go to the bank and copy some stuff for class so I only caught the end. Mickey Swift was funny and Greg Sperazza was a riot as usual. Steve Popper did a great job as MC. The kids seem into it. Hopefully a lot of them go to the game to support the team. Coach Bowers gave a great speech about the team and the game. Class act. St. Joes is in trouble baby. Just got back from practice. We actually got it in even with the craziness of the pep rally at the end of school. A good practice all in all. Kids are coming together. Our game is now on Wednesday. We have a busy weekend lined up. I have admissions proctoring and academic council retreat. Otherwise I am with my baby girl! Hope all is well with you guys. Enjoy weekend. JT
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. I am getting ready to proctor admissions tests this morning and thought I would drop you another line. I hope that this messsage finds you in good spirits and in good health. Big game today vs. St. Joe's. I will miss hanging out in the Giants stadium luxury boxes and watching the game like we used to. Rutgers is a good place as well. Who would have thought they would get to this point. What an amazing job that coaching staff has done this year and those kids have stepped up. Mike Rosenhaus was mentioning in a senior guidance meeting how smart a lot of the football players are and its true. I have a bunch in AP Euro and they are great. If you look at the guys on the offensive line, for example, this year they are some of the smartest kids in the school. I don't know how many schools have the kind of student atheletes that we have. That is why I love working here because you have great students, great kids, and great athletes (or at least kids who want to work hard and do well in sports). Today I will help Julie with the baby and get some stuff done around the house. Now that the furnace is in I have to get the basement back in order. Tomorrow I have the academic council retreat over at the Westin Hotel from 3 to 8. We are discussing some interesting topics. We need you there. I always love your comments in meetings. You always get right to the heart of the matter! We also have an Athletic Vision Committee meeting this week. That was a great committee that you set up. I am watching these poor kids file into their testing rooms. They are all so nervous and look about seven years old! I guess I am getting old! Mackenzie is doing well. Her new thing is to shriek as loud as she can even though she is not upset, she just likes hearing her voice I guess. She is amazing. Julie is over at her grandmother's house while I am at work. Her grandmother has been a huge help to us. During Library duty yesterday afternoon after practice I briefly thumbed through a 1995 yearbook. Was that your first year? They were some names from past in there like Tom Humphreys and Rick Faubert. Well, I should get back to proctoring. I hope you are doing well Brian. Keep your fingers crossed for Delbarton football. I am sure the game will be televised so you can watch it at some point. Take care ace. John Thompson
MessageCoach: Hope all is well. As I am just sitting here waiting to leave for the big game today against St Joes.I was thinking of you and your family. This has truly been a great season both on and off the field for the boys. I know today when the team leaves that great place they call Delbarton you will be driving the bus to Rutgers in Spirit and Pray. This season is about being focused and winning the state championship today, just like you coach focused on beating the enemy and winning the battle. I know at 5:00 today your mind and spirit will be with us all at Rutgers as we go to battle. Stay well and keep those postive thoughts for your health and peace. Sincerely Rich Conforti Sr.
MessageBrian, It has been a very long time since we last saw one another! As I remember, it was when you applied for a job at MHS. That’s a long time ago! I hope you still remember me, your old Business Law teacher? Brian, I remember you as being one of the most outstanding students I ever taught. It was a pleasure to come into room 304 to find you sitting in that front row seat. I knew that you would always be prepared. Your homework was always done and correct. Additionally, your thought- provoking questions and discussions kept me on my toes. I gained great satisfaction in teaching that class. I must admit that teaching students who had a thirst for learning was easy and you did have that desire to learn. I think that’s not only a credit to you but also to your parents. I know things have been difficult for you and your family. I often think about you, and you and family are always in my prayers. I learned that you suffered a relapse and were in Boston for treatment. I contemplated making a trip to Boston for moral support but was told visitors were not permitted. Recently I’ve been told you got some good news and I can only pray that the good news continues. Brian if there is something I can do, please don’t hesitate to let me know how I can help! Again, you and your family will always be on my mind and in my prayers. Tony Gervasio
MessageHey Brian: First of all, what fabulous news about your trip to Beantown!!! Sounds like things are going well, and that your spirits are high...I love your comment about Dr. Ho being a tough nut...made me laugh! I hope you Jen and Timmy had a great Thanksgiving...we all have so much to be thankful for! The "Special Night for a Special Man" was an ovcerwhelming event...it was simply awesome! Brian was so very proud to have the priviledge of being a part of the evening. I had a nice chat with your dad, and found the family movies to be pretty funny...you were a funny little dude, especially with the dramatic wind-up! I discovered when reading a few entries that you and I either have the same brithday, or are just a day apart...I am the 21st! We all missed you at the football game yesterday...even though the score was not in our favor, the boys really did a great job of hanging tough, and showing Delbarton spirit, pride, and "semper verescit". You would have been proud! And for the record, I think Brian Bowers is doing a fantastic job with that program, as evidenced by how many boys have said the whole season, even camp in the sweltering heat, has been so much fun! Hockey is gearing up...I am sure Bruce is keeping you updated...and Brian is chomping at the bit to get the season rolling. They all have high hopes, and good reason to have them...they look very solid, and will only get better as they gel a bit more. Well, I'll sign off, but want you to know you are constantly in our prayers, we miss you, and can't wait to see you...any chance that you'll be roaming the base lines this spring if things continue to go well??? All the best, Tom
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello Fleurys!! Hope you had a great weekend and survived the snow on Sunday. Looks like another storm arrives Monday night for a strong chance of a snow day. Kids here are already celebrating. Slackers! We had a busy weekend. I worked as admissions proctor on Saturday and then helped Julie with baby and worked on house on Saturday. Thus, missed the game. St. Joes sounded tough. What a great season though. It is one of the best seasons I can remember since I came to Delbarton in 1989. What a great group of kids. SO many of those seniors are outstanding kids. Look at kids like Matt Bashaw, Mark Van Orden, Mark Paski, Mike McGuire, Will Hart, etc. just to name a few. These are good kids who are also strong students. Bowers did an outstanding job. He gave a great speech at the pep rally on Friday. When he was introduced he spoke after several students had spoken. He said that it was tough for him to follow such "stellar" speakers and he asked if Carrot top wasn't available! He cracks me up. On Sunday I had the academic council retreat. It was over at the Westin Hotel at Governor Morris. It went real well and we got a lot done. Today my students turn in another essay, this one a document based essay on women in the scientific revolution. We are still using your model and the kids have really taken to it. Middle school hoops opens up on Wednesday away vs. Ridge. They beat us the last two years. I hope this is the year we turn it around. It is tough to lose by 30 to half the teams we play. We have a good group this year and we have been practicing without our best player's services Matt DeRenzi. Matt Kastner tried out this year as an 8th grader and is a huge pick up for us and may start. Well, conference block is almost over and I have to go. I hope this note finds you in good spirts and in good health. Sorry that the Patriots beat up on your Jets. We are starting to peak baby! Dillon is back, Seymour is back, Bruschi (c'mon you gotta love that guy) is back, Givens will be back so besides the secondary and the offensive line, two huge gaps, they are getting healthier. Luckily their division is weak so they should waltz to the title. We shall see what they can do in the playoffs. How about Brad Johnson and the Vikings? Amazing. People forget he led the Bucs to a superbowl championship. Well, gotta run. Take care ace. JT Don Maynard
MessageB - I HAVE NOT BEEN DILIGENT IN WRITING YOU, BUT HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOU HAVE BEEN IN MY THOUGHTS OFTEN. KEEP ON KEEPIN' ON! WE NEED YOU BACK HERE ASAP. WHALEN IS RENTING OUT YOUR CHAIR IN THE OFFICE LIKE CLINTON DID THE LINCOLN BEDROOM! HE IS ALSO PAYING ALL THE OFFICIALS IN CONFEDERATE MONEY, WHICH HE GOT FROM SANFACON. THE PLACE IS IN TURMOIL!!! GET WELL/GET BACK! LOVE YA, ME
MessageBrian Though I haven't sent you a message before today, I want you to know that I check your site regularly and pray for you (and your donor) every single day. I know you've had a really tough ride. I'm sure you know it, but I just want add my name to the list of thousands who truly have been inspired by your courage and the overwhelming love you, Jen and Timmy share. I know that is what has helped pull you through the really, really tough times. I saw a bunch of your high school buddies at a party given for John-o the other night. He made partner at his firm and some of his friends threw a little get-together for him at a bar in the East Village. Did you ever think he'd make anything out of himself? No brains, no talent, no good looks, no sense of humor, no personality and a nasty disposition! Go figure! I know he would have loved to have you there but it was not - by any STRETCH of the imagination even a quasi-sterile environnment. I guess I'm showing my age (considerable as it is)! I must admit, its been a long, long time since I've been in a place like that. The last time I was too young to be there (in spite of what my ID might have indicated); now I'm way too old to be there. Oh well! It was a fun night and, actually, the perfect spot to celebrate Jonn-o: toally understated, casual, just a good spot to hang with friends. As I said, I know he would have loved to have you there. Hope you get "sprung" soon and that the two of you can get togehter over a beer or two in Morristown. As you know, MHS is having its second Atheltic Gallery event on Friday night. There will be a lot of people there thinking about you. Hang in there, Brian. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers and those of countless other people each and every day. Mary
MessageHey coach Fleury, My name is Sal Cortese and I am from Morris Plains NJ. I actually live down the street from where you grew up. Well I just wanted to say that even though we might not be familiar, you are in my prayers. Every school gathering, we pray for you as a school and as a team. Your positive attitude and your outlook on life have really kept me going through some rough times. Cancer took my cousins life last September. She was only 23 years old. Even though you might not know it, you have been a real influence on my life. Last year you gave a wonderful speech about steroids and I remember being moved and I walked out of the gym a different person. I also talk to some of your Morristown friends at the Neighborhood House on Flagler Street. They always ask about you. Next time I see them, I'll let them know about this site that way you guys can get in touch. We're all praying for you coach. Sal Cortese
MessageBrian, Just wanted to say Hi and tell you it was great to see you and Jen out walking last week. Glad to read today's update and we continue to keep you in our prayers. Went to MHS 20th reunion a week or so ago and saw some very fun pictures of you from the prom. Is it possible it was 20 years ago? Just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you, Jen and Timmy. Love and prayers, Eileen, Bruce, Brian and Will.
MessageCoach, It is great to hear that everything is going smoothly. Good luck with the upcoming tests. As always, my family and I along with the rest of the Delbarton community continue to pray for your healthy recovery. Captain's practices start tomorrow at the Indoor Sports Pavilion in Randolph, so everyone is thinking about you as the baseball season approaches closer and closer everyday. Continue the good work Coach and take care. -Frankie Hager
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello Fleurys. Glad to hear you had a nice Thanksgiving. Great pictures on your website. I hope this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. We hope the treatment continues to go well. Good luck with the trip to Boston. Well, no snow day today! Storm didn't materialize. I am sure kids are bummed. It doesn't really phase me, too much to do each day to miss it though I would gladly take a day with my daughter at home if I get it. We went over everything in practice yesterday in preparation for our first game tomorrow. It will be nice to be able to practice again today to get ready. Kids seem ready, at least starters do. Ridge will be tough again. My kids in class are getting ready for the trial of Louis XVI that starts next week. Should be good. Juniors are getting ready to go to Appalachia next week. Can't believe that is already here. Time flies. I went two years to Appalachia with Father Giles when they used to have faculty chaperones. Drove down with Dan McCarthy in a van with about ten kids. Long trip. Great time. We worked hard down there. I was put in charge of maintaining order in the lines when we distributed the gifts so I was the Grinch while other guys were Santa or Santa's elves. Oh well, I got the job done. I remember some people complaining that the people down there weren't very appreciative of our efforts and would fight and cut in line or sneak up to the vans and take stuff. Father Giles told us at one of our evening meetings that imagine how poor and desperate you must be if you had to do those things. His heart is so big that he always sees the best in people. The kids played a great joke on me down there in Kentucky. They called my room at 2:00am. I thought it was the wake up call and got up and showered and got dressed and went out into the lobby before realizing it was a joke. O.D. and Danny Peralta got me that time. Well, I have to get back to work now. Lots to do. I have more recs to do and more papers to grade. It never ends. ALways know that the school is keeping you upmost in their prayers. Father Luke has really kept you at the forefront of every school activity and I have really been impressed by this and by the students. We hope this makes it easier for you in some way. Take care. Get Tim to eat some Turkey! JT, Julie and Mackenzie
MessageDear Brian, Thanks for the recent posting. We check your website every day and not a day goes by that we are not thinking of you and praying for you. This process seems so long and arduous, but when you tell us about Timmy, it all seems so worth it. Children really do make life worth fighting for. Keep up your strength, both mental and physical, and know that there are literally hundreds of people pulling for you everyday. Love, Shelly
MessageHi Brian, I wanted to offer our best wishes for your continued recovery, and to also offer our services while you are in Boston. My wife and kids and I live just outside of Boston, and we would love to help in any way, especially if your wife or son need some activities or help. I have a daughter who is 7, a son who is 4, and 1 year old twin boys, if Timmy is looking for some playmates. My wife also has four sisters who love to babysit. I worked for three years at the Mass General Transplantation Biology Research Center, prior to medical school, so I am very familiar with transplant issues and can be a good sounding board as well. Finally, we had a great time at your benefit dinner a couple of weeks ago, and we sat with Mark and Ann Horan. My brother Tom is married to Ann's sister Kris, so I have known them for a long time. Good luck with everything, and I mean it about helping your family. We can be reached at 781-237-0570, or vferrara@xenithinc.com. Best regards, Vin
MessageHello Brian, You don't know me but I feel as though I know you since we have some connections. I went to Morristown HS with Ed and Shirley so I knew them as a devoted couple even in their Freshmen year! I, for one, always thought they were the "coolest" couple and I'm not a bit surprised that they had a son as well loved as you are. My next connection with you is Delbarton. Both of my sons were fortunate enough to attend. Jonathan graduated in 1985 and Peter in 1987. Both entered the world of the arts, Jonathan becoming a professional violinist and Peter becoming an actor. Their experience at Delbarton gave them the sense of purpose, confidence and tools to "follow their bliss" as Joseph Campbell said. My last connection to you is cancer. My son Jonathan was diagnosed with a melanoma last year and my husband had non-hodgkins lymphoma which was diagnosed when he was in his 50's. My husband, unfortunately was not eligible for a stem cell transplant. It is believed he had his lymphoma for many years before he was even diagnosed and was found to be stage 4 by the time he found out what was wrong with him. Even then he lived into his seventies. The quality of my husband's life was mostly good and my son's melanoma appears to have been caught in time. However, we know the feel of the blade against our necks in the guillotine. I have known about you and your illness for a long time now Brian and I would love to add my name to your long, long list of supporters. I look forward to meeting you when you are recuperated and back home with the legions who love you. Diane Dinklage
MessageHey Fleurys, I am sure others have mentioned that there must be some connection between Dr. Ho and the "ho ho ho" of Santa. So, I hope Dr. Ho or the Big Fat guy in the red suit brings you some wonderful Christmas news.... We're pulling for you!
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Sorry I didn't check in yesterday. Had a busy day. Hope all is well with you. We lost our first game to William Annin School in Ridge yesterday 51-47. We played pretty well but hurt our chances with a ton of turnovers and poor rebounding even though we had the bigger team. They had a couple of kids who were solid players. We came out pressing for most of the game but then took it off as most of their points were coming off of transition baskets. Alex Balong had 22 points for us. We also played all 17 kids in the game, though some were in rather briefly, but I was happy about that. Ridge did not have a clock or a scoreboard so they used flip cards and the ref kept the time on the floor. A little weird! They actually have a real nice facilty but for some reason this stuff wasn't available. We play Mendham tomorrow away unless it is snowed out. THere is a good chance we will have a snow day tomorrow. I'll never forget growing up in the great state of Massachusetts and waking up to see a foot of snow but there was still school. We are a little tougher up there than you Jerseyites. My kids are in their last stages of preparation for our big trial of Louis XVI next week. Hopefully a lot of classes will come down to watch. It is more fun when we have an audience. They really get into the trial so I am looking forward to it next week. My brother's baby Molly is doing well. It is the M @M cousins, Mackenzie and Molly. We will see her for the first time after Christmas at my parents house. We will spend Christmas here with Julie's family. We have a mass today up at the church so shortened blocks. Brandon Horner got engaged the other week. He asked her during a middle school spelling bee! Great story. Well, I should get some work done during this free block. I hope this message finds you in good health and in good spirits. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie STEVE RENKO, COCO LABOY, JOHN BATEMAN, ADOLFO PHILLIPS, TY CLINE, BILL STONEMAN
MessageHi, Brian.....just wanted to drop you a note and say Merry Christmas to you and your family. I think of you often and you are in my daily prayers....be well and may God bless you!!! Peter
MessageDear Coach: Hope all is well with you. Its getting cold out there! This is nothing though compared to a good Massachusetts winter. I love telling kids in practice when its cold to suck it up because this would be a summer day in Massachusetss. Eddie T. and I finalized plans to Puerto Rico! Should be nice. You know, we will miss Hartle there though. He was always good for a laugh. I will never forget when he and I were walking back from dinner and we got stuck inside a walled in parking lot. I said to him that instead of walking all the way back we might as well go over the wall as our condo was only 100 yards away. So, we walked over to the wall. I quickly cut in front of him and went over the wall. Then when he got up on top of the wall I yelled, "Hey you get off the wall!!" and all of the security guards flashed their lights on him. His face was priceless. It is still the single most funniest moment in the history of the Puerto Rico trip. Anyhow, I digress. I hope you are doing well today my friend. We miss you around here. I still walk by your office expecting to see you sitting there. It won't be long though before we do! Hang in there ace. Take care. JT THE FUN BUNCH: ART MONK, CHARLIE BROWN, CLINT DIDIER, ALVING GARRETT
Messageyou probably do not remember me, but when people ask me who the most influential people in my life are, your name always comes up... along with raymond carver, bill wilson, montgomery clift and marlon brando. truth is, their are not many people who i really know who have had an impact. i was in your junior year english class back in '94. i think it was your first year, but i could be mistaken. your impact on me and my life was immediate as far as my intellectual growth and curiosity. i was a jerk kid. a punk. but loved who i was. i hated delbarton (they kicked me out at the end of the year) and found your class to be the one highlight. you stuck with the curriculum, but would set aside 15 minutes at the end to just talk. talk about yourself or us or what was going on in the world. you would read to us from The Things They Carried or skip a lesson so that you could show us The Graduate. I myself was mixed up with little direction but a great fire and passion that needed direction. at the end of the year you gave me a summer reading list that included books we may not read in school. kesey, deLillo, Carver, burgess, kerouac, o'brien.... i ate it all up. read almost all of the books that summer. one thing lead to another and to another and i was on my way. i found new authors and watched more film. went to museums and to NYC for reasons other than getting drunk or high. eventually i would struggle with the latter quite a bit. and i wuld go through some very rough years, but i found direction. i have been an actor the past 7 years. mostly in LA and San Francisco. it is a great passion of mine and i can never see myself doing anything different. i know this may not be making any sense, but you set the ball rolling. but outside of the book recommendations, it is the little things you did or said that have stuck with me. your belief in enjoying the moment. don't worry about the past or the future. live one day at a time, one minute at a time... these are beleifs and sayings that i have heard hundreds of times but your thoughts on the subject are true and heartfelt, and as a result the ones that have stayed with me. when i think about staying in the moment, it is a picture of you in that tiny room in old main that comes to my head. you gave us a poem once about Walking the Dog. though Verlaine and rimbaud, baudelaire and some of the darker guys are what i tend to read, that one poem is probably my favorite. i brought it to rehab with me and have kept it around ever since. it helps me when i need to remember the little joys and everyday pleasures that life has to offer. i have been sober for 2 1/2 years. still act when i can, and still have an insatiable literary curiosity that you helped build. your influence on me and my life are seen on a daily basis and your impact is incalcuable. my thoughts are with you as they have been for the past 11 years. thank you for everything, and i mean that. Bryan Veronneau
MessageThe reception last night was amazing. Your Dad should have been a talk show host....he was terrific. Not one uh, or er, or you know.....reminds Libby and I of Dave Letterman. Great to see so many wonderful Delbarton families in attendance....one common denominator....their love and respect for Jen and Brian Fleury. Loved to hear that Timmy has taken to Georgia Tech rather than those nasty Delaware Blue Hens.....exactly what is a BLUE HEN anyway. Got to meet the beautiful Fleury girls as well.....good thing you got the athletic ability and they got the looks. I was in Atlanta last week and everyone at Georgia Tech is rooting and pulling for you. I know that Nomar Garrciaparra is the MC this year for their banquet. Coach Hall sends his best as does Randy Carroll and Jason Varitek. Talk to you ssoon....Love - Libby and Gary Jones
MessageMr. Fleury, I have to say that whenever I'm having a "less than par" day, I see myself going to your webpage and reading your comments. With your positive attitude, I can't help but crack a smile. Each day I grow more and more fond of Delbarton, but I realize that part of my "Delbarton experience" is missing. Please get well soon and hurry back. My prayers are with you, Mike Cook
MessageMr. Fleury, I have to say that whenever I'm having a "less than par" day, I see myself going to your webpage and reading your comments. With your positive attitude, I can't help but crack a smile. Each day I grow more and more fond of Delbarton, but I realize that part of my "Delbarton experience" is missing. Please get well soon and hurry back. My prayers are with you, Mike Cook
MessageBrian, I am not sure that we ever officially met before. I wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you, and praying for you. Thanks for being an inspiration to so many of us. Succisa Verescit, my brother. Jeff Gora '86
MessageDear Brian, To send you blessings and to let you know that Hailey and I are wishing you well. I am hopeful that your wishes will come true according to your last email news and wish both you and your family a peaceful holiday season. Heres hoping your New Year will be filled with new beginnings and a new and improved Brian Fleury, ready for baseball and football season once again. All the best, all of the time is wished for you. With love and blessings, Stacey and Hailey Aromando
MessageHey coach, I've been thinking a lot about you lately. I hope you are doing well and that your holiday season is fun. Hope to talk to you soon. Matt Campbell
MessageBrian: For the past several years, playing golf with your Dad, I have had first, the privilege to meet you on a number of occasions at Del events, and second, to be kept apprised of your situation and progress by your Dad. (Believe me I have tried dearly to get him off of his left side so he can get rid of that weak slice of his, but I must admit, only when he was my partner!) I asked him to keep me up to date on what is happening over the winter since he prefers to sleep in on Saturday mornings instead of joining us for breakfast. But given his travel schedule, he's forgiven. So he finally tells me about the Website. There are only a few left at Delbarton who were there when I was. Abbot Thomas, Rembert, Giles, James, Gerard (when he's around),probably a few others, who played a part in my development as an individual, and as a man. I have seen, heard, and read so many testimonials of how you have been able to affect the lives of so many of the students, not just student-athletes, but all students, that reinforce what I have said for the past 41 years since I graduated....."the four years I spent at Delbarton are the only four years of my life that I would never change". Your role in the development of these men is well documented in the thousand plus notes listed here. This odyssey that you have been on for so long now has provided inspiration for an incredible number of people. The manner in which you have handled it through your family, your faith, your friends, and even those who do not know you, is so valuable a lesson for all to learn. What I have read here indicates that many have already learned. Not only Delbarton, but the entire scholastic athletic community that you serve needs Brian Fleury. I may not have written before, but my prayers have been with you for as long as Eddie and I have been playing. (And I keep praying he'll get off of his left side too!) As we approach Christmas please know that our prayers are always with you, Jen, and Timmy, as well as for your Mom & Dad and sisters. I hope to see you soon. Bob Farrell '64
MessageHi Brian & Jen, It has been way too long since we have spoken. I have been out of the loop for sometime now and when my mom sent me this link today I was completely taken aback. Although it has been a long time since we have spoken, I have no doubt that you will continue to fight with the same courage I have always known you to have. You're commitment to your family and perservance in life have always been something I have admired in you and tried to emulate in my own life. I can't believe how big Timmy is! It's great to see pictures of the three of you. Believe it or not, I am a dad now too. I have a 4 month old son, Trey. It's truly an amazing thing. I hope you all are doing well and I promise to be better about staying in touch. Stay strong. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Nick
MessageHi Brian, Jen and Tim, Just learned this site existed. Takes a long time for news to travel from NJ to RI. That's because we rely on "UPWES"! Our best wishes to you all during this holiday season. Our prayers are with you. Rog, Shelley, Wes, and Caroline
MessageHey Coach. It's been a while since I've heard from you so I just wanted to touch base. I sent you an email a week or so ago, and it just occurred to me that I probably messed up and sent it to some email address that doesn't exist or something, since I assume you never got it. I hope things are still going well and on schedule; they seem to be at least from the news that you've posted. We started the captains' practices at ISP last week and we have another one tomorrow afternoon. They seem to be going well so far; the kids are loose and everybody seems to be pretty focused on the season. Dave and I are trying to whip some of the sophomores into shape for you, Coach...as well as Riordan. If I don't hear from you soon, have a great Christmas, Coach. I hope Santa Clause brings that Batman bike for Timmy; Batman was always my favorite superhero too. Later Coach.
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Timmy: Hello guys. Sorry I haven't posted in awhile. Hope all is well and that this note finds you in good health and good spirits. We miss you around here a great deal. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. We had a busy long weekend. We had no school on Friday. Julie and I took advantage of the day off to decorate the tree and hang out with Mackenzie. SPeaking of Mackenzie, yesterday we reached a big milestone with her as she rolled over on her own. Big moment. We even called the grandparents to share the news. We are total dorks! On Saturday we had the basketball luncheon. Middle School practiced for about an hour and then we went to the luncheon. IT is always interesting to have practice in front of the parents on this particular day but it went well. The luncheon was great. The Twomeys did a great job organizing it. We are always thankful that we as the middle school team are included. The Twomeys and Dan Whalen and Father Luke all paid tribute to you. Father Luke gave a really nice tribute to Dano for all he has done filling in for you until you return. It was really a nice speech and Dano deserves every word of praise. I have been so impressed with how he has handled this job. He is the man. On Saturday night I chaperoned the dance while Julie went to an X-mas party and Julie's Dad baby sat Mackenzie. THe dance went well. IT was the freshman sophomore Christmas semi formal. Sean Flanagan and Matt Kovachik were in charge and they did a great job of organizing it. I can remember when Josh and I ran that thing when I was sophomore class moderator. A lot of kids were there and they seemed to have a great time. The Hall's, Mike Cook, Junior, Father Anthony, and Father Elias were all chaperones so we had quite a crew. Popper organized the senior helpers as well.On Sunday we went over to Ed Kim's house for some Danish treats prepared by Hanne. Awesome. Their kids are getting big. They are so cute. We also saw Josh and Andrea's baby girl Lara and she is getting big. Yesterday Middle SChool hoops had there second game against East Hanover, a team that beat us by 40 last year! THis year they were not as good as they were last year but unfortunately still beat us by 4. We led the whole game before falling behind in the final quarter. We had our first JV halftime game which the kids call the freak show and we won that one at least. We play Heritage tomorrow, and they are huge! We were without the services of two starters against East Hanover and we will have one back for Heritage tomorrow. A lot of kids are sick. INdeed, I am sick! Not fun. The History CLub had a forum yesterday entitled "The Meeting of the Minds" which featured Dave Donovan's Philosophy class portraying famous philosophers in costume. It went really well and there were about 50 kids in attendance and 7 faculty members. Paul McCormack, Conor Pigott, Michael Campbell, and John Twomey were particularly good with their portrayals and Dr. Donovan gave a brilliant summary at the end. We hope to do a lot more of such things with the History Club. I have Tim Catlett, Mike Eng, and ANdrew Jones running the club. They are doing a great job helping to organize events. My students started their trial of Louis XVI today. IT went pretty well so far. We did have an audience of about 30 kids today. So far so good. Kids put a lot of work into it. Well, I have to do some recs now. I hope you are doing well. We miss you around here and we hope your treatment continues to go well. How about them Pats!!!!!! How can the Red Sox being at Clemens? I don't want that hired gun back. Take care. JT, Julie and Mackenzie
MessageDear Mr. Fleury I wrote once before but as Christmas approaches I wanted to at least touch base with you again. My son Lucas ('09) is a student and is part of the football program. He isn't a starter but he loves playing for the Green Wave. As a father and husband I can only imagine the challenges you are facing. I have been keeping up with the web site to keep an eye on your progress. I am so very happy by what I have been reading. Each morning my wife Vivian and I wake at 5am to do our morning prayers together and each morning we pray for you by name. During this time where we wait for the coming of our savior please always remember that you are loved by a large community, and in my case by someone who you have yet to meet. I hope that we will have the oportunity to shake hands someday, until then I will continue to pray for you and your family and I hope that this Christmas brings you and your loved ones peace. Your brother in Christ Deacon Roy Rabinowitz
MessageMr. Fleury You may remember me, but if not I'm a junior at Delbarton and live on Glenbrook rd in Morris Plains, right next to you. I just wanted to say that you are a true inspiration to both me and the whole school. I am amazed that you can endure so much pain and still have so much care in your heart for others. I hope that your recovery continues to go well and that we see you back in school soon. Also, my aunt, Bettyann Howson, who is good friends with your wife sends her best wishes and hopes to see you soon. Sincerely, Patrick Fogarty
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Timmy: Hello guys. Hope all is well. I hope none of you have gotten this bug that is going around. Both Julie and I are sick but luckily Mackenzie is not yet. We are still excited about her rolling over the other day. My trial of Louis XVI continues to go well. We have had an audience in several of the classes, especially during lunch block class. THe kids have done a good job and there have been some funny moments. It is always neat to see it all come together like this. They put a lot of work into it. We had a good practice yesterday to prepare for a big game against Heritage. They killed us last year so we hope to give them a better game this year. We have most of our players back who had been sick so hopefully we can put it together today and get a win. We have been improving each day so it will come together eventually. My goal is to play everyone today again. Hopefully that will happen. The faculty X-mas party is this Friday. We will all be thinking of you guys. It may get postponed if we get the bad weather they are talking about for Friday. It was so cold this morning that the handle to my car broke off as I was leaving my house for an early Academic Council Meeting. My seniors will be doing a paidea discussion in class today which is a roundtable discussion without any teacher interference. Their topic is a book I had them read on Battleship Yamato, a Japanese ship during WOrld War II that was sent on a "suicide" mission at Okinawa, and they will analyze, among other things, whether an American sailor could have written the same book. I have a good group of seniors so I am looking forward to this discussion. MY Mom had to have a pacemaker put in last week but she is doing well and is looking forward to our visit in December for Christmas. Well, that is about it for now. I hope you are doing well and that the treatment continues to go well. Let me know if you ever need me to shovel snow for you when one of these storms hits as I am only a mile or so away. I shoveled two other people out last time it snowed so I am a veteran! Take care Brian. You are the man. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie JIM OTTO, GENE UPSHAW, ART SHELL, DARYL LAMONICA, GEORGE BLANDA, CLIFF BRANCH, FRED BILITNEKOFF, MARV HUBBARD, MARK VAN EAGHEN, TED HENDRICKS, OTIS SISTRUNK, JACK TATUM
MessageHi Brian......just got word that Lt. Grier Jones will be able to come home for a few days for Christmas. He assumed command of his infantry platoon in October - currently stationed at Camp Lejuene, N. C...... will be deployed to Ramadi, Iraq in February. Unfortunately this is where all the insurgents are located.....and where they send Marines. The other tough thing about Ramadi is that it is approximately 400,000 people....all primarily Sunni. So they are not the most receptive to any type of Americans....much less the U. S. Marine Corp. Let's all pray for peace. Thee is a special on TV tonight about the training of a Second Lieutenant in the Marines and goes thru exactly what Grier did at Quantico...from Basic Training to OCS to TBS to Infantry Officer Corp....check it out. Libby sends her love.....God Bless! Best - Gary
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MessageBrian- We want to say a quick hello and let you know you remain in our thoughts and prayers. As you know, the benefit in November was outstanding, filled with hope, emotion and promise for the future. Good luck in the upcoming weeks, and best wishes for the holiday season to you, Jen and Timmy. JK
MessageBrian Fleury, I hope all is well. I currenty have a brain tumor, so had to come Boston and Florham Park and needed some time off work. Hope all is well, Dave Molinaro
MessageHi Brian Well, basketball season officially opens tonight. Madison plays Butler and everyone is very excited to get the first game played. We are extremely happy about the "Brian Fleury night" we have planned. The weather has even cooperated. Well, just to keep you up to date, John retired and yesterday was his last day. I will miss him. Working with Ted Monica all those years and then having John since 1999, I experienced two different extremes of personality. Sean Dowling is our new AD and he will officially come onboard January 3rd. After reading the article in todays Daily Record, I just felt the need to email you and wish you and your family all the best this Christmas season and certainly and more important, a HEALTHY 2006!!! My prayers are with you and your donor. Kathy Ross Madison High School Athhletic Department
MessageBrian, I am glad to hear things are going reasonably (remarkably?)well. I'm Gavin's father--we've met a few times but I would not expect you to remember. I just happened to go on the Delbarton website for the first time to send coach Bowers a note of congrats on the season when I saw your link. You are a very impressive guy and a true inspiration. I think of you often, so there must truly be thousands like me. Imagine that! Merry Christmas to you and your family!
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim; Hello guys! I hope all is well with you and you are getting ready for the holiday season! We miss you around here and wish for your quick return. I have library duty now and have a chance to send you a quick note. It was a good last week here at Delbarton before break. We had a great Christmas mass today. The schola and Abbey orchestra were excellent. Dave Blazier has done a great job with them. Kelsey Hall did a solo of Holy Night that was amazing. She could be a professional singer. We have the faculty Christmas party tonight in Old Main, actually not long from now. We will miss you guys there. Hopefully they raffle off something for you. MY hoop team had a huge victory on Wednesday over Heritage. First time I have ever beaten them but we usually play them there where some fishy stuff happens. For example, one year the ref was the father of the starting point guard for Heritage!! We played as well as I have seen a team play at this level in the first half and were up 26 before you knew it. We emptied the bench in the second half to give all the guys a chance to play and Heritage cut it to ten with about a minute to play so I had to put the starters back in to ice it. But, as I said to the team after the game, we still won. It is not about running it up on the other team. They killed us last year at their place and had the starters in in the second half up 30. We didn't even score a basket until part way into the second quarter. So, it was sweet revenge. Our game vs. BUtler got canceled so we don't have a game until January 6th. We had a great practice today after school. MY trial of Louis XVI went real well, especially today. Flanagan, Gleason, Kovachik, Devine, Crapo, Hall, etc brought classes down to watch and we had a large audience at times. Kids were great. Johnny Taeschler was a great lawyer today and Chad Weidemaier was a great witness as well. We had some real funny moments that makes the whole thing a blast. They finish up after break. We will be around for most of the break and then head up to the great state of Mass to see my folks and my sister. We hope you guys have a great holiday. Again, if you need anything like shoveling out your driveway in the morning let me know as we are right down the street. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! We hope TImmy enjoys this special time of the year. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie WARREN MOON, BILLY WHITE SHOES JOHNSON, DAN PASTORINI, EARL CAMPBELL
MessageDear Brian, Jen, Timmy, and family-Wishing you the best on your trip back to Boston. We think of you often, and are praying for you and your donor and all the doctors and nurses and everyone involved in the care of others. The best Christmas gift can't be bought at any mall, its time spent with the ones you love. So enjoy your beautiful family and don't forget we are all out here praying for you! Love from The Longs
MessageHey B--just thought I'd drop a quick note since I was on here reading the latest. We got to see Jen and Timmy this weekend--so great. Looking forward to when we can catch up with you, too. Enjoy Christmas...this year I'll only have Jimmy to contend with around the seafood platter! :) love-amy
MessageMr. Fleury, my family and I just want to send our regards and hope that your recovery is quick and painless. We miss seeing you around Morris Plains and can't wait to have you and the family back. Have Merry Christmas and a wonderful holiday. The Saints
MessageDear Brian, I want to wish you, Jen, and Timmy a very Merry Christmas and an incredibly healthy 2006 and beyond. You are always in my thoughts and in my prayers. Merry Christmas, Brian
MessageHey Coach, I just wanted to wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and a good new year. Stay strong.
MessageHi Brian, Wishing you and your family the joy of togetherness this Christmas. Another of your many admiring peers, Mike Hannan (MHS '86, MPBS '82)
MessageMr. Fleury, I did not know your story until today when I was surfing around to see who my alma mater, Bishop Hendricken, was tangling with in hockey. Please know that you will be in the thoughts and prayers of our family and the entire Hendricken Community during this Christmas season. Keep fighting the good fight, and may God Bless you and your family.
MessageBrian - very Merry Christmas to you and your family-our wish for you is a healthy wonderful New Year! You all remain in our thoughts and prayers.
MessageCoach Fleury- Just wanted to say hello and let you know that you and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers. From Mott Leeney baseball camp, to Delbarton, to today- I have always had such a tremendous amount of respect and admiration at the way you approached life. Thanks for always being an inspiration. Best of luck with your treatment. Merry Xmas to you and your family and best wishes for a happy and healthy new year.
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello Fleurys. Hope this note finds you in good health and good spirits. Enjoy the holiday season. Good luck with the trip up to Boston. Speaking of Boston, can you believe Johnny Damon is now a Yankee!??!! I mean first Sparky Lyle and then Wade Boggs and now Johnny Damon. That makes the Yanks real tough. Sox have no SS or CF right now. Well, at least the pats are looking good. If anyone can upset the colts in the playoffs it is them. We have had a nice break so far. real busy with shopping, cards, Mackenzie, and other activities. Lots of school projects to finish as well. thanks for your card. Great picture of Timmy. We went to help a family cut down a Christmas tree over the weekend. It has become our Christmas tradition. They have a son who is autistic and Julie used to work with him when we first started dating. His sister is bi polar as well. It is the highlight of his year to go and cut the tree down and put it up in their house. It is also our highlight. It is amazing to see what a family has to go through with a handicapped child. He is in his 30's and still at home. The father passed away years ago so the Mom has to do it all herself and refuses to send him off to some home. They love Julie. It is a neat day with them. We will have Christmas here in Jersey and then head up to mass on Monday to see my family. Looking forward to Mackenzie's first Christmas. We had a great time at the faculty X-mas party. Lorraine and Connie and Heidi did a great job setting it up. We made fun of Hartle most of the night. Well, I have to go do some more shopping and errands. I may not get another chance to check so Merry X-mas and Happy New Year. Good luck with procedure in Boston. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I was so happy to hear from Father Luke the progress you have been making. My family and I think of you all the time and are so excited to see you back in action on the Baseball field. I wish you and your family a happy holiday and hope to see you soon. sincerely, Max Seligmann
MessageCoach Fleury, We are all looking forward to seeing you soon. I hope you and your family are doing. Have a great holiday.
MessageCoach Fleury, I just wanted to drop you an email to see how you are doing. I hope you're feeling better and that your family is doing well. Tell timmy I thought his joke was funny, even though I am still trying to figure it out. I wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and a healthy, happy New Year.
MessageDear Mr. Fleury I just wanted to wish you and your family a Merry Christmas Best wishes from the McIntyre Family
MessageI saw this quote and immediately thought of you. "A man never likes you so well as when he leaves your company liking himself" - unknown You are in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas! Andy Sansone
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, Merry Christmas and a Happy and Very Healthy New Year. May all the blessings of this holiday season be with you. Phil,Marge, Brennan and Jack
MessageYour West Coast namesake. Best wished in 2006 for you and your family. Brian Fleury Fleury Estate Winery 950 Galleron Road Rutherford, CA Napa Valley 707 974 9951
MessageHey Bub, Jen & Timmy - We wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas and very healthy New Year. We're hoping 2006 is the year for you guys! We love you. Pete, Carrie, Abbie, Jay and Bradley. (We hope you enjoyed our singing Friday night!!!)
MessageHi, Brian.....I wanted to wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Are you and Ed following Villanova basketball? I've only missed one game and I can tell you that the team is tremendously exciting!!! Austin is a freshman at Villanova and he is doing very well. I am very proud to have a son follow me at Villanova! Be well, Brian....may God bless you!!! Your friend, Peter
MessageHello Brian, Jen, Timmy - Merry Christmas to you all! I was recently speaking with one of Santa's elves, and he told me that Timmy was especially good this year, and that's why he received such wonderful gifts. Santa was impressed with his hard work in putting together those football helmets, too. He was just a little confused about why 6 was afraid of 7? He thought it was because 7 , 8(ate) 9. But he did like Timmy's joke, too. Santa has one for Timmy. Why does Santa have 3 gardens? HOE, HOE, HOE. Well, hope all is on target for you in Boston, and we wish you all the very best for 2006. Dianne
MessageBrian, Jen, and Timmy, It's been awhile since I have written, however, you are all in my daily thoughts and prayers. I hope that all goes well with you in Boston. I hope you all had a great Christmas and I pray that 2006 will bring you peace, love, and great health. Love, Karen, Jonathan, Morgan, and Ryan
MessageDear Brian I look forward to reading your new messages. You seem to be right on the same path as JJ and he is doing very well.There is always a little something and right now JJ's platelets are a little sluggish. There are pleenty of them in the bone marrow; but when they enter the blood stream, they get attacked by an antibody. He received IVIG and I hope it works. It has been seven months since the transplant and he has all of his energy back. JJ is working and looking forwarg to going back to school in February. Thanks for the updates. Everyone is pulling for you. Thoughts of you and your family seem to be always present at Delbarton
MessageHi Brian, Jen and Timmy, We hope that you all had a good Christmas. Brendan, Jon and I went to the JP Flynn Tournament yesterday afternoon to see the Wave get their first b-ball victory of the year against W. Morris. It was great seeing the kids get the "W"! I'm sure that coach Whalen felt relieved as well. We took Jon to Arthurs the other night and we were thinking of you! I'm quessing that you live pretty close! We are all hoping that your trip to Boston was a good one. Keep us posted because we'd be overjoyed to see you in the near future. Our best for a tremendous New Year for you and your family. The Leanos Family
MessageHi Brian, Jen and Timmy, I hope you had a nice Christmas and I just wanted to wish you all a very Happy New Year. Thinking of all of you. God Bless, Eileen
MessageBrian, Love and prayers of the season for you, Jen and Tim. Get well, and take your time doing so, if that's the tonic. All's fine here, and things are moving along. Varsity hoops had a great win last night, and wrestling won a big one against St. Joe's. Meanwhile, the seniors did exceedingly well in the "early" round. Mike and I will forward you the list when it is complete. God bless you. Giles
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MessageJust checking in to say hello and to see if Santa was able to load the Batman bike on the sled for Timmy. We attended the Christmas Midnight Mass at Delbarton. Many alumni and students were present. It was nice to catch up with some of them...makes me feel old(er). I am enjoying the vacation especially the time to read for pleasure. I am in the middle of The Know-It All by A. J. Jacobs. His style of writing is very similar to yours. Unfortunately, I missed the Delbarton vs Morris Catholic basketball game last night. I remember that rivalry from my high school days. I am going to try and make the Mendham game tomorrow. I pray daily for the three of you, your family, your doctors, and your donor. May God Bless you all, Kelly
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: HEllo guys. Sorry I haven't checked in of late but I have been real busy over the holidays as you can imagine. I hope this note finds you in good spirits and good health. Hope you had an amazing Christmas and that Tim enjoyed this special time of the year. What was the big gift this year for Tim? We are doing well. We had a nice CHristmas here in New Jersey with Julie's family, Mackenzie's first Christmas. We went to Julie's uncle's house for Christmas eve so Mackenzie could meet Julie's mom's side of the family. Mackenzie wore a little red Santa outfit and stole the show as usual. We had Christmas breakfeast at my house cooked by yours truly and then did gifts there and then went to Julie's grandmother's house for Christmas dinner. My role there is to play with the young cousins the whole time which works because they are about the same maturity level as me, well maybe higher. We went to Massachusetts the next day to see my folks. We saw my brother's baby girl Molly for the first time. She is a cutie and so content. What a good baby. My sister and her husband and their daughter and her baby girl also came so it was quite a crew there for my poor old parents but they managed. We got back last night. Now I am trying to get everything done that I said I would get done over break now. I am getting there. MY Pats look good going into the playoffs. They could even get the third seed now with a win and a Cincy loss to KC which is possible. I was happy to see my Pats beat up on the lowly Jets on the last Monday night game. That was a nice gift for Christmas. Hopefully Pats are healthy for playoffs. It has been nice being home a lot over break to help Julie out with Mackenzie at home. We have got a lot of stuff done and have had some great quality time with "Big Mac". Actually Julie hates that name. We hope you guys are doing well. Hope you have a great New Year as I probably won't get to check in until next week. Take care Brian. All our best to you guys. Let us know if we can do anything to help out. YOu the man. JT, Julie and Mackenzie
MessageBubba - Wishing you and your family a joyous holiday session. Give my best to your mom, dad, Jill, and Carrie when you see them next too. Hope things are going well in Boston - seems the city's up in arms a bit with the Damon trade - I like the on-base-percentage in the Yankees line-up, and it's good to see him respecting George's clean-shaven rule. Keep us posted on everything. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Woody
MessageBubba - Wishing you and your family a joyous holiday session. Give my best to your mom, dad, Jill, and Carrie when you see them next too. Hope things are going well in Boston - seems the city's up in arms a bit with the Damon trade - I like the on-base-percentage in the Yankees line-up, and it's good to see him respecting George's clean-shaven rule. Keep us posted on everything. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Woody
MessageJen and Brian: I just wanted to wish you the "healthiest" this New Year. Brian, you are certainly an inspiration to many many people, it must be that Delaware education! I do have to say that Timmy does get his good looks from his beautiful mother, great pictures! My Jen and I will be thinking about you three constantly. My very Best Wishes. Love, Rick, Jen, Max, Sydney and Sam Linn
MessageDear Brian: A tough update today, but keep your spirits up and things will get better. All of us will have to roll up our sleeves a bit and say a few more prayers, which hundreds of us will do. In the meantime give hugs to Jen and Timmy and keep moving forward. You'll get there. John and Anne
MessageBrian you are in our thoughts and prayers from way out here in Colorado. We send our love to you and your whole family. Love Jay, Geyelin and Melissa Carpenter
MessageBrian-just read your latest update-the news is, of course, worrisome. But we have to continue our faith in GOD WHO IS SO GOOD! I just know HE has more good work for you to do here with your family and students-you will all remain in our thoughts and prayers. Tim sounds like quite a character! AND what personality for only 4 1/2!!! BUT, knowing his father and grandparents, I am not at all surprised!!!-keep those photos coming! we all love them.
MessageJust wanted to jot you guys a quick note on this last day of 2005 to wish you a Happy New Year... we think about you all the time and hope and pray 2006 is your year... no one in the world deserves it more. Love you... Mere, Scott, Lily and Jack
MessageAs always your entire family is close to our hearts as we pray for you and your donor daily. It sounds like Santa was good to Timmy too. It is a good thing he wasn't sleeping at our house- Chris and I were up until 3 am putting together the boys skateboard ramp! California Santa hasn't figured out that too much wine makes for slow elves! Say hi to everyone, and stay warm! Love, Chris, Kelly, Katie, Chris and Kevin
MessageDear Brian, This is some tough news but you're right, along with Jen, you can handle wherever this leads and it is going to be alright. We continue to keep all of you in our prayers and we know that God will see you through this. Love, Terry, Linda, Jack, and Kevin
MessageDear Mr. Fleury: It has been a while since we wrote, but we check your webpage and you are in our prayers. From your recent posting it looks like Tim had a great Christmas. Keep yourself strong and persevere. As St. Pio would say, “Pray, Hope and Don’t Worry. Worry is useless. God is merciful and will hear your prayers.” Wishing a Merry Christmas and a Happy and Healthy New Year to you and your family. Jim Rubino & family
MessageHi Brian, After reading your latest update and talking to Jill and Carrie yesterday I find myself sitting here just shaking my head. While the news, obviously, isn't what you were hoping for, I am sure that you will conquer this latest hurdle the same as you have the past 19 years worth of hurdles...with strength, grace, faith, determination and courage. We are praying for you and your donor everday. Happy New Year. We love you! Jen, Mike, Nicole, Ryan and Sarah
MessageDear Brian, I just want to wish you a very Happy New Year. I wish you and your family much love and all great blessings in the new year. Love, Donna Brophy
MessageHey Coach, I hope you and your family had a great Christmas and I want to wish you a happy New Year. Keep fighting. - Dylan
MessageBrian, Hang tough, keep the faith, and know that I will be praying for a "nodeless" 06. God Bless you and Jen and Tim (who I hope to meet sometime soon) Glenn Berkenkamp
MessageBrian and Jen In our house we have a little tradition, on the first day of every month the first person to say white rabbit to the rest of the family, has good luck for that month. However this January first, the luckiest month, we all in unison said white rabbit on behalf of your family in hopes that it brings you luck the whole year. We pray for you daily and your in our thoughts constantly. You are an amazing family and you will get through this! Sending All of Our Love, Kathy, Philip, Reade, Max, Cam, and Ben
MessageOur thoughts and prayers are always with you and your family. Love the Brophys
MessageHey coach, Just wanted to check in on you and your family. Hope you, your wife, and little guy had a fun time on Christmas. My old ball glove that lasted me from little league through Delbarton finally broke beyond repair at the first gtown club practice in the fall. My dad ended up surprising for christmas with a new gold series rawlings glove which is awesome. My dad and a I were out there in the snow startin to break it. I'm sure you look forward to playin ball with Timmy as he grows up. Keep your thoughts on great things like that if you can. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Happy New Year to you and your family. '06 will be a good year for you so keep up the fight. Your friend, John.
MessageBrian, Hang in there. It's always darkest before the dawn. All of us are praying for you and your family. Tim
MessageBrian: Thank you for sharing your latest message with us. I can see that it wasn't easy to write. However, I believe that 2006 will be the year that you beat this desease into remission. The latest news must be viewed as just part of a long and difficult road which you always knew would have a few bumps along the way. The important thing is that your faith and your determination to complete the journey remain strong. Time after time you've shown strength, courage and determination in the face of this desease and now, once again, you have to go to the well for more of the same. Fortunately, we know that in your case the well of courage is deep and abundant. The thoughts and prayers of so many people are with you each day. We know that you'll prevail. Glenn
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, True, some difficult news to receive, but as I'm sure you know, it is just one bump along the way to recovery. If anyone can persevere and overcome the hurdle, it is you. I hope you had a great Christmas, and Happy New Year to the whole family. Stay strong, Steve
MessageIN THE MEMORY OF MRS. ANN DONNELLY WHO RECENTLY PASSED AWAY, WE WILL BE MAKING A CONTRIBUTION TO YOUR TRUST FUND. AFTER READING ALL OF THESE ENTRIES IN YOUR GUESTBOOK, WE NOW KNOW YOU ARE TRULY A "HERO" IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD. GOD BLESS YOU BRIAN FLEURY AND GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY!
MessageBrian- We are thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. May 2006 be a healthy, happy year for you, Jen and Timmy. Stay positive and keep fighting! Chris, Larry, Sean and Julia Hoey
MessageHi, Brian, Jen & Tim! Happy New Year to you!!! Hope things are going well, Brian....my boys and I think of you every day.....you will always be in our prayers! Villanova basketball team is now 9-0 and ranked #3 in the country.....tough one coming up at Louisville on thursday, the 5th....start of the Big East schedule....we play Louisville (8th) and Connecticut (2nd) twice this year.....we play at Texas on the 14th......national TV....we will be on ESPN or CBS 14 times this year....hope you and Ed get to see them play....the team will be at Rutgers on the 11th of January, by the way. Everything is fine with Zach, Austin & Harry....Zach is moving to Columbia, SC to seek his fortune, Austin just posted a 3.0 GPA in his first semester at Villanova and Harry had a great season as the varsity football assistant to Doc Rod and will be performing in a lead role in the Delbarton winter play.....also, he made highest honors (11.88 GPA!). Be well, Brian!!! Peter
MessageBrian There is one big difference in your latest "bump in the road" and that is after years of dealing with the "fight" alone, in private with Jen, not wanting to burden anyone else with your struggle, you are sharing not only the good news but the setbacks with your loyal "team" of supporters. Please continue your courageous, strong and determined, quiet fight, but know that we are all here for you in our presence and prayers.....this "team" with you as our captain, shall not be defeated..............also thanks for sharing all of the "Timmy" stories with us.....they always put a smile on my face......Larry
MessageBrian There is one big difference in your latest "bump in the road" and that is after years of dealing with the "fight" alone, in private with Jen, not wanting to burden anyone else with your struggle, you are sharing not only the good news but the setbacks with your loyal "team" of supporters. Please continue your courageous, strong and determined, quiet fight, but know that we are all here for you in our presence and prayers.....this "team" with you as our captain, shall not be defeated..............also thanks for sharing all of the "Timmy" stories with us.....they always put a smile on my face......Larry
MessageHey Brian, Jen and Timmy, I'm glad you had a good Christmas. You are right, little kids make the holiday. I was with my 3 and a-half year old nephew, who pretty much insisted that if the package had B, E, or N on it somewhere, it must be for him. His name is Ben, if you had not guessed. I think you have the best perspective regarding the news you received in Boston. I think it helps that you and Jen both played sports for so long and know that a setback is just that, along a journey that takes a whole season. I wish you well and think of you often. Happy 2006!
MessageHi Brian, My prayers are for your new marrow to knock out those nodes, while you remain free of the graft vs. host disease. Stay strong in courage and faith. Love, Pat Crapo
MessageBrian, Hey coach! I just read your 12/30 posting. Wow! I want to wish you and your family the best of luck with this entire ordeal. I officiated at Delbarton and everyone is pulling for you. Just wanted you to know you and your family are in our prayers. Love, Toby Richards and Family
MessageBrian, I spoke with Lorraine this morning regarding confirmation of a bowling match this week and I thought, "Gosh, I should wish Brian a "Happy New Year." So, after reading your newsletter, I am not only wishing you a Happy New Year,but my prayers are with you through this next tough go around. "Hang Tough" I am hopeful that 2006 will be a great year for you and your family. Kathy Ross Madison High School Athletic Department
MessageDear Brian: Glad to hear that you guys had a great Christmas!! I hope Tim had a blast. Sorry to hear about some of the tests in Boston but I am sure it will all work out in the end. If anyone can get through this you can. I still marvel at your courage and determination. You always make the rest of us keep things in perspective. You really touch a lot of people. We will have you in our thoughts and prayers over these next few weeks. Good luck! We had a great Christmas and New Years. We had another couple over for New Years and for my birthday celebration at our house. Great time. Mostly focused on the babies and not us! The next day we went to see the movie Munich for my birthday. I thought it was great but I don't think Julie liked it too much but she was nice enough to go for me! We had a headmasters day on Monday and a snow day yesterday so things are a bit hectic right now at school. The weather was bad yesterday, especially during the morning rush hour. A lot of schools had delayed openings. We had a great hoop practice on Monday, our only Middle School practice over break. Kids were out of shape after two weeks of fun but we looked good and now we have one of our star players back in Matt DeRenzi who looked real good in practice. IT was great to see the varsity team win the Christmas tournie again! Great for Danno and Tom and the team. A great group of kids and parents. Our next game is this Friday home vs. Memorial. Another tough one. I like the way we are playing now though. Patriots play this Saturday vs. Jacksonville. I went to the Pats Jags championship game in Foxboro back in 1996 when they won and then went on to the super bowl and lost to the Packers. I would like to see a game in the new stadium up there but I doubt if that ever happens. My students wrapped up the trial of Louis XVI today. A bit anticlimatic after all the time off but they did a nice job with it. It is always nice to see how much work they put into this project. IT is really like a play. They just turned in their research paper notes so I will have fun grading all of those notes!! Well, I have to get some work done now. I hope all is well with you Brian. Give our best to Jen and Timmy. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageDear Brian, Jen & Timmy, Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers continuously -- our wish for you and your family is a Happy and HEALTHY New Year! Stay strong! The Eschmann's
MessageDear Uncle Brian, My friend Colin and I wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! Love Abbie & Colin
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MessageDear Brian: Hope you are doing well today chief. Some game last night! I only saw part of it but was not unhappy to see USC lose. Too much hype. We had a great practice yesterday. My kids are taking a test on French Revolution and Napoleon. More to grade. We had a lock down drill today. Always eerie to practice that but you have to prepare for such eventualities these days. I forwarded a picture of mackenzie from Christmas to your e-mail account. Hope you got it. Well, time for lunch. Hope you are doing well today and that your treatment goes well. Have you figured out E.K.'s trivia question yet? JT
MessageHappy New Year Brian, Only the best to you and your family ! I am thinking of you. John
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope this message finds you in good spirits and in good health. All our best to you guys. A busy week is now over. Even though we had the first two days off it seemed like a long week. A ton of grading but a lot of it is now done. My trial is now over. Two classes said innocent and one said guilty. They put a ton of work into it, that is for sure. Kovachik and I were telling a student how we had to type papers back in the day. They couldn't believe it. These kids have it easy now. It used to take an entire weekend just to type the paper, not write it but to physically type it and I can type pretty fast! Those were the days with eraser cartridges and researching in the stacks and the dewey decimal system! Not anymore. There is something lost now though I think which is a shame. I am a Luddite at heart. We have a big game today vs. Memorial, another tough team you have lined up for us. I am really happy with the way we have been playing in practice though and I hope that team comes to play today. Hockey has big game tonight vs. Seton Hall. I will still be at my game and then Julie and I are going to a party that her new boss is throwing over in Denville while her grandmother watches Mackenzie. Mackenzie's teeth are really coming in, it is amazing. Big game for Pats this weekend. I think they can beat the Jags but then it gets dicey after that. But, they are the one team who can upset the Colts in my book. Well, time to get ready for my game. I hope you are doing well and that you enjoy the weekend. Let me know if you ever need anything. Hope you got our Christmas card. Thanks for yours. Take care ace. JT IF you are building a football team with Delbarton teachers past and present who do you throw out there based upon their glory days? IS your QB Jepson??? your full back Fred Storz?? JT
MessageHi, Brian..... I hope Ed is excited about Villanova basketball....Jay Wright has the boys playing very well....going into Louisville and stomping the Cardinals in front of 20,000 was a huge away win... next up is West Virginia at home....I'm taking Zach, Austin & Harry down to see them....national TV on sunday....stay strong, Brian....the Laverty family thinks of you and prays for you all the time....the BEST to you, Jen & Tim!!!!! Your friend, Peter
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MessageBrian, We just wanted you to know that you, Jen and Timmy are in our thoughts and prayers. You are an inspiration to our family and the topic of many dinner conversations at home. Thank you for all you have done for us during Dave's years at Delbarton. Gail, Dave, Allison and Lauren Caffrey
MessageHi Brian, Just wanted to drop you a line and let you know that I am thinking of you. I read your last update and I saw Ed Kim the other night who gave me an update on the latest news. Just keep fighting Brian. This cancer has been pretty stubborn, but you are even more stubborn, and in you it has met its match. Keep spitting in this disease's eye. I wear my battle with cancer like a badge of honor, but my badge is nothing compared to the one you wear. You are an inspiration to me, and I just hope I have your courage if my time comes. I look forward to seeing you on the baseball field this spring and back at Delbarton as soon as possible. I also pray for more reports of NED. Please let me know if I or my family can ever do anything for you and yours. John Gilfillan
MessageBrian, Been thinking about you and want to send my love. Keep fighting you are in my prayers. Love ya, Patty
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Timmy: Hello guys! We hope that you had a great weekend! I hope that this note finds you in good health and good spirits. We had a busy but enjoyable weekend. On Friday afternoon my Middle School Basketball team had a resounding victory over Memorial Middle School 45-29. We were up 19-2 at one point. All 17 guys got in in the first half. We played well. We got to play in the new gym which was nice for the guys. We did lose the half time game or as the kids call it the freak show so my assistant Pat Pirozzi is now under close scrutiny. We have three home games this week, MON,WED, AND FRI. We play West Essex today. Never played them before in M.S. hoops. We shall see if they can step to the Delbarton Middle School hoop machine. On Friday night we went to a party thrown by Julie's new boss at the Birth Boutique in Denville at a restaurant in Mt. Lakes. Food was amazing. They are real psyched about Julie and want her to get involved in the company. On Saturday I got a lot done around the house and graded kids trials and notes. That night we had pizza at Julie's great grandmothers apt. over at Franciscan Oaks. I watched the Pats game that night. Amazing game. Pats are looking tough. A statement game. Their D looks good. Now they have to go to Denver which will be tough for them to pull out down there .You got to love that organization. Class! On Sunday more projects an grading and then dinner at Julie's Mom's house which was a belated birthday for yours truly. Great turkey dinner. Mackenzie's teeth are really coming in now. She is really a little person now! We are feeding her cereal for the first time and she seems to love it. My students are now working on the Industrial Revolution and my seniors on the Cold War. Great kids in class this year, hard workers. Well, got to run. Hope all is well. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageBRIAN......HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MARTHA FLYNN FORWARDED YOUR PROGRESS REPORTS TO ALL OF US IN THE COMMUNITY AND WE ALL PRAY FOR YOU, YOUR FAMILY AND DR. HO EVERYDAY. LESS THAN 60 DAYS FOR PITCHERS AND CATCHER TO REPORT TO CAMP. ANDY IS RECOVERING FROM KNEE SURGERY AND SHOULD BE READY TO GO THIS SPRING. COACH MAINES (FORMER DREXEL COACH) HAS TAKEN OVER AT LIU AND IS A BREATH OF FRESH AIR. MATT IS LOVING THE FOOTBALL RECRUITING PROCESS (COLUMBIA, BUCKNELL AND WILKES ARE HIS THREE CHOICES) BUT BASEBALL IS HIS STILL FIRST LOVE, WHATEVER GETS YOU IN THE DOOR. I HAVE BEEN REHIRED FOR IVY/PATRIOT,NEC/PSAC, NJAC FOOTBALL OFFICIATING IN 2006 (HAVE COME A LONG WAY FROM DELBARTON FROSH GAMES) SUSIE IS WORKING HARD AT HER NEW STORE (ELITE REPEAT IN NEW VERNON, RT. 202 ACROSS FROM TALBOTS) I DRIVE BY YOUR HOUSE REGULARLY, YEAH IT IS ME HONKING THE HORN, JUST SAYING HI. WHEN YOU GOT TIME, I HAVE A FUNNY STORY ABOUT HARRY SHATEL, TOM ELSASER AND MYSELF AND THE DAYS WHEN WE PAINTED HOUSES IN THE SUMMER TO MAKE ENDS MEET. TOM IS THE HEAD FOOTBALL COACH AT PASSAIC H.S. AND I HAD HIS THANKSGIVING DAY GAME VS. CLIFTON,COACH AND I HAVEN'T BEEN ON THE FIELD TOGETHER IN THIRTY-THREE YEARS, CAUGHT HIM BY SURPRISE WHEN I SAT IN ON HIS PRE-GAME. HANG IN THERE, WE LOVE YOU..............FRED
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I wanted to write this letter to express my support of your ongoing battle. Your battle with cancer is an inspiring undertaking, and I think that you are a role model to all of us. I will continue to keep you in my prayers and you are in the thoughts of the entire community.
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I have been hearing updates about your condition in school and wanted to wish you luck on this dificult leg of your journey. I hope that you get well soon and that you and your family will continue to enjoy a happy new year.
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I have heard a lot about you from Father Luke, Steve Popper, and others. You are a great man, and I respect your ongoing fight. I wish you luck at this point in your journey.
MessageHi Brian. Happy New Year to you and your family. We hope that you are not discouraged by your recent tests. The power of prayer has been proven, and you have SO MANY people praying for you. On New Year's Day, the Quick family prayed for you at Mass celebrated by Pope Benedict XVI at Saint Peter's Basilica in Rome. We really felt God's presence and we know that He was listening. (And, after all...the Pope's chosen name IS Benedict, right? That must help too!) Keep the faith, Brian. Love, Eileen, Les, Chris, Ryan, Kelsey and Maura
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I just wanted to let you know, you are in my prayers and on my heart!! God bless you! -Tommy
MessageHi Brian, Jen & Tim: We're out in New Mexico for several weeks, weather is a little warmer. You and your family continue to be in our prayers. May 2006 be a year of healing and blessing for you. God Bless/Ruth & Joe Name:
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Timmy: Hello guys. Hope all is well and that this note finds you in good spirits and good health. I saw Mike Del Guercio and Erik Geiger last week when they visited Delbarton. They are on Christmas break and doing well. They send you their best. Two great kids. I was fortunate enough to coach both in soccer, Mike in hoops, and have Erik in class. It is great to see them after they graduate. Our game vs. West Essex got canceled yesterday so we practiced instead and got a good deal accomplished. We play tomorrow against Pequanock who beat us by 30 last year so we hope to improve upon that performance! Our team is really looking good of late but we have a ways to go yet. On Friday we play at home vs. MKA. The game is the one the student council picked to have a ton of kids come watch. It should be fun. Last year we beat Pingry in front of a big crowd. You never know how the little guys will react. Sometimes they go beserk in front of a big loud crowd and other times they play way over their heads. My students are finishing up the Industrial Revolution and getting ready for another test. They did some debates today and did a nice job with them. I had four classes in a row this morning so it is nice to take a break now and get some stuff done. I finally reorganzied my office and threw out all of this junk I had in and on my desk. When I am swamped with work my desk becomes a nightmare. I have down to size now. I called Barbara Fetro yesterday to make sure we have the Villa Walsh courts for the Bryan Bennett Memorial Tournament. We have already had three teams ask about the tournament. I hope it is not the same date as the Newark Academy tournament. We are hoping to go to Mercersburg tournie again. They are organizing a JV one as well and hopefully our JV team can go down there. IT is a great experience. I am now in charge of Mackenzie's evening feeding. We are now eating Barley cereal! She got into it last night and was devouring every morsel. It is a lot of fun but I am not as neat as Julie is. Well, I should get some more work done before practice. I hope you are doing well. Did you ever get a chance to see those e-mails of baseball cards that I sent you? Classic cards. No one here heard of them. My brother is going to start selling our cards on E bay. We got thousands of them. The worst are the huge hockey cards that we have which no one would ever buy. Do you know we have a card of Brian Picolo (from the movie Brian's song)? that is a keeper. So are the cards where Topps jumped the gun and printed Washington Padres in 1973 when there was a rumor that the Padres were moving to DC. We also liked the 3-D cards but they only came in Sugar Pops cereal boxes which I hate. Then there are the Hostess cupcake cards. We got them all. Well Brian, take care ace. Now you can root for Johnny Damon on the Yankees. Red Sox better make some moves soon. At least the Pats are doing well. You gotta love Tom Brady, am I right or what? I say Pats take Denver this weekend. What happened to the Giants???!!? Dano can't be happy. Eli fell apart. Well, gotta run chief. Hope all is well and Timmy is enjoying the winter. Take care. JT
MessageBri... Just a quick hello from up on the Hilltop. God Bless and hope to see you real soon. SFF
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MessageBrian, Happy New Year! Thanks for the updates. Mere and I think of you guys often. You guys truly are an inspiration for all of us. Look forward to seeing you all soon. Scott.
MessageBubba, Sounds like you and your family had a Great Christmas. Hope you had a Great New Year. Stay strong, I know you will and remember that were all praying for you. Dwight
MessageHi Brian-- I am Bob Lake from The Old captain's Galley in Madison.. Fred Leeney and I wish you the Best and want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers daily. You have been an inspiration to many - young and old-- You have faced your illness with courage and a great attitude. God Bless you and your family. I am sure Bruce Shatel, his Dad Harry and their family are behind 100% Bobby Lake and Fred Leeney
MessageHey Brian: Thanks for the update. All the best on your trip to Boston. Rick Linn
MessageBrian, Hope your trip to Boston is positive, keep fighting. You continue to be in our prayers. - Dianne
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: Hello guys. Hope all is well with you. I hope this note finds you in good spirits and in good health. We had a good practice yesterday with the Middle School gang. Starting group is playing real well. 7th graders are slowly getting the hang of the system. Kevin Dunleavy, a new seventh grader and yes he is related to Coach Dunleavy, played real well in practice yesterday playing tough vs. 8th graders. We play Pequanock today who beat us by 30 last year. They were real big last year. We shall see if we can give them more of a game this year. I think so. Pirozzi continues to do an outstanding job as my assistant coach. What a great kid. Brendan Barry, 8th grader, got hurt and he is also now serving as an assistant and it is amazing to see a kid that age help out so well as another coach. My students are getting ready for a big test tomorrow on the Industrial Revolution. Never one of my favorite chapters. How about Bruce Sutter getting into the Hall of Fame?!?!!? First pitcher to never start a game to get in. Jim Rice was third, Gossage fourth and I believe Bert Blyleven fourth in votes. Pete Rose got ten write in votes! Hopefully Rice gets in some day. HE was the main for the SOx in the late 70's and 80's. What a team they had. Talk about hitting. That was a monster hitting team before steroids and shortstops now hitting 40 homeruns a year. Dwight Evans batted 8th in the lineup back then! Wow. I loved that team C FISK 1B SCOTT 2B DOYLE 3B HOBSON SS BURELSON LF RICE CF LYNN RF EVANS DH YAZ Come on Fleury even you have to like that squad, well maybe not. This Friday the school comes to watch our game vs. MKA. It is great they do that and Popper is doing a great job talking it up. He has been great this year. He had one of his papers from my class published in a journal like his brother Matt did. Julie's Mom babysat last night so I got out for a bit and bought a birthday gift for my sister in law at Barnes and Noble. Got some grading done as well. Mackenzie has an exersaucer now and she loves to get in that thing. She is alway going a mile a minute. I dont' know how Julie does it. I hope Timmy is doing well. I love your updates on the website with stories about him. He is a great kid, so full of life. You have to be proud. That kid will be a stud athlete some day. Well, Conference block is about to begin and I have to give extra help and grade some make up debates. Hope all is well. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. If we can ever stop by to say hello and show you Mackenzie let us know. Take care chief. Go Pats. JT
MessageGood afternoon, Brian. My name is Ed Wadhams and I am an alum from Delbarton class of 1989. I live in Atlanta, GA and from time to time my Mom likes to keep me informed of happenings at home. She forwarded the article about you that was in the Daily Record and I just wanted to drop a note and let you know that you are in my prayers. I could not imagine the difficulty of balancing family obligations, your job and the extracurricular activities that you oversee at Delbarton as you battle this terrrible disease. Best wishes to you and God Bless You!
MessageBrian, Just read your most recent update. Please don't be discouraged. Your "Dana Doctor" will know exactly what to do next. I'm praying up a storm! Joyce
MessageGod Bless you Brian. Our prayers are always with you and Jen and Timmy.
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MessageDear Mr. Fleury, Not a day goes by that a thousand prayers are not said for you and your family. We hope you feel the strength and hope that all those prayers hold and that you will be able to rest and heal knowing that all the people who love you have your back and God is ever watchful. Love, Jan, Tony, Matt and Mike
MessageHey Brian- Sorry to be so out of touch! I have tried to stay current with your reports and am amazed at how fast the beginning of the year has gone. I have been thinking of you, Jen, and Tim a lot and I continue to hope for small pieces of good news. Sounds like you have a good doctor taking care of you. Please know that we pray for you each night as we say our evening grace. As far as my life, Alec turns 50 this week and we are having a little dinner party at a nearby restaurant. Should be fun, but it is always a little tricky trying to figure out how to keep a party like this small and intimate. I'll let you know. My middle daughter, Mary, got into Middlebury for next Feb.-we feel very lucky. She has worked hard for the past 4 years. What else? we are in the middle of the hockey season and so I don't see much of my husband or son. He's applying to Delbarton for next year....should be interesting, if he gets in, to have a child at school. I will be a constant source of embarrassment. Take care Brian; We miss you at school. love, Sally
MessageHey Mr. Fleury! I just read your news from yesterday. We have total confidence in you that you will overcome this obstacles. I hope you had a great Christmas and a happy new year. I know I did, along with many of the other juniors, as we went down to Appalachia. It was a fantastic experience, one that was handled exceptionally well by every junior on the trip. Naturally, Fr. Giles and the parents were incredible as well. Things at the school are progressing nicely. We finally have the steel beams up and we are starting to get a real feel for what our campus is going to look like in the coming year. I hope you feel well in the coming days. -Pat Rutter
Messagewishing you all the best. hopefully this will be the last bout and you will be back on the diamond soon.
MessageWhats up Coach Fleury - Haven't written to you in a while but I have heard everything. I know out of everyone in my life, you can get through all of this. Basketball season started awhile back and I am playing alot but do not worry, I am going to play baseball again this year. I think I am going to switch to first base this year instead of outfield and hopefully I will play a little more than last year. You are in my thoughts and prayers all the time and I listen to Brandy quite often in honor of you and Shatzy. Love and miss ya - Goldy
MessageCoach Fleury - My family and I continue to pray for you and we all feel very confident in your recovery. Leotti
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, We are constantly thinking and praying for you. As you continue to be an inspriation to all of us we will continue to keep you in our daily thoughts. If you need anything, just ask. All our love, Dennis, Dodi and "them girls"
MessageHi Found your website, and wish I knew it was there. I have you on my mind quite a bit and wonder how things are going. Your mother, is a very dear cousin, we go back to when I was having my children and she used to spend time at my home taking care of my three sons. She was a friend of my babysitter, Karen Terreri. My heart goes out to you and your family and my prayers are for your recovery and some peace in your life. I met you and your wife Jen at Uncle Arts reception after his funeral but there's so many of us don't expect you to remember. I have heard so many wonderful things about your wife and what a wonderful support she is to you and I am so thankful for that. Also what your son, Timmy, means to you. How athletic he is and is going to take after is grandfather and his daddy. Please continue your fight and we are all a part of your support even though you may never see us. I have had the feeling of support in attending your benefits. As you said in one of your emails to your friends "Hang in there" you do the same. My prayers and hopes along with my family love to you and hello to Jen & Timmy Patty
MessageDear Brian: Saw your update on the website. Hang in there chief. Sounds like you are in great hands and we all you are the best patient in the entire world. We are thinking of you and praying for you each day. Things at Delbarton are good. We lost to Pequanock yesterday 53-42. They had a couple of good players and ran a tough half court zone D that we could not deal with. We couldn't hit a shot from the outside for much of the game and had far too many turnovers. We cut it to seven in the second half but then allowed them to pull away. So, back to work today in practice. The one bright spot was that our JV team won convincingly at half time after losing in the last game and they played real well. Great to see them do well. The kids are working hard and improving each day. Now, if we can just work on some of the mental mistakes we will be where we want to be. We play MKA tomorrow in front of a big crowd and then have a pizza party afterwards. Should be fun. Mrs. Moran, Mickey's Mom, is our booster head and is doing a great job. The tennis program has something that they would like to give you next week. I can either mail it or drop it off at your house. Let me know. Whatever is best for you. It won't be long before the tennis team is in Puerto Rico getting ready for the season. Time flies. We had a great meeting this morning on a new schedule proposal. Father Jerome has come up with an excellent proposal and we had a good discussion. We shall see if it gets passed but there are some real good ideas here that I think will benefit our kids education. My students are taking a test on the Industrial Revolution. Grades are due this Tuesday so another weekend of grading papers for me. Julie baby sat a friends daughter yesterday who is older than Mackenzie and can move around more so she got a taste of what will come when Mackenzie is crawling around and getting into stuff. I read to Mackenzie last night from our nursery rhyme book that one of my parents friends gave us and she loves them though she likes biting the book the best! I got an e-mail from Zach Chandis yesterday. He is now in Dallas working there and doing well. It is always great to hear from alums. Well, got to get some more stuff done now during this free block. Hope you are doing well. Hang in there. It will all work out, I have no doubt. Everyone here is pulling for you. Take care and lets hope that Jim Rice gets into the Hall of Fame next time around. JT WORST STARTING QB'S IN SUPERBOWL TONY EASON STAN HUMPHRIES TRENT DILFER DAVID WOODLEY
MessageBrian: My oldest Max (6) Just came up with a new Joke, thought you might want to share it with Timmy since he keeps telling you that 7,8,9 one. Don't worry it's clean. What do you call a lobster that won't share his food......."shellfish." I got a million of 'em... Rick Linn
MessageDearest Brian, I just received an email from my brother, John, with a link to your website. He read an article in the newspaper about a fundraiser with your name in it and curiosity drove him to do some research. I'm so glad that he did since I was the happy recipient of the link. Perhaps you may remember: the Kay family lived on Parker Drive (around the corner from you folks) for a number of years and through 2 moves -- we were across the street from the Krass Family. I hope you don't mind - I looked through your website with much interest and some pride. I'm proud for you and all that you've accomplished!You have an amazing life filled with friends, family, a lovely wife and son! The Beschlers will pray along with hundreds of others as you continue to persevere with your treatments. God bless you and your family! Best regards, Deb
MessageHi Brian, Thinking of you as I just took a walk by your house during this very spring like day. I hope that you are feeling better today. Saying my prayers daily for you, Jen and Timmy. Keep fighting the fight. Eileen
MessageBrian, Stay strong!! This healing process is a marathon. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Your determination and spirit will carry you. Love, The Jabbours: Jerry, Jean, Jerry Jr., John and Jessica.
MessageDear Brian: Hope you had a good day today and are feeling well. I am here for Library duty. Almost done. Got a ton of work done in the process. We had a great practice today. Kids responded well to what we needed to work on after yesterday's loss. Pirozzi and I worked them hard and got a lot done in 45 minutes. You got to just keep moving in Mmiddle School practice and coach on the fly with the short time allotment. IT works. Hopefully we will play better tomorrow in big game vs. MKA in front of entire school. Saw Chris Dittrick and Devin Graber today both back here from college. Great to see alums. Sounds like Dittrick is doing well at Holy Cross. I tried to get him to come back and help us run the Bryan Bennett tournie but he said no. We miss him. YOu need a great manager! I observed Fred Storz's 7th grade class today. They were discussed Pol Pot and the Khmer Rhouge. Some smart kids in there. Fred did a nice job as usual with the young guys. I am almost done with my observations. When you get back I hope you can do my peer review some day. I have to find someone this year. One year Marty did it, one year Kovachik, one year Donovan, one year Devine, etc. Good feedback. Good system. BIg Pats game this weekend. I am sure you will be watching. Get Timmy to wear Pats gear so he can hold his head up high in school. Eddie THompson has done a ton of work on the Bryan Bennett tournie so we are ahead of the game now. He is the man, especially with a name like Thompson. Well, it is time to see my daughter! I am outta here. Hope you are doing well. Hang in there chief. I see your picture on the bulletin board every day and am inspired. Take care. JT
MessageHey coach, We are all thinking of you. I know you have been on my mind a lot lately. I really hope that things are going well for you. School hasn't been the same without you this year. I hope you get back very soon because we all miss you. Hope to hear from you soon. Matt Campbell
MessageBrian, I must admit that I am concerned for you. I would not be honest if I said anything different. However, we know you have great trust in God, have a fabulous support system, a "priceless" family and the tenacity to do what you need to do. I am thinking of the visualization techniques right now and sending in the health squad to defeat whatever is standing in the path of wholeness and recovery. Love and prayers to you and the family! Barbara
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Timmy: Hope all is well with the Fleury clan. I hope this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. It is D day here at Delbarton School and all is well. My folks live in Amherst Mass as you may remember and go to Amherst college sporting events. My Dad noticed Delbarton grads on the team and actually went up to them, Glodsmith and McLaughlin, and talked to them. In addition, some of my parents friends sat next to the Goldsmiths and McLaughlins and got to talking and eventually figured out the connnection with me. Small world. I just got an e-mail from Mr. Goldsmith.When I lived in Amherst we used to go to the Amherst College gym as kids and play pick up hoops with the AMherst college guys. Those were the days. Now they throw "townies" out of the gym but they weren't as strick as they are now. Coach O'Brien, nicest guy in the world, gave me a great book to read at practice the other day on Napoleon's invasion of Russia. The thing is like 500 pages long but it is a very interesting read and when I have time, which is almost never, I am reading it. Hartle still lives in Pennsylvania. I observed Kent Manno today and he had some funny lines as usual. When they talked about the steam engine he talked about getting one as a gift as a kid. Interesting. I got soldiers and baseball cards and street hockey sticks! I got a gift for Mackenzie in the mail from Mark Bhagavatula, remember him. Great kid and a genuis. We used to call him "money bags" in middle school hoops. I know, dumb nickname but it stuck. I dont' even know how old he is now. Classes start to blur together when you get old. We are thinking of you and hope that you get through this next challenge in your treatment. I am sure you will. If you have a chance I hope you enjoy this Martin Luther King long weekend. I know your favorite catcher of all time was Andy Etchebarren. Or maybe it was Bill Plummer. Or how about ellie Hendricks or Paul Casanova. I could be dating myself with some of these as you are a bit younger than me. Take care chief. You are the man. Remember, we have something for you from the tennis team so let me know if you want it mailed or delivered, whatever is easiest. I have to go grade some more research paper notes now. Hang in there. Take care. JT, Julie, and Kenzie
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Timmy: Hope all is well with the Fleury clan. I hope this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. It is D day here at Delbarton School and all is well. My folks live in Amherst Mass as you may remember and go to Amherst college sporting events. My Dad noticed Delbarton grads on the team and actually went up to them, Glodsmith and McLaughlin, and talked to them. In addition, some of my parents friends sat next to the Goldsmiths and McLaughlins and got to talking and eventually figured out the connnection with me. Small world. I just got an e-mail from Mr. Goldsmith.When I lived in Amherst we used to go to the Amherst College gym as kids and play pick up hoops with the AMherst college guys. Those were the days. Now they throw "townies" out of the gym but they weren't as strick as they are now. Coach O'Brien, nicest guy in the world, gave me a great book to read at practice the other day on Napoleon's invasion of Russia. The thing is like 500 pages long but it is a very interesting read and when I have time, which is almost never, I am reading it. Hartle still lives in Pennsylvania. I observed Kent Manno today and he had some funny lines as usual. When they talked about the steam engine he talked about getting one as a gift as a kid. Interesting. I got soldiers and baseball cards and street hockey sticks! I got a gift for Mackenzie in the mail from Mark Bhagavatula, remember him. Great kid and a genuis. We used to call him "money bags" in middle school hoops. I know, dumb nickname but it stuck. I dont' even know how old he is now. Classes start to blur together when you get old. We are thinking of you and hope that you get through this next challenge in your treatment. I am sure you will. If you have a chance I hope you enjoy this Martin Luther King long weekend. I know your favorite catcher of all time was Andy Etchebarren. Or maybe it was Bill Plummer. Or how about ellie Hendricks or Paul Casanova. I could be dating myself with some of these as you are a bit younger than me. Take care chief. You are the man. Remember, we have something for you from the tennis team so let me know if you want it mailed or delivered, whatever is easiest. I have to go grade some more research paper notes now. Hang in there. Take care. JT, Julie, and Kenzie
MessageMy hopes and prayers are with you Bubba. Love Del
MessageBrian, Keep fighting. You knew this wasn't gonna be easy. Always remember all of your friends and family praying for you. It's like hitting...be patient and keep battling.
MessageOur prayers are with you, timmy and jen as you face yet another bump. Your strength and courage will overcome. God Bless you, Jen and Timmy. love from the campbells
MessageDear Brian, Jen, Timmy and Family Hope you are feeling better, Brian. You have the prayers of alot of people taking care of you today and every day. Try and keep a positive feeling, and look forward to better days. You are in our thoughts all the time, and if we can help with anything, don't be afraid to ask. Do you like to read? see you soon, The Longs
MessageDear Brian; Hope you had a nice MLK weekend. I hope that this message finds you in good health and in good spirits. We are thinking of you each and every day. On Friday we had our big Middle School hoop game where students come out in numbers to watch. Steve Popper did a great job. We had an enthusiastic large crowd in attendance and it was great for the kids to play in that situation. Unfortunatley MKA was pretty bad and we beat up on them. The one good thing, though, is that everyone got to play a lot so that was nice for the kids. Somehow we lost the JV game to this team even though our JV kids beat up on MKA in the varsity game as well so we may have to send Coach Pirozzi to the minors. We had a pizza party in the cafeteria organized by Mrs. Moran and the MS parents after the game. Julie came and brought Mackenzie. We had a great time and the parents enjoyed seeing Mackenzie! Parents brought great desserts as well. I got a whole tray to bring home which was nice to have over the weekend. Julie and I had an enjoyable weekend. We got a lot done and had some great quality time with Mackenzie. I basically had a grading marathon. Whenever grades are due the weekend before is a grading marathon. I got it all done at a reasonable hour last night and almost everything counted for the kids. We did a lot over the winte term so far and they had some major grades. Also watched a lot of football. Pats choked! If they had beaten Denver, instead of giving them the game on a silver platter, they woudl be hosting the championship game in Foxboro against the Steelers! They wouldn't have even had to play the Colts. Oh well, it was not to be. At least the Colts lost and even better Vanderjack missed the winning field goal! Guy is too cocky for my taste but I feel bad for Dungy. Today we play Mendham away. They are the first seed in the tournie and somehow we are sixth! They are sticking it to us coach! Maybe we can prove today that the seedings are wrong and send them a messsage. We shall see. We haven't played in three days and sometimes that can lead to disaster. Good group this year though so I think they will be ready. Well, I have to go to conference block and give extra help on essays and the quiz today. I hope you are doing well. Hang in there chief. Just remember how tough Pat Corrales and Bob Montgomery were and you will be fine. Take care. JT
MessageHi Brian, The saying, “two steps forward; one step back,” comes to mind after reading your update and talking with your Mom recently. Setbacks can be discouraging and can get you down. You’ve always had the ability to just fight a little harder when this happens and I’m sure you’ll do it again this time. Know that prayers and positive thoughts are coming your way from all the Bonannos. Good luck in Boston. Best regards to Jen and Timmy. Mrs. “B”
MessageDear Brian,Jen and Timmy, We were up in the Boston area this week visiting a college( talk about exciting-eight hours in the car with Kevin!!) and our thoughts turned to you. We know this is a tough period and we have all stepped up our prayers. Love, The Riordan Family
MessageCoach, You and your family continue to be in our everyday thoughts and prayers. Please know that you are a man that is truly loved and missed by all. The Eschman and Romano families
MessageHey Mr. Fleury!! Hope things are going well with the treatment and with your family. I hope your Christmas was good. Things are moving along fast at Delbarton these days with all of the changes and everything. Its almost that time of year again where the bat bags come out of the closet and start hitting the cage. Hopefully I can make the freshman baseball team with Mr. Hall and Mr. Ross. I can't beleive its my third year already in the baseball program. Time flies! Good luck with everything and get well soon!
MessageDear Brian, You and your family continue to be in our prayers. We all hope that this infection will clear in a short period of time. It is amazing how wonderful holidays can be when spent with a child even though Santa sometimes arrives very very early in the morning. We hope that the trip to Boston bring only betetr, and good, news for you and yours. As always and as all other families have said . . . if you need anything . . . Most sincerely, The Hardin Family George, Colleen, Stephen, Mark and Brian
MessageBrian, We had an Alumni Association dinner last night and Father Luke gave us some pretty encouraging news about your progress. You were subject number 1 in his "State of the School" address. There were about 10 or so seniors there. What an amazing group - all scholars, athletes and usually both. One boy has had, if I heard Father Luke correctly, 18 AP courses. I almost feel a kinship with them which people without ties to Delbarton cannot comprehend. Even my wife doesn't get it but my kid, class of '08, is beginning to grasp it as are his friends. Thank you for the Christmas card and everyone is pulling hard for you. Give us all some good news soon.
MessageBrian-you are #1 on our prayer list! All good thoughts are going your way!
MessageBrian-you are #1 on our prayer list! All good thoughts are going your way!
MessageDear Brian: Hello ace. Hope all is well with you and that this note finds you in good spirits and in good health. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you. I am sorry I haven't checked in over the last 36 hours but I was in Queens at the Queens hospital for two days. On Tuesday night my brother was sent to the emergency room there. He was at a trade show in New York and didn't feel well and got sick. He felt a little better and got on his flight back home to Cleveland. But when he sat down he passed out and threw up all over himself. He had to be taken off the plane and put in ambulance where he passed out again and threw up a lot and sent to the hospital. I drove there on Tuesday night to be with him. QUeens hospital is sketchy. We waited in a waiting room at the Emergency room until 2:30 in the morning, my brother got there at 7 and I got there at 10:30 before finally getting checked into a room and the only reason that happened is because I said something to someone. Went to bed at 3:30. I slept on a chair in a waiting room which meant that I didn't really sleep. Then we waited for the doctor to check him out and then release him on the next day as his blood tests were negative. Well no doctor by 1:30 in the afternoon. So I asked the intern what was going on and she thought the doctor had seen him. So now we had to wait even longer for a doctor. Doctor was a nice guy but didn't see him until 4 and then said more tests were needed and that Dave would have to stay over another night. So, not a good situation all in all. Service and care was pretty poor. He was in a room with four other people, none of whom spoke English so it was interesting. He seems OK now and is supposed to go back to Ohio today. So, that was an ordeal. My Mom has had the same problem so it may be connected. ON Tuesday before I left for Queens we played Mendham in hoops and lost 69-58. That is a lot of points in a Middle School game! Not a heck of a lot of defense there so we got some work to do. THey had one kid who scored like 35 points. He had gone to our basketball camp and wants to come to Delbarton next year. We play Peck today so hopefully we can bounce back from that and play better as we get ready for the tournament. We are the 6th seed in our tournie and Mendham is #1. We played with Mendham for most of the game so hopefully we can get another crack at them if we are lucky to run the table and make the finals. We open up with Mountain Lakes next Saturday at 1:30. Classes went well today. Had to make up for lost time as I was out yesterday. It is great to see how Delbarton covers for you in an emergency situation like that. My class is discussing the Congress of Vienna and the revolutions of 1830 and 1848 and have a test coming up next week. They also have an essay due on Locke. So, more grading!!Otherwise, everything going well. Hartle still lives in PA. I truly hope that you are doing well. I will be sending you something that I think you will get a kick out of, or at least I hope you do. Pat Crapo e-mailed me about my reference to Paul Casanova (catcher for Senators in early 70's) and wondered how I had ever heard of him as I was not old enough. I couldn't believe she had heard of him but she told me she was a big Senators fan as a kid. Well, take care Brian. Hang in there. We are all pulling for you. JT
Messagehi brian, just wanted you to know that i am praying for you and am thinking about you alot. your friend, geoffrey
MessageHey Brian... Not a day goes by when I don't think of you and your family. The guys at the office send their very best as well. Now I see that Geoff D'Aries has also checked in -- Further proof that you are indeed The Man!
MessageDear Brian; Hello chief! Hope all is well with you ace. I hope this message finds you in good spirits and in good health and that your treatment is going well. Hang in there. We are thinking of you and are inspired by you. We played Peck yesterday. We beat them 44-23. They weren't too good. Our starters came out flat and didn't ever run a play each time up the floor after we had explicitly told them to do so so out all five came and we put in the second team. They played great! It was awesome to watch. Matt Voda and Matt Natruman were particularly good off the bench and hustled and worked hard and played their hearts out. We put the starters back in in the second period and I think they got the hint. Now we don't play until Wednesday vs Long Valley. We start up our tournie next Saturday in Wharton vs. Mountain Lakes. That tournie always cracks me up because they run it like it is the NCAA final four. We do have a blast though and hopefully we can go farther this year. Mendham is the first seed in our draw and they beat us this past Tuesday but we hung with them for most of the game so it is not like we have no chance against them. I have almost finished my observations. I obsereved Bowers for the second time on Tuesday and will observe Conn for the second time today. I really like sitting in on classes. It is the best part of the Department head job. You learn a lot from other teachers and you get to see other kids and how they perform in class. Mackenzie is teething again so she has been up at night so not a lot of sleep in the Thompson household. But she is still cute as a button and is really growing and developing every day. It is amazing to watch. She will be seven months old next week! That flew by. My brother is now home and seems to be doing well now. It was a bit scary though and he still has some tests to do. Cedric, Z, and Steve Ford are going to help me and the History Club organize some events for February for Black History month and hopefully get some interest and do some interesting activities. We start the World War II trivia contest in two weeks. Got about 20 kids signed up. I bet you would have signed up as a young kid!! Well, I got a lot to do here before my classes meet. I hope you are doing well. Hang in there and keep the faith. You are in our prayers and thoughts. Hope Timmy is doing well. Take care. JT TOP FIVE PATRIOTS QB'S IN ORDER BRADY, GROGAN, BLEDSOE, PLUNKETT, EASON
MessageQuick note. Coach Thompson is showing his youth. Babe Parelli definitely merits ranking. Take care.
MessageDear Brian: Hey, I read the update. Hope all goes well with the new plan. It is great that you have a doctor that you believe in. And if Timmy agrees with the plan how can you go wrong chief? We had a great practice today. Worked hard and got a lot done. We got the new gym all to ourselves as all hoop teams are away today. We don't have a game until Wednesday vs. Long Valley. Never played them before. My students were great in class today. We are trying to catch up for the lost time when I was at the hospital with my brother. Covered a lot of material today and had a good debate in class. The WOrld War II trivia contest now has about 30 kids signed up and is now in its second year. Clint Morrison won last year. Hopefully it will become a big deal as the years go by. I love trivia baby. Sanfacon and I will sit there sometimes and just quiz each other about random historical events. He is the man. But, I have stumped him several times. He always claims that I made up the question and the answer when I stump him. I just talked to Pat Crapo about my posting to you about the catcher for the Washington Senators Paul Casanova. It seems that as a kid Pat went to four Senators games a week with her Dad and saw every team in the league so she knows a lot about baseball from that time period. No big plans for this weekend. Hopefully some quality time with Mackenzie and some relaxation after a busy week. Mackenzie is doing well but is teething now. We have gotten tons of help from Julie's family which is great, especially with all of my commitments here at Delbarton. Well, I have to do library duty now. Hope your new plan of action goes well. Hang in there. IT sounds like you have the right perspective on things as usual. Take care ace. JT
Messagejust checking on you! Prayers and positive energy continue! Lots of love, Barbara
MessageBrian--I hadn't checked your web site for awhile so was a little disheartened to read of your set back. Fighting this disease is a series of ups and downs. We pray there will be more ups than downs and your progress will show an uphill line on the chart. The dinner in your honor sounds like it had a wonderful response. I don't know of anyone else in MP who could have generated such a turnout. What a tribute to you! We are among the many who keep you in our prayers. Frank & Evelyne Giannantonio
MessageBrian: You and your family have been an inspirtation to many. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Stay Strong! Del
MessageDear Coach, You and your wife are such inspiring and valiant fighters,of course your son would follow in those foot steps! Keep thinking about "the plan" and the good things, as we are all doing on your behalf. With God's help, spring will bring better things for you all. Sincerely,Diane Gesicki
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MessageHi Brian, I am happy to read that Dr. Ho's new plan has Timmy's seal of approval. Timmy would never steer you wrong. I never realized before that cancer treatments were so personally tailored. You, your family, Dr. Ho and your donor continue to be in my prayers. Love, Pat Crapo
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MessageDear Brian, you are in our Prayers for your speedy recovery everyday. We admire your courage and are sure you will conquer ths disease. May God Bless you,in the name of his son, Jesus Christ our Saviour. We Love you, Brenda, Sal, and Matt DelPreore
MessageMr. Fleury, We hope you enjoyed the holidays with your family at home, and we hope you continue with your recovery as smooth and quick as it has been going. Believe it or not, baseball season is a month and a half away!! Your favorite time of year!! And luckilly, it seems the Mets are finally starting to make the right moves and looks like the playoffs are inevitable, perhaps the World Series too. Keep fighting as you are doing a great job so far. You know you will be better before you know it. Garett and the Figueroa's
MessageHi Brian- Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and praying for you everyday! You are such an inspiration to us all - keep on fighting!! If Timmy thinks the new plan is a good plan, it has to be, he's the one with super powers, right? Love and prayers to you all- Marianne ps I wish I could give you a dum dum lollipop and make it all better :).
MessageCoach: I have been following your updates on your news page. The Mcgraths are always asking about your progress and I give them an update from time to time. I hope you and your family are always in positive spirits, times like these are trying and it takes strong individuals to get through them, like you and your family, espcially Timmy. He will give you the upbeat attitude you need each day. A child will do that in good and bad times. I pray and think about you alot. Please stay focused, think about all the people at your other family Delbarton, that are praying and pulling for you each hour of the day. Back to watching the Carolina/Seattle game. Stay up and I know in my heart God will get you to the next level of recovery Sincerely Rich Conforti
MessageDear Brian: Hope all is well with you guys. I hope this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. Good luck with next phase of treatment. I am sure it will go well. Your courage and determination continue to inspire me and lots of other people. We are doing well. We had a nice weekend. Went to Julie's grandmother's house Saturday for dinner and her Mom's on Sunday for dinner. We actually went out for dinner on Friday night on a rare night out with Mackenzie to a place at that new little mall on Rt. 10 in Denville area. Mackenzie loves to be out in public. Busy week this week with school work. Lots of grading to do with tests tomorrow and essays due on Friday so I have to return all of the previous essays by then. I heard from two alums recently. Mike Vermylen is looking to be a teacher and has applied here at Delbarton for English or HIstory position. He played tennis for me from 7th to 12th grade as I started as middle school coach and moved up to varsity as he did. Great young man. I don't know if we can get him in but he would be great. I also heard from Dave Porter who is doing great at Boston College and studying medicine. His brother Brandon is now there and seems to have had no relapse of his illness lately. He did a nice job playing tennis at Ramapo. Great to hear from them. John Sanfacon's trivia team did well this past weekend. One of the questions they were asked had the wrong answer and Joe Hughes, sophomore, challenging them and won. I am organizing a WOrld War II trivia contest and have about 30 kids signed up. Middle School hoops has practice today and tomorrow and then plays Long Valley at home, another home game!, on Wednesday. I have never played them before but I know some years they have had amazing teams. We begin our tournie this weekend.Our second and third teams have been playing real well in practice, great to see that happen. How about them Steelers? Thats who I am pulling for now. Nice to see Duke lose to G-town as well though I am no big fan of them either but I like to see Duke lose! Red Sox better make some moves quick here or they will have trouble with Yankees this year though Yanks still need pitching. Johnny Damon as a Red Sox still makes me mad Well, got to go to Conference block and give help on rough drafts with my sophomores. Hope you are doing well. All our best to Jen and Timmy. You are the man.Hope you got the tennis team's gift for you! JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageBrian and Jen, Sounds like Timmy has a good head on his shoulders. All our Love, Rick and Jen Linn
MessageHi Brian: Read the update today and we are happy that Dr. Ho and his colleagues have a plan in place. You've been in tight spots before and there is no one else that all of us have more faith in than you. We're ratcheting up the prayers and we'll beat this thing. Just keep following orders and get your strength back. Chasing Timmy around should get you in shape. All our love to you, Jen and Timmy. John
MessageHi Guys, I've gotta go with Timmy on this one- the plan sounds like a good one and you're just the fighter for it. "If you're going through hell, keep going." ~Winston Churchill Chuck and I went to the Baseball Comedy night on Friday. Brian, that's such a great idea for a fundraiser. It's a good pre-season social for the parents, entertaining for all and a money maker. What's not to love. We had a super time and met all sorts of new people I never see since they are on that other field with the orange dirt. Chuck was a little worried before we went, wondering if they would roast him for being the lacrosse coach. Funny, the comedian never found out he coached lacrosse until after the show. It was Chuck's argyle socks that sparked his attachment to Chuck that night. Maybe I should stop buying his clothes.It was a really funny show and we had a great time. Of course,it would have been better if you and Jen were there laughing too. Save us a seat next year. Love, Donna
MessageHey Mr Fleury, Its been a while but i hope you remember me! I got in touch with John Thompson and he told me you have taken on another battle recently. I am glad he brought it to my attention, as i wish to continue praying for you. I am certain that a man of your humility, courage, and determination will persevere and be back on the field soon. Take care my man. Best, David Porter
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I just want to say that I will be praying for you and that I hope that your cancer treatment is going well. You were definitely the best English teacher I ever had and I learned a lot more from you than just literature. Much Love, Jack Audibert '05
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I hope you are feeling better and will make a quick recovery. Not a day goes by that the Delbarton community does not feel your absence because of the wonderful contribution you have made to the school and its athletic programs. All the best, William Hart.
MessageCoach, as always you are in my thoughts and prayers. Get well soon and can't wait to catch up in person! Kaager
MessageSo much time in Beantown, you'll be a Sawx fan. Makes sense, since Theo undoubtedly will be looking for some sound advice to help him get back on his game. Glad you're all back in Jersey, lemme know what we can do. Doing a little travel this Winter, but otherwise available for driver duty to Boston at the drop of a hat. Best to Jen and Timmy.
MessageDear Coach Fleury: Hope this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. Hang in there chief. Everything at Delbarton going well. I had Sally Walsh, Kelly Gleason, and Josh Hartle sit in on one of my classes for my peer review and they seemed to go well. Looking forward to the feedback. We had a great practice yesterday for Middle School hoops. A couple of students helped out with our station work which really helps. We got a lot of kids out there. They are working hard and really coming together. I hope it all comes together in the MCT tournie this weekend vs. Mountain Lakes. Julie and Mackenzie had a great day at Julie's job at Birth Boutique. That is going very well and Julie really enjoys it. We hope you received the tennis team's gift to you in the mail. I have to do some more progress reports now and grade some essays. I hope you are doing well. We miss you around here. Hartle still lives in PA. take care. Jt ALL TIME RED SOX PITCHING ROTATION TIANT CLEMENS LEE LONGBORG BULL PEN: STANLEY, LONG RELIEF CALVIN SHIRALDI
MessageBub, Read the update. It sounds like you couldn't be in better hands than Dr. Ho's. We keep praying that everything goes well for you and your family. Stay strong, which I know you will. Dwight
MessageJust checked your site and was sorry to see another bump in your road. I have no doubt you are due for a miracle to beat this disease once and for all. You and yoru family stay in my prayers. - Kim
MessageBrian, You have always been a great role model for all the boys at Delbarton, during my four years of involvement at the school. But the fact remains, that you have been a aspiration to every parent that you have been associated with at Delbarton! Your strength defines the perfect role model what God would expect from each and everyone of us. My thoughts and prayers are with you Brian. Stay strong and good luck! Best regards, Joe Vespa Mike '99
MessageDear Brian: Hey chief. Thanks for the e-mail. Glad you got the tennis binder in the mail. The tennis program hopes that it brightened up your day in some small way. Kids really got into it and it was neat to see how much they cared and how Ryan Donovan organized it and got it done. Great kid. Busy day today with tests and extra help and observations. My class just took a big test, 50 out of 50 multiple choice questions, on Reaction, Revolution, and Romanticism. Tough test but many did well. One kid got a 100!! I also have to finish grading their Napoleon essays by tomorrow. Still have a few to go. We play Long Valley today in hoops. I love game day in whatever sport I am coaching. Nothing better. We had a great practice yesterday so we hope to do well today and go on a roll into the counties this weekend. Our co-captains are Matt Mulcahy and Matt DeRenzi, both baseball guys I believe. We also pick one game captain per game. I am in charge of Mackenzie tonight until 10 after my game as Julie has a class to attend. Hopefuly we will survive. She is usually pretty good but she loves her Mom! I really only get to see her at night as she is usually still asleep when I leave for work. She is now in her exersaucer a lot and loves it. Well, got to run. Hope all is well. Thanks for your note. We are thinking of you. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
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MessageDear Brian, I just wanted to let you know that the children (and parents) at St. Joseph School in Mendham have you on their prayer chain "for comfort, strength and healing". We hope that your transplant kicks in asap & look forward to meeting you at Delbarton! In my thoughts and prayers, Claire Preston (& Geoff '09)
MessageHi Brian, Just read your latest update. Having the decision made and a path to follow is always a good thing. It all sounds very positive. Best to you, Jen & Timmy! (Love the latest pictures.)
MessageDear Brian; Hey chief. Hope you are doing well. I am about to start reading the book you got me on coaching. I have to finish the book Tom O'Brien gave me on Napoleon first but I am almost done. We lost yesterday 36-29 to Long Valley. Good team and good program. Should keep playing them. THey had some big kids. We were leading 23-17 at half and only scored six points in the second half! Not good. We have a lot of work to do by this Saturday to be ready for the tournament. Mackenzie and I had a great time last night while Julie was at work. Julie got home and couldn't believe that Mackenzie was sound asleep and everything was OK. I think she wanted her to be up so she could put her to sleep! We had a lot of fun. I graded a million papers yesterday and today. ALmost done. I actually have to do three more so I will say goodbye for now. Hang in there champ. Just keep watching Patriots highlights and you will be fine. You gotta love Tom Brady, am I right or am I right. I mean that is a class act. Not like the Mets or Jets!! See ya ace JT
MessageDear Brian: Hello ace. Hope all is well with you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We hope your treatment continues to go well. Hang in there chief. We had a good practice today in preparation for our big tournament game tomorrow over at Pequanock Valley Middle School against Mountain Lakes. I will miss playing the games over at Mackinnon School in Wharton. We own that place! I think the team is ready. We had two good practices in a row and I think have improved in some key areas. I just hope it is enough for a good team like Mountain Lakes. We usually have a fairly easy first round game to get our feet wet but not this year. Robbie Hellauer and Pat Sullivan have come to our practices to help out which is really great because I have so many kids that it helps to have more assistants, especially when we do station work. They are both Middle School veterans! I have library duty now and am trying to get some work done before I go home. Mackenzie has been sick so hopefully she is feeling better when I get home tonight. She is getting close to talking now and I can't wait. What were Timmy's first words? I watched some classic sports related movies over the last few days including Remember the Titans, Rudy, and Radio. I am a sucker for those kind of movies. My all time sports movies would be as follows: 1. HOOSIERS 2. BRIANS SONG 3. REMEMBER THE TITANS 4. RUDY 5. MIRACLE Some are cheezy and it is more because I love the actual event or team or person than the movie but I like these nonetheless. Well, got to get a few more things done before I depart and make sure kids are behaving. Hartle still lives in PA. Red Sox still need a shortstop. And Delbarton is still doing well. Hope you are doing well Coach. You the man. Take care Brian. JT
MessageHi, Brian.....keep your spirits up and your faith strong....the "plan' sounds good....you are in our thoughts and prayers at all times!!!! Peter, Zach, Austin & Harry
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MessageI'm not sure why it has taken me so long to write this note, but I guess "better late than never" is an appropriate line here. Although our paths haven't crossed in several years since we visited together with Jim Morris in Miami, I was not aware of your transplant and related health issues until late last year. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers here in Atlanta and I will try to stay "updated" about your condition through this website. If you have the opportunity to respond, you can reach me on the home email listed in this message or jrandallcarroll@banknorthgeorgia.com at my office. I enjoyed seeing the pictures of your family and hope you will give your parents my "best regards"!
MessageIt was great to read up on you and your family and happy to see the wonderful pictures of them. As we were far apart in years at Tech, you gave us underclassmen inspiration, tought us not to take life for granted and how to fight for things we want in life. Stay strong my friend and my thoughts are with you and your family. You give inspiration to all of us, keep fighting the battle, our prayers are with you. Marc & Alisa Pisciotta
MessageLittle "Vigilante", Just wanted to drop you a line Brian. Not that it matters coming from me but thanks for setting an example all of us should strive for. Your selflessness and sacrifice have touched a lot of people's lives, not just today and tomorrow, but yesterday as well. As far as yesterday's concerned I'm speaking for myself. After all these years I still feel I let you down through the ignorance of my youth. I can't help but think there was more I could have done to support you in certain areas. I always remember how excited you were and the enthusiasm you had, and I'm sure still have, for the great American Pastime.That passion has transcended the game and permeated other portions of your life that has blessed others.Through what you say and don't say, do and don't do, you're making better people out of all of us. Take care of yourself, you have been in my thoughts from time to time over the years and in my prayers as well. Give your Dad my best, I think the world of him as well. God Bless
MessageHey, Brian.....you can tell how young John Thompson is (OR HOW OLD I AM!!) when he forgets 2 great starting pitchers for THE SAWX....Mel Parnell and THE YANKEE KILLER, Bill Monboquette.....also, the BEST closer in Red Sox history....Dick Radatz. John show's his youth by not putting Babe Parilli on the Patriot QB list, as well....guess I'm just jealous of his youth!!!! The best to you, Brian! And you,too, John.....keep cheering for the Boston boys!!!! Peter
MessageHey Brian, just a quick note to let you know that this Florida boy is thinking about you. Say hello to the family and good luck with the upcoming baseball season. Give me a call when you get a chance. P.S. You still can't throw me out. Ty Griffin 813 493 4743
MessageHey Brian, just a quick note to let you know that this Florida boy is thinking about you. Say hello to the family and good luck with the upcoming baseball season. Give me a call when you get a chance. P.S. You still can't throw me out. Ty Griffin 813 493 4743
MessageDear Coach: Hope all is well with you and that this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. Take care and hang in there. I hope treatment is going well. Our thoughts are with you and your family. The Middle School Basketball team had a huge win on Saturday in the county tournie. We faced 12-2 third seeded Mountain Lakes, a team we have met many times in the tournament. We came out with high energy and intensity and led the whole first half and into the second half. We got all of the 8th graders into the game and each one of them played well.Indeed 12 of our 16 players got into the game at some point. THomas Killian was our game captain for his excellent play. We got up 32-17 at one point and seemed to be on the verge of blowing them out. Then they went man and pressed and slowly chipped away at our lead eventually cutting it to 4. At the end of the game we were up three with little time on the clock. I told the kids not to foul. Their best player raced up the floor and pulled up to take a three and was fouled! I couldn't believe it. But, he missed all three free throws and we hung on to win in a great game. Now we play on Thursday vs. Totowa I believe in the semi finals. Good day in school. Classes are covering unification of Germany and Italy while Seniors are discussing JFK's foreign policies. Two of my seniors just got back from the Hague where they took part in a model UN competition. Sounded like quite an experience. SOme of them even went to the MIlosevic trial. History club is getting set to start World War II trivia contest and black history month celebration. I have some good kids helping me out with these projects and several teachers who are interested in running forums as well. Doc ROd is running one on Latin America, Puck on AMerican Canadian relations, and Sanfacon on Russia. SHould be great. Julie and I had a relaxing weekend and did some things with her family. Mackenzie is doing well. She is now blowing bubbles while we feed her her strained peas and squash! It is hilarious. Well, got to go check up on kids here in the library and get some work done. Hope you are doing well. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageHi, Brian! We enjoyed reading about you on your website after David sent it to us. Your son is darling, and you are looking good too. We pray that your transplant is successful and that it will be the last one. By the way, how are your mom and dad? We miss seeing all of the GT baseball players of the 80's. David played in several alumni games, but w he's He's probably too old anyway!! Ha! Ha! Take care. We love you. John and Nancy
MessageBrian: You probably don't remember me, but I was your sports information guy when you were playing baseball at Georgia Tech. You've always been a courageous fellow and very inspirational to us at Tech. The testimonials from the folks on this site are very heartwarming and dead-on in describing the way you lived your life when you were at Tech. Here's hoping you continue to win the battle against this disease and continue to be there for your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Mike
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, so sorry we haven't been in touch! We've been going crazy at the house since we moved and then all of a sudden it was Christmas! Hope you enjoyed your holidays. We heard about the caroling-we wish we could have been there, it sounded nice. Anyway, I also wanted to tell you about my doctor-Dr. John Soriano, he's my gastro. He is so very fond of you, Brian. You certainly have made a serious impression on his son and he is truly grateful for it. He actually told me that you are not only a coach (previously) and a friend, but that his son looks at you as a father figure too. He was surprised when he bumped into my parents at the benefit in the fall, and also told me that he would not have missed that for the world. He was thrilled to think he could help in any way. He's been my gastro since I was diagnosed with Crohn's in 1992. So he's like family! So he was floored when he realized that Jill is married to my brother! Anyway, just wanted to let you know that Matt and I ask for you all the time and are thinking of you all. Have a terrific day! Health and happiness always, Jacquie and Matt
MessageDear Coach: Hope all is well with you. What is Timmy up to these days? Hope school is good for him. We are doing well. Julile worked a long shift at Birth Boutique yesterday but enjoyed it. I scouted our opponent for our semi final game in County Tournie for MIddle School Hoops. We play Totowa! They are solid but I think we can beat them if we do a few things well. We have to work on a new press break system. The tournie is now at Pequanock middle school, good venue. Rich Stepanian still runs it. He yelled at some fans last night who were harassing the refs and threatened to throw them out. We had an organizational meeting for Black History Month today during conference block. Cedric Joint had some great ideas and hopefully we get some good things going here. My classes are now studying Russia in the 19th century and chugging along. Today we had a massive review session for the quiz in the morning. About 20 kids were there at 7:45am. Pretty impressive. Will be pulling for the Steelers in the superbowl. If only the Pats were in it ..... Well chief, I got to run. We play Ridge today. They beat us in the first game of the year so hopefully we can get revenge and go into tournie semis with confidence. Hope you are feeling well. Hang in there chief. Take care. JT
MessageHi, Brian.....I hope you and Ed have been keeping up with Villanova basketball....tremendous year so far.....beat Syracuse at the Wachovia Center In Philly in front of 20,600 people (most ever to see a collegiate basketball game in PA history) and then beat Louisville in front of 19,500 fans at the Wachovia Center....16-2 (7-1 in BIG EAST) and now ranked 4th in the country....Austin loves it at Villanova and he goes to every game....I've only missed 2 games myself....anyway, I hope you are doing well and that the "plan" is working....and tell Thompson that I can give him a Bruin and Celtic history lesson, if he'd like!!! Be well, my friend! Peter
MessageDear Brian: I hope this message finds you in good spirits and in good health. We hope Timmy is doing well. Give our best to Jen and your family. We lost to Ridge yesterday in MS hoops. They were pretty good, maybe the best team we played this year. Their point guard was phenomenal. Hopefully we can bounce back and be ready for Thursday night's semifinal game vs. Totowa. Big practice today to get ready. Students studied Victorian England and American Civil War. Good stuff. Seniors are doing Cuban Missile Crisis. I hope to play some tennis tonight as Julie is babysitting at a friends house. Haven't played in awhile. Well, my seniors are done with their discussion questions so I will say goodbye. Take care my friend. JT
MessageDear Coach Fleury, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We admire your courage and pray for your full recovery. Sincerely, The McDonald Family Brian, Suanne, Brian '03, Meghan, and Sean '07
MessageCoach! Hope you are doing well chief. I hope this message finds you in good spirits and in good health. We hope your treatment program is going well. Father Luke talked about you today during a morning meeting. We practiced an evacuation of the school to the gym and then had a morning meeting. Father Luke always talks to the kids about you when we come together as a school and we say a prayer as well. You are in our thoughts. THere was also a great article about you and your treatment in the school newspaper today written by Brendan Leanos. Spirit week is around the corner and the kids are getting ready. It sounds like they have organized some good projects. Jim Stenger is organizing a beard growing contest! Steve Popper is really trying to make spirit week work this year and gave a great speech to the school today during morning meeting. We had a great practice yesterday to prepare for our semi final game vs. Totowa tonight. I had some varsity kids step in as the Totowa stars and the kids shut them down. OF course, they couldn't shut me down during our walk through when I played the role of their star raining threes in their face in a tie and dress shoes. Even a scquirrel finds a nut sometimes. We are ready as we will ever be for our big game tonight. We will have a walk through and shoot around after school, then a study hall, then dinner, then watch Pirozzis Middle School championship tape when they beat Mountain Lakes in the finals and then head over to Pequanock Valley Middle School to play Totowa at 6:30pm. I think we can take them but it will be tough. They have a great point guard and a big kid inside who owns the boards in FLeury like fashion. MY sophomores take a test tomorrow so we are franticallly preparing for that. MY Seniors are studying the Cuban Missile Crisis. Good discussion today in class. Julie and Mackenzie are doing great. I don't get to see them as much as I would like right now with some of my commitments here at school but all is well. Mackenzie is standing upright in her exersaucer real well so hopefully that bodes well for her first steps. Well, I got some things to do before our afternoon schedule for hoops. I hope you are doing well. All of us here are thinking of you. Have fun watching the superbowl this weekend. Take care. JT
MessageCoach, Just wanted to drop you a quick line. All is well in Blue Hen country! Classes are great, basketball team could do better, but time will tell. You are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. God Bless you and your family. ~Tully
MessageDear Coach: Hey Brian. Hope all is well with you and that this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. Hang in there ace. We are all thinking of you. We had our big game last night. We had a walk through and shoot around after school and then a study hall in my classroom. Usually the study halls are a disaster with this age group but these guys actually studied and even refused pizza until they were finished. We had pizza for dinner and then watched a tape of our championship in 2002 when we beat Mendham in the finals. Kids got a kick out of it. THen we rode the bus over to Pequanock. The games were all backed up due to clock malfunction. We watched Pequanock vs. Long Valley, two teams we played and lost to in close games, in group 4 semis. One kid for Long Valley stole the ball in the press but then ran up the court and scored on the wrong basket. The team ended up losing by two points in the end. Kid was crying after the game. I have never seen that before. Then we played. We trailed the whole game but chipped away and hung in. Killian had 25 points for us. We tied it at 55 with 8 seconds left. They called time out. We double teamed their best player on the inbound play but he got the ball and threw up a desperation three and hit it to win. Tough loss. Matt Voda played real well for us off the bench when Alex Balog got into foul trouble. So we are now 5-7 with 3 games left. We hope to run the table to finish with a winning record. Long day. Didn't get home until 9:45. Classses are taking a test on Nationalism and Realism as we speak. Seniors talked about Charles De Gaulle and France. Kids are working hard. About 35 came early this morning to attend a review session for the test. The sophomores are writing a document based essay on the German Revolt of 1848 while the seniors are writing an essay comparing and contrasting the Vietnam War with Persian Gulf War I. We had a history department meeting today during Deaneries. David Donovan gave an interesting talk on a conference he attended by the American Historical Association in Philly. Good stuff. Well, I have to get back to work here and grade some of these tests. I hope you are doing well. All our best to Jen and Timmy and your family. Take care ace. Always know you are missed here. JT
MessageBrian, Thanks for the update. A bunch of us in the Alumni Association got together at Sammy's last night for dinner. My son, who will be an alum in 2 years, went with me. I think the reason for the gathering was to lament the soon to be enacted ban on indoor smoking and everyone (except for me and Christian) wanted to have some last cigars in Sammy's bar. The food and comraderie were great but Christian and I came home stinking and with green skin. Anyway, your name obviously came up and we wish you only good things.
MessageBubba - Thanks for providing us all with the update. We are all praying for you here in Chicago as you start on this next round of treatments at MMH. Thanks also for posting the pictures...I must say that one of Timmy in the kitchen bullpen - wow!; that delivery and follow-through look very familiar...it gave me some flashbacks to early days of MPLL, when I, like the rest of teammates fell victim to a similar wind-up and delivery; you really rang up the K's! Only one sticking point - looks like Timmy was wearing a Mets jersey...which is fine only if all the pinstripes were in the dirty laundry at the time. Hey, speaking of baseball, I'm head coach this year for my 8th grade son's traveling baseball team - do you have any good ideas for indoor drills? Keep fighting Bubba! Woody
MessageI just wanted to check in remind you that you are still in mine and my whole family's prayers. Just tonight, my sister who knows really nothing about Delbarton asked who Brian Fleury was and I was proud to tell her all i knew about an incredible man like you. I can't wait until youre back at Delbarton. We pray and think about you everyday. Jay, the Zenkers, and the Hartys
MessageJust checking in to say thanks for the update and Lily and Jack wanted to wish Timmy a happy happy birthday... we cannot believe he is 5 already! LOVE the pictures... keep them coming. Love you and think about you always. Mere, Scott, Lily and Jack
MessageHi, Brian.....the 2/03 message reads well....keep up your strength and faith....you have many friends praying for you and your donor.....Happy Birthday to Tim!!! Having had 3 boys, I can tell you that EVERY birthday is a special treat....enjoy the day!! Please tell Ed that I'm off to see Austin at Villanova today.....Marquette at Villanova at 2PM... GO CATS! Good luck with the chemo, Brian, and all the best to you and your beautiful family...........Peter
MessageHey Brian, I have been getting updates from Chris Verrone on your progress for the last four years and now I have been following you on your web page. Chris had told me about it. Chris has been John's roommate for four years and now they are graduating. Fours years just flew bye. I always appreciated what you had done for John, but i guess breaking his wrist really set him back. At times he thinks back and questions himself how things would have been if he didn't break it. My only response to him is it happened and life goes on and to pursue your dreams. He had worked so hard in the winter with Chris Caminucci and Chris had built up his confidence to 100%, but things happen. We never really talked but you have always been in our prays. Its kind of weird but things like this happen. So keep on going and like I tell my son "Focus" and "Concentrate" and you will PREVAIL. We are all on on your side fighting the Mastrogiovanni's. Peace
MessageBrian, Although, we have only met briefly at Spring Brook Country Club, I get constant updates from your father at the club. You are a true inspiration to all of us and keep up the good fight. I just recently learned of your website and will be checking it constantly. You and your family are in my prayers. Best wishes, Tony Santillo Assistant Golf Professional Spring Brook Country Club
MessageHey Uncle Brian, How are you?Can you tell Timmy Happy Birthday!! Love Abbie
MessageDear Brian & Jen - Been keeping up with your website and just want to say you're all in our thoughts & prayers. Love the pictures of your little one - nothing like a 5 year old to make things seem better. Mickey & Jerry Duffy
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I have been praying for you, your family, and your donor. As my junior year English teacher, you made such a difference in my life. You helped me find joy in reading literature; you insisted that my ideas and thoughts mattered; and by your example you taught me how a mature young man should behave. I am trying to become a high school teacher today in no small part because of the positive influence you had on me at Delbarton. Please get well. With best regards, Michael Vermylen '95
MessageDear Brian: Glad to hear your chemo is going well at the hospital. Great to hear your old teammates are touching base with you. That must be great! Great new pics on the website here as well. I hope this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. I hope you were able to enjoy the superbowl. Good game. I watched it at home with my dog as Julie and the baby were not too interested! Sometimes we go to Swope's house for the game but his kids were sick. He said he had seen you recently. I was pulling for the Steelers to win. Great for Cowher. Holmgreen, on the other hand, didn't exactly handle things with class. We didn't have school yesterday as it was the Bishops Day off which was a good day to give us off right after the superbowl. I got a lot done around house and with school work as Julie works on Mondays and takes Mackenzie with her. Mackenzie is close to talking I think. We shall see. She stands up real nice as well when you hold her or put her in her exersaucer. We would love to bring her by sometime to see you guys if that is possible. We play Assumption in hoops on FRiday. I talked with my team and told them that they have to finish what they started and keep working hard even though we are now 5-7. We hope to win the last three games, all games that we can win, and finish with a winning record. WIll also focus on playing everybody as much as possible. IT was a fun season even if the record is not where we had hoped it would be. We have been busy with tennis season. I have lined up some scrimmages and gotten some bites on some freshman matches. The counties and the N.A. tournie don't conflict this year so that is nice that we can do both if N.A. invites us to theirs. It won't be long before tennis team is in Puerto Rico. I am looking forward to that though I will miss the family. Well, I have to get some stuff done here before my classes begin. I also have to get ready for the WOrld War II trivia contest that we are running today during conference block. We hope you are doing well and would love to stop by sometime to see you guys and to bring Mackenzie over. Just let us know. Hang in there and good luck with treatment at Morristown. You are the man Brian. JT
MessageBrian- What a slug I've been. 8 months or so into your treatment and this is my 1st "glad you're doing well" message. I've kept up with your progress and I pray for you, Jen and Timmy as well as your donor. It's great being back at Delbarton. I've gotten to know Dan Whalen and he told me he can't wait to give you your AD job back! Hard to end this email with anything meaningful. I wish i could help you or your family in some way. I'd volunteer to come fix stuff in your house but I'd only make them worse. Your family sounds like an amazing joy to you...good medicine! Old Joe McCurdy
MessageHi Brian, I just read your latest news posting. It's hard to believe that Timmy is five years old already. Hope the chemo goes well and clears the way for your immune cells to do their job. You are in my thoughts and prayers often. Fran
MessageHi Mr. Fleury, I'm sorry to hear that you have to undergo chemo again. The pictures of Timmy look great. He's lucky to have such a great Dad, as we students and players were lucky to have such a great teacher and coach. There was a short story in the newspaper today about Coach Weis being one of only 10 players, and the only catcher, on his Boonton baseball team that made it to the state finals, and the connection made me think of you. Good luck with the chemo, and please know you are in my thoughts. Best, Kevin Robinson '01
MessageMr. Fleury, I just wanted to say how much I appreciated your guidance during my time at Delbarton. You are an inspiration to us all. -Ben Ernst
MessageDear Brian, Although we've never met you, we're so inspired by your words of strength ,honesty and gratitude that you share in your open journal. Our son is a new student this year and has truly been touched by you. I picked him up from the Camp fair last weekend and he was in line purchasing "I Am Third" t-shirts for the whole family! Thank you for helping all of us to remember what really is important and what really matters. We are honored to "know you."
MessageHi, Brian, Jen & Tim.....I hope the "plan" is working well....we are all praying for you! In my last note, I told you that I was going to visit Austin at Villanova and go to the Marquette-Villanova game on campus....crazy game....we won by 5 but had to go on a 23-4 run over the last 5 mins to win.....we went on a 13-3 run to open up the game and then fell asleep for the next 31 minutes!! The men showed true grit by coming back the way they did at the end....then last night we had the Big Five championship game against St. Joseph's at the famous Palestra on Penn's campus.....sloppy first half...we were down 34-22 at half-time and looked totally out of it....I don't know what Jay Wright said in the locker room, but we came out and went on a 25-4 run and outscored St. Joe's 49-25 in the second half.... they looked like the #4 team in the country!! #1 UCONN comes to our house on monday....should be a barn burner....#1 vs. #4....I hope Ed has been following the Cats because it has been a great year! Be well, Brian. Peter
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Tim: I hope this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. We hope that all is well with your family. Things at Delbarton are going well. We have spirit week next week so things get a little crazy from time to time but it sounds like President Popper has things well under control. Middle School hoops has three games left. We play Assumption this Friday. Ron Pelligrino always does a nice job with that team even when they don't have the athletes there. I enjoy coaching against him. I see his twin sons from time to time over the summer. I think they worked for the town last summer. My history classes are now discussing the Second Industrial Revolution. Not the most exciting chapter in the book but many important topics that will be emphasized on the AP examination. The students continue to work hard. They have a paper on the German revolt of 1848 due next week. It is a DBQ essay, a very challenging essay for sophomores to write. The History Club continues to hold activities. We had the second round of the World War II trivia contest. Andrew Kristiansen, a sophomore, upset two seniors today in the best match up we have had. A seventh grader, John Hastings, is also still alive. He took my summer school class on World War II last summer. We will also have our first Black History forum on Thursday. Cedric and Z have offered to help run the discussion. We will also show Glory after school on Friday. That movie is my favorite movie of all time. Nice to see that Coach Shatel got is 100th win in hockey. Well deserved. Swim team came in second yesterday to Lawrenceville. Track seems to be doing real well as well. Mike Grey still dominating wrestling. That is really an amazing story. That could be one of the best athletic achievements in Delbarton history if he wins a state title for the fourth year in a row. Well, time to teach my last block class. Things here at Delbarton are going well but not the same without you around. Hope you are feeling well today and we hope Timmy is doing well. Take care Brian. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageHi Mr. Fleury. I just wanted to wish you good luck with this round of chemo and want you to know that you and your donor are in my prayers. I am loving here at Williams, but I miss Delbarton a great deal. I look forward to working for the camp again this summer. I'll see you then! - Tim -
MessageHi Brian, I wanted to drop a note to let you know we are thinking of you all them time. My two boys constantly ask "how is Abbie and Jay's uncle doing?". I stay updated from Carrie as well as your web-site and hope that you are feeling better and hanging in there. Our thoghts and prayers are always with you, Jen and Timmy. You are truly an inspiration to all of us. By the way, Tom Brady? Isn't he a Patriot? What's next the Red Sox?? Timmy really enjoyed his time in Bopston huh? GO SOX!!! Lots of love, Val
MessageBigTimer! Bubba! Crash....whatever you go by now! I am so thankful Randy forwarded this website to me. In case you were wondering, Randy is still TECH BASEBALL - with former players, current players and players who are on their way to Tech. He is still the most admired Tech Alumni going and gives all of us a Person of Great Integrity to follow - everyone wants to be a little more like Randy. Everytime I go through downtown Atlanta on I-75 and look over at the same hotel (minus the mexican restaraunt patio) that you, Eitner, and myself frequented, my thoughts go to a fun time in our lives! I laugh and think of you often. We had so many great times. One in particular is always good for a laugh when I tell the story of me pitching and you catching and a little thing called "Outs Plus One" (at least once a year I tell this story to someone...sometimes a new person and sometimes to people who have heard it too many times! You know the time I am referring to....you crossed me up with "outs plus one"....you started the signs with 2 outs for this particular pitch with bases loaded...you put down a 2 and then you shook your hand to start over....you paused...then you put down a 1, 2, 4, 3, 2....well the 3rd sign to me was and still is the 4 which was a Fastball...the 3rd sign to you included the original 2 before you shook your hand.....I laugh everytime I think of 2 outs 2 strikes and bases loaded and me thinking fastball and you thinking curveball and the ball going right over the outside corner and you dropping down to block the pitch (you already sat so low in your crouch and in my years of playing baseball - You were the THE BEST CATCHER for many reasons, but one that comes to mind now is you sat so low and gave a great target with soft hands.) anyway...you dropped to block a curveball in the dirt, hands down, shoulders curled in, just waiting to block the ball out front....unfortunately for you the ball never hit the ground it went straight in and hit you in the shoulder and if memory serves me correctly left a pretty big bruise that you milked for a few dinners and over that weekend I made several trips to the ice machine for you in the Hotel. I just remember running in and screaming the ball was a strike as you were pulling yourself together....and the umpire looked at me and said, "if the catcher didn't catch it...something must have been wrong with it!" I think you and I both had the same words coming out of our mouths....the difference - your words were directed at me and mine were directed at the Umpire! One special motto/bond that you and I have, which I have always put in my cap even as a Little League coach over the last couple of years....W.I.T....I know from reading all of these wonderful things from all of these people that you have continued to live your life with a "Special Purpose" and you have definitely had a positive influence on a lot of people of all ages!!!! W.I.T. Whatever It Takes!!!! I look forward to getting an update on the entire family including Shattell, Sofield, and Little Shattell-who probably isn't so little anymore! I will quit rambling for now, but I will be in touch now that I have your email address and I will be sending a little more personal email soon! Stay strong and I look forward to catching up soon. Teammates and Brothers always! JD
MessageDear Brian: Hey coach. I hope this message finds you in good spirits and in good health. All our best to you and your family. Things at Delbarton are good. We had a great practice yesterday for Middle School hoops and have our last one today. Hard to believe the season is almost over. It has been a lot of fun and we hope to win the last three to finish with a winning record. We shall see if we can accomplish this goal. Regardless, I have been happy with their work ethic and attitude since the defeat in the MCT hoop tournie. We have been working hard to get the tennis season ready and Don MacDonald has been a huge help lining up freshman matches for our freshman team. IT sounds like Seton Hall, Madison, Ridge, and Governor Livingston are willing to play our frosh team. We had a great History Club Forum today on Black History Month. Cedric Joint and "Z" ran it and did a great job. The forum centered on African American culture today and the effects of the Hip Hop culture on the African American. We had about 25 kids in attendance. I was impressed with the mature, insightful, and intelligent comments made and I was impressed with the leadership skills that Cedric and Z demonstrated during this forum. It really showed what Delbarton is all about. Justin Garris, Scott Krinitski, Tim Catlett, Rob Zochowski, Mike Kelly, and John Storms made some excellent contributions to the discussion. We are showing the movie Glory tomorrow after school as part of Black History Month. That is my favorite movie of all time! My classes are preparing for their next test on Monday on the late nineteenth century and the second Industrial Revolution. I can't believe the term is almost over. They also have an essay on the German Revolt of 1848 due on Tuesday so more grading for yours truly. We had another grade level meeting this morning with the English Department. Today the 10th grade teachers met and it was a great discussion on a whole array of topics but mostly on writing across the curriculum. It was great to hear how much both departments are on the same page as far as the teaching and the assessment of writing is concerned. It is also great to see the English Department based their writing guide on the brilliant one that you devised many years ago. Well, I have to get back to work here. I hope you are doing well. I hope Timmy is doing great. Mackenzie is keeping us busy! She is amazing. We hope we can stop by some time. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageDear Brian: Hey coach. I hope this message finds you in good spirits and in good health. All our best to you and your family. Things at Delbarton are good. We had a great practice yesterday for Middle School hoops and have our last one today. Hard to believe the season is almost over. It has been a lot of fun and we hope to win the last three to finish with a winning record. We shall see if we can accomplish this goal. Regardless, I have been happy with their work ethic and attitude since the defeat in the MCT hoop tournie. We have been working hard to get the tennis season ready and Don MacDonald has been a huge help lining up freshman matches for our freshman team. IT sounds like Seton Hall, Madison, Ridge, and Governor Livingston are willing to play our frosh team. We had a great History Club Forum today on Black History Month. Cedric Joint and "Z" ran it and did a great job. The forum centered on African American culture today and the effects of the Hip Hop culture on the African American. We had about 25 kids in attendance. I was impressed with the mature, insightful, and intelligent comments made and I was impressed with the leadership skills that Cedric and Z demonstrated during this forum. It really showed what Delbarton is all about. Justin Garris, Scott Krinitski, Tim Catlett, Rob Zochowski, Mike Kelly, and John Storms made some excellent contributions to the discussion. We are showing the movie Glory tomorrow after school as part of Black History Month. That is my favorite movie of all time! My classes are preparing for their next test on Monday on the late nineteenth century and the second Industrial Revolution. I can't believe the term is almost over. They also have an essay on the German Revolt of 1848 due on Tuesday so more grading for yours truly. We had another grade level meeting this morning with the English Department. Today the 10th grade teachers met and it was a great discussion on a whole array of topics but mostly on writing across the curriculum. It was great to hear how much both departments are on the same page as far as the teaching and the assessment of writing is concerned. It is also great to see the English Department based their writing guide on the brilliant one that you devised many years ago. Well, I have to get back to work here. I hope you are doing well. I hope Timmy is doing great. Mackenzie is keeping us busy! She is amazing. We hope we can stop by some time. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageCoach! Hope all is well with you and that this message finds you in good health and in good spirits. The school continues to keep you upper most in their thoughts. At lauds today you were obviosly remembered in our prayers as well as Jen and Timmy. Father Giles gave a nice talk to the kids at Lauds today. I interviewed a prospective teacher from Roanoke college today. He played lax there. Very nice guy. My students finished up the chapter on the age of progress and will take a test on Monday. They also have essays due Tuesday. We play Assumption in hoops today. I am going to get all 17 kids in today no matter what. We are also going to let our player manager Colin Corcoran suit up for the JV game as he has worked his tail off all year and practiced with the team. Great kid. A number of schools are now on board for playing our frosh tennis team in a match. We got Mendham, Madison, Seton Hall, Governor Livingston, Ridge, and Randolph to play us so that will be nice for the guys. It is hard to believe that tennis season is around the corner. All of this nice weather or mild weather for winter scares me now as it means March and April could be bad. Mackenzie is doing great. We would love to bring her by sometime that is good for you. Just let us know. I got a nice e-mail from Mike Kaag who said he is in touch with you. Great kid and great family. He played frosh soccer for me back in the day on one of the best teams I ever had along with Pat Loneragan and Danny Peralta. The three of them combined for over 50 goals in one season! Well, I got some stuff to do before my game this afternoon. I hope all is well with you. Take care chief. JT TITO FUENTES, CHRIS SPIER, WILLIE MCCOVEY, WILLIE MAYS, JUAN MARICHAL, JERRY JOHNSON, BOB BURDA
MessageDear Brian I saw all the kids at the State Preps this week and my mind immediately went to you. I obviously stay abreast to your health and I want you to know that you are in our Prayers at St. BENEDICTS ON A daily basis. I truly miss Delbarton and it will always have a special meaning for me. As for me I had four stents put in my heart this past fall,and I now get the most out of each day. I will continue to put you at the forefront of our thoughts and I will be in touch soon. Best, Tom
MessageHey Brian, Just doing my daily read of JT's post and checking for news, thought it time to say hello. I hope you're doing okay and I wanted you to know that you remain in my thoughts and my prayers. Terry
MessageHello Mr. Fleury, I don't think you know me at all but im a sophomore at delbarton and i just wanted you to know that we are all still praying very hard for your health and hope that you get better and return to us soon.
MessageDear Coach, I felt the need to drop a little love on your site today mainly because its long over due but partly because it gets me out of shoveling the cats and dogs that have piled up on my walk way this morning. They said that the snow wasn’t going to be that bad down here in Newark and that the storm would be over this morning…. Once again, several miss calculations have taken place and what looks to be about 18 inches have fallen by now and the snow is falling. I think everyone student wishes this storm could have come anytime last week because now it threatens school for Monday, which just happens to be the first day of the Delbarton Spirit Week 2006, which also happens to be Movie Day Monday. (For the first time every) I hope this storm doesn’t produce a snow day, for the reasons stated above and for the fact that a snow day kills my chances of dressing up as Denzel from Training Day! Best of luck and May God bless coach, I read the reading and intermissions at Lauds on Friday and I was thinking of you (like I always do) to get me through the public speaking event…. so for that strength I say thank you. I’ll see you later Coach. Ifiok Inyang ‘07
MessageCoach Fleury, I read your latest update...all the best, and all of us or praying for you...Christian Mattia '08
MessageBrian, I'm sorry that I have not written to you in a long time. My "life" as a volunteer high school basketball coach has been rather hectic- but a great deal of fun. We are now 12-7. Yesterday we (Watchung Hills Regional High School) beat Somerville in the quarter final round of the Somerset County Tourn. We have a 6'7 soph center who has been my project since last season. Yesterday Tim (great name) had 18 points, 8 rebounds, 5 blocks and 5 assists. Of course, I take credit for his development.(Laugh here) He also pitched and played first base for Mario last season as a frosh. Unfortunately he is right handed. I hope you and Jen had Timmy's party on Sat before the snow hit. That was some storm. I know what you mean when you write about being on a team. Last weekend a life-long friend of mine flew up from FL for a 3-day visit. He was the small forward when we were in high school. We spent a great deal of time together at our 40th HS reunion this past summer. He called in January and said he was coming to visit. He got to see my team play. What a great time with a wonderful friend. Seeing me is very difficult for him because his Mom had a fatal stroke at age 59. We talked through that and resolved some issues that he had. I know I'm very lucky to have great friends and have enough ability to still have a semi- productive life. Please know that you are always in my prayers. I'll try to do better and write more frequently. God bless, John Krauss
MessageHi, Brian, Jen and Tim.....I hope this message finds you guys full of love, faith and hope!!!! Some storm, huh? I'll bet Timmy was sledding, tubing and sliding like a madman!! Big game tonight, Brian...#1 Connecticut at #4 Villanova.....should set a new record for fans at a Pennsylvania college basketball game.....I'll be there with Austin....he is a BIG FAN (wonder where he gets that from?)..... Hopefully, the Cats will have Mike Nardi back...he's missed the last 2 games (wins over Marquette and DePaul), but we need him now....plays the "2" guard position and averages 15 per game.... also, he handles the point position when Kyle Lowry needs a break.....the game is on ESPN at 7pm....I'll give you a rehash tomorrow.....be well, Brian..... GO CATS!!!!! Peter
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MessageDear Coach Fleury, I apologize that I have not written to you for a while, but i just want to let you know i have been parying for you everyday. We all miss you terribly at Delbarton and even though everyone has been doing great, I have begun to realize that it is just not the same. All teams are playing for you and tons of wristbands and other things have been made with "BF" on them. Father Luke and I talk about you very freuquently and he was the first to break the news to me about your recent diagnosis, but we know you will continue to fight and eventually overcome this. For I and along with everyone else knows how strong and reluctant you are. I hope all is well and I can not wait for you to come back to us.
MessageDear Brian; I just posted to you but I think it got erased somehow so here goes again and if I repeat stuff I apologize. Thanks for your note. Glad to hear you are well. We will visit you when all of this is over. No school today. Snow day. Too much snow to clear by school so it got canceled. I got a lot done in the mean time and helped Julie out before she and Mackenzie went to her job. I just got done playing tennis with Don, aka Pete Sampras, MacDonald and I gave him a lesson! He is a great guy and I enjoy playing with him. Ed Thompson keeps ducking me for a match and I have schooled Hartle too many times to count. We had a nice weekend even with the snow. Julie went to family party on Saturday night while I took care of Mackenzie. I heard from Mike Vermylen and he said he had sent you a note and that he had loved your English class. I got to get home now and get some stuff done before Julie gets back from work. We hope all is well with you. You continue to inspire us with your courage and determination. Take care ace. JT ALL TIME STEELER LINEUP QB; BRADSHAW RB: HARRIS RB: FOSTER WR: SWANN WR: STALLWORTH TE: CUNNINGHAM OL: KOLB, VAN DYKE, WEBSTER DL: GREENE, GREEENWOOD, HOLMES, FURNESS LB: RUSSEL, LAMBERT, HAM DB: SHELL, WAGNER, POMULOMULALMUALALNAO TAKE CARE ACE. JT
MessageDear Brian; I just posted to you but I think it got erased somehow so here goes again and if I repeat stuff I apologize. Thanks for your note. Glad to hear you are well. We will visit you when all of this is over. No school today. Snow day. Too much snow to clear by school so it got canceled. I got a lot done in the mean time and helped Julie out before she and Mackenzie went to her job. I just got done playing tennis with Don, aka Pete Sampras, MacDonald and I gave him a lesson! He is a great guy and I enjoy playing with him. Ed Thompson keeps ducking me for a match and I have schooled Hartle too many times to count. We had a nice weekend even with the snow. Julie went to family party on Saturday night while I took care of Mackenzie. I heard from Mike Vermylen and he said he had sent you a note and that he had loved your English class. I got to get home now and get some stuff done before Julie gets back from work. We hope all is well with you. You continue to inspire us with your courage and determination. Take care ace. JT ALL TIME STEELER LINEUP QB; BRADSHAW RB: HARRIS RB: FOSTER WR: SWANN WR: STALLWORTH TE: CUNNINGHAM OL: KOLB, VAN DYKE, WEBSTER DL: GREENE, GREEENWOOD, HOLMES, FURNESS LB: RUSSEL, LAMBERT, HAM DB: SHELL, WAGNER, POMULOMULALMUALALNAO TAKE CARE ACE. JT
MessageHi, Brian.....Villanova 69-Connecticut 64....what a great game....Austin and I had a wonderful time.... back and forth game in 1st half....nobody had a big lead....33-32 at the half....Kyle Lowry (6' point guard) drove the lane constantly because we spread our offense and their big men had to come out to cover our 3 point shooters....he scored 16 points in the 1st half....at the start of the 2nd half, UCONN came out blazing and went on a 13-0 run....we were down 45-33 before we knew it....they tightened up the middle so we couldn't drive on them and dared us to go to the outside....we missed our first 5 shots and then went on a 17-2 run, aided by Allen Ray's 5 3-pointers....never looked back after that.....we have Georgetown next sunday at home.... if we win that game, we'll be ranked #1 or #2 (behind Duke) next monday.....tell Ed that I feel like a student again, going to all the games....I've even traveled to Louisville and Texas! Austin and his friends think I'm a student, too.... they love it because they know that at least once a week they will be treated to Philly cheesesteaks when Austin's dad rolls into town! Take care of yourself, Brian....and best to Jen, Tim, Mom and Dad! Peter
MessageFleur, Just wanted to say thank you for your admirable strength and courage that inspires so many of us. It's incredibly weird to be at home for so long and not see you at the rink or the field or somewhere ... can't be the same. I know you bring your A game every day, so keep it up. Jon
MessageDear Brian: We hope that this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. Keep the faith. A lot of people are pulling for you. I can't tell you how many people have e-mailed me about you and your website. It is amazing to see the support for you. We hope that Timmy and Jen are doing well. Anything we can do let us know. Well, back to school today after a day off yesterday. My sophomores took a test today on the Second Industrial Revolution. Seemed to do well so far. MY seniors discussed the Third World and Carter's foreign affairs. I have a sharp group this year and they have some great discussions though they always want to get to partisan political debates no matter what subject we are on! I guess that is indicative of our society in general. Instead of doing what is best for our country too many people are out for their own political gain. I know how you feel about the whole thing so I will leave it at that. A short week this week with the faculty meeting this Friday. Spirit week is in full effect today. I believe today's theme is Retro though some of the costumes leaves one puzzled as to what the theme is. Kids seem to be having fun with it though. We interviewed another history candidate today from Peck and she was a great candidate so we continue to get great people applying for a job here. We have another candidate tomorrow. Well, got to get some stuff done before I go home to see the family and celebrate Valentines Day with the wife. I hope you enjoy Valentines Day today with Jen. All our best to you guys. Take care. JT THE ALL FOOD TEAM Jim RICE (RED SOX) Mike BASS (REDSKINS) BOB LEMON (MGR. WHITE SOX) Bart OATES (Giants) Jerry RICE (49ERS) MIA HAMM (SOCCER) Jack HAM (Steelers) Donnie SHELL (Steelers) Doug Flutie (FLakes) (pats) BROWNIE Nagel (jets) Take care ace. JT
MessageHi Flurey Family, Read your last message and hope all is going well. Just want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Hope you are going in the right direction with your treatment. Tom and I just got back from the Super Bowel and have a shirt for you and a Super Bowel pin for Timmy. Hope we can get it to you soon. All is well with our kids. Ty loves Northwestern and has really grown up and Corey is at Stetson University now majoring in sports management and broadcasting. Well have to get to class the bell rang so talk to you again soon. Keep fighting Love ya Patty
MessageDear Brian: Hello chief. Hope this message finds you in good spirits and in good health. All our best to you guys. We hope you were able to enjoy Valentines Day with Jen and Timmy. Julie and I went to the Bernards Inn last night and had a great time but quickly rushed home to be with Mackenzie! She loves story time now. Middle School hoops plays MKA away today. We killed them the first time so it will be a good chance to get all of the guys into the game. I got 17 to get in so it is not easy. We finish up the season on Friday with St. Philips from Newark. We will be missing some guys due to long weekend but should have most of them there to play the game. Then a brief respite before tennis kicks in in full effect. Looking forward to that. OVer 45 kids are trying out for the Varsity and JV teams. We will run a frosh team again as well and have at least six matches lined up for them. HOpefully this snow melts quick and March is nice but you know how that works. We talked about the Faculty Handbook in Academic Council this morning and Father LUke mentioned that you edited the entire thing! Wow! That is amazing. Great job. I look forward to seeing it on Friday at our faculty meeting. Students are doing the last unit before our winter term final next week. I can't believe the winter term is over and then the spring term just flies by. Interviewed another prospective teacher who once taught here at Delbarton in the 80's. Excellent candidate, so we have some great choices to consider for our open spot. Well, got to get back to class as the guys are almost done with their quiz on George Bush senior's foreign affairs. Hope all is well with you. Take care. JT, Julie and Mackenzie PURPLE PEOPLE EATERS; MARSHALL, PAGE, ELLER, AND SUTHERLAND STEEL CURTAIN: GREENE, GREENWOOD, HOLMES, WHITE FEARSOME FOURSOME: JONES, OLSEN, GRIER, AND ... DOOMSDAY DEFENSE: WHITE, MARTIN, JONES
MessageHey Coach, I just read your last blog and I pray that the chemo is going well for you. You are a true warrior to be able to keep on pushing through what must be painful, difficult medical procedures. You are a great example to everyone of us in the Delbarton community about what it means to pick yourself up after a setback. Know that you are in my prayers and the prayers of the entire community.
MessageHey Brian, Just a note to say hello.Not one day goes by that you are not in the Eschmann/ Romano families thoughts and prayers. We can't express the influence that you continue to have on our son. I hope you got to enjoy Valentine's day with Jen. Hopefully you got the pitchers and catchers work out in early enough so you were well rested for the romantic side of life. Continue to be the great inspiration that you are,hope to se you soon, Always John
MessageDear Brian: What is up chief? I hope this note finds you in good spirits and in good health. All our best to you guys! Hang in there. Today was the culmination of spirit week! We had a special schedule in the morning where blocks were shortened and then the final spirit week events in the afternoon. I had to help out Julie with some stuff and with the baby in the afternoon so I missed most of the afternoon events unfortunately but I just talked to Josh Pig Pen Hartle and Ed Too tall Thompson and apparently the facutly hoop squad beat the students with a last second ten point shot by Hartle with 30 seconds left in the game. I wish I saw that. I sat out this year for the first time. Didnt' play any faculty hoops this year with the baby at home so decided to finally step aside. It sounded like the seniors outplayed the faculty for most of the game and only barely lost and they were even able to hold Matt Clyde the Glide Sigrist in check which I can't believe because he is the man out there. Only 8 faculty members played: Hall, Sigrsit, Hartle, Ceft, MacDonald, E. Thompson, and Storz. The seniors fielded a strong team with Chillura, McIver, Hardin, Sperraza, Esposito, Bashaw, McGuire, etc. We have a faculty meeting tomorrow at 8:30am and then a long weekend. I will have an optional Ap review session on Monday to help my guys get ready for the winter term final examination. Otherwise, a nice long weekend to hang out with the family. We also have our last game tomorrow. Yesterday we played MKA away and won 54-41. I wanted to make sure everyone played a lot so I made three teams, similar to teams we use in practice, and the starters played for four minutes, then the next group, and then the next group and so on throughout the game. Thus, with the subbing it got close from time to time but all the kids played real well and the starters pulled ahead at the beginning of the 4th quarter to ice the game. So we are 7-7 going into our last game. Varsity hoops continues its impressive run winning 17 of last 18. They play Madison on Saturday night in semis of counties. Well, got to get some stuff done before my library duty commences at four. Hope you are doing well. Hang in there ace. All our best to Jen and to Timmy. JT, Julie and Mackenzie ALL NICKNAME TEAM: CATFISH HUNTER, MUDCAT GRANT, GEORGE BOOMER SCOTT, ED TOO TALL JONES, BLUE MOON ODOM, MARK BIRD FIDRYCH, SWEET LOU PINIELLA
MessageCoach Fleury, Spirit Week was great this week with some excellent costume contests and intense sporting events. Tonight's Midnight Madness is going to wrap this week up... All of the baseball players are getting really excited for spring break to roll around so we can start playing and head down to Florida. I know I share the sentiments as other students, especially baseball players, when I say we look foward to having you back on campus at Delbarton. Remain strong as the Delbarton community prays for you. Tom McCarthy
MessageDear Brian: Hello chief. Hope all is well with you and that this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. Father Luke announced at the Faculty Meeting today that he had a great phone conversation with you and that you were doing much better. Great news! Hope all is well with you and that Jen and Tim are doing well. Faculty meeting went well. Several good discussions about new schedule and M block etc. We then had department meetings and then knocked off by lunch. A few of us went out to lunch in Mendham and then Eddie and I came back to Delbarton to work on tennis season and tennis trip and summer tennis plans. I can't believe tennis season is only two weeks away. Scary! We have over 45 kids trying out at the upper school level. We have our last game today vs. St. Phillips Academy. It sounds like most of the guys can make it. IF we win we end with a winning record so it is a big game for us and they are always good. I am looking forward to it. Well, I got some last minute stuff to do before the game. I hope you enjoy this president's day weekend. All our best to you guys and your families. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie TEN THINGS WRONG WITH THE WINTER OLYMPICS: 1. TOO MANY X GAME EVENTS ARE NOW IN THE OLYMPICS 2. TOO MANY EVENTS ARE DETERMINED BY JUDGES NOT THE ATHLETES 3. BRING BACK THE AMATEURS SO YOU CAN HAVE ANOTHER MIRACLE ON ICE LIKE IN 1980 4. WHO CARES ABOUT FIGURE SKATING 5. ONE EVENT INVOLVES SHOOTING A RIFLE AFTER SKIING FOR MILES. HOW IS THIS A SPORT. 6. THE EVENTS ARE AIRED LONG AFTER THEY HAVE ALREADY HAPPENED IN REAL TIME 7. WHY DO THEY RING COW BELLS DURING THE BOB SLED COMPETITION 8. JIM MCKAY DOESN'T DO THE OLYMPICS ANYMORE 9. THE EVIL EMPIRE OF THE SOVIET UNION IS GONE SO THE DRAMA IS NOT THE SAME. WHERE ARE THOSE EAST GERMANS? 10. TOO MANY FEATURES ON THE REAL LIFE STORIES OF THE ATHLETES. TAKE CARE ACE. JT
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I just wanted to let you know that I, and everyone at Delbarton, have been thinking about you. Spirit Week went really well and Midnight Madness was a huge hit. While the hockey team's had an up and down season so far, we're getting ready to make a run. I hope to see you back at Delbarton soon - Jim Rosen
MessageBrian - It has been many many years, but it never ceases to amaze me how often your name comes up in conversation. You obviously know by now how much you are cared for, and how many people have you in their prayers. Despite the hardship of your illness, you are truly a blessed person. It has been touching to read through this site and see how many lives you have made such a positive impact upon; if only the whole world were made up of your spirit and your determination! We are pulling for you, and wish you and your family all the best. Love, Zoe (Peterson) Ward, Todd, Tucker and Cooper
MessageBrian - It has been many many years, but it never ceases to amaze me how often your name comes up in conversation. You obviously know by now how much you are cared for, and how many people have you in their prayers. Despite the hardship of your illness, you are truly a blessed person. It has been touching to read through this site and see how many lives you have made such a positive impact upon; if only the whole world were made up of your spirit and your determination! We are pulling for you, and wish you and your family all the best. Love, Zoe (Peterson) Ward, Todd, Tucker and Cooper
MessageHi Brian, Just a quick note to let you know we are thinking of you often and read your postings with much interest and love. This has been such a long haul it's hard to believe any single person could endure it. Sally and I were looking at a resume the other day for a new English teacher and I couldn't help but remember the day you came to Delbarton for an interview and we sat in the library and chatted. How many years ago was that?!? And can you believe we actually hired you even though we didn't have an opening?!? What a smart move!!! It's wonderful to read your Timmy stories--what a little character. He's keeping all of us full of hope, as I know he is keeping you and Jen as well. Keep up that "can do" attitude which makes you so special. We can't wait to have you back. Love, Shelly
MessageDear Brian; I hope you enjoyed the president's day weekend. It is great to hear that you are doing better! We are thinking of you. I am getting ready for an AP review session today. I know, I am crazy! We had a nice long weekend and spent quality time with Mackenzie and Julie's family. Got a lot done around the house as well. We won our last game on Friday beating St. Phillips Academy of Newark 71-46 in a drubbing. Everyone played, including our star manager Colin Corcoran, and played well. A fitting end to the season and with that win we went on to finish 8-7 with a winning record. Great for the kids. I can't believe there is one week left in the term and two weeks left before spring sporst start. I have to go down to the review session now. I hope you are doing well. All our best to you and your family. Take care ace. JT
MessageDear Uncle Brian, I wrote about you in a project for school. You were a person who inspires me. Love Abbie
MessageHey Brian, We think of you often and continue to keep you in our prayers. Dylan is excited to get to Florida. He wouldn't go to the slopes this weekend with Tom and Chaselyn for fear of injury. Can't say I blame him. All the best to you and your family. Dianne
MessageHi, Brian.....I hope this note finds you in good spirits and health....keep the faith....the Laverty family thinks of you all the time....the winter musical was performed this past weekend and was a terrific success....all of the students acted and sang beautifully.....Harry was one of the leads and I have never seen him perform as well before....I am very proud of him....I attended the friday and saturday performances but missed sunday's because I went to the Georgetown-Villanova game at Villanova with Austin...sell-out crowd...the team played flawlessly (only 3 turnovers) and we won 75-65.... Villanova is now 21-2 overall and ranked #2 in the country, right behind Duke.....11-1 in the Big East and in 1st place....remaining games at Cincinatti, Connecticut and Syracuse....one home game left against St. John's.....Big East tournament begins March 8th at the Garden....the Cats look like a #1 seed for the NCAA tournament....some of the all-time great Villanova players: Paul Arizin, Larry Hennessy, Bob Shafer, Hubie White, Wali Jones, Bill Melchionni, Jim Washington, Howard Porter, Chris Ford, Hank Siemiontkowski, Keith Herron, Rory Sparrow, John Pinone, Alex Bradley,Ed Pinkney,Kerry Kittles, Tim Thomas, Alvin Williams, Doug West, Michael Bradley,Malik Allen,Curtis Sumpter, Allan Ray and Randy Foye....Rollie Massimino, head coach from 1973-1992....1985 National Champions!!!!! Go Cats!!!!! Peter
MessageDear Coach: Hello Fleury! Hope you are doing well. I am praying for sunny warm weather so tennis can actually start on March 3! Puerto Rico trip is ready to go for the 11th. We also got everything lined up for the Mercersburg tournie. Our JV team is going down as well on the weekend before the varsity tournie which will be nice for them! I had a great review session with my sophomores yesterday afternoon. Most of them came which is amazing and we got a lot done. We do it in the Gregory Room and we do themes for the first hour and a half and then play jeopardy for the last hour and a half with one kid from each class coming up for three questions againt the other two classes representatives. It is actually a lot of fun. I then went home and played with Mackenzie and helped get her to sleep. Watched Amistad as she slept on my chest. That is a great movie. We are showing that this Friday after school as part of the History Club celebration of Black History month. We also have a forum tomorrow on Civil Rights during conference block that Z, Cedric, Eng, and Catlett are running. Hopefully that will go well and we will get a good crowd. Well, got to get some more work done here before my next class. We hope you and your family are doing well. take care ace. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie. FACULTY HOOPS ALL TIME TEAM GUARD SIGRIST GUARD HALL GUARD SULLIVAN FORWARD SMITH FORWARD MACLAUGHLIN Even though Hartle hit a ten point shot to beat the students last week he doesn't quite make the starting team, in part to get a reaction out of him! take care ace. Brian Doyle
MessageDear Mr. Fleury: I was good to read your recent message. You and your donor are in our prayers. Jim Rubino
MessageHey Brian really good to read your news today! Feeling better just in time for Pitchers and Catchers. Keep up the hard work. All of our best! The Linns
MessageBrian: Great to read today's update and I am sure I speak for lots of us when I say we are relieved that you are feeling and doing better. Keep up the progress and we'll keep up the prayers. We are all well here. Matt is hoping to pull off a daily double in a few weeks--play in the Final Four in Salem, Virginia and then hop a plane right from there to Florida for Spring Training. We'll see. Be well, and all our best to Jen and Timmy. John
MessageCoach Fleury, First of all, sorry for not having posted in such a long time. I just wanted to remind you that you are always present in the Delbarton community. Whether it's in church, the classroom, or the gym -- you're there in spirit. We are all praying for you and know how hard you are working. It really puts things into perspective. Right now we're gearing up for a big game vs. CBA in hockey. We play tomorrow for the Gordon Cup semis. They have really come around, but Coach Shatel has us ready. Best of luck with your new treatment. God Bless, Michael Campbell '06
MessageHi Brian, That's great news you posted today about starting to feel like yourself again. One of your younger baseball players today talked with me about how much they need not only your knowledge, but also your example. He's right, Brian. I know I have learned much about gratitude from your example. You, your family, and your donor remain in my prayers. I am confident that your donor already knows that he did the right thing by sacrificing some of his bone marrow for a person in need. I am certain that the day he gets to find out about you and all that you mean to so many people will be like a day in heaven for him. Stay strong, Brian. Love, Pat Crapo
MessageHi Jen, just wanted to know I think of you and Brian and Timmy often and have you all in my prayers. You are all brave and I am sure all will turn out well. With lots of love and caring. Eileen Chimerine
MessageThanks for the update! We check often and were so happy to hear you are feeling well and that Jen was able to fulfill her Martha dream :) Love you guys! Mere, Scott, Lily and Jack
MessageGlad to hear that you are feeling stronger and ready and anxious for real life again. Hopefully Spring will further facilitate that... it is just around the corner, right!!?? You are such an inspiration with your attitude and strength. Keep it up and know my prayers are with you.
MessageHi Brian, It is really fantastic to read that you are doing well and starting to feel like yourself again. However, I must confess I am a little surprised at this disclosure as you have sisters are no amature. You may already realize you just made a tactical error. Jen just returned from a Martha Stewart Show. I am certain she has been holding back all the project ideas she has as you've been concentrating on getting well. Now, with Spring in the air(almost), a fresh shot of Martha and your returning strength.... I'll be looking for that new gazebo when I drive by. Seriously, your update just brightened a dark gray winter day. Thank you God. Take care of eachother. Love, Donna
MessageDear Coach: Hope all is well with you and that this note finds you in good spirits and in good health. We keep you in our prayers and are happy to hear that you are doing well. My sophomores are feverishly preparing for their winter term final on Thursday and Friday. We had a good review session after school yesterday and this morning and will have another one after school today. My hoop season ends just at the right time so I can help kids out after school before the final. Tennis schedule is shaping up as we try to fill in the last gaps and get some frosh matches. We are praying for good weather the first week of break so that we can actually practice and looking forward to the trip to Puerto Rico> Ed Thompson may not be able to go on the trip as his grandfather is sick so we may have to find a sub. Hopefully it all works out. Timmy Walsh should be great for us this year. His brother Kevin made the team at Georgetown and is doing well. Ryan Donovan is our lone captain this year and has already stepped up as a leader. I am looking forward to the season. The term comes to an end this week and then we have one week of the spring term next week before break which is a bit different from most years. The Senior Moms brought in a ton of food for the faculty today which was a nice surprise. My History Club is conducting a forum on the Civil Rights movement today during conference block and we are hoping to get a big crowd for that. Well, I got some stuff to do before the forum starts. Hope all is well. We are thinking of you. Take care. JT PS: Did you hear that Kurt Gowdy the announcer died? that guy was the man. He is up there with the best announcers of all time Here are some of the worst sports announcers or "color guys" DAN DIERDORF, BOB TRUMPY, JIM GREY, DICK VITALE, BILL WALTON, MARY CIRELLO, DICK BUTTON, MAGIC JOHNSON, BILL RUSSELL, BILLY PACKER, DIGGER PHELPS. ETC.
MessageBrian, Jen & Timmy - We just read your latest update and we are thrilled to hear that you are feeling better. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. It is very hard to express just how inspired we all are by your updates but we are. God Bless - Jerry, Melissa, Brett & Jenna
MessageHey there Fleury Family, Specifically Jen, I have tried to get in touch with you a while ago. I ran into a few mutual friends of ours and they mentioned what was going on. I was just googling around today and saw this great website you all had and wanted to commend you for it. Believe me i am not stalking you, hehehe. Just curious to see how your family is. This past October my family had another run in with cancer and we lost my mom. And now the doctor's think that I have a tumor possibly in the back of my mouth with some swollen glands. I am praying for the courage your hubby has to guide me to be brave. Anyway, that is not why I wanted to contact you, I did just want to say hi and We miss you all, especially Timmy. You know Charlie still asks about him. Lori
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I just read your new post on the news section and it sounds like things are moving along well. The school year is going by fast, it feels like yesterday it was the first day of school and now all of a sudden I am studying up for end of term tests. Spring break is almost here, which means baseball tryouts. It will be weird not being on the middle school level but I think our class has a great core of baseball players. Anyways, good luck with the treatment and I hope to see you soon! AJ Briand '09
MessageDear Brian, Your last message was encouraging and we hope and pray that everything goes well for you. You've always been an inspiration to us and your recovery means so much to us. Our best to you and your family always. Love, Mr. and Mrs. Brophy
MessageMr.Fleury- Hey there. Just wanted to say that it's good to hear that you're feeling better after each and every day goes by. Keep staying strong.
MessageHey Coach Fleury, Im so glad to hear that you are feeling better and that things are moving along nicely. Im sure you can share in my excitement because baseball is about one week away haha. The florida trip is coming up so quickly and I wanted to thank you for everything youve done to put it together for us. I know its going to be an awesome trip, I only wish you could be there with us but I know you will be in spirit. I hope everything goes well for you, and my family and myself are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. I hope to se you after the florda trip hopefully! Feel better...God Bless. -John Dunham
MessageDear Coach: Hope this note finds you in good spirits and in good health. Glad to hear you are doing well from various sources! Hang in there. We hope Timmy is doing well. Let us know if there is anything we can do to help and and we will be there. We have your tennis function this Saturday over at Mendham Racquet club that I am running. Should be a good time. I have a few varsity players, including Ryan Donovan, Tim Koch, and Tim Walsh, helping me out with the event. Looking forward to it. My students are taking their winter term final as I write this note. They have the essay section today and the multiple choice section tomorrow. They have worked hard to prepare so hopefully they do well on it. It is a good indicator of how they will do on the AP exam in the spring. We have the next round of the World War II trivia contest after school today. Next week we will have a history club forum on the elections in Palestine and Doc Rod will do a forum on American Relations in Latin America. Mike Kelly, a sophomore, will do a forum on Jazz music as part of our Black History Month celebration. So lots going on there. We had a great forum on Civil rights yesterday led by Cedric and Z. Good to see kids excited about this stuff and getting involved. Well, I have to grade some more senior essays here. I hope all is well with you guys. We wish you all the best. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie ALL TIME CELTICS TEAM GUARD: DENNIS JOHNSON GUARD: TINY ARCHIBALD FORWARD: JOHN HAVLICEK FORWARD: LARRY BIRD CENTER: DAVE COWENS SECOND TEAM GUARD: DANNY AINGE GUARD: JO JO WHITE FORWARD: KEVIN MCHALE FORWARD: CEDRIC MAXWELL CENTER: ROBERT PARISH
MessageMr. Fleury, I am so glad to read your last post and find out that you are feeling so great. I hope everything continues to go well for you. I think and pray for you all the time. Looking forward to seeing you this summer! - Tim -
MessageHi, Brian.....big game tonight....Cats at Cincinnati on ESPN at 9PM.....and then at Connecticut on sunday at 2PM (I will be there!).....I'm sure Ed is rooting hard!! Be well and know that EVERYONE is thinking of you and your family and praying for you, as well! And tell Thompson that he must not have remembered the following Celtics who are in The Hall of Fame: Ed Macauley, Bob Cousy, Bill Russell, Bill Sharman, Frank Ramsey, Sam Jones, Pete Maravich, Tommy Heinsohn, K.C. Jones, Clyde Lovellette, Dave Bing, Bailey Howell, Bill Walton, Arnie Risen and Kevin McHale.....actually, I think I'm showing my age!!!! Peter
MessageBrian- I've got to meet John Thompson. He writes a great email. You do, too, btw. You put a great spin on a challenge. Your positive energy/attitude is inspiring. The Delbarton community is lucky to have you. Joe
MessageHey Brian. Just wanted to say hey (that's what we all do in Small Town USA) and send my love to you and Jen and Timmy. I think of you often, and I love to read of your progress and see your newest photos. Sharing your story with us has been very generous and brave, and I thank you for that. You are a beloved character in the magic realism community here, and you are dearly loved. Although it's still February, I can smell a bit of Spring in the air in the mornings (it's that wet earth phenomenon)... and that's a good thing. Spring always holds great promise. Good luck in Boston.
MessageBrian: Thanks for the update. The progress is welcome news to all of your website followers. It sounds like things are coming along for the most part in accordance with the game plan you laid out in your message of a month or so ago. Every coach appreciates it when events unfold as planned. Good luck and continue to feel better. You'll remain in our thoughts and prayers. P.S. The only distressing thing that I've read on your website of late was Coach Thompson's omission of Bill Russell from his all-time Celtic team in favor of Dave Cowens. I hope he'll accept this message as a motion for reconsideration. Having seen first hand that he is an outstanding coach and teacher, I feel confident that the motion will be granted. gcg
MessageDear Brian, Jen & Timmy: Thank you for your updates. We (The Eschmann's & The Romano's) are always thinking about you and keeping all of you in our prayers daily. I have to tell you, the bull-pen photo of Timmy was awesome! And Jen, I've started watching Martha (yes, I was a novice to Martha's way of thinking) while I'm on the treadmill -- now I'm addicted to watching/walking during her time slot. Stay strong Brian -- we continue to pray for you and your donor.
MessageHi, Brian.....I hope this note finds you, Jen and Tim in good health and spirits.....Villanova beat Cincinnati on the Bearcats' home court last night by a score of 74-72....a lay-up off an inbounds pass with 3 seconds left by a freshman (soon to be super star Dante Cunningham, 6'9"" forward from Maryland)....the Cats had a 12 point lead but Cincy went on an 11-0 run to make the game close....but that's Big East B-Ball....next up is Connecticut in Storrs.....2PM on sunday.....CBS....I'll be in the first row, right behind Villanova's bench....maybe I should paint my face blue and white....shirtless with a big V on my chest??? Nah....be well, pal! Peter
MessageHi Brian, Glad to see that things are looking up. Your son is beautiful (hardly the thing to say about a boy, but he is beautiful!!). From the picture it also looks like he has a great pitching arm. He throws the ball right over the top - that's the way I used to throw!!!! The boys always chose me for their team!! The athletic ability comes from the maternal side - and we know what a great athlete Jen is! It is always good when February arrives - can spring training be far behind. Pete is busy with the condo - it is amazing what you learn to do when you have limited funds. He is working really long hours on the job and can't wait for the accounting "season" to end. Please tell your Mom I was asking for her. Please know that we pray for you and your family. Grace
MessageHi Brian, Just dropping in to say “Hi!” So good to read your latest update. Although I must admit that I had a preview of what’s to come from Jen when I ran into her & Timmy at the pharmacy recently. Good to see them in real time and not just in photos. Re photos: The one of Timmy on the beach is prize worthy! Brought a smile to my face. Keep getting stronger. (Our prayers are being answered.) Have a good weekend. Best regards, Mrs. “B”
MessageDear Brian: Hey Coach! Hope all is well today. We are thinking of you. We have the tennis function for you tomorrow that people bid on. I have a few guys helping me run it along with Ellen Donovan. Should be fun. It is over at Mendham Racquet club tomorrow night. My students finished up their final exams today and now I am busy grading them. Grades are due Monday so a busy weekend ahead of grading. Kids put a lot of work into preparing for the exam so I hope they all did well. MY seniors took a test today as well and they start their last unit of the year next week which is scary to think about. There last unit is on Critical Issues in INternational Politics. We will also critique their research papers and students will teach some of the chapters. They have been pretty good at staying focused as the year winds down. Two big games tomorrow for Delbarton. I can't make them with the tennis function. Hopefully basketball can pull it out. Dano has had a great season!! Today was a dress down day to raise money for a Benedictine school in Africa. Mackenzie turned 8 months yesterday and we had Julie's family over to celebrate. We will go see my folks next weekend up in Amherst as they haven't seen her in awhile now. Tennis starts a week from today! Hard to imagine. Eddie and I have been working feverishly on preparing the trip to Puerto Rico. We think everything is set now. Tryouts will be interesting. Eddie almost missed the trip due to illness in the family but now it seems he will make it which is good for the program. He will miss our first week of practices. I interviewed Mike Vermylen for a job today, former alum. He played tennis for me for six years and was in my class. Great guy. He is really a strong candidate. The school continues to bring in great candidates for open positions. Well, I got to bang out a few more final exams before I go home tonight to see the family and crash! I am beat. Another long week. Too much to do and not enough time as they say. We hope you are doing well and we will be thinking of you tomorrow night at the tennis function. Take care chief. JT
MessageDear Brian: Hey Coach! Hope all is well today. We are thinking of you. We have the tennis function for you tomorrow that people bid on. I have a few guys helping me run it along with Ellen Donovan. Should be fun. It is over at Mendham Racquet club tomorrow night. My students finished up their final exams today and now I am busy grading them. Grades are due Monday so a busy weekend ahead of grading. Kids put a lot of work into preparing for the exam so I hope they all did well. MY seniors took a test today as well and they start their last unit of the year next week which is scary to think about. There last unit is on Critical Issues in INternational Politics. We will also critique their research papers and students will teach some of the chapters. They have been pretty good at staying focused as the year winds down. Two big games tomorrow for Delbarton. I can't make them with the tennis function. Hopefully basketball can pull it out. Dano has had a great season!! Today was a dress down day to raise money for a Benedictine school in Africa. Mackenzie turned 8 months yesterday and we had Julie's family over to celebrate. We will go see my folks next weekend up in Amherst as they haven't seen her in awhile now. Tennis starts a week from today! Hard to imagine. Eddie and I have been working feverishly on preparing the trip to Puerto Rico. We think everything is set now. Tryouts will be interesting. Eddie almost missed the trip due to illness in the family but now it seems he will make it which is good for the program. He will miss our first week of practices. I interviewed Mike Vermylen for a job today, former alum. He played tennis for me for six years and was in my class. Great guy. He is really a strong candidate. The school continues to bring in great candidates for open positions. Well, I got to bang out a few more final exams before I go home tonight to see the family and crash! I am beat. Another long week. Too much to do and not enough time as they say. We hope you are doing well and we will be thinking of you tomorrow night at the tennis function. Take care chief. JT
MessageHey Mr. Fleury! I just wanted to say a quick hello to you, Timmy and Mrs. Fleury. I know things are not going very well for you right now but I just wanted to quickly let you know that I think about you, your health and your family all the time. It is tough being away from home and removed from the situation. I miss Delbarton so much and never really realized how amazing it was until now. You and Mr. Shatel were a huge part of my life and growing process there. I will always respect and admire your strength, courage and values.. and will always say that you are the best teacher, role model and mentor I have ever had. Good luck with everything. Hope to talk you and everyone else soon! -Timmy Campbell
MessageHey Mr. Fleury- It's great to read your last post - it sounds like you're on the path to recovery. A big day for Delbarton athletics today with the wrestling district finals at 3pm and the hockey Gordon Cup Finals/basketball county finals at 7pm. Not a day goes by that we students at Delbarton don't think about you and your family. We can't wait to have you back. Stay strong as always. -Steve
MessageHey Mr. Fleury. I haven't said anything in a while and just thought Id say whats up. We had a tennis function last night that was won at the benefit dinner for you. There were a bunch of kids and they seemed to have fun playing tennis led by Mr. Thompson and a couple other kids from the team. Spring sports start up real soon and it should be nice to start my last season of sports at Delbarton. I check on your website regularly and it is good to see that you are starting to feel better. We all hope to see you back on campus as soon as possible
MessageHey Coach Fleury, just wanted to say hi and to let you know that I am thinking about you. I am really looking forward to baseball season, I got my cleats just the other day. With all this warm weather we've been having I can tell the season is right around the corner. Unfortunately, we weren't able to pull a win off for you last night in the Gordon Cup. I was really hoping we would be able to win it for you. But we will have another shot at Seton Hall right! I hope you are doing well and i can't wait to see you sometime soon. -Brian
MessageMr. Fleury, On saturday night I helped out at the tennis party that was won at your benefit dinner and I wanted to let you know how successful it was. All the kids enjoyed it and it was an enjoyable experience for all. I hope that you are feeling well and getting better; everyone here at delbarton can't wait to see you again. Theo
MessageHey Coach! It's Tim Walsh (little brother of Kevin Walsh). I just wanted to let you know the Brian Fleury tennis party was awesome. It was fun to watch so many little kids (I think there were 25 of them) having fun playing tennis. I know the team was happy to do something to help you get through your hard time. Take care. Tim
MessageJen, Brian, and Timmy- Glad you are doing well. Bri-you are looking good. Keep up the good work and positive spirits!! Jen-I am so glad you got a chance to get out and about and see Martha. You must have been so happy. You are all in my thoughts and prayers (along with your donor)! Love, Karen
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I just wanted to let you know how well the tennis party went this past Saturday night! There were a good number of kids, probably about twenty, and they all had a blast. We all really had a great time. I hope that you are feeling better, and all of us here at Delbarton can’t wait for your return. Reid
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I just wanted to let you know how well the tennis party went this past Saturday night! There were a good number of kids, probably about twenty, and they all had a blast. We all really had a great time. I hope that you are feeling better, and all of us here at Delbarton can’t wait for your return. Reid
MessageHey coach! I was glad to read your last post, it's good to hear you're eating and feeling well. I hope Timmy and Mrs. Fleury are well. Timmy must have t-ball coming up, make sure he's playing for Morristown National. Good luck with the DLI and I will keep you in my prayers. Mike
MessageDear Brian: Hope you had a great weekend Bri. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as always. Good to hear you are doing well! We had a very successful tennis function in your honor on Saturday night that someone had bid on at your silent auction dinner. About 24 10-12 year old kids came to the Mendham Racquet Club to play some tennis Saturday night and we had a lot of fun.Playe some intense around the world games!!! Theo Fox, Tim Walsh, Tim Koch, Ryan Donovan, and Reid Sandelands came to help me run the show and their help was much appreciated. Mrs. Walsh and Mrs. Donovan did the rest of the organization for the event and Mendham Racquet Club was very helpful. A few of the kids there were kids who had gone to our sports camp and a bunch more were planning on coming this summer. Otherwise spent a good deal of the weekend with Mackenzie and grading papers and computing my winter term grades. I got all of my finals graded by Sunday night. Mackenzie is now playing with her blocks a lot and is starting to figure a lot of things out each day. It is really neat to watch her play and discover new things. We will go up to my parents house in Amherst this weekend to see my folks for a quick visit. Julie's family was over at our place this past weekend to see us and Mackenzie. Huge win for Coach Whalen and the basketball team on Saturday. I wish I could have been there. Great photos and article in the Daily Record on Sunday, I am sure you saw it. Unfortunately hockey lost a tough one on the same night. We are gearing up for tennis this FRiday. About 45 kids are going out. We are hoping for decent weather. Puerto Rico trip is all set. Ed Thompson can go so that is good news. We have an interesting History Club forum tomorrow with Doc Rod doing a presentation on American Foreign relations in Latin America. Well, I got to go get some stuff done now. I hope all is well with you. Take care. We are all thinking of you. JT
MessageHey Coach, hope all is well and that youre doing good. Just wanted to shoot a post your way about what a success the tennis party was we auctioned off for you. All the kids had a great time, I think it was something for Campbell Hand's ('08) little brother. It was great to know that I was able to help you in any way I could, and I'm sure you know Mr. Thompson was too, he had a great time getting ridiculously into around the world, and so did me, reid, ryan and theo, along with all the little kids. Keep getting better, it will be great to see you back at Delbarton the sooner the better. Take care, we're all thinking of you.
MessageHi, Brian.....I hope this note finds you feeling well....I was in Storrs, CT on sunday for the Villanova-Connecticut game.....great game until the last 10 minutes....we had a 54-53 lead and then UCONN exploded on an 18-3 run.....final score was 89-75.....we had a scare when Allan Ray slipped on a wet spot and fell hard at the 3 minute mark.... it could have been ugly, but an MRI on monday was negative and it was determined to be a slight knee sprain.....probably will sit out "SENIOR NIGHT" tomorrow when St. John's comes to Villanova.....Austin and I will be there (as usual!).....2 games left before the Big East Tourna- ment....we finish up at Syracuse on national tv on sunday....Cats are 22-3 overall and ranked 4th in the country (12-2 in Big East and tied for 1st).... I'll keep you posted.....say "hi" to Jen, Timmy, Mom & Dad (tell Ed that the Big East Tourny should be UNBELIEVABLE.....March 8th thru 12th at The Garden....and yes, Austin and I will be there!!!!). Be well, Brian........................Peter
MessageDear Coach: Hope all is well with you and this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. We are thinking of you. We had a great History Club Forum today on American Foreign Relations in Latin America conducted by Doc Rod. He was on fire! About 30 kids and teachers came. After school we had our last Black History month forum where sophomore Mike Kelly did a forum on jazz music in front of about 20 people. He put a lot of work into it and it was very well done .It is great to see the kids get into these projects where there is no grade involved! I shoveled the courts a bit today in preparation for the first practice this Friday. Can't wait. Hope it is nice out. Busy with new units in both AP and IR. Hartle still lives in PA. Varsity hoops opens up with Roselle Catholic I believe in states. I always thought that hoops had the toughest state bracket out of any sport here at Delbarton. Well, I got to go home and help out at home as Julie is a little under the weather. Hope all is well with you. Take care chief. You are the man! JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageHey Brian- I was just checking on the site and it was good to read that you are feeling alittle better. My italian grandmother always said, you know your getting better when you get your appetite back... It was nice to see Jen & Tim the other night at the game--Tim wasn't in the mood to talk much since we just lost. Stay strong in the next couple of weeks and you know you are always in our prayers. The Caffrey Family
MessageDear Brian; Hope this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. It is hard to believe the spring sports season is here. I am sure you are itching to get out there with the baseball team and I hope you get that chance this spring. We are getting ready for tennis. This storm that may come tonight and tomorrow won't help matters much but we will make do. We have 44 kids in the upper school trying out. We will have a freshman team again this year. Indeed, Don MacDonald has put in a lot of work to line up Frosh matches for his team. He and I have five lined up already and a lot of other possibilities. Five teams have already applied to our Bryan Bennett tournie so hopefully we get another good field of teams this year. The Newark Academy tournie does not conflict with the County tournie this year so if we are invited we can do both this year which will be nice. We have a solid group of kids trying out this year and tryouts will be interesting, especially in Puerto Rico. Off to see the folks this weekend. They are looking forward to seeing Mackenzie. I hope you are doing well and Timmy is having a great old time. All our best to you and your family chief. Take care. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageHi Mr. Fleury, this is Conor Pigott. I'm a senior getting ready for the first practice of tennis season at the end of this week. I just wanted to say that we're going to have a great season this year, and that throughout our practices, matches, and tournaments we will be thinking of you. I hope that we can make you proud.
MessageDear Brian, I was glad to read that there is cause for optimism going into the spring for you and the family. I was also amazed at all the postings and spent a good part of my day reading the well wishings of your circle of family and friends....even strangers. Amazed but not surprised. I was, however, sorry to hear the news about Mrs. Donnelly passing and I've made a donation to the trust in her name accordingly. I'll never forget sitting in the Motown AD office and crying to her that I wasn't getting into college when she pulled an acceptance letter from one of my "dream schools" from the desk...sneaky! She'll be missed. Well please stay strong and positive. I'm off to hunt down the clowns with the nerve to post ads in the guestbook!!!! Sincerely, James
MessageDear Brian: I hope this note finds you in good health and in good spirits. We had a snow day yesterday so I got the chance to spend the day with the family and get some stuff done. Roads were pretty bad. Today Father Luke mentioned at the morning meeting today that you were doing very well so that is great news to hear. We had the morning meeting to wish Abbot Thomas a happy 75th birthday which was nice. Today we had our first tennis practice. It was pretty cold out there but we made the best of it. We did some conditioning and shoveling and then went inside around 4:20 to do a chalk talk. We have about 43 kids trying out and they seem like a good group of kids. We hope to practice every day next week from 10:30 to 3:30 outside (with a rotating hour for lunch for different groups of guys) if weather holds up. We have some indoor stuff planned as well if that is what we are forced to do. Tonight I go to the Natruman's house for a final Middle School hoop party and then tomorrow we are off to Amherst to see my folks as they have not seen Mackenzie much lately and are anxious to see her. It is about a four and a half hour drive with stops. I hope you enjoy your weekend! We hope to see you back here this spring! Take care ace. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageHi, Brian, Jen & Tim.....hope all is well and best of luck in Boston....the Laverty family is always thinking of and praying for the Fleury family....you guys are in our thoughts at all times....Brian, I went to Villanova to see Austin and go to the St. John's-Villanova game....the Cats won and are now 23-3 overall and 13-2 in the Big East....Ed must be very proud of his alma mater....we'll be in Syracuse tomorrow on national tv....Big East Tourna- ment starts next wednesday.....Villanova will be either #1 or #2 seed....Zach starts his professional career with New York Life on March 13th....he will still be associated with Mike Carr in the film business, as well....both are looking for an apartment in either Hoboken or Jersey City....oh to be young again!!! Harry has the lead in Villa Walsh's production of The Music Man....he is a phenominal actor and singer....also received highest honors for winter marking period....he works very hard and deserves his academic accolades....I only talk about Austin in regards to Villanova basketball but he has done very well at school, also....balancing good times and academics is never easy!!! And he very much enjoys the NROTC program... that's all for now....may God bless you and your family! Peter
MessageHey Brian: Wow, how great it is to hear you're feeling better! Your last post sounds so encouraging. It was terrific seeing Jen and Timmy at the SHP Gordon Cup Game..we had a nice chat. I know Brian and the rest of the team were very disappointed in losing to them...again...but they are hoping for one more shot...Meadowlands or bust! B-ball team leaves for Florida in a few days...I know Bri has always wished he could go...but he'll be ready for the season shortly. FYI, what is Thompson thinking with that list of Celtics??? I liked Cowens also, but him over Russell??? And Danny Ainge was a lot of heart, but not an all-time great... Anyway, good seeing your on the mend...hope to see on the sidelines, stopwatch slung over your shoulder. Oh yeah, one more thing, Brian's club hockey team just won the Atlantic District Championships and is headed to Nationals! All the best, Tom Fuller
MessageBrian, I saved and have reread many times your commencement speech that was published in Del Today some years back.I am trying to live up to the challange of seeing people,loving them and not wasting time doing so.I am praying for you and your family. Tom
MessageHi, Brian, Jen & Tim.....the Laverty family hopes all is going well....the regular season has ended in the Big East and Villanova and Connecticut are Co-Champions (both have 14-2 conference records and went 1-1 head to head).....also, Villanova is now ranked #2 in the USA/Coaches' poll with a 24-3 record... Connecticut gets the #1 ranking (27-2)....the Big East Tournament starts wednesday.....the top 4 seeds are Connecticut, Villanova, West Virginia and newcomer Marquette.....these 4 teams get a bye and play thursday against the 4 winners of 5 vs 12, 6 vs 11, 7 vs 10 and 8 vs 9 (these games are wednesday).. got my tickets and the boys and I will be at The Garden to root the Wildcats on....tell Ed that thursday night's game (Villanova vs Rutgers/Seton Hall winner)will be on ESPN2 @ 7PM....all the best to the Fleury family!!!!! Peter
MessageHey Coach, It was awesome seeing you at practice today. As soon as you walked in the room seemed to light up. I hope that you continue to stay strong, and that your next session of chemo goes well. I cant wait to see you on the 16th, and the team is definately ready to go! I will continue to pray for you and your family. Love, John
MessageHey Guys....my continued good vibes for nice healthy cells and miraculous recovery. I am glad you two have had a little bit of fun and relaxation. Jen- I am glad you got to see Queen Martha...don't forget you're a girl with roots planted firmly at TARGET! (would Martha approve?)
MessageHi Brian, So happy to hear from Carrie that some restrictions have been lifted. How was the DD coffee? I look forward to seeing you outside for more walks around town and what great news that you can go to baseball practice. Stay strong, keep smiling. Our prayers are with you for your next trip to Boston. Chatted with Jen a few weeks back at Walmart. She is an amazing woman. Hope to see you soon, Eileen
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MessageBrian, So glad to hear that you are doing so well. We continue to think about you/your family- and of course- pray for you. Best wishes from all of us, Noelle, Bob, Morgan and Jack
MessageHi Brian and Jen just wanted you to know Father John keeps us posted with all your health adventures. We keep you in our prayers all the time. We are happy things are looking up for you.Gabe cant get over that Tim is five years old already.Please tell Jen we say Hi too.We give you all our love and prayers Love, Gabe & Mary Lo Sapio
MessageBrian, Even though you haven't heard from Mike and I in awhile, you are in our thoughts and prayers all the time. I can't wait to see you in the third base coaching box this Spring and to see some Delbarton baseball ! All the best to you and your family, Nick Del Guercio
MessageYOU ARE TRULY AN INSPIRATION TO SO MANY, AND OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. THIS IS A WONDERFUL SITE AND I'VE THOROUGHLY ENJOYED VISITING IT. KEEP FIGHTING, SO MANY PEOPLE NEED YOU IN THEIR LIVES. GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU IN HIS CARE ALWAYS. DON'T EVER GIVE UP HOPE. THE MAIETTA FAMILY :) XX OO
MessageGreat to hear that you were at baseball practice this week. That's seems like real progress. I love the picture of Timmy "pitching" in the kitchen(?). Looks like he is taking to his "old man's" coaching. My best to you and family and continued thanks and prayers to your donor. joe
MessageBrian: Terri and I sat with your mom and dad at the Rotary fund raiser a few weeks ago. They cut a mean rug on the dance floor. I think of you every day as I pass your house on Franklin and wonder how you're doing. Know that we are part of the legion of Fleury fans who pray for your recovery and return to a normal, healthy life. I reflect often on the fact that my two sons are better men for having known you. All the best, Brian. Jim
MessageBrian, Just checking in, sending some strength, love and good thoughts your way. The latest pictures are great! By the way, did Wenrich ever tell you I once had a mean curveball and a not-so-bad knuckleball? All true. Keep the faith, brother. There's a lot of love coming your way. Glenn
MessageBrian, Just wanted to wish you the best. I hope everything is going well. You're in mine and my family's thoughts and prayers. Schmiddy
MessageHi, Brian, Jen and Tim.....I hope this note finds you well and in good spirits....great week at The Garden....upsets galore....Gerry McNamara for president!!!! Villanova received a 1 seed in the NCAA tournament and will play friday and sunday at the Wachovia Center in Philadelphia....Austin and I will be there!!! Go Cats!! Say "hi" to Ed for me. May God bless you and watch over you and your family, Brian.........Peter
MessageDear Brian and Jen: Just a quick note to say hi. Miss talking to you both. Brian I hope you are feeling better. I know the last few months were rough but sounds like you are turning the corner. I also miss Jill. Talk to you soon, Tess
MessageBrian: What encouraging news! That's fabolous. I am so happy for you because I know it means so much. And I know how thrilled the baseball family at the Del must be. Hang in there and there will be no stopping you after the next Ho/Donor cocktail! Matty and Timmy Mc off to the D 3 Final Four this weekend in Virginia. Exciting for them and us. Then he hops the plane to Florida for baseball. He'll be a tired guy at the end of the semester. All our best to you, Jen and Timmy. Hope to get a "wave" at a Wave game. John
MessageCoach Fleur, Just read the great news and it made my day. What a great way to start the season. I was sitting in a hotel room late last night waiting to fall asleep and I was thinking about baseball and remembered this story. It made me laugh. We played St. Joe's my senior year and Steve Johnson pitched his butt off. It was about the 5th inning and one of their guys hit a ball down the line that was questionable fair or foul. The ump was in bad position and called it fair and it drove two runs in which ended up being the game winners. What I remember most is you running out there, getting in the umpires face, and unloading on him about not being in good position and cheating your guys out of two big runs by calling a ball fair that was clearly foul. I knew how much you cared before that play, but that argument really sealed the deal for me about how much you cared about your players. You knew that could be our last game together and wanted to do everything you could to prevent that. We ended up losing the game 3-0 and ended our high school careers. Just figured you could get a laugh out of that story and get pumped about the upcoming season. But I also wanted to let you in on something I never told you about that play...the ball was about six inches fair. Good luck in the next few weeks and have a great season. I'll be checking the website for score updates and rooting you guys on. Sors
MessageThanks for the recent updates. They sound encouraging. Christian and I spent part of the break in Florida. First we visited UF in Gainesville and had a very nice tour. I was a bit upset that the guides made the most fuss about Ben Hill Griffin Stadium as opposed to a library but what the heck. We then went down to WDW and played 3 rounds of golf in great weather. My "I AM THIRD" bracelet broke. Are they available anywhere? I am sure you heard about the wrestlers - 2 state champs and 1 runner-up. If you were dropped here from Mars you'd think Delbarton was the Iowa State of HS. Keep the good news coming.
MessageBrian- I'm keyed into reading your updates now. It's kind of like watching West Wing...but better!! How much fun it must have been watching Timmy skate and what great news about coaching baseball this spring. The team (and school) is going to be so excited. You are some type of tough guy. Fight this disease with all you have and then climb to the top of the stands to watch your son skate. I hope my sons are tough guys like you! joe
MessageHey Coach, just wanted to tell you that it was great seeing you today (Tuesday) at practice. I'm so excited to hear you will be back coaching with the Varsity. I know you can't wait, I mean it shows with you coming to help us on your own time, just itching to get out there. Well thanks for stopping by, that meant a lot. Murphy
MessageHave a wonderful season coach! And if I see you I'll be sure not to kiss you... All the best! Rick Linn
MessageBub, Great news for you and your family this week. Keep fighting and know that were all praying for you. Good Luck to you this season and keep the updates coming. Dwight
MessageHi Brian, What great news it is to here that you'll be back with your baseball team on Monday! I'll wave from a distance when I see you. I'm sure Dr. Ho will get the timing for your DLI just right. In the meantime, you, your family, Dr. Ho, your wonderful donor, AND your insurance company will be in my prayers. I have to tell you I laughed hard when I read what Chris Soriano wrote about that fair ball. His timing was perfect. Take care, Brian. Love, Pat Crapo
MessageWhat a great update to read! So glad that you are feeling well!! Good luck coaching, I know you will love every second (and so will everyone else). You are in our thoughts and prayers. Marianne
MessageI'll have my camera tomorrow for more photos for your collection, but I will remember my zoom lens. I wont get too close! Hope you have a great season. The boys are thrilled you are able to coach. Best to Jen & Timmy.
MessageHi Brian, What a great update to read! I'm so happy for you! Have a great season and continued success on your road to recovery. As always, my thoughts and prayers are with you, Jen and Timmy. Brian
MessageHey Coach! I am so happy to hear that you get to be out on that field this year! You touched my life as a coach and some of the guys told me that you came to practice the other day before they left for Florida, and I was so excited to hear that. They need you out there, theres no one like you! As always, I'm thinking about you and you're in my prayers. I love ya, all the best
MessageHey Coach! While I am sure you've already heard the news, I just wanted to let you know that we won the semi-final game yesterday afternoon against Pope John. Although this means a few more days before getting out on a diamond, I am extremely excited to be playing in the finals against SHP. It was a very tough game, and to be honest we really did not play all that great, but we came away with a win in the end and have a chance to makeup for last year's lose. Although I'm sure Timmy does not know who I am, I was thrilled when he and Emma Shatel were on the bus with us back to Aspen after the game. They were both in the back of the bus talking with the team and having a good time. He told me that he was very excited to be the Bat Boy this year. I also saw Mrs. Fleury at the rink and asked her to say hi to you for me. I have seen the two of them at the rink many times during the game, but unfortunately have never had the chance to say anything because they both have left before we come out. It was really nice seeing them again and having the opportunity to say hello and thank them for supporting us. My Dad told me he saw you yesterday on his way to the Meadowlands when he stopped by the baseball game. I was on the bus and he immediately called me thrilled and had me announce to the team how amazing you looked. I must tell you that hearing that news before the game was a huge inspiration to all of us to win it for you. Once again I cannot wait to see you this spring and we'll be trying to win the championship tomorrow for you, Mrs. Fleury, and Timmy, and for all the support and inspiration you three have provided us with throughout the season. Get well and see you soon!! ~Brian
MessageBubba - Great news from last week!; we are so glad you're feeling stronger, you're back out on the diamond and ready to coach the Green Wave this spring - that's awesome! Keep us updated this spring on your progress, and I'll be checking with my parents to see how Del does in baseball this year. Speaking of Del baseball - there was a funny scene at Del reunion (20 year for me) this past fall...I overheard Boo Andreas and Dom DiGirolomo talking to each other about the county semi-final game vs Montville our senior year (11 inning win vs. Jim Price) - Boo was recounting when Fr. Karl asked him if he was OK to pitch another inning after he had already pitched seven - Fr. Karl told Boo 'we have Woody ready to throw if your arm is too tired'; Boo replied 'I'm good - give me the ball' -and we went on the beat Montville #1 in state (a real shocker back then as Del baseball was not near the program it is today....). Other great news for Del - Fr. Giles becomes Abbott of St. Mary's Abbey! ...much to celerbrate in Mo-town these days. Hope you keep feeling better every day, Woody I also really enjoyed the post from last month where your Georgia Tech pitcher threw that third strike fastball to you when you had called the curveball and you got clocked in the shoulder.
MessageDear Brian - As I told Jen, have been having trouble with my computer, and just finished reading all the udates, We have been checking on your progress and condition with Pete Horan whenever we see him, but t was GREAT to read all the last minute news. Heard from Katy and Meghan that they saw you outside the other day and tht you were looking great. That is so wonderful. I have bewen gfoing through some infusion therapy at the Carol G. Simon Center and think of you so often as I sit there with my tube and just hope and pray that this all works well for you You hever are out of our prayers. We just can't say how much we wish fore you and Jen and Timmy. It is so wonderful that despite all yoy have been through, that you remain the strong postitve family that you are. We think you are great snf drnf sll out lobr sdnff prayers to you all. Love _ Marilyn and Marty Reilly
MessageDear Brian - Have had so much trouble with my computer, and finally am fixed for good - I hope. Just finished reading all your updates. So thrilled to read that so much is going good. Have been checking with Pete and Carie but it still is so much better to get it from the horses mouth. Katie and Meghan said they saw you outside the other day and that you looked great. That is just thrilling to us. I have been going through some infusion therapy at Carol G. Simon Center and think and pray for you when I am there - just that it all will work so well for you. You are a special man and have done so much to show people how to live and accept what God gives us. And yu are a gighter - never give up. Please know that you are always in our prayers for a wonderful recovery and for your beautiful family. We are so happy you have them all, especially that smile on Timmy's face - it lights up a room, and for Jen, who is just a sweetheart. Love to you all and prayers for you all and your donor. Marilyn snf Marty Reilly
MessageHi Brian, That's great news on your feeling better! I imagine it'll feel pretty good to put on your cleats and don the Green Wave baseball hat again. Have a great season--play hard, play smart, have fun. I've been holding my own at Teachers College. Still working on my degree in School Psychology/Deaf Education and am now doing individual and group counseling at Monsignor Scanlon High School in the Bronx. I've even taken up a position in the admission process for the college. Fortunately, zee good Doctor Donovan helped prep me for the challenges of school admissions. I recently received Delbarton's update on the Fine Arts Center and all of the construction projects. When I look at all of the steel girders, cranes, and such I can't help but think back to that favorite story of yours ending with 'the tools are in the shed." I gotta say...that's SOME tool shed we've got! What do you think Coach Regan would have done if he'd had a ten ton crane? I'll be looking forward to your next posting. Please know that I keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. In the words of gladiator Maximus, "Strength and Honor"....or was that Coach Dugan? Take care, Matt
MessageLoved your last entry! Made us smile SOOOO wide! So glad you are able to do some of the things you love... Hope to see you guys this spring... love to you all! Mere, Scott, Lily and Jack
MessageWhile looking up the varsity baseball schedule, I decided to check out your website for updates. Really appreciated reading "the news", and your indomitable spirit burst through every line! I cannot imagine "the lived experience" of what these 6 months have been, but there were some true glimpses in your writing. Yet over & over you regain your focus and are propelled by your love of Jen, Timmy, family and scores of friends. I especially enjoyed the photos & the humor in some of your writing. You continue to inspire and are held in our prayers... Love, Debbie & Tim Sigrist see you at a game this season!
MessageHey Brian- Glad to hear things are going well and that you're back coaching this Spring! I was emailing back and forth with Meredith - we're trying to organize another Pocono gathering this summer. Hope you, Jen and Timmy will be able to join us!!! Well, just wanted to let you know that Amy and I (and the rest of the Wetzel clan)have been thinking of you. Take care. -Jamie
MessageHey, Just checking in!!! Want you to know you have been in my thoughts and prayers- You continue to inspire me everyday!!!!!! Much love and light! jm
Messagehi brian - i've kept up with all you've been through on your website. this is a great thing for you to do - to share with the boys and everyone else what you're going through is great. it is so wonerful to get your news. I'm so glad that you're doing so well. murph was so happy to see you at practice. when i picked him up it was the first thing he said to me and we talked about you the whole way home. i hope to see you soon. murph is on the jv team and they just had their first scrimmage today. it was so much fun to be back to baseball! take care brian - love to you and your family. best, kathy
MessageCoach Shatel and the Wave hockey team gave us a Lake Placid moment on Monday night - 3-1 over the dreaded SHP. Almost reminded me of the soccer team beating Benedicts on homecoming a couple years back. Hope things are going well. Still trying to find more "I AM THIRD" bracelets but my kid tells me they aren't sold T the bookstore.
MessageIt was wonderful seeing you at the scrimmages over the weekend and again yesterday. You look fantastic! Jen and Timmy look great too. The boys must be so happy having you back where you belong! I know Michael is thrilled. John and I will wave from a distance. Please know you, Jen and Timmy remain in our daily thoughts and prayers. God bless, Pam
MessageBrian- We think of you all the time, and we just heard you're coaching baseball this spring...we hope so! How about Shatsy pulling off the 'Herb Brooks'...pretty cool stuff! With love from the Pattersons - Buzz, Tricia, Chessy, and Kelly
MessageLook for wave and a big thumb's up from the Hardin family. Great news to hear you back on the field.
MessageBrian, That is great news. Good luck this season, I am sure that you guys will do great. Keep us posted. We think about you guys often. And, how great it must have been to watch Timmy. The kids are a blast! Hoping to get Lily on the ice next winter, should be interesting since neither Mere or I skate. Hope to see you guys this summer. Scott.
MessageHi Mr. Fleury, i just wanted to see how you are doing. I have never sent you a message, but i figured that it was not to late to send one. You might not know me, but maybe you know my brothers. I hope everything is starting to work out for you and that your life will continue in a healthy, happy way Patrick Steinemann
MessageHi Mr. Fleury, i just wanted to see how you are doing. I have never sent you a message, but i figured that it was not to late to send one. You might not know me, but maybe you know my brothers. I hope everything is starting to work out for you and that your life will continue in a healthy, happy way Patrick Steinemann
MessageHi Brian, Happy- Happy Spring...Such great news!! I know how tough it would be for you to be confined in the Spring. Maybe even tougher for Jen? While picking Derek up from lacrosse practice a few times this week, I think I caught a glimpse of you at baseball practice. If you hear someone beeping the horn, that will be me saying hi. Although it has the potential to be annoying, I think it could also serve to scare away that Indiana Bat that getting so much press. I had to laugh today reading the newspaper in this regard. When my sister's family (LuAnn) lived next door to Delbarton they had a big Bat problem in their house. My brother in law perfected the Bat removal technic with a tennis racket and Electrolux vacuum. Quit a site but very effective. Chuck used it once at our house. If they are looking for these Bats- they just need to look in Electrolux vacuum bags. Keep up the good work & take care of each other. Love, Donna
MessageDear Brian, You are such an inspiration to many. We enjoy reading your updates and we are inspired by your courage and strength. We hope you find comfort in knowing that you and your family are in our thoughts and our prayers. With our love, The Heaton Family Tony, Joanna, Anthony and Alexander
MessageHey Brian, I was in Florida last week and was able to see Wes play. He was playing high A and hitting pretty well - over 300 I think. He would like to stay in Jupiter (April in Iowa is not that warm!), but says there are a lot of outfielders they have to find places for - at least he doesn't have Rick Ankiel to contend with this year!! So glad you'll be back coaching! You're the best! Love, Rog, Shelley and Caroline
MessageBrian, LOOOOOng time since we have connected. What can I say, really? Just a flash back in time to the days of elementary school and Parker Drive. Oh to be safety patrol again! Makes me want to dig up some pictures. Moms says she remembers some good ones from the block parties. Back to reality. We're all routing for you. Quick brief on the family. Billy is in Georgia (country not the state) and is a diplomat...can you believe that. Mike is married with two girls that keeps him honest. Karen (do you know her... she was born in Mendham) graduated from college two years ago and has been working for a law firm but is moving to Micrsoft. Living in Hoboken..says it all. Things here are going well. Married for ten years to an awesome guy.. you'd like him.. sports fanatic (baseball and hockey).. we have three boys, six, five and one. You may see your six year old at hockey Christopher.. he has caught the bug. I'm working a part time schedule at Wyeth in Madison.. I had been in marketing but am now working on strategy.. by the way we live in Chatham.. all and all we've been fortunate. Such a superficial note.. but most importantly just wanted to let you know that we've been tracking with you. So many times have thought about sending our support.... please say hi to your mom and dad, carrie and jill... by the way the picture of you and you little guy is priceless. Sorry I haven't written sooner....blast from the past :) Mary
MessageCoach Fleury, I just wanted to say to you how great it is for the boys and the families to have you on the field. This season will have a special purpose and meaning. Thank you for the opportunity to play on the varsity team. Brian was thrilled when he received the news. The team looks great out there!! The McMahons
Messagebrian - just a quick email - murph was playing in a scrimmage on saturday and he hit a home run!!!!!! i don't usually brag about my children but he is not usually a home run hitter! isn't that great? all of those lessons at zoned have finally paid off! best, kathy
MessageBri- So glad to hear the great news of you going back to coaching. That must be a great feeling to get back to some sort of normalcy and do what you love to do. Also so glad to hear that you are feeling good. As always, you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. Tell Jen that I send my love and think of her often. Love, Karen
MessageHi, Brian, Jen and Tim! Hope this note finds you in good spirits and health!!! The Laverty family has you guys in our thoughts and prayers at all times... well, Brian, Villanova's great season came to an end in the regional final (elite 8) in minneapolis on sunday....I really think the Boston College win on friday took its toll on us.....they beat us up pretty good even though we wone the game in o.t. with 2.3 seconds left.....what a game and a crazy finish.....Cats finished 28-5, the most wins in school history....the young men plus Jay and his staff should be very proud! Be well, Brian! Peter
MessageBrian - Great news that you will be back coaching again. Best of Luck this season (except vs. the Colonials) and keep fighting. We are all praying for you. Love, Kevin, Dina, Holly, Tommy, and Claire(new addition on Feb 23)
MessageHi Brian! Happy Spring to you my friend! Great pics of Timmy! Gotta love that follow-thru! Look forward to shakin your hand soon...Okay, and a big hug too! PLAY BALL!
MessageMr. Fleury, The Swayne family and I just wanted to let you know that we all admire your strength and determination, and we could not be happier to see your health continuing to improve. I will definately try and swing by school to drop in once I get out for summer break. Great to see you doing so well, you are a hero, - Henry '04, Will '00, and the rest of the Swayne family
MessageBrian, Hope you continue to feel on the upswing. Out here in California working on a doctorate in clinical psych and it can feel pretty trying at times. Your tenacity inspires me to keep working in the "trenches" with the emotionally damaged and dispirited without letting it become overbearing. Thank you for the continuing gift of your example; best wishes for the coming spring and the blessings of baseball. JD
MessageDear Brian: Sorry I haven't posted here in awhile. Tennis season has made things pretty hectic of late in addition to helping to take care of Mackenzie! I am glad to hear you are doing so well and you are out with the baseball team. Awesome!! I hope all is well. Sounds like Timmy is doing great. We are well. I had a great spring break trip to Puerto Rico with the tennis team. I hope you got the post card I sent!! The team had a great time and we got a lot done there. All of the tennis teams have now been picked and we have our kickoff dinner tonight hosted by the Walsh's and Donovans. The team looks good and the prorgam is deep with a lot of kids involved. If you combing the middle school we have about 55 kids involved in tennis now. We won all three scrimmages we played vs. Fair Lawn, Summit, and Chatham. We open up on Monday vs. West Milford. The Bryan Bennett tournament is falling into place. Final field of teams selected for April 22nd and April 23rd. We have an amazing field and are still the largest tournie in the state. Eddie, Don, and Josh have done tons of work on it already. We just hope for nice weather this year as it has rained the last four! We went to the Holocaust museum on Wednesday with the sophomore class. The sophomores were well behaved and really got a lot out of the museum. We had a great discussion about their experiences on my bus during the ride back. Father Anthony, Father Jerome, Charlton Hoag, Dave Donovan, Kent Manno, Ed Thompson and I chaperoned the trip along with several mothers. I hope to see you at some point in between practices or games. I am happy to hear that you are back in action in the place that you love most, coaching baseball!! Julie and I send you all the best. Mackenzie is doing real well and is so much fun. She is 9 months old now and loves to be around other people and other kids. Please let us know if we can do anything for you guys. Take care chief. JT
MessageHi Brian, The new pictures brought a smile to my face. How cute is Tim as the bat boy!!! Nice to see you and Jen out the other day in MP. Thinking of you and your family always. Stay strong. Eileen
MessageDear Brian: Hello coach. Hope all is well with you and that baseball is going well. I hope you won your opener. Ours got postponed. Now we open up with Millburn tomorrow, the best team in the state by far. We hope to give them a good match. They are loaded. They have nationally ranked kids at almost all singles positions and the kids who played first and second singles last year may be playing doubles!! So, we have our work cut out for us. It seems like we have been practicing forever now so we are eager to play. Mackenzie is doing real well and is now contemplating crawling. She was the hit of the tennis kick off dinner last Friday. I got to get a tennis racquet in that kids' hands soon. My sophomores are busy preparing for the AP exam in May. They just took a test on the Interwar years. Well, got to grade some tests now. I hope you are doing well. We send you all our best. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie> Go Red Sox baby
MessageJust to say Hi! Keeping up with the updates. Happy to hear you are on the ballfield again. Enjoy!! Glad to have baseball and the Yankees back also. The news about your family good reading and the pictures of Timmy great and fun to see. I have a grandson who will be six in July and he is not as active as Timmy in sports but is now into baseball. He lives in Texas but it is cute to get the news and hear the things he says and does as you are enjoying with Timmy. My prayers are for you and your donor and hang in there. Sorry about the discomfort you are having right now. Patty
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MessageCoach Fleury, I came to the game on Monday vs West Milford and the team looked great out there. You have not only been an inspiration to me but to everyone at Delbarton. I know you hear that a lot but it is true and we could not ask for a better person to represent our school. I'm hoping to seeing you at the basketball games next year. Good Luck with everything and our prayers go out to you and your donor. -Joe McLaughlin
MessageHi, Brian, Jen and Timmy. It's been a while (a loooong while)since I've written, but Andy and Jill keep us posted on your progress. I really enjoy your newsletters (you're such a good writer!)and the wonderful photos you post. I'm glad to hear you're doing ok for the moment, and I certainly hope and pray (every day) that this trend continues. So happy to hear that you're able to coach again, and, needless to say, I'm sure the players are REALLY HAPPY TO HAVE YOU BACK! You-all have a wonderful Easter. Love, Diane.
MessageDear Brian: Hope all is well with you. This freak snow storm just canceled our big match with Millburn so that is a bummer. We were looking forward to playing them. Now our first match won't be until Saturday when we play Moorestown down there in south Jersey. They are usually real good so that will be a good test. We had John Sanfacon speak to the History club today about vanishing history during the Soviet Union and he gave an outstanding talk. I'd say about thirty kids and five teachers were there so a pretty good crowd. Brian Bowers brought his entire Contemporary History class there which was great. Hope you are feeling well and enjoying baseball. Take care ace. JT
MessageBrian, Very happy to hear that you are doing well. Moved out of Morris Plains, unfortunately, but I am always wondering how you and your family are doing. No longer am I walking my dog past your house at various times of the day. I was glad to finally find your website, I am not that good with computers. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are still with you, Jen and that adorable son of yours Timmy. Take care, stay strong and thank you for being such an inspiration to us all. Janet
MessageBrian --- Hi! I hope this note finds you doing well. You likely won't remember me but we met briefly about this time last year. My son Griffin serves as the "water boy" for Coach Ruebling and the lacrosse team. I was in one day last spring dropping off a letter to Chuck and we chatted for a moment in your office. Our best wishes & prayers go out to you, your family and all the Delbarton community. Keep your chin up & your spirits high. You are surrounded by many fine people who care about you deeply. Now that I know of your website we will follow all your successes as you recover. Great pictures on the website! Hope to see you soon; best wishes on a speedy recovery. Warmest regards, Michael Moroney
MessageDear Brian, Jen & Timmy, I was a player of Jen's on the MHS lacrosse team. It's been a long time, but I wanted to tell you both that you have been an amazing inspiration in my life and I think of you often. You guys are an incredible pair...an incredible family... and I wish you continued strength and perseverance. Get well soon. Love, Stacey Totton Benham p.s. - well done on the helmets!
MessageHi Brian, I am not sure if you remember me. I was the swimmer in Jill's year at MHS. After the awards assembly, in the fall of 04. I was diagnosed with stage 1 breast cancer in March of 05. I opted to be aggressive and proactive and had a bi-lateral masectomy in June of 05. Both Dana-Farber and Beth Isreal, recommended against chemotherapy as my invasion was only 1.5mm with negative nodes. Devastatingly, 2 weeks ago I was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer in most of my liver, I suppose it got into my blood stream and breast cancer likes the liver. I am having a very hard time. I have taken many tests over the past 2 weeks, as you can imagine. I will finally see Dr. Harold Burstien @DF, tomorrow. I hope to start treatment as soon as possible. I am crushed and keep crying and imagining my 3 beautiful children (almost 9,7 and 5) without a mom. How can I go forward. How did/do you. Everyone thinks I am so strong, but deep down I feel I am weak. There is no cure, yet. I keep thinking maybe if I can just get this into remission, there is hope. I will know more in a few weeks after the chemo hits these little demons. If you can offer any skills you have used to control the sadness and sense of doom, I would be grateful. I am so glad to hear that you are laughing and smiling with your son. I am glad you can coach again. You are an inspiration to me. Goodluck in Boston. Very sincerely, Sharon
MessageBrian and Jen, Hope you are both doing well and that Brian is on the road to recovery. I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. Would love to hear from you Jen, drop me an email if you have time. -Meghan Mulqueen Taylor
MessageBrian--Haven't emailed in awhile, but continue to follow you on your road to recovery nearly every day. Trish and I wanted to let you know that you, Jen and Tim are in our daily prayers and we wish you all a joyous Easter. Chris will be home for Easter, and our plans include seeing you coaching at third base Saturday morning at Seton Hall. We promise to keep our distance, but you can count on us waving. Good luck this season & Best Wishes. Lou
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I want to first apologize for being unforgivably late in sending you wishes for your recovery and health. Nonetheless you are always in my thoughts and have been an inspiration to me throughout my life. "Pay attention to yourself and the world around you" is a lesson I will never forget. If success is measured by one's ability to touch the lives of others, then you are undoubtedly the most successful person I know. Thank you for your wisdom and for your friendship. Much love, Rajiv D'Cruz '98
MessageBrian you have an incredible story and fight, I have been following your ups & downs through Jill since 1992. I can only wish and pray you become a true success story and finally enjoy a so call normal life with your family and friends.
MessageDear Brian, Jenn, and Timmy, Happy Easter and Happy Spring. You are still in our special "God Blesses" at night. We hope to see you on the ball field. Love, Phil,Marge,Brennan and Jack
MessageCoach: Just wanted to wish you and your family a Happy Easter. It was great to hear that you were going to coach baseball this season, you truly are a man of strength and determination. Your spirit passes down to all of the delabrton family on and off the field. I was at the Seton Hall game yesterday and sat with two indivduals that are truly as strong as you are, your Mom and Dad, they are special people and because of indivduals like them I have no doubt God will get you to the next level of your recovery. They love Delbarton and everything it stands for. Keep the spirit both on and off the field. We will keep you and your donor in our prays. Hope I can get to see you at the next baseball game. Sincerely Rich Conforti
MessageI am so happy to read that things are looking up. I so look forward to reading your news and it sounds very encouraging. You are an inspiration to the rest of us fighting through cancer and other difficult times. I pray that you will continue moving forward and also for your donor. Marcia Zak
MessageHey Brian, So glad you are enjoying the baseball season!! I hope you guys had a wonderful holiday and keep bringing the good reports!!!!!!! Our very best wishes! The Linns
MessageBrian: Great to see the latest update. Sounds like things are looking up. As you have known all along, slow and steady wins the race and you are looking good at the moment. You keep working and we'll keep praying. Hope that Jen and Timmy are doing well. We know it has been hard on them but they can see the light too. Be well my friend. John and Anne
MessageBrian- Glad your test results were positive. Glad to see your "feisty" coaching in action last week. Great luck with the DLI treatment!! joe
MessageJen and Brian, wishing you and your family all the best and you are in my thoughts...Jen just had a get together with the girls and we are all thinking about you and Brian and wishing you well, would love to hear from you. Warm wishes - Joanne
MessageAll good things to you and the family...and the team. I wish I was back in NJ for a game. You're doing great Brian. God Bless you, Glenn B
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MessageBubba - Thanks for the update from last week; sounds like a quick but hectic trip to/from Boston. Glad you made it back for Madison game - looks like you guys picked up a nice win there and the season is off to a good start so far! We visited Notre Dame today for the Spring Blue-Gold Game - was happy with what I saw, second-string tailback Thomas broke an impressive 83 yard run, and Quinn found his favorite target Samardarjia several times, including a nice catch in the end zone (kicking was the only concern - 1 of 4 within 30 yard line, but apparently a freshman kicker is coming....) speaking of Samardajaria (who is 6-1 now as Irish pitcher this spring...), I also saw the Irish take on Red's alma mater club Rutgers today (...Irish went up big 13-3 in the 8th and we made an early exit). Hope you are feeling better - please continue to keep us posted. What's up with the Yanks so far - I'm not happy with .500 ball, and I bet you expect more too from the Bombers. Woody
MessageGreat new message. Now we go forward. It is amazing following your messages and the changes taking place and your strong fighting will. Hang in there we are praying for you and your donor and I admire your strength. Keep it up. Hope baseball goes good for you also. Glad to hear you are making games.
MessageWe are all thinking and praying for you and your family. We all miss your wife out on the field with us and not a day goes by where all of us think about you. hopefully we will see you all at one of our games soon so we can play with timmy. Love and prayers The Chatham Girls Lacrosse Team
Messagejust thinking of you all, and sending positive thoughts and prayers! Love to you, Barbara
MessageCoach - great win in the couties.....best wishes rest of the way. I am sure no one is thrilled with your company in their bracket. I HOPE to see a game and have a hot dog. Beat time of the year my friend! chuck
MessageBrian: Thanks for the update. Your continued progress and full recovery remains the primary intention in our thoughts and prayers. It was terrific to see you at the game on Saturday. I am going to have to try this Ensure and yogurt diet because you looked incredibly fit, particularly considering the battle which your body has been through in recent years. I guess Nietze was right. Take care and good luck. gcg
MessageBrian- Glad that the DLI is behind you. It's inspirational to read about your taking joy in baseball during the good spring weather. The Delbarton young men are lucky to experience your attitude. Thanks for that. God bless your donor. Joe
Messagegreat news on your last post. your well being affects all of us...when you are down we are down. when you are up WE are up! Up is better than down. you got it right....never take anything for granted. delbarton is a special place to be and no better for us educator types. we can never lose sight of that. ....we are all very blessed! need to check out travis tritt.....swing away! cr
MessageWe were just checking the site to see how you were doing and were happy to read yesterday's positive blog. Please know we both think of you, Fleury (Jen) and Timmy often and wish you all the best. Keep putting up those pictures-can't believe how big Timmy has gotten. Good luck next week up in Boston, you are in our prayers. ~Court and Jer
MessageHi Brian- Sounds like another positive update! I am happy to hear that you have been enjoying baseball and the beautiful weather. Your team is lucky to have you as a coach. Keep up the great work! You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you and your family- Marianne
MessageI am thrilled treatment seems to be progressing ...more steps forward than steps backward! It must have something to do with great doctors, great weather, and a fantastic wife like Jen! We love all the pictures.... Jen,hope to see you soon!
MessageBrian- Glad to hear good things about you, and your are in our thoughts and prayers every day. The pictures here of you and your family (Timmy looks awesome) are great. Chessy says he's going to try and give you a wave at a game, and says to send his best. We're with you Brian. Buzz Patterson
MessageBrian, Thank you for being you ! The Eschmann and Romano Families
MessageHi, Brian.....I hope this note finds you well....my best to you and your family....you guys are always in my prayers. Peter
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MessageDear Brian, I think of you so ofter & keep you in my prayers. I was so happy to learn of this web site. I always knew that you were a very special person & as I read these messages ,to you, I am not surprised at how may lives you have touched in a special way throughout your life & throughout your struggles to beat your disease.The Delbarton Community is so fortunate to have such a role model as yourself. I look at the pictures of Timmy and my mind goes back to the days that you sat in my classroom,he sure is a clone of his dad!Keep the faith & know that so many are storming the heavens for you daily.Love,Pat kelly
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MessageKeep kicking ass! from former GT Tennis team captain, class of 1987
MessageI'm a 1970 Ga Tech Grad. I read the story of your battle and your courage. I'm proud that your heritage includes Ga Tech. You are a credit to our Institution. May God bless you and comfort you and your family as you fight your battle. Go Jackets.
MessageI'm a 1970 Ga Tech Grad. I read the story of your battle and your courage. I'm proud that your heritage includes Ga Tech. You are a credit to our Institution. May God bless you and comfort you and your family as you fight your battle. Go Jackets.
MessageBrian, Just read Steve Politi's article on you from the Star Ledger after someone posted a link to it on GA Tech's sports forum, The Hive. I've been going to Beesball games at Tech since 1982, and I remember when you were on the team. It was a shock to read about everything you've had to endure all these years -- I try to follow former Beesball players' careers on Beesball.com, but I had no idea what you've been going through. It's amazing that despite all this adversity you've been able to realize your dreams -- a testament to your strength and courage. I wish you and your beautiful family all the best, and you will be in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you! Terry
MessageBrian, Just read the article in Ledger. Very proud to have my son a part of this wonderful experience. Jim Esposito has been telling me for almost a year that there is something in the water that makes the kids love it at Delbarton, if that is the case you are the well. Secondly, my son has a fondness for country music, where did he get hat from??? My best always John- From The Eschmann and Romano families
MessageHi, Brian......wonderful article in the Star Ledger on sunday.....I think of you, Jen and Timmy all the time.....always in my prayers.....may God bless you! Peter
MessageKeep it up. The GT family is behind you and your story inspires many others to not give in to cancer.
MessageBrian, Stirring article in the Ledger. Even had my son (Christian '08) rivited and moved. I found out Mark Erenstein won my golf outing at Trump National at your fundraising dinner. Our mini Brian Fleury outing is 6/9 with me, Mark, his son Josh and Coach Shatel, who I'm looking forward to meeting and thanking for another state chapionship. All the best.
MessageCoach, I have been following your updates. It is great to hear that you are in good spirits. I just finished at Delaware and moved to Washington, D.C. for the summer. I am interning for U.S. Congressman Mike Ferguson. Looking forward to catching up soon. Send my best to Jen and Timmy! -Dave
MessageBubba - Thanks for keeping us updated. Great article in the Star-Ledger - truly inspirational; I've printed it out and I'll be sharing with some of my own ballplayers here in Chicago. Speaking of ball...great victory for Del over #10 Don Bosco; seems like a teriffic season (17-7!) - you make us Green Wave alum proud! Good luck the rest of the season and we all hope you keep feeling better! Woody
MessageDear Brian, Thanks for the update. We keep you in our special God Blesses at night. It's is great to hear that you are enjoying both teams. Timmy is at such a great age. I know you are keeping your distance....but if you had nothing to do...this Saturday night (6/3). We will be having a night game under the lights at Commnunity Park. The snack bar will be open if you wanted to come by with Timmy to see the 9 + 10 year old play...he can have an ice cream at the park. Remember you can be scouting the kids for future players at Delbarton. Brian, you have such a great outlook. You really are an inspiration for a lot of people. Take care and maybe we will see you at the ball park. ....Make sure you bring your lovely wife because we are having an appetizer evening with both team parents, too. Phil, Marge, Brennan and Jack
MessageCoach congrats on a great win today vs Don Bosco. You have a knack for getting the team to come together at the right time every year...it was a pleasure watching them play such a solid game from start to finish. Godd luck on friday I will be there... -Dave Caffrey p.s. i was on the phone immediately after the game with Fred Hill to make sure they know full well about Komar
MessageHey Brian. After reading your most recent news posting, I'm going to better appreciate my weekly Sunday hamburger dinner! Continued good results and good luck with the DLI. I pray for you and your donor. joe
MessageBub, Thanks for the update. Timmy sounds like he's following in the great Mo Plains tradition of competitive wiffle ball. Those were that days with Red, Woody and Mone. Hang in there...it sounds like you have a great support group with your family and your Delbarton family. Hope all continues to go well for you and keep the updates coming. Take Care, Dwight
MessageHi, Brian.....congratulations on a great baseball season....the boys played very well for you, Bruce and Matt....I hope this note finds you, Jen and Tim in good spirits and health....keep up the fight....you have many family members and friends praying for you.....hope to see you soon! Peter
MessageBrain, It has been so long since I have seen you. Eileen and Dana told me about the website and I have just spent the last hour or so reading through the guest book. Dana and Eileen have kept me informed and I wanted to let you know that you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. What an inspiration you have been to so many! During our childhood years you inspired and lead many and after reading the guest book I realized you have not changed. Many emotions were felt when reading the messages and many smiles as well as the memories of Borough School and MHS flashed back. May god bless you and your family, your mom and dad, Jill and Carrie. Stay strong and keep fighting the fight! Carol
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MessageCoach Fleury and Family, We have completed our first year and Delbarton school was everything we could haved dreamed of, what an amazing place. As long a process as it was to become part of this thing Delbarton, I am astonished at how quickly the time has passed. A constant comment from the Weinstein's and Esposito's was it should last forever and that what makes this place so special ,"is in the water". I am of the opinion it is the people that truly make a place like Delbarton so wonderful. The symbol that acts like a beacon for us all - is you. I can't believe that Michael has been so fortunate to be surrounded by people that instill such qaulities a parent could only hope for. For this we are eternally grateful. God Blees you all, The Eschmann and Romano families
MessageCoach, As always, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and know that your other family is anxiously awaiting your arrival this summer. Hope to see you soon! With love, Colin Donovan 01 and the rest of the Donovan Family, Ryan 06, Pat 07, and Richard and Ellen
MessageBrian--thanks for the update. Sometimes we are out of sight but you are never out of mind. We pray for you always and we know that with all of those prayers good things will happen. Hang in there on the GVH. It must be awful but you know that you have beaten worse than this. I know that you are worried about Jen but she is a trooper and she is getting plenty of prayers too. Love from all the Goldy's. John
MessageHello Brian, Its been a long time since I spoke to you. Last time was probably Mott-Leeney camp. I hope everything is OK. I spoke to Bruce a couple times in the last year. My son is involved in hockey for Jefferson. Maybe Delbarton someday. Well, just wanted to say HI and that I will be praying for you. Have a Great Summer!!! The Malejko Family
MessageHi, Brian, Jen and Tim.....I hope Commissioner Jen gets back on her feet soon to run the Wiffle Ball League....sounds like a full time job to me!! And I'm sure Timmy had at least 12 rbi's in that wild game! Hope all is well, Brian....I think of you and your family often and I pray for you guys at all times....Abbott Giles said it best in his homily sunday at the 11am Mass.....TRUST GOD!!! Peter
MessageHi, Brian, Jen and Tim.....I hope Commissioner Jen gets back on her feet soon to run the Wiffle Ball League....sounds like a full time job to me!! And I'm sure Timmy had at least 12 rbi's in that wild game! Hope all is well, Brian....I think of you and your family often and I pray for you guys at all times....Abbott Giles said it best in his homily sunday at the 11am Mass.....TRUST GOD!!! Peter
MessageBrian, Jen, and Big Timmy – Just wanted to touch base with you guys and let you know we think of you every day. Hope Jen is recovered from her emergency appendectomy and that Timmy is doing great too. Brian, be well, we miss you. Buzz, Tricia, Chessy, and Kelly Patterson
MessageJust a quick hello to let you know that Bob and I are thinking of you. Wishing you well. Happy 4th! Love, Noelle
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MessageHi Brian, My brother is a friend of your cousin Bob Ryan. I had a bone marrow transplant four years ago. If you need anyone to talk to, my email is swansonp@svn.com. Stay positive, and think about all the things you and your family will do when you get better. Your mind will heal your body with your positive attitude. Pat Swanson
MessageI watched you play for Georgia Tech 20 years or so ago. Those were some great teams. Get well and keep on fighting.
MessageBrian-just a short note to let you know that we think and pray for you and your family everyday! We just love the pics of Timmy! What a smile! I can only imagine the joy that he and Jen bring to you, and, of course, you to them. Take care!
MessageRead the news. Happy for whatever good is happening. We are thinking of you and praying for you, family, and donnor, wishing for all things good. Bravo, Jen and Timmy. Aren't we lucky to have the people who love us and care what happens to us. I print your news for Aunt Theresa to keep her up to date and she said the next time I sent a message, give you her love and she is praying to St Jude daily for you and your family and donnors. I know you hear this often but stay strong and that Pepperoni Pizza is on the way, you betcha! With family love and hopes for good things.
MessageWow didn't read message before I sent it. Excuse the spelling of donor. They are really important and wouldn't want to mess up. How many times have we been told to read what we wrote!!!!!!!! Patty
MessageHi, Coach - We're thinking of you as we often do and wanted to take a minute to let you know. What do you think of the Yankees this year? Our love and prayers are with you all. Will ('06), Lindsay, Walter, and Bud
MessageJust wanted to check in on you...as one of your many fans. As always, the writing is inspirational - factual, nothing glossed over, but humor weaves in and out and courage jumps directly out to the reader. I know thrush is terrible; I can't imagine it going on so long...we continue to hold you in our prayers. So far things sound good though. I especially love the photos. Timmy is incredibly photogenic! I'm going to Africa Friday for 3 weeks, so best get packing. Debbie Sigrist
MessageJust wanted to check in on you...as one of your many fans. As always, the writing is inspirational - factual, nothing glossed over, but humor weaves in and out and courage jumps directly out to the reader. I know thrush is terrible; I can't imagine it going on so long...we continue to hold you in our prayers. So far things sound good though. I especially love the photos. Timmy is incredibly photogenic! I'm going to Africa Friday for 3 weeks, so best get packing. Debbie Sigrist
MessageHey Brian. Glad to hear your blood work and vitals were good. I'd bet you inspire Jen and Timmy with courage they same way they inspire you. It's a good thing you had some beef in that butt to afford to lose 40 pounds! You and family and donor are in our prayer "hit parade"...we'll add the docs. Good luck with your next Boston visit. Joe
MessageHang strong, Brian. You are an inspiration to many -- just give the word and I will have pepperoni pizza at your door. Your family, doctors and donor are in my prayers. Much love and strength to you, Glenn Berkenkamp
MessageHey Brian, I just wanted to drop you a line to let you know that even though I haven't posted lately, we all continue to think of you and pray for you daily. Good luck in Boston, you may want to wear those lucky shorts. Love, Terry, Linda, Jack, and Kev
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, I just read your last post from the 14th and I'm glad to see your optimistic attitude, as it is consistent with that of every member of the Delbarton community. I wish you all the best during your next few visits to Boston and further into the future. Know that just because the students are not in school we are all still together, praying for you and your family. Best wishes, Will
MessageDear Brian, Jen, and Timmy, I was hopping around on google and was so glad to find this website. I went to high school with Ed and Shirley and was married to John Fennessey. We, Scott, Lisa and I, having been following your treatment for ages. I can't begin to tell you how much I admire your attitude and courage. You are an inspiration to us all. I am glad to read that the graft v. host situation has a treatment. Your mom and dad have one really great kid! Love, Deborah
MessageWhat's up Coach Fleury - I just read your newest update and I am psyched that your mouth is getting better. I can't wait to have a nice steak with you at Arthur's as soon as we can like we talked about last time I saw you. Your in my prayers every day and I will definitely come stop by the office before I go back up to Amherst to catch up. - Goldy
Messagebri - thanks for the thorough update. we will keep praying. it's great to have you back in the office! greetings from ocean grove, chuck
Messagecoach, wanted to let you know you will be in our thoughts and prayers as you prepare for the next round.kevin told me to look at the pictures of jen's gardens since i too am a gardener, and he thought i would enjoy seeing her efforts.never mentioned your boston trip, so please share with jen how impressed kev was,especially with her path and how much i enjoyed seeing it as well. love to you all, the mcgregor family
MessageBrian, You keep fighting the fight. We will keep you, Jen, Timmy and your donor in our prayers. You truly are an inspiration to us all. Stay strong and positive as always. Eileen
MessageBrian: Thanks for taking the time to keep us up to date on your battle. I know that it can't be easy reporting on a sideways step in this long and testing march but, as you note, you been through this before. No one has more experience at this than you do. No one knows your ability to persevere and overcome like you do. I have no doubt that you will do just that. Your strength of will and courage, fortified as they are by the love of your family and friends, are and will remain undaunted. As always, you remain in our thoughts and prayers. gcg
MessageHey Brian and Jen, Thanks for the update. Jen and I are praying for you all and think of you everyday. Love, Rick, Jen, Max, Syd,and Sam GREAT GARDEN JEN VERY IMPRESSIVE!!!
MessageHi Brian, Thanks for the update. Sounds like your path to health has taken a little bit of a curve, but I know the determined catcher in you can handle that. Thanks for the new pics. Jen's garden looks restful. I think I'd like to hire whoever did "Timmy the Tiger" to do my makeup for the first day of school. Would I ever live it down? It was great getting to talk with you last week. You, your donor, your family and your doctors remain in my prayers. Take care, Brian. Peace, Pat Crapo
MessageDear Brian, Jen & Tim - Thanks for your updates, the time you take to plug them in is really appreciated and it helps keep the many people who care about you all aware of things. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and hopefully your new round of treatment will do the trick. Your courage and determination are tuly awe inspiring. We love seeing the pictures. Best wishes & prayers. Mrs. Duffy
MessageHi, Brian......keep up your spirits and your fight....God, your family, your friends and many more people unknown to you are praying for your recovery....remember what Abbot Giles said...."TRUST GOD!!".....my best to Jen, Timmy and your Mom & Dad. Peter
MessageBrian, I am Christopher Dugan's mom, he is entering is sophomore year at Columbia and is doing great, but like me, misses Delbarton and its family. Every know and then I like to go to the Delbarton's website and visit. I often visit your website to keep abreast on how you are fairing. I just wanted you to know that our family will never be able to repay the debt your "family" bestowed on us by giving Christopher the education, friends, compassion and love you all so generous showered on him and our family! I am happy you are feeling better, and know that the Dugan family prays for your complete recovery. I sometimes wonder why God gives some of us such a cross to carry, but boy, you carry it with such style! You are a very special man whose strength, faith and tenacity are remarkable and an inspiration to us. We look forward to reading about you recovery and your adventures in this new school year. Respectfully, I remain, Maria Dugan
MessageBRIAN, JUST TO SAY HI AND TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN OUR PRAYERS DAILY. HOPE YOU HAVE A HEALTHY SEASON. THE HOFFMANS
MessageBrian, I'm not "medically-smart" enough to understand everything that is going on with you. But I am smart enough to know that you have the drive and above all the courage to handle all of this. Please know that I pray for you daily. The big opener is getting very close. ND is at GA Tech on Sept 2. Speaking of ND, I like to share this with you. It's a quote by Father Ted Hesburgh, C.S.C., president emeritus of ND. I read it every day, and hope that I can live by it. For me, the last part is the toughest. "The key to life's success is the ambition to do as much as you can, as well as you can for as long as you can, and not to despair over the things you cannot do." All I can say is that I'll try. God bless, John Krauss
MessageThank you Brian for sharing your experiences by blogging on this website. I look forward to your updates, and pray like so many people you have touched, for your speedy recovery. Just let me know when you're ready for a pepperoni pizza party and I'll have Eitner pick up the tab!
MessageHey Mr. Fluery I can't wait until I see you at school. You are an inspiration to all and for you to come back will continue to lift us as a school.
MessageHey Mr. Fluery I can't wait until I see you at school. You are an inspiration to all and for you to come back will continue to lift us as a school.
MessageHello Coach! Congrats on being back at work. We know how much you missed it. Delbarton is such a wonderful place and now it just got better with you being around campus again! Jen -- your garden is absolutely beautiful. Martha's got nothing on you! Enjoy the rest of your summer. Each of you(and your donor) remain in our thoughts and prayers. The Eschmann's
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I hope the 8 weeks of chemo passes quickly for you. The boys will be so happy to have you back at school! Thoughts and prayers, The McMahons
MessageHey there Brian, Jen and Tim! I hope all is well. Haven't heard from you in a while and just wanted to let you know that you guys are always on my mind and in my prayers. Lori
MessageBrian – it has been quite some time! As you know, Griff was in town and we had an opportunity to catch up on quite a few topics and friends. I wanted to drop you a quick note myself to say hello and let you know that I often think of you. No complaints on this end – Stacy and the boys are doing well (11 and 13) and keeping us busy!! (Baseball, Basketball and the real sport!) Continued success and wishing you well!!! Best Regards, Bruce
MessageCoach: I was thinking about you all last week as our coaches and players prepared for our up coming football season. I ask Mike O'Donnell and Rich Bellini about your progress every time I see them. Hope to see you around the football field so that I can give you a hug and tell you how proud we all are of you , and that the postive drive you have each day carrys over to all of us at the DELBARTON community. I hope to see you soon. We will keep you and your family in our prays each day. God Bless You GO GREEN WAVE Rich Conforti
MessageBrian- Glad to hear progress is being made on the GVHD front. Good luck on continued treatment success. Congrats to Jen on her Villa asignment. I hope it doesn't impact her beautiful garden. It's been a long time since I laughed over the observation of a kindergarden student! What a joy Timmy must be to you. You, your family and donor continue to be in our prayers. Joe
MessageBrian - I read about Timmy going to Kindergarten, and it really brought me back. It seems like yesterday that my 3 boys were that young - and here they are, 18, 21, and 23 years old. My oldest, Alex, was deeply into tractors at age 5, and today is an automotive engineer, and has his first job as a consultant with a firm in NYC. Number 2 son, Dave, was deeply into soccer at age 5, and is now captain of his college team at Middlebury. Michael, the youngest, was deeply into bowling and math... and is (so far!) a math major (freshman!) at Villanova, and as you know was a varsity bowler at Delbarton. So pay close attention to Timmy's interests right now! In no time, you'll be coaching HIM in high school baseball. Kudos to Jen for stepping into the AD position at Villa, we wish her great success. As you know, I'll be joining you on the Delbarton faculty this year - can't wait to be part of a very impressive team. Judy Lee
MessageHey Brian.. Just a quick note to let you know that I am always thinking of you and praying for you. I was very sad when I spoke with Carrie last week, and she told me of the outcome with Chet. What a great dog he was... I will always remember him barking at my nephew like crazy, and running laps around your moms house, when he would see Stephen in his halloween costume! Cheddar was a funny guy! I hope you continue to feel better each and every day, and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you, Jen and Timmy... and Bubba too! Much Love.... Beth, Kevin, Christina and Shana
MessageBrian, I was just reading you recent update. Keep that positive spirit. Congratulations to Jen for her new job. Let Timmy know that "team" he is joining is the Mountain Way Stars and their colors are red,white and blue. And the Mascot is "Beamer". We continue to keep you in our "Special God Blesses" at night. Our best to all of you. Love, Phil, Marge, Brennan and Jack. P.S. Jen your garden is BEAUTIFUL...whenever you need another yard to beautify please stop over...
MessageGod bless you Brian! You are truly an inspiration to all of us in the profession and field of Athletics; as well as the game of life! Earl Dorber Head of the Division of Athletics & Physical Education Greenhill School Dallas, Texas
MessageHi Brian- Just wanted to say hi and let you know that we think and pray for you and your family everyday! You ARE an inspiration to us all!! Good Luck to Jen in her new position and to Timmy in Kindergarten, I am sure both are alrady having a great time! Stay positive. God bless. Marianne
MessageCoach, Hope Baltimore was a special visit, a great ball park. Hope the fall season has been treating you well and you are getting around to all the boys events. Tell the little man not to be afraid of the " mean old secretary" her bark is worse than her bite. See you guys soon, always have your family and your donor in our constant prayers, John Eschmann
MessageCoach Fleury, Your visit to the hospital really meant alot to Brian. You and Coach Shatel really had him laughing (so good for him!). Thank you !! You are in our prayers, The McMahons
MessageThanks so much for letting us have Jen. The girls are thrilled to have her. My daughter,Robin, says that Mrs Fleury is the nicest person she ever met. It's nice to see her and Timmy around campus. She fits right in and sure is putting in some long days. It seems that she picks up on the way things are very quickly. Ask her to tell you about Mrs Acherman and the tennis team. The kids loved her response. She will not be bullied!
MessageHi Brian-Hope all is going well and the new "mix" is doing the trick! We think of you everyday and continue to keep you in our prayers. Take care! Give our best to your parents!
MessageBrian- I hope you're feeling better today than you did yesterday. You were the topic of conversation today while Me, Eitner, and Mikes mom & dad played in a rainy charity golf outing at Bamm Hollow CC. We all miss you buddy and pray for your speedy recovery.
MessageBrian, I've just spent several hours reading many of the posted emails on your website. What a tribute to a wonderful person. The article in the Morris Ledger, though wonderful, surely doesn’t even begin to touch on your amazing talents and abilities. I'm not surprised to find that you are held in such great esteem by all. It must be very comforting to know you have touched people in a positive way. Again, I think of you often and pray for you and your family. YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION TO ALL PLEASE NEVER GIVE UP!!!!! Not that I believe you ever would!
MessageBRIAN, THANKS FOR YOUR LATEST POST. MY PRAYERS CONTINUE FOR ALL FOUR OF YOU TIM
MessageBRIAN, THANKS FOR YOUR LATEST POST. MY PRAYERS CONTINUE FOR ALL FOUR OF YOU TIM
MessageHi Brian, Thanks for the most recent update. We continue to keep you Jen and Timmy and your donor in our prayers as you start the new plan. Saw a picture of Tim and Jay at the game the other night. They looked like they were having way too much fun!! Stay strong. As always you are an inspiration to us all. God Bless, Eileen, Bruce,Brian and Will
MessageBrian - Keep up the fight. I think of you and your family often and check your site every few weeks. Glad to hear that you've been busy. I'll be praying for you and for your recovery through the latest medical plan. Kim Emmons-Benjet
MessageHi Brian: What can we say? We'll treat the good news as good news and attack the bad news. I know that being back to work has lifted your spirits. Just hang in there and we will keep the prayers going. We'll get it done! Hope Jen is liking her job and can't wait to see Timmy again. Be well buddy. Best from all the Goldies.
MessageCoach, It was a pleasure to see you at homecoming recently. You have always been and continue to be an inspiration to me and many others that have been lucky enough to have their lives influenced by your presence. Keep fighting and know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
MessageCoach, It was a pleasure to see you at homecoming recently. You have always been and continue to be an inspiration to me and many others that have been lucky enough to have their lives influenced by your presence. Keep fighting and know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
MessageCoach, It was a pleasure to see you at homecoming recently. You have always been and continue to be an inspiration to me and many others that have been lucky enough to have their lives influenced by your presence. Keep fighting and know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, Reading through these posts is quite an experience and brings back a lot of memories of the amazing people that make up Delbarton and how many of them including myself have been influenced by you. I'm working and living down in Dallas, TX right now where there is Romo fever like you can't believe. My friends down here are also getting tired of me pleading Rutgers case for the national championship game if they win out. But how can you deny them if everyone knows Louisville or WVU would've made it there if they finished undefeated? I'll tell anyone who will listen. Please say hi to Bruce for me and best wishes to you and your family as we enter the holidays. - DP '98
MessageHi Brian! You may or may not remember me as Heather Appleton, your next door neighbor at Town Court Apartments at U of D. I also wrote an article about you for the school newspaper, the Review. Well, at any rate, I often wonder how you are doing, and from this website I have been able to catch up on you a bit. I was just telling my husband the your story for some reason and thought I would "Google" you to see where and how you are. I hope you are feeling well, and your family is beautiful. I will always keep you in my prayers. You were an inspiration to me 17 years ago, and it appears as if you continue to inspire wherever you go! God Bless, Heather Hardin Mom to Max (7) Olivia (5) and Luke (2)
MessageBrian- I'm glad you're feeling good this week and that you have a continued plan for progress! Happy Thanksgiving and enjoy your "tasty snacks"! Joe
MessageChamp is adorable, and I love the name. Carrie also sent a picture of Charlie.....what a pair! Enjoy your Thanksgiving feast with you family, so many fond memories linger in the Fleury house! It is the time of year I miss being back in NJ most, but I'll be thinking of all of you as I often do. Relax, eat and pray Notre Dame beats USC! All my friends went to school there, and my children have been brainwashed....HELP! Take care and my best to all.
MessageOH MY GOSH!!!!! That has to be the cutest puppy in the whole world! Congrats on the newest member of the Fleury Clan! Hope your Thanksgiving was wonderful. Looking forward to seeing you soon.
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, Just wanted to say hello and let you know I was thinking about you. I hope you're doing well and that you had a great Thanksgiving. Take care, ED
MessageHope Boston was a success. We all are wishing to see you at the state game. I also hope you know it is only 89 days until baseball season. Go Green Wave.
MessageHi Brian, Hoping your recent visit was promising. Thinking of you and your family during this season. GOD BLESS YOU and your loved ones. Sincerely, Sharon and Peter
MessageBrian- Thinking of you and your family. Hoping you're feeling better. You are always in my prayers.
MessageAll my three boys have been taught by you and allare doing well. Michael is still in Medical school and will graduate this year. Hank is in Chicago and started a bamd. he writes and plays his music. pat who did not atten Delbarton but you tutored in English is a math amjor at the U in Salt Lake. We all read about you , care about you and I myself pray to Padre pio that he give you strength to fight this cancer. To you ,your wife and your son Merry Christmas and don't give up. Teresa
MessageGood luck with the new trial. Your strength and faith will yet get you through this. We are all thinking of you and praying continuously that your full recovery comes very soon. I hope that you, Jen and Timmy enjoy each other this Christmas and also hope that you enjoy that long-awaited healthy New Year in '07.
MessageI'm doubling up on my prayers for you and your family. May your Christmas be filled with joy and laughter and may the holidays give you strength as you start your new round of treatment. Sincerely, Kim
MessageBrian- Great luck with the MDX-010 drug trial. Merry Christmas to you, Jen and Timmy! Joe
MessageMy Mom steered me to your page to get some updates directly from you (vs. through my Mom). The prayers of the Henry family continue to be with you and your family. "Champ" is a great name for a Lab, by the way. Merry Christmas!
MessageBrian, Wishing you a very Merry Christmas to you, Jen and Tim. My prayers are with you as you travel to Boston to start the trial drug. God Bless, Eileen
MessageMerry Christmas,Brian,Jen,and Timmy. The new puppy is adorable. Good luck with your treatment in Boston. The explanations you give of your condition and protocols are so good - would you consider switching over to the Science Dept? As always, my prayers are with you. Fran
MessageBrian, I have been following your progress for some time now and continue to be inspired. That "Morris Plains Can-Do Attitude" has never shone brighter, and I thank you for your willingness to share. I shared stories with my wife of growing up down the street from your family, and how my brother Kevin so looked up to you when he was playing ball. I can remember him coming home from Community park and saying (more than once) "Mom, you should have seen the play that Brian made today!" I, on the other hand, had a disasterous year on my little league team- a losing season that I am told went down in Morris Plains history as a spectacular example of what not to do in left field- but it did help cement the decision that playing baseball was not for me. I want to let you know that through your sharing, you have positively affected me as well. We want to thank your for setting such an excellent example. It is a tough world out there, and although I know you are far too humble to ever admit it, you are a hero to so many people for so many different reasons. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family this Christmas, and we wish you the best of luck in Boston. Not such a bad baseball team, and I hear their doctors are the best. Warm regards, Tim & Christina Carroll
MessageDear Brian Jen, and Timmy, We wanted to wish you all a Very Merry Christmas. We are sure that when Santa flys over Morris PLains later on tonight he will be making a long stop at the Fleurys to drop off lots of presents. However, there is one thing that the sled is just too much too small to hold, and that is all the love and best wishes that our family is sending your way. May God Bless You! Love, Kelly, Dan, Trevor, Connor and Kelsey
MessageDear Coach and Jen, My dad survived a few hours in the freezing english channel on Christmas Eve, during WWII,when the ship he was in was hit by a German sub. At age 85, he maintains that he is still here,when so many of his friends are not, because he prayed to St.Jude that tragic night. He believes that he has quite a relationship with Saint Jude. I hope you get some encouragement because I asked him to put you both at the top of his prayer list during this trial. You keep fighting to stay above water and we will all "talk to St.Jude" for you. Merry Christmas and hope for improved health in the new year! Diane Gesicki (mom of Paige and Will)
MessageMerry Christmas , Happy New Year ! Always in our thoughts and prayers, The Romano - Eschmann Families.
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MessageBrian, We are thinking of you, Jen and Tim and praying all goes well in Boston. God Bless, The Vittorios'
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, We wish you the best of success with your recent trip to Boston. We missed you at the JP Flynn tournament last night. Matt Kovachek briefed us on your recent trip and all of the Leanos' hope to see you again after your return. I'm sure that St. Nick found Timmy in good spirits. All of our thoughts and prayers. Brendan, Jon, Karen and Tom
Messagebrian hope this note finds you feeling better. what a difficult time of the year to be in the hospital. we pray the new testing brings the positive results we all are looking for . please know we think about you and pray for you every day. hope 2007 is a great year for you jen and timmy .please know we'll help in anyway we can, just say the word. hope to see you soon joey has something he'd like to give you god bless you rich and the family
Messagebrian hope this note finds you feeling better. what a difficult time of the year to be in the hospital. we pray the new testing brings the positive results we all are looking for . please know we think about you and pray for you every day. hope 2007 is a great year for you jen and timmy .please know we'll help in anyway we can, just say the word. hope to see you soon joey has something he'd like to give you god bless you rich and the family
MessageFirst let me tell you that we don't know each other. I live in Morristown with my family and have been following your updates for some time now. Your faith and determination to be healthy again have touched my heart. I wish you and your family and Happy and Healthy New Year. We will be praying for you. The Kempf Family
MessageBrian, Jen, and Timmy, Happy New Year! I hope that 2007 is a great year for you all and that you get into remission. We think about you guys often and look forward to reading your updates. You guys truly are an inspiration!Hope to see you soon. Get well soon. Scott
MessageHANG IN THERE BRIAN. IF HARRY SHATEL WAS ABLE TO LAST 38 YEARS AND BE THE MOST WINNINGEST COACH IN HIGH SCHOOL BASEBALL IT'S UP TO YOU NOW TO BREAK HIS RECORD. BY THE WAY HE WAS MY GYM TEACHER IN HIGH SCHOOL. TIM EARNER WILKERSON TRANS
MessageHey Coach Fleury, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! I hope you're doing well. Tell Mrs. Fleury and Timmy our family was asking for them. Mike Riordan PS Kev got fat. He's going for the David Wells look, anything to get a curveball.
MessageHi Mr. Fleury, Happy New Year. I hope your recent trip to Boston was a success. Not sure if you caught the ND game last night, but your old coach could have used a little help. All the Best from Chicago, Kevin
MessageHey Coach. Good luck with the new trial as such treatments can sometimes have phenomenal results. I wish you and your family the best in the new year. Take care. Erik
MessageHey Brian - Happy New Year to you, Jen and Timmy! Hope all's been going well so far... I'm headed to the Birds/Giants game this weekend w/ Ricky Linn and Jamie Bell - hopefully it'll be great game. Hang in there - we're praying for you. -Jamie
MessageCoach, thanks for keeping us updated, and know that as we enter this new year, you remain at the front of my and my family's thoughts and prayers.
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MessageHey Guys, Thanks for the updates and I hope Brian is feeling good! How cool is that the Coach Weis came to visit your school. The Kids must have loved that. We all here are always thinking of you three. (Too bad its not baseball season you all could caught a Sox game in Boston) Love, The Linns
MessageCoach Fleury, I was so glad to see you sitting behind your desk as I passed through the hall. You look like you feel great! I know that the prayers from Villa Walsh and Delbarton are rising up to God that this new treatment will work. JJ suffered through mouth sores and morphine was the only thing that helped. So many ups and downs. I am enjoying watching my kids at Delbarton. Spring is my favorite sports season. I loved watching JJ play tennis under Coach Thompson. He also had him as a teacher.What a fantastic man. Delbarton is full of fantastic role models. Evan, though not the greatest student is enjoying himself and learning how to be a good man(He is a funny and kind kid).So, I hope to see you across the street,this spring. You on the baseball field, I watching tennis. All the Zaks wish for you to pull through this and thank you for your inspireing news letters, Marcia Zak
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MessageHi Brian and Jen, It is nice to read your updates. It is wonderful to here that researchers continue to find new ways to fight cancers. I hope the side-effects are manageable. You are truly an inspiration to me. I have taken a "break" from taxol since my last scans in mid--December. I remain on the immuno targeted drug for Her2-Neu+ breast cancer called Herceptin. We await FDA approval of Lapatinid, which crosses the blood brain barrier, hopefully early in 2007. I will have, however, an ovary removed next week, as it looks a bit suspicious. It will be a quick day surgery. God willing the pathology is negative. All else is well. Actually I will be joining a group which will travel to Medjugorie in April. I look forward to the trip. God Bless you and your family. Sharon, Peter and kids
MessageBrian Don't know if you remember me. We conversed on the phone and e-mailed a few times. You met my brother in law (Mike Holowell) at Tusculum college. I called you after talking with Charlie Weis. I was able to get on the field again this year for the ND vs UCLA game. I hadn't heard from you for a while so I googled you and found your blog. It sounds as if things are working some for you. I have had a bone marrow transplant with my brother twice and my sister once. I never had any signs of gvh at all. It sounds as if you have some which is good. I too am receiving treatment again after the pet showed continued growth. They are too nervous to try a fourth bone marrow transplant so they are administering M.O.P. It's one of the first treatments for Hodgkin's. It's basically Mustard Nitrogen and 100 mgms of prednisone daily. I will be honest with you, most of the prednisone ends up in the toilet. I hate that stuff with a passion. During the first three transplants I was on a ton of it as well. It ended up causing nerocis (sp) in my hips. Basically it eats at your bones if you have been taking it in high doses. My hips will need replaced when I beat this. It's great that you are showing some gvh. It sounds as if your attitude is right and you aren't going to let this bs disease win. Keep up the good fight. Thanks for making me look bad! I hope you don't mind but I forwarded your blog on to the rest of my family. The problem is I have had all of them ask why I don't keep a sight like yours. Thanks pal. I just told them that I'm not near as eloquent as you.
MessageBrian- Thanks for the update. It has been great seeing you at school and events this year. I've shared your story last week with my sales people to illustrate our mantra, "Never Take NO for an Answer". They got it. I think we'll have a record quarter. Joe
MessageHey Brian- Just wanted to say hello and let you know that you're always in my thoughts. Please say hi to your mom/dad, Jen and rest of the family. Stay warm back there in Morris Plains!
MessageBrian: Nice meeting you last week. Wishing you the best and again glad to help you in any way. Knowing the path in life you are on is not easy I'll preach to you what our family has followed these past few years. Make a memory today...tomorrow is not promised Carpe Diem. Peace,
MessageHey Brian, Thanks for keeping up with the posts. I'm thankful you take time out of your hectic schedule to share your story. You and your family are an example of such incredible strength, passion and love. Thank you for being who you are. I am honored to know you my friend. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
MessageWhat's up Coach - Just wanted to check in. My broken leg is finally getting better. It hurts whenever I play for a good amount of time, but I have been working as hard as I ever have so that I can get back to play in the NCAA's. We just made it to the sweet 16 next weekend and we are hosting. Should be a fun one. I just wanted to let you know that I do not think I ever could have recovered from my injury in only 4 months without watching you throughout these past years. You have always been an inspiration to me and I needed it over these past months. I do not think I am going to play baseball this season so I can let my leg heal fully, but who knows about next season. The coach has nothing on my high school coaches so it's just not the same. Hope all is well and I will stop by next time I am home so we can catch up. - Goldy
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, Just saw this site on the Delbarton homepage. The pictures of you and your family are great. You all look really well! I can still remember your English classes from when I was a student and the incredible stories you told us. Your son will be bare handing pitches soon enough! You are still an inspiration to me. God bless. Roy (Mike) Bumiller '95 Sapporo Minami High School Hokkaido, Japan
MessageThink of you guys daily, but especially today. Chris got his baseball uniform............Number 18!
MessageDear Brian and family, Today at work I was looking at the Morris Plains website. Emma, our 10 year old daughter is with me (one of those early release days!) and I was showing her the website from the town I grow up in. When I saw your name and this link, I spent the last hour reading over your beautiful guest book and looking over your pictures. So many wonderful memories from my childhood days at Borough school and growing up in Morris Plains came flooding back. Although you would not remember me (I am Cathi and Joe Catizone's older sister) I immediately wanted to write to you. My husband, daughter and I now live in Millis, Massachusetts a small town much like Morris Plains. In fact, we picked this town because it just felt like home. A 45 minute drive to Boston (OK without traffic!) it is an easy commute. My husband works in "Southie" so he knows the commute well. We would love it if we can be of any help to you and your family. Our doors are always open. Please feel free to email or call us - 508-376-4750. Don't hesitate - we'll do anything to lessen your burden and brighten your days here in Boston! To say you have inspired many is an understatement! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless! Cynde Catizone-Cusack
Messagei came acrossed your site. thought maybe you are distance family or even in the fleury family tree im from upper michigan and i would love to know more inforamion on your family. hope to hear from you soon. becky fleury
MessageHey Brian, My Family wish you and your family the best. Hope to see at a Delbarton Baseball game.
MessageHey Brian, My Family wish you and your family the best. Hope to see at a Delbarton Baseball game.
MessageBrian: Thanks so much for the update. We get a little worried when we don't hear for a while! Great to hear that we are still moving forward and that you had a great trip to Florida. An advantage of Matt's not playing baseball this year is that we can get to Sugarloaf more often. We'll be up there with his new NCAA Champion's hat! All the best. The Goldie's
MessageI haven't checked you site in awhile but thought of you today as my 8 year old son gears up for baseball season. Glad I looked at the site today. Keep up the fight and have a great baseball season. You and your family stay in my prayers.
MessageBrian, We're cheering for you and we'll be at the field to cheer for your team. Our best to Jen and Timmy, Beth Ann and Michael
MessageBrian, Happy Easter to you and your family. Please say hello to your Mom, Dad and sisters for me. Hope to see you sometime soon. God Bless you my friend. -Andy Sansone
MessageBub, Just wanted to say were all praying for you and your family. It seems from all of these great messages that you have a great support group and have made a great impact on the kids at Delbarton. Good Luck this season and stay strong, Dwight
MessageBrian, just a note to let you know we think of you often and, as always, you, Jen and Timmy are in our thoughts and prayers.
MessageBrian, I'm glad to see your team has gotten off to a good start. I'd like to take in a game someday, but I don't want to jinx your team. I'll look in the paper for when you play a weak team. If the weather is OK and I'm not driving all over the place to watch my "kids" play basketball, I'll be there. God bless, John Krauss
MessageBubba - Thanks as always for the updates. Living so far away, here in Chicago, it really helps us stay in the loop. My mom sees your mom quite often at church, and that's another great way to keep updated - although my mom would say I don't call home often enough. It's great you made it down to Florida with the team - I hope you guys are off to a great start this spring. Some of my best memories from Del were our Spring training trips to Florida... I like A-Rod's start of course, but we need to get this pitching thing fixed; Vizcaino really concerns me, and after seeing Mariano in his last few outings (ouch, that BoSox sweep...) I wonder if he still has it? Best of luck the rest of the season (Go Green Wave!), I'm coaching my 7th Grade son's travel team and we're 1-0 with a big opening night win...ahh, baseball season!! Also - great that Charlie Weis visited you and Del, what a thrill! Will this be a transition year for ND? Will Clausen jump right in? I have tix to every home game - if you think about coming out, just let me know, I have us covered w/ tix. Please keep us posted - Woody
MessageI heard something on the radio that sounded promising to me. The doctor was speaking about cancer and its management. He said that although there is no cure, that the disease is now like diabeties, chronic but manageable. I know that JJ belives that whatever happens, there will be something that he can do about his ALL. You seem to have been putting up with it a long time; but also making a good and happy life. Your wife and child are terrific.
MessageBubba, It's great to see all of the support you have out there...great to see some names from the past, like Woody and Dwight. While this is the first time I've written, my mother keeps me updated on what's going on. Hang in there, and I'll check back more often. Moose
MessageHey Brian, Just thinking about you so I thought I'd send you some love and prayers from Cali. You're a true inspiration. Stay strong, my friend. The future looks bright. GB
MessageHey Brian, Just thinking about you so I thought I'd send you some love and prayers from Cali. You're a true inspiration. Stay strong, my friend. The future looks bright. GB
MessageHey Brian, Just thinking about you so I thought I'd send you some love and prayers from Cali. You're a true inspiration. Stay strong, my friend. The future looks bright. GB
MessageHey Brian, Just thinking about you so I thought I'd send you some love and prayers from Cali. You're a true inspiration. Stay strong, my friend. The future looks bright. GB
MessageIt was great to see you, Jen and Timmy at the Arts Center last night. What a beautiful family! I hope Timmy found his snake picture. God bless and be well. Joyce
MessageBUBBA, THE PICTUES OF YOUR FAMILY ON THIS SITE ARE AWESOME. LONG TIME, NO TALK. I SAW YOUR FOLKS AT DOYLE'S WEDDING THIS WEEKEND AND THEY UPDATED ME ON YOU AND THE FAMILY. I WANTED TO TAKE A MINUTE TO TELL YOU WHAT BEAUTIFUL PARENTS YOU ARE BLESSED WITH WHICH I AM SURE YOU ARE WELL AWARE. BOTH YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER CARRY A VERY GENUINE, SOFT, AND SWEET ENERGY AND IT ALWAYS REMINDS ME OF THE WONDERFUL CHILDHOOD I WAS BLESSED WITH WHEN I RUN INTO THEM AND REMINISCE OF THE NEIGHBORHOOD. MORE IMPORTANTLY, I WANTED TO TAKE A MINUTE TO TELL YOU THAT AS A CHILD, YOU WERE AN AWESOME ROLE MODEL TO ME. THROUGH THE EYES OF A YOUNG BOY, YOU SEEM TO HAVE THE WORLD IN THE PALM OF YOUR HAND. YOU EXCELLED AT EVERYTHING YOU DID WITH THE UTMOST GRACE AND HUMILITY AND ALWAYS TOOK THE TIME TO SAY HI AND ACKNOWLEDGE ME. ALTHOUGH WE ARE NOT IN CLOSE CONTACT, TRUST THAT AS AN ADULT, YOU ARE AN EVEN MORE POWERFUL ROLE MODEL AND TEACHER TO ME THAN EVER BEFORE. I ALWAYS GET PERIODIC UPDATES ON YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FROM MY FOLKS WHOM I AM VERY CLOSE TO. THEY HAVE BECOME MY DEAREST FRIENDS AS I HAVE BECOME AN ADULT AND REALIZED THE MORALS AND VALUES THAT THEY INSTILLED IN ME ARE PRICELESS. MY BEAUTIFUL WIFE, COCO, AND I, JUST GOT MARRIED LAST OCTOBER IN THAILAND AND PLAN ON STARTING A FAMILY OVER THE NEXT COUPLE OF YEARS. SHE IS CURRENTLY WORKING ON HER DOCTORATE IN PHYSICAL THERAPY WHICH SHOULD END IN DECEMBER OF 2008 AND WE WOULD LIKE TO START TO HAVE A COUPLE OF OUR OWN SOON AFTER. AS FOR ME, I HAVE A REAL ESTATE INVESTMENT CO. IN JACKSONVILLE, FLA. AND WORKING ON CREATING A NEW VENTURE FOCUSED ON WELL BEING AND WEALTH CREATION LESSONS GEARED TOWARD PARENTS AND THEIR CHILDREN TOGETHER. MY BUSINESS PARTNER, JIM SHEILS, WHO IS A CHILDHOOD FRIEND FROM MORRISTOWN, AND I HAVE BEEN PARTNERS IN THE REAL ESTATE BIZ SINCE 1999. WE ARE BOTH PASSIONATE ABOUT EDUCATION AND THE DYNAMIC RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PARENTS AND THEIR TEENS. WE PLAN TO LAUNCH OUR FIRST EVENT IN SUMMER 2008 IN MEXICO OR HAWAII; REASON BEING, WE ARE INCORPORATING SURFING, WHICH WE ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT AS WELL, INTO OUR PROGRAM AND NEED TO BE WHERE THERE ARE WARM CONSISTENT WAVES. I WAS HOPING TO CONSULT WITH YOU AS I KNOW YOU HAVE A TON OF EXPERIENCE AND HAVE BEEN EXCEPTIONALLY SUCCESSFUL IN CONNECTING WITH THIS AGE GROUP AND THEIR PARENTS. IF YOU SEND ME YOUR EMAIL, I CAN SEND YOU SOME LITERATURE ON WHAT WE ARE ENVISIONING AND WOULD LOVE TO GET FEEDBACK FROM YOU. AGAIN, I'D LIKE TO ACKNOWLEDGE THE INCREDIBLE IMPACT YOU HAVE HAD ON NOT ONLY MY, BUT EVERY LIFE YOU HAVE COME IN CONTACT WITH. YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TODAY AND ALWAYS. YOU ARE WHOLE, PERFECT, AND COMPLETE. THE DIVINE IN ME BOWS TO THE DIVINE IN YOU. NAMASTE! BRIAN SCRONE
MessageYou and yours are always in our prayers. You have been a beacon for my son as a person , and we cannot thank you enough. What a season, some very key wins to date , come from behind in a bunch of situations. A true sense of how they have been schooled and who they have been schooled by. I would not trade any of these days, win or lose. It is definitely the birth of a great memory, for this I am eternally greatful. Esch, from the Romano - Eschmann families
MessageBest of luck in this week's Parochial A tourney...what a test it's gonna be! I can't remember Parachial A being as good as it is this year. It presents a great opportunity for you, Bruce, and the guys...
MessageBubba - What a great baseball season for the Green Wave!; 22-4 and County Finals...that is awesome and a season for you and the team to very proud of. As you know I am still amazed about how far Del baseball has come - under your direction - since the 'old days' (remember the '85 county championship though?). It was also great to hear about Timmy's 'Whif' tournament in the backyard - clearly a tradition that has stood the test of time...do you remember all that whiffle ball we played 'back in the day'...your field, McGrath's field, Red's, Maplewood (my home field)...seems with the clay mound and batter's box and mesh fence, things are even better for 'Whif' in Mo-Plains today. The Yanks are back - 5 in a row..Clemens looked mighty y'day; we caught a game last week as the Yanks took care of the Chi-Sox here in Windy City. Hope things keep getting better. Please continue to keep us all posted. Woody
MessageBRIAN, CONGRATULATIONS ON A GREAT SEASON FOR YOU, JEN AND TIM! I HAVE TO KEEP REPEATING: GOD DOESN'T SAVE US FROM DROWNDING IN THE OCEAN JUST TO TOSS US OUT OF THE ROWBOAT AGAIN. SOON ENOUGH YOU'LL BE BACK ON DRY LAND SO HANG IN THERE! TIM EARNER
Messagebrian, just wanted you to know you are in all all thoughts and prayers during this next procedure. kev keeps us posted on your new to them and we look forward to seeing you and jen and timmy and the dogs all again soon at summer ball. stay well, love, all the mcgregors
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MessageBrian: Thanks for posting an update. I know its not always easy in many respects. Congratulations on a great season. I was glad to see you at the County semis and wish I could have made more than the three games I saw this year. Since you guys lost 2 of the 3 I did make, you may be glad I didn't come to more games. Seriously, winning 22 out of 26 is a great season by any measure. Your ability to lead and inspire those guys under the most adverse conditions is nothing short of astounding. I will continue to think of you often, particularly now as you face this latest challenge in your treatment, and I'll remember you, Jen and Timmy in my prayers. I look forward to seeing you soon and hearing that you are back on the road to recovery.
MessageBrian, You are in my prayers.... May God continue to bless you with strength and courage! -Elizabeth
MessageHANG IN THERE BRIAN! YOU'VE MADE IT THIS FAR. ALL THIS PAIN AND SUFFERING WILL COME BACK AS A BLESSING ON YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. ALSO, MAKE SURE KENT MANNO DOESN'T TAKE IT EASY AND MAKE YOU DO ALL THE WORK! TIM EARNER
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MessageBrian, I heard today that you are back in the hospital. I just want you to know that your are in all the Zucker family's prayers and that we all hope for a speedy improvement to your health so that you are able to dive back into Delbarton in September. I very much enjoy working with you on the Booster program and I wish you all the best. You are truly a class act. Best Regards, Bill Zucker
MessageThanks for the report, Brian. You just hang in there and we will keep the prayers going. Heard Jen's backyard camps are very popular. Glad to hear about Timmy's accomplishment. God bless all the Fleury's! John and Anne
MessageHi Brian- Thanks for the update, sounds like you are keeping busy. You are always in our thoughts and prayers - keep fighting! Marianne Ceribelli and family
MessageHey Brian! Thanks for keeping us up on your progress. Since it's not often I get to see you in person, I look forward to each update you post. You're a fighter, an inspiration, a symbol of the beauty of life and I thank you for being who you are. Hey, get this, I'm running the NYC marathon this November! Figured I'd do something special to celebrate my 40th birthday. I'm running for a charity, the Nicholas Rossomando Memorial Scholarship Fund. Nick was an FDNY firefighter that was killed on 9/11. Check out this website my friend put together: www.andyruns.com. The training has been going well but I don't expect to break any speed records. What was I thinking? 26.2 miles! I should have just bought a corvette and grew some facial hair for my mid-life crisis! You, your family and your donor are continually in my prayers. Until next time my friend, Andy Sansone.
MessageYOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS BRIAN! THE PRIOR FAMILY
MessageBrian, You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, The Campbell Family
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy,You are all in my thoughts and prayers every day.Love, Anne (McEntee)
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MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, Paul and I heard that you're in the hospital Brian, and wanted to let you know that we are praying for you and thinking about all of you constantly. Take care of yourselves, our dear friends. God bless... Mick, Vic and the kids
MessageBrian - I was sorry to hear your dilemma. You are in our (Max and my) prayers to give you the strength to carry on. Congratulations on your very successful Baseball season, you will keep that memory with you because of the mighty Seniors that were with you. Jen and Tim can be very proud of their father. Without them around could be a real drag. No more hockey for me, now that I've retired, but now that my grandson is at Delbarton I'm beginning to feel the Green Wave coming over me. Being part of the D family is great. Laura Caruso was asking about you and she asked me to say "HI". Got to run and pick up David(Boy, that keeps me busy.) Good luck in Boston and I'll look for your memoirs. Be safe. Paul and Max Persson
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I am praying for both you and your family and am hoping for the best. God Bless. Z
MessageCoach! I just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and you will look back on these tough times and remember the love this community has for you.
Message"Sometimes out of sight, but never out of mind" a motto never more befitting for the community that is Delbarton. Coach Fluery, Jennifer and Timmy, we wish you best during this trying time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. - The DeLuca's- (Steven, '96, David '00, and Dennis '05; Bob and Peggy)
MessageCoach, Just wanted to say hi and let you know that I'm thinking of you and praying for you. I know you can get through this, you are the most courageous, honest, and loving person I have ever met and truely an ispiration to all - keep your head up coach and look forward to seeing you soon. "nulli secunda" -CAP
MessageFleur... we are pulling for you. If there is anyone who can beat this back it is you. -Fred
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, We're praying for you everyday. Mike, Carol, Ellen and Lizzie
MessageDear Jen and Brian, Everyone we know has Brian in their prayers.We all know he is a fighter so if anyone can get past this hurdle Brian can. Please let him know how many people are pulling for him and send him our love. Val
MessageCoach Fleury, I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you and praying for you and your family.
MessageJen, Brian and Timmy Our thoughts and prayers are with you all of the time. If there is ever anything we can do to help please let us know. Jen, Kelly and Timmy will be in class together this year so don't hesitate to call me for anything. xoxo Elissa and Shane and Kelly Michaela
MessageDear Brian, We think of you and your beautiful family every day. Pull through this. We're looking forward to seeing you at the Delbarton games this fall. Love to you, Jen and Timmy Steve, Julia, Matt, Jack and Ben
MessageJust read your recent message and sorry to read the latest. You are in our prayers as always. With Gods help and our thoughts, prayers and your strength you will see this through. With much love. Patty & Aunt Theresa
MessageDear Brian and Jen: We hope and pray that all turns out well for Brian. We think about you all the time and hope you come back to Delbarton soon. Freshman soccer finished its first week of tryouts and all went well. A lot of people here at Delbarton are pulling for you Brian. Hang in there. John, Julie, and Mackenzie Thompson
MessageWhen you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. - Franklin D. Roosevelt You are in our thoughts Bubba, give 'em hell...
MessageDear Brian and Jen: We think of you often and we are praying for your recovery.
MessageBrian, You continue to fight with all that you have as I and everyone in the community continue to pray for your recovery. May the love of your family and friends give you strength to fight this battle. God Bless you Jen and Tim Love, Eileen
MessageCoach, I'm so sorry to hear about the recent news..my thoughts and prayers are with you everyday. I know you can do this so just hang in there and I'll talk to you soon. Love, Darren
MessageDear Brian, You are never far from the thoughts and prayers of the friends and family who love you, Jenn and Timmy.We hope those prayers will help sustain you and give you strength. God bless you.
MessageHi Brian and Jenn, This is Michael Denning. I heard from Brian Day that things are not going well. I am sorry. I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. Good luck and Godspeed. As ever, Michael
MessageYou know we are praying our hearts out and holding our breath in the hopes that you will be home with you family once again. No one has the love of the whole community quite like you do, Brian, and everyone is with you. Love, Shelly
MessageCoach, Andrew, Haley, Matt, Maureen and I are all praying for you as hard as we can. Our prayers are also for Jen and Timmy.We look forward to seeing you soon and we know we will, as God has plenty of work for you to do yet with these boys. Drew Kastner
MessageDear Brian, Every day we pause and think of you; saying a prayer...sending healing energy and ongoing courage and endurance your way. So far it sounds like the news has been good; hopefully that will continue. Jen, we can only imagine how agonizing this has been for you; and both of you concerned for Tim ("Little Slugger"). We have confidence you are handling all this in the same way you always have...one day at a time + positive attitude. Know that we keep up through Matt & Kathleen & continue to send daily thoughts & prayers. Love, Debbie & Tim Sigrist Rochester, NY
MessageHi Brian, Jill has been keeping us posted on your recent roadblock (she really is a good egg). But you know that when you hit a roadblock you just take a detour, no matter how far out of the way it takes you. It will still get you where you are going eventually. So you just keep plugging away knowing that you have all of the support that you will ever need from the countless people who love you and pray for you every day. You know what they say...You get what you pray for. We are all praying for your quick recovery. We love you!!!Love; Jen, Mike, Nicole, Ryan and Sarah.
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MessageHey Coach, I'm getting ready to leave for college soon, and started going through all my old Delbarton gear, and started thinking back on my progression as a Delbarton student-athlete. I then remembered how the day after a JV game I played in, you came up to me and told me that you had watched me play and liked what you saw. I recall you saying "Work hard because you'll be alright". Those words of encouragement meant so much to me coming from the Athletic Director of the school, that I truly believed that if I worked hard I could do well in football. So thank you for those words, because they helped me believe in myself and my capabilities. God Bless. Z
MessageDear Brian and Jen: Jen's words on the website that Brian is hanging in there and turning the corner are music to our ears. We pray for Brian every day. I have told his story to my freshman soccer team here at Delbarton. We know he can overcome this. We are all pulling for him. All our best to you both and let us know if there is ever anything we can do. YOu both inspire all of us. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie Thompson
MessageHey Coach, Want you to know that we continue to pray for you and your family every day. Your strength and conviction are an inspiration to all of us and will continue to be. Keep the faith and know that we are all behind you every step of the way in our thoughts and prayers. Michael & Chris Del Mauro
MessageCoach Fleury, We've had you in our prayers all summer. You are an inspiration to everyone who has had the opportunity to know you. Stay strong and our best to your family. The McLaughlin Family
MessageDear Brian and Jen: I hope all is well and that Brian continues to improve and recover. Our thoughts and prayers are with you guys. We are doing great and enjoying what is left of the summer. Mackenzie is having a ball and loves to go over to Delbarton with her Dad. Frosh soccer is going well and we make final cuts on Wednesday and scrimmage Ramapo on THursday. Varsity soccer had a great scrimage with Shawnee yesterday. We need you back Brian to run the ship. You are the man. Hang in there Brian and Jen. Let us know if there is anything that we can do to help out. We are right around the corner. Hope all is well. John, Julie, and Mackenzie Thompson
MessageBrian- I was just recently asking Paul Persson if he's heard any news on you & he directed me to your site via Delbarton. I must say reading your postings was both quiet emotional and uplifting. I am amazed and applaude your strength and postive outlook as you continue to endured so much. My mom is a cancer survivor and always said that the two things that pulled her through were the love that surrounded her and her "give em' hell" attitude. I believe you possess both! Keep up the good fight and I will remember you in my prayers. Laura
MessageHey Brian.... Wanted to let you know that we are all praying and pulling for you, Jen and Timmy. Your continual strength ceases to amaze me, and I know it will get you through once again. We love you and you are in our thoughts every day! Love, Beth, Kevin, Christina and Shana
MessageGood Morning Fleury Family! Stay strong! Keep fighting! We are rooting for you every step (and baby step) of the way. As always, if there is ANYTHING you need or want -- you know where to find us. The entire Fleury clan remain in our thoughts and prayers. Miss you! Love, The Eschmann's (is Timmy ready for M & M's yet?!??!)
MessageHi Brian, It has been a long time since we last spoke but I wanted you to know that I am praying for you and I am really inspired by your willingness to fight and overcome. Continue to stay positive!!! Love, Mike
MessageBrian, We are all thinking of you, wishing strength and energy. Keep turning that corner! Love, The Bicknese family
MessageGet well soon Coach! We are all thinking of you back on campus... I'll quietly support your yellow jackets for you when I am out at ND this weekend...at least until they start whooping up on us, then Ill have to switch back to my blue and gold!! much love, colin
MessageJen, I am DyAnne's mother-in-law and just wanted you to know that Brian, you and your son are in my thoughts and prayers every day. I am so happy that Brian has kind of "turned the corner". I was so worried last week when Kim told me that Kev and Dy had gone to NJ. You and Brian have fought this fight for a long time and I respect and applaud your fight. Please know that you will continue to be in my prayers and, I will continue to look at your website for the latest news (I look at it every day). God Bless you all, Val Going ps, please do not feel as if you have to answer this. You have enough to do already.
MessageBrian......you, Jen and Tim are always in my thoughts and prayers....I wish you the best and know that you'll win out....hang tough!!!! Peter
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, Keep on fighting hard. . .I'm looking forward to reading about your recovery. All the best, love, Kevin
MessageBrian, Jen, and Tim, You are all in our prayers. Tim Earner
MessageBRIAN: OFTEN HAVE THOUGHT OF SOME OF YOUR WORDS FROM THE BASEBALL BANQUET. IN PARTICULAR WHEN YOU ARE GIVEN SOMETHING DIFFICULT IN LIFE , YOU HAVE TO "GO THROUGH IT"...............WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY TO HAVE THE CONTINUED STRENGTH TO GO THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME.THE PRIOR FAMILY.......KAREN, TOM, KEVIN AND BRENDAN
MessageDear Brian & Jen, Thanks for the update. I hope today finds you feeling better than yesterday. I'm beginning my 4th year at Teachers College and have set up shop in the library working on the proposal to my dissertation. I've managed to keep tabs on former Green Wave faculty too (Kover getting his Ph.D. from Berkeley; Ciancia engaged; Deferia to Vegas...as a chef but I tell most people it's a dancing gig) I'm keeping the whole Fleury family in my thoughts and daily prayers. You're surrounded by family and friends who are in your corner cheering you on and anxiously awaiting your return home. Even out of the classroom you manage to teach us something. Cut down....you know the rest. All the best, Matt
MessageHey Brian, Jen and Tim.. This is Ryan Murray, Kevin's son, and I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Jen and Tim - I don't know if Brian ever told you this story, but back when I was playing baseball, I wore the number 18. I wore it because that is the number that my idol wore. When I asked him if I could wear it and he said yes, I can't tell you the feeling of honor and pride that gave me. It still gives me that same feeling today. It was the number that Brian wore. It's kind of funny how things come in circles too, with my other idol, my father, being the AD at Morris Catholic. He couldn't have chosen a better mentor than you, Brian. You have been my idol since I've been young Brian and you continue to be to this day. I am expecting a baby in the next few weeks and I can only hope to be half the father, husband and idol that you are. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and I love you all, Ryan
MessageJust think of the gvh as the toughest team Delbarton, with you at the helm, ever beat. As always, you are in our prayers Albert, Peter and Maryanne Striano
MessagePlease convey to Brian that he remains in our thoughts and prayers and that we check this site daily to monitor his ongoing and extraordinarily courageous battle. If a donation of blood or platelets will help the cause, let us know where and when to go and I am sure the hospital will be flooded with as much as they can handle.
MessageCoach, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. -Neil
MessageCoach Fleury, I've kept your writing guide with me (the same copy paperback) since my freshman year of high school. I've had it for almost 8 years. I don't necessarily keep it to use as a guide, but it reminds me of all that Delbarton has been and is to me. I spent 4 of the best years of my life there and I know that at least the other 100 or so in my graduating class can say the same exact thing. You and all of the other teachers and administration made what we called home. I'm praying for you and I hope you feel better soon. Go Green Wave! Yours truly, Brendan Gorman
MessageBrian, You and your family are in the prayers of my family, as well as those of the Caldwell Chiefs. Rich
MessageBrian, Love ya. Keep fighting and get well. Looking forward to seeing you soon at meetings. Prayers are with you. RSF
MessageBrian I wish you a speedy recovery. You are in my prayers. Please do not hesitate to call on me if you need any assistance. Nick
MessageCoach Fleury, I hope you have a quick and safe recovery. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Best of Luck. Succisa Virescit
MessageHi Brian. Just wanted you to know that we are thinking about you and that you are in our prayers. If there is anything we can do please let us know. Best wishes, Pete, Jane and Laramie Lang
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you and your family and praying every day that you stay strong, as I know you will. Lots of love, Jim
MessageBrian, We are praying for you every step of the way. We hope you can go home soon. Sending hugs to you, Jen and Timmy. Your guest book reveals amazing friends and family, and is so indicative of your character and strength. Stay strong. Always in our thoughts... All our love, Beth, Jamie, Gavin, Ryan & Sadie Bell
MessageHey Coach we will always keep you in our prayers. Keep fighting, you are an inspiration and model for us all. Hope to see you over Thanksgiving. Matt Bazin
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, We thank you for letting us know of your progress thru this time of concern. The Fleury family is very much in our thoughts and prayers. Stay strong and get well! All our best! Tom, Karen, Brendan and Jon
Message“The superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions” Confucius Coach- I thought this quote was emblematic of you and your position as a teacher, coach, and administrator at Delbarton. You instilled us with a never-say-quit attitude and a concept of servant leadership that I will forever carry with me. Delbarton stands with you and we are all praying for you, Mrs. Fleury and Timmy. God bless and God speed. –Michael Campbell
MessageCoach Fleury, I recently heard that you have been readmitted to the hospital. I just wanted to let you know that you will be in my prayers as you continue your treatment. Good luck and God bless. Mike
MessageBrian, The PCTI community has you and your family in our prayers. We look forward to seeing soon back at the helm of the Delbarton Athletic Department. Best wishes, Sharon Hughes & Coaching Staff
MessageCoach, I recently heard became aware of your pending stay in the hospital. I could try to say a million things but i truely believe that you will come out of this stronger than you were before. Your are an inspiration to every person you come in contact with. My thoughts prayers are with you and your family. Doug
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, Haven't checked in for a while and wanted to let you know I'm still thinking of ya. All I can do is hope that you're handling it with the grace you always have. Best wishes, Pat
MessageBrian You and your family are in my prayers. God bless Dave Curtin
MessageBrian You and your family are in my prayers. God bless Dave Curtin
MessageBrian, I ran my heart out for you this morning; hoping that you can draw strength from the many of us who have you on our minds. As I was running simple words came into my mind. Words that you have likely heard from many of your coaches over the years and words that I am sure you have exclaimed to many of your own players. Words so simple maybe only an athlete or a coach can really understand their meaning and power... "Come on baby! Come on..." I will see you back on campus soon. Kevin
MessageBrian: Keep fighting - we are praying for you!!! Love, Kevin, Dina, Holly, Tommy, and Claire
MessageThe grace and strength of all the Fleury's continues to amaze us all. We continue to send prayers and love. God Bless you all.
MessageDear Brian and Jen: Hope this message finds you in good spirits and in good health. We are pulling for you guys and miss you here at Delbarton School. Jen's updates on Brian's condition are very helpful for everyone. We made final cuts for Freshman soccer yesterday. Everyone made it. They all earned it and there were only 25 guys out there. Numbers are down a bit but the boys that did come out are outstanding young men. We should have a good team this year but only time will tell. I got an e-mail from Rik Dugan and he is going to be teaching American History as part of his duties at Far Hills. Good to hear from him. I didn't get to see George Parros when he came to Delbarton with the Stanley Cup as we had practice at that time. He played Frosh soccer for me back in the day and was a pretty big kid then as well. We scrimmage Ramapo today as part of the amazing schedule that Coach Fleury lined up for us once again this year. I am eager to start playing other teams after we have beaten up on each other for awhile. Football coaches sound optimistic about this year's team and varsity soccer beat up on Shawnee in their first scrimmage. I spoke to the new teachers today at their orientation and they are a good group, I think seven or eight in all. Three of them are new history teachers so I have my work cut out for me but they are all great candidates. Well, got to work on my curriculum for the upcoming school year. If you guys need anything please let us know. We are right around the corner and could certainly help with house or Timmy. We are pulling for Brian and are inspired by you both. Take care. J.T, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageCoach ~ Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Everyone at Delbarton is pulling for you! Faith makes things possible, not easy and we have faith that you'll get through this challenge. The Foley Family
MessageWow! Prayers and more prayers. Your strength and wonderful doctors, we are so thankful for. It is so good to get the updates on how you are doing even though it is a trying time. Thanks to you and whoever. Stay strong do it all and we are rooting for you all the way. I am sure you have a good gang up in heaven looking down and praying also. Our thoughts and love to Jen and Timmy, your Mom and Dad and the rest of the family they are in our prayers also. Much thought and love Patty and Aunt Theresa. GO YANKEES HOPE THEY ARE YOUR TEAM TO.
MessageHey Brian- I was so happy to read your most recent message. Glad to hear things have stabilized and you are feeling stronger. I can't even imagine the roller coaster you have been on. I look forward to seeing you back at school and wish you all the best. Keep it going! Sally
MessageBrian, Just want you to know we are thinking of you and praying for you. Everyone at SHP sends you their best Brian. Joe Walsh
MessageBrian, I have been following the webpage and wanted you to know that you and Jen are in the Twomey family's thoughts and prayers. Alyce and I have moved to Chapel Hill NC (she is from here and her parents are in a continuing care facility nearby). John has returned to W and L for his Sophomore year. He loves it. I am happy that you are stable now. I remember sitting next to your Dad at a Delbarton golf outing and letting him know that you are one of my heroes!! And still are. God bless. Sean
MessageStay strong all of you----you are in our prayers.
MessageBrain, wow. What great news to read that you are feeling better. We all are been praying for you to return home asap. All of our love, The Linns.
MessageBrian--I haven't checked on your website for awhile. Am glad I did so you know we are among the list of those who are keeping you in their prayers. I have a friend who has been having faresis treatments for some time now. The treatments have given her the energy to continue her daily routine. As you can see by the responses on your website, you are admired by anyone who has crossed paths with you over the years. Hope you are home with your family soon. Frank & Evelyne Giannantonio
MessageBrian: We are so grateful for yesterday's news. You are amazing! The collective power of prayers from your "family" is at work as well, I suspect. God bless all three of you and we hope to see you soon. Keep it up! John and Anne
MessageDear Brian, You may not know our family; but, we live across the street from your parents. When we don't see your mom out walking every day, we know that something big is happening! You have many people on Hickory Dr. keeping a watch on your website! We are amazed and thankful that you are recovering. We will continue to pray for you, and especially for your friend's family. --Marybeth Soutar
MessageYour family is in my thoughts and prayers! Glad I have the priviledge to be Timmy's first grade teacher this year!
MessageIt has been many years since we jumped(along with Jill, Carrie was tooo little) on your grandparents bed at Thanksiving!!! fifteen years ago my dad beat this nasty disease, it was tough, it was hard, but it happened. I lived in Boston for 25 years, it has nothing to offer but the best. I am sure that your treatment has been that. You have always been in my thoughts and always will be............... GO RED SOX !!!!!!!!!! Love your cuz, Lisa OH! YOU HAD BETTER NOT BE A YANKEE FAN!!!!!!
MessageHello Brian-I hope this note finds you feeling better! You and your family continue to remain in our thoughts and prayers-and, always remember GOD IS GOOD!
MessageDear Brian, I have been following your news for a very long time. I am Erica's mother, and you know the tidal wave of grief we are feeing at her loss. She always knew you really understood and was very grateful for your friendship. I so hope you continue on an upward course. There is so much I would like to say, but sending love and care is enough for now. Polly Leshan. PS Erica's dad hired Robynne Murray(Graffam) to teach at GA and she has become our good friend.
MessageBrian: Thanks for the message and the good news. I'd like to think that in the years ahead you'll look back on the past few weeks as the point at which the cure really started to happen. If that which doesn't kill us really does make us stronger, you'll emerge from this episode with the strength to overcome the GvH and finally conquer the underlying desease. Keep up the good fight. gcg
MessageHey Brian Just want to wish u the best and hope to see you soon. and my nephew Dean said to keep on fighting as hard as can
MessageBrian, saw your parents at Friendly's tonight...quite a coincidence since we don't make it to MP very much lately and I happened to be thinking of you when I looked up and spotted your dad. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you, Jen and Timmy. Stay strong, if anyone can beat GvH, we know you can. Dana
MessageDear Brian, My son-in-law Scott McIntyre played at Tech in the 90's. He sent me your website this morning. How loved and respected you are and such a blessing to the young people at your school. I will pray for God's healing and continued strength for you and your family. In His Name, Gail Keckler
MessageSo glad to hear of your improvement and upgrade to stable condition. We are so sorry for the loss of your friend and will pray for Erika and her family. Please be strong and keep fighting and always know that we are praying and pulling for you and your family and care a great deal about you. We really look forward to seeing you back at Delbarton and the ice rink :) Love and prayers, The Pilanski Family
MessageSo glad to hear of your improvement and upgrade to stable condition. We are so sorry for the loss of your friend and will pray for Erika and her family. Please be strong and keep fighting and always know that we are praying and pulling for you and your family and care a great deal about you. We really look forward to seeing you back at Delbarton and the ice rink :) Love and prayers, The Pilanski Family
MessageCoach, Glad to see your post,have kept all of your friends and family in my prayers. I have plagurized a line from a nice woman who walks alot around MP. When i am not talking I am praying, and mainly for you, Jen and Timmy ( tell Tim I include the dogs in my prayers too !) Stay strong, and don't set off any fire alarms. Esch
MessageBrian- We wish you the very best and send prayers and good wishes for your recovery. God bless-- The Gulick Family
Messageyou didn't have to go to such extremes to get Kevin to cancel that stupid party--next time just call him and tell him its a bad idea, ok? Love you. Dy
MessageDear Brian ~ Just heard about your recent struggles and wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and praying for your recovery. Continue to be strong. With love and best wishes to you, Jenn and Timmy ~ LuAnne, George and Tony
MessageCoach Fleury, we're all glad to hear you're getting better, I knew you would. Keep it up I'll be waiting to see you back at school! Tom
MessageBrian, Welcome home...keep getting stronger! You continue to be in our nightly special "God Blesses". Our best to Jen. Timmy,Good luck in 1st grade and enjoy every minute. Phil,Marge,Brennan and Jack
MessageBrian! How good to read your message!!! You sound wonderful. St. Jude, the patron of difficult cases, has never let me down. You are in my prayers to him-and I recently reminded him that he needed to help you-quick! Say hello to your parents for us-we think of them so often!
MessageBRIAN,JEN,AND TIM: THAT IS WONDERFUL!!! I HOPE KENT MANNO DOESN'T THINK HE IS THE KING OF THE SUMMER PROGRAMS! TIM EARNER
MessageHi Brian and family- I just read your update and am so glad to hear that you are home!! Keep up the good work! Hope that Timmy's 1st day went well - he must have been thrilled to have you home for his big day! We will keep you in our prayers. Marianne
MessageCoach: I am happy to hear you are home from your latest battle. I was getting updates from Jay Kolmar and Mike O'Donnell when I heard of the news. Your strength & spirit as a human being goes beyond words, I am always thinking of you when someone complains of having a minor problem whether at work or just in their day to day activities, I tell them I know of someone that battles a disease everyday and never gives up, and that he fights this disease for his family at home and at delbarton. I am glad you are home for the opening of the Waves football season tomorrow at Giant Stadium, I am hoping your spirit carrys over to the team and the football field. We are always praying for you and your family. Keep the spirit and always know with the Delbarton family behind you ever step of the way, you will beat this battle once and for all. See you soon Best Rich Conforti
MessageBrian, Glad to hear that you are home! You continue to be in the Zucker family's prayers. I'll connect with Heidi at school put PLEASE tell her that she can lean on me for any work that the Athletic Office needs to keep the fall sports running smoothly while you are recuperating. I'm glad to hear that you were home for your son's first day of school -- I still remember Matt's first day of 1st grade very well. Best Regards, Bill Zucker
MessageYou made our day with your wonderful news. Continue your good work and know we are praying for you and your doctors. Also prayers for your Angel of Mercy and Good Luck to Timmy's first year. It is all so exciting (if that is the word to use)and will keep you in the fight. You can look forward to his stories every day. Enjoy and continued success with your treatments. I print out your news and bring it to Aunt Theresa as she is most interested and caring as to how your are doing. She said she reads them over and over. Our love and prayers to you Jen and Timmy, Patty and Aunt Theresa
MessageBrian, So happy to hear that you are home. You are remarkable! With Jen, Timmy, and your family at your side, you are a great team. Keep up the good work. We'll stay tuned for your progress reports. Best to all, The Bonannos
MessageHey Fleurys ! Its your dog lady - just wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I want to call, but know just how busy you are, as I am in constant contact with Kelli. Please know I miss you, and I miss my good friends Bubba and Champ !!! Keep up the good work getting better Brian, we are all in your corner !God Bless You !! XXOO
MessageHi Brian, Jenn and Timmy - I have known your Mom for years, as she was at Dr. Bippart's office when I was having my daughters. I had a BMT back in 1994 at Johns Hopkins for CML. My sister, Kim, is the florist at ShopRite and sees your mom quite frequently gets updates. I think you also know my brother, Keith DePugh. Anyway, I just wanted to let you know how thrilled we all are that you are home again. You are the most courageous and inspiring man that I know of. We pray for you every night (including my 4 yr old nephew - who has a stuffed puppy from your mom that he calls "Shirley") and we wish you the best. May God bless you and your family and may He continue to bless the rest of us with the gift of having you here to inspire us all!!! ~ Maureen
MessageCoach Fleury, my family and I are so glad to hear that you are back at home! I hope to see you in school again soon! You are always in our prayers. ~TJ
MessageBrian I have been reading your site since it was originally posted. I was two years behind you at MHS. You often called Meg because you thought I looked like Meg Tilly. I thought it was pretty funny until one day I thought my picture was in People magazine. It wasn't me, it was Meg Tilly. Then a couple of other people told me that very same thing. It always made me think of you, at the ballpark, calling me Meg. I wanted to let you and the community that supports you know that I am walking in your honor at this Friday's Light the Night walk in Kansas City. If anyone would like to donate please visit my page at http://www.active.com/donate/ltnShawne/jillducey You are an inspiration Brian. That and a good jokester. Much love and prayers to you and your family :)
MessageHi Brian, I worked with Jen in Chatham. My mom makes the sweet potato pies you like. I just wanted you to know I am praying for you and your family. Fran
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy: So happy to hear that Brian is home in his recliner. All of you are always in our prayers and our thoughts. The Carlucci boys miss seeing you at school. Alice, Michael, Matt and Will
MessageTo my friend, It has to be a hard road, but yet you continue to amaze us with great stamina, dilligence, respect and never ending love for anyone who stops to thin of you and your families' situation. I need to openly say I am a much better person for knowing you these last 2 and a half years at school. I can't thank you for what you have provided me and all of my family. Lastly ,get better , come home soon ! These things I pray for daily. John The Eschmann - Romano families
MessageOur prayers are with you, you are a remarkable person, and a miracle. We praying everynight for you! God Bless
MessageBrian.....great to see that you are home and got to see Tim on his first day of school....Zach, Austin, Harry and I think of you, Jen and Tim often...and please know that I offer up the 11AM Mass at Delbarton every sunday for you....you are an inspiration to all.....may God bless you, Jen and Tim.....and please say "hello" to Ed for me!!!! Peter
Messagekeep fighting coach, we're all here for you
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as well as my family's. Your speech at the baseball banquet in June was very inspiring and has stuck with me ever since. Can't wait to see you back in school again soon!
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as well as my family's. Your speech at the baseball banquet in June was very inspiring and has stuck with me ever since. Can't wait to see you back in school again soon!
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as well as my family's. Your speech at the baseball banquet in June was very inspiring and has stuck with me ever since. Can't wait to see you back in school again soon!
MessageHey Coach Fleury, I just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as well as my family's. Your speech at the baseball banquet in June was very inspiring and has stuck with me ever since. Can't wait to see you back in school again soon!
MessageHi Brian & Jen; Just wanted to let you know that you're constantly in my prayers, and that I'm offering up "Hail Marys" to the Blessed Mother every chance I get! Tonight was Back to School night at VillaW & all the parents there are praying for you too. Sincerely,Claire Preston (Geoff- '09, Haley '11)
MessageCoach Fleury, I have been thinking of what to write to you for quite a while now, and I figured Im gonna say what I feel is right. Coach, ever since I was introduced to you by my brother, Erik, I knew you were a dedicated man, not just to baseball, but to life. Coach Fleury, you have lived up to the motto "succisa virescit" and you have been an influence on my life since that first day I met you. Coach, I wish you, Mrs. Fleury and Timmy the best of luck in your recovery and you are in my thoughts and prayers every day and night. Good luck with every thing coach.
MessageBrian, You are in my thoughts and in my prayers. -Elizabeth
MessageBrian, Jenn & Timmy - You are the toughest team we've ever known and our admiration for the way you manage all adversity knows no bounds. God already knows how special you are, but we keep reminding him anyway! Constant thoughts and prayers are with all of you. xoxox Mollie
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy- You are in our thoughts and we are praying for you! The Hoey Family
MessageBrian,Jen and Timmy, Not a moment in my day is without my thoughts and prayers for all of you.Anne
MessageBrian, Hang in there, I hope you're feeling stronger. My brother, Jeff Hall(he played ball with you)sends his best. I am familiar with the photopheresis process you are undergoing. My father, Ed Hall went to Morristown for years for the same treatment. He also raved about how great the people there were. The treatment was successful for him and hopefully will be for you as well. Looking forward to seeing you back in action soon. Love, The Fischer Family...Adam, Lesley,Adam, Kyle and Chad
MessageBrian, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless, Katie
MessageHi Brian, Jen & Timmy, Brian, I'm a former MHS classmate of your Mom & Dad's.I saw your Mom & Dad at our class reunion about 18 months ago & when I asked about your Mom told me about your website & I've been following your updates. I'm so sorry to hear about your recent set back. I just want to let you know that you, Jen & Timmy are in my prayers and have been for some time. I've also email another classmate, Mary Martin, who lives in CA and asked her to put you on on prayer list. God Bless, Love Nancy (Griffith) Huber
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, Our constant thoughts and prayers are with you. All our love, Beth and Jamie Bell
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MessageBrian, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Delbarton is not the same without you in the athletic office. I, the other coaches, and the rest of the cross country team will be thinking of you tomorrow as we open the invitational season in Somers, NY. Stay strong! Andrew
MessageBRIAN,JEN, AND TIM; YOU ALL CONTINUE TO BE IN OUR PRAYERS. WHEN DEALING WITH AN ILLNESS SOMETIMES IT'S TWO STEPS FORWARD AN ONE STEP BACKWARD. ALTHOUGH THERE ARE SETBACKS WE EVENTUALLLY MOVE FORWARD AGAIN. TIM EARNER
MessageDear Brian, The Weinstein family thinks about you, Jen and Timmy daily and we pray for your full recovery. Please know that we're here for you if you need anything. I know you'll beat this beast. Stay strong. Love Janis
MessageBrian, You and your family are in our prayers. May God give you the strenghth to overcome, as you always seem to. My father received photopheresis treatment at Morristown a few years back. He raved about how great the doctors and assistants were there. The treatment was effective for him, and I hope it kicks in for you as well. Hang in there. Love, the Fischer Family
MessageHi Brian, You are in my thoughts and prayers as you continue this fight. May God bless you, Jen and Timmy. Love, Pat Crapo
MessageBrian, I am sure you don't know me from Adam but I am or at least had been very connected with your family. I went to school with both your Mom and Dad from K - 12 and had a terrible crush on your mom just like most of the other guys in our class. Your dad and his mom used to have me over for lunch on many a school day where your grandmother would take my cold lunch sandwiches and warm them up and supply me with some goodies to drink and some great cookies or cake for a follow-up. If your anything like the rest of your family, your a tough guy who is going to come through everything with flying colors. I wish you and your family all the best and just get back to it as soon as you can. All my prayers and good thoughts are with you and your family. Richard Cohen
MessageMr. Fleury, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hope you are feeling better soon. The Massey Family
MessageBrian you are in our prayers. I went to school MHS '60 with your parents. I haven't seen them since graduating but remember them well. So prayers to you from San Diego and my friend Michalyn in Florida is putting you on a huge prayer chain. God bless, Mary
MessageHi Brian -- You are such an inspiration to all who know you. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. The Bowdens - Casey '95, Troy '01, Kelly, Roe & Bruce
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MessageDear Brian, Jen, Timmy and all your families, we wanted you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers every day. God Bless you all, love from the Longs
MessageDear Brian, Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. I went all through school with your parents, and they are to be commended for raising such a courageous son. I am now living in Deleware and this site was sent to me from a former MHS classmate. God Bless.
MessageBrian, You have been and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers daily. Keep fighting! Tom Cunningham
MessageBrian, I just learned of your web page through a high school friend who lives in California. I went to High School and graduated with your parents. I just want you to know how much I admire you and your family for your courage and dedication in this fight. I will be praying to St. Jude for your speedy recovery. You and your family will be in my prayers.
MessageHi Jen and Brian, I work with your Aunt Barb, who absolutely adores you guys and Timmy. I just wanted to let you know that you are thought of and in my family's prayers continually. My 9 year old son also has his class bowing their heads and praying for you every morning at prayer time! You both continue to amaze me with your strength! Your love for each other is amazing and will carry you through this!
MessageCoach Fleury, We're continuing to pray for you and are looking forward to seeing you leave the battlefield and return to the ballfield
MessageCoach, IM thinking and praying for you a lot. I hope your feeling better and i hope Timmy had a good first few days in 1st grade. Keep fighting and getting better! Greg Sherry
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, You are in our constant thoughts and prayers. We miss you (Bubba and Champ too!) All our love, The Von Heill's
MessageCoach Fleury, Keep on fighting! We are all thinking about you back at school. God bless! much love, Colin Dono ps-your yellow jackets whooped us up pretty good...congrats!
MessageBrian, my family and I continue to pray for you and your family - you all inspire us more than you know.
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, So many of our thoughts and our prayers are with you.
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, So many of our thoughts and our prayers are with you.
MessageCoach Fleury, My prayers are with you and your family as you fight through another difficult time in your life. I am hoping and praying for nothing but the best.Ryan Bell
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy, You are all so courageous and strong. We think and pray for you often. Our best wishes, The Bayer's
Messagebrian and jen, just wanted you to know that we are always thinking of you, and saying our prayers for your good health and comfort.each new day, may you find new peace, comfort and healing as you fight and your doctors search.your spirit is an amazing witness for all of us, and may it keep you strong. please know our gratitude for your time with kevin during season and we so look forward to more of the same for us and him.he holds you in the highest regard and has viewed you as one of his personal heroes, someone he would like to emulate. thank you for the gift of you to him. fondly, deirdre, peter and kevin
MessageBrian, Even though I don't make it back to Delbarton as much as I would like, I've always had updates on the amazing ways you've been a part of the school and the community from my mom and other folks there. You have been an inspiration from afar for me and I wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Dan O'Malley '96
MessageCoach, Jen and Timmy We wanted to let you know our thoughts and prayers continue to remain with you during this time. Keep fighting and God Bless. Love, The Hager Family
MessageBrian - you and your family are in my prayers. Keep fighting. Lots of people from all parts of your life are pulling for you. -Kim
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I know you haven't had the chance to get to know our triplets Max, Jack and Ryan yet because they're just 8th graders this year, but we want you to know that we will be praying for your recovery tonight and every night going forward. Sincerely, Pat and Rick Rogers (parents of Max, Jack and Ryan Rogers 2012)
MessageDear Brian and Jen: We are thinking of you both and want you to know that you are in our prayers. Delbarton had a beautiful prayer service for Brian today and you could feel the entire community pulling for Brian at that one moment. I still walk by the AD's office and look inside to see if Brian is at his desk. I hope and pray that Brian returns to us all at Delbarton to continue his work there and that he can come home to his son Timmy. You have inspired us all. Brother Paul spoke of your courageous fight at the prayer service today. But you are more than your fight against the disease. You are a man we all respect for what you stand for and for what you have accomplished in life and how you have helped shape Delbarton and its community into what it is today. We pray for you Brian. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie
MessageDear Brian, Jen and family- Please keep fighting and know that you have the love and support of more people than you could imagine. It is truly amazing reading through some of the messages... You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday. We are hoping and praying for some good news soon. Take care and God bless- Marianne and family
MessageBrian - Keep fighting Bubba! No one fights like you do! My mom has been keeping me posted, and thanks too for keeping us potsed on the web page. I've been thinking about you a lot lately - and bragging about you to my sons a lot lately also. They only know the beginning of your legendary baseball career (I tell them how you would have been behind the plate for the Yanks, as good as Posada is...), what you've accomplished - and still accomplish - at Delbarton (Go Green Wave!), what a great father and husband you are, and our terrific friendship when we were their age (pre HS and HS age), and what a tremendous HERO (Bro Luke's words...) you are fighting this disease. We remain yours in prayer here in Chicago! Woody Go Yankees!
MessageMr. Fleury- I just wanted to let you know that my family and I have been praying for you and your recovery. Even though I haven't had a lot of personal contact with you, the effect that you have on Delbarton is unbelievable to me. At the prayer service at the church today, I could really tell how much you mean to everyone in the school. Know that everyone is thinking of you. Sincerely, Taylor '08, Bob, Gay, Tucker '10, and Jackson Doherty
MessageHey Mr. Fleury, Just wanted to let you know that we at Delbarton are thinking about you. Looking forward to seeing you back at school. Keep fighting, Tim French '08
MessageBrian This is the 1st time in (7) years that we have not had planning meetings for the Fall Golf Classic,I am gone from Delbarton and you are once again fighting the fight with every thing you have, I miss our get togethers and have an aching heart knowing the struggle that you face head on every day.... It was so touching to have your Dad share with me last week how you continue on a daily basis to make him feel so honored and proud to have you as his son..."Larry you would not believe the fight in Brian under real tough and painful conditions".... Brian....... I have been honored and proud to have worked so closely with you throughout my (8) years at Delbarton.....one of the highlights for me that I will cherish forever was our friendship and getting to know your lovely family, Jen and Timmy.... Love Always The Schillings Family Larry, Jean, Mark and Matty
MessageBrian, Jen and Timmy- You are in our thoughts and prayers! Mario,Lisa,Luca,Sophia and Marc Andreotti
MessageMr.Fleury, I just wanted to let you that our family keeps you in our prayers, although we haven't had the pleasure to meet you personally, as our son Jason '09 doesn't play baseball. I have a close friend and her brother is battling brain cancer at Dana Farber and her family recently participated in the Jimmy Fund walk as team nuero .Know that so many people are praying for you and your family . Sincerely ,Suzanne Seifert
MessageCoach, You are undoubtedly the strongest person I have ever met, one I will tell my children about and acknowledge in my thoughts daily. Keep fighting! - Dave
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, We are thinking of you. Know that you are in our prayers at all times. Whatever we can do we are only across the street. Love, Claire and Harold
MessageDear Mr. Fleury, I know you can get through this tough time. There is so much love and support for you and your family that I have no doubt you will be out there come spring, leading the latest Delbarton Varsity squad to county and state titles! I wish you all the health and happiness in the world. Sincerely, Casey Bowden '95
MessageStay strong both you and Jen. We pray for you and all of your family every day. You are truely remarkable people and I'm so glad we can keep in touch. With love--John and Sue and Joe and Kelley and Jim and Kelly
MessageCoach, Jen, and Timmy, We just want you to know we are thinking of all of you. You are in our prayers. Fondly, The Vittorio Family/Matthew '09
MessageMr. Fleury - I just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, and I am continually inspired by how hard you fight and the resolve with which you face the good and the bad. John Servidea '95
MessageHi Brian + family, I am thinking about you !
MessageBrian, You are an amazing person and an inspiration to us all. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers everyday. The McGrath Family (Seema, Kevin, Andrew, Connor, Sean and Brent)
MessageMr. Fleury, Best wishes and prayers go out to you and your family. My family is thinking of you as you continue to fight. Greg Brozowski '95
MessageBrian-- It's been so long. I've been thinking about you a lot lately. Like your son, my oldest child Jack just started first grade. I've been thinking about my own first grade experience. I remember our teacher, Mrs. Allgire. I remember being scared and apprehensive. I remember you sitting next to me, being really nice to me, and being my friend. You knew what it meant to be a kind, good person, even when you were only 6 years old. I wish you the best. Your strength and courage are awe-inspiring. Annie Rhee
MessageDear, Dear Brian, Jen and Timmy although the entries have been absent, of late, that by no means indicates that we do not pray for you all daily. The three of you are held tightly in the three of our prayers - your strength and courage are beyond conprehension May God bless you all every second of every day love, cindy, chip and timmy campbell
MessageHi Brian! I know you won't remember me, but we went to Borough together. I was a grade ahead and I don't think I ever spoke to you. But, I had such a crush on Bubba Fleury. Obviously I had good taste... because it appears you've grown into an amazing man with a wonderful family. My thoughts are with you all. Stay strong!
MessageDear Mr. Fleury upon even entering Delbarton I found you as an inspirational person at the Delbarton baseball camps back in 5th and 6th grade. Now a senior at Delbarton I appreciate even more what you have done for our school and I want to let you know that you can keep on fighting because we all believe and know at Delbarton that you can and will beat this. You will be in the prayers of my family and Delbarton. Sincerely Daniel Miggins
MessageBrian and Jen, Just wanting for you to know we're thinking about you and praying daily! Stay strong Brian! Love, The Mears'
MessageBrian and Jen Just know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. George and Karen Ross
MessageCoach, You're in my prayers. Keep up the fight! Talk soon, Kaager
MessageCoach ~ You and your family are in out thoughts and prayers. You are amazing! We look forward to seeing you back at Delbarton. The Foley Family Jane and Gene Kate, Ryan '09 and Patrick '11
MessageSending an army of prayers your way this evening and Friday night. Phillipians 4:13 You can do all things through Christ who gives you strength. claim that promise!! Debbie Bell
MessageBrian, I hope that his note gets to you. It has been so long since I have seen you but Mom and Dad have kept me updated on your battle. Eventhough I can't remeber the last time I did see you, I think of you often and I tell your story whenever I can. I credit you with being the person who taught me everything I know about catching. While I may not have had the ability to do the things to All Star levels, I can pass them on and coach others. I am doing that now with my son Jack, who is 7 and wants to catch. I am slowly teaching him everything you taught me. I am praying for you daily that God may continue to provide you with stength and that he will heal you. Joe Krauss
MessageBrian, You have influenced countless young men with your strength, faith, and good judgment. The boys of Delbarton need you! Keep fighting! Know that the five of us are praying for you, Sandy, Arnie, Chip, Sam and Betsy Peinado
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, We hope you're enjoying sunshine on this beautiful afternoon. We're thinking of you, as we so often do, and sending every good wish your way. Love to you all, Lindsay, Walter, Will and Bud
MessageDear Brian We just heard about you going back into the hospital. We wanted to send this little note to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you and your family. Bruce, Donna, BG, Damian and Sky Porter
MessageBrian, I don't see Mom and Dad since moving to Texas but Aunt Lois keeps me posted. I hope everything turns out like all the other times, you rally so well. Our prayers are with you and Jen. Keep the faith.
MessageDuring my time at Delbarton, i never got to know you but, after the community came together, i now feel like i do. I truly hope that you pull through, we have been praying for you. My family is with you and i hope that your journey towards recovery ends well. Best of luck.
MessageHi Coach, I continue to think of you daily and pray for your continued strength to fight this difficult disease. I always remember Mrs. Fleury and Timmy and am so happy that you have such a loving, devoted family to support you. I have been blessed with so many wonderful experiences that I attribute to my time at Delbarton - some of the greatest times of my life - and I always remember the great guidance and support you gave to me and all my brothers there. We are all behind you and your family now and will be every step of the way. Keep up the fight; I'm with you in genuine brotherhood - Michael Del Mauro
MessageDear Fleurys - What a beautiful family you have created. We are praying that angels carry you swiftly through this difficult time to recovery and light. With love and faith, nothing is impossible. Believe. Kim, David and Michael Persson
MessageBrian, We had the senior mass and brunch today. You would have been so proud to see the athletes in attendance today and the great example they set with their ties and (some) jackets for the event. They represented Delbarton and their families well. Abbott told me and Paul Sullivan that you text messaged him at 3:30AM yesterday to tell him that you had a good day. We all pray for manny more "good days" to come. Only 11 more years until your son's senior breakfast -- he'll be there ane so will you!!! You are in our prayers. On the Booster front - Heidi is doing a great job. I've got all the bills for the late summer and early fall so nothing is falling behind. Tom's planned the 1st booster meeting for 10/2. We will keep the Booster proggram on track in your absence so don't worry about anything on that front. Looking forward to your return! Regards & All the best, Bill Zucker
MessageJen and Brian, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. -Joanne, Meghan, Catherine, Jen and Melissa
MessageAs always -- the Fleury Family are in our thoughts and prayers. Get Well Soon!!!!
MessageThe love and prayers from all our family are with you, Brian; Steve, Dave, Leslie (your babysitter), Al, Mark,Bill and Ann Johnson We keep you and your family in our prayers constantly.
MessageBrian, Just a note to say i am thinking of you today and everyday. I hope today was a better day. Know that we continue to pray for your recovery and that you will keep fighting so you may be home soon with Jen and Tim. Jen, i just wanted to let you know that i think of you every day -- and just to remind you during this most difficult time that you are the strongest, most amazingly devoted wife/mother of anyone i've ever known. You, just like Brian, are an inspiration to us all. I hope that these words help strengthen your faith and give you hope that the love and devotion you have to each other will get you through the darkest of days. Hugs and loving thoughts to all of you, eileen
MessageThinking of you, coach, and I know my parents are too. We love you, miss you and hope for your recovery. Jonathan
MessageCoach Fleury: Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family each day. Your courage is an inspiration to all of us. We look forward to seeing you back at Delbarton and on the ballfield. Sincerely, The Kennedy's John, Helene, Elizabeth (Villa Walsh '04) Mike '08, Kevin '12
MessageMr. Fleury, Our family's prayers are with you. Frank, Dolores, Frank and Michael
MessageMr. Fleury- i just wanted to let you know that everyone is thinking about you and you are in our prayers. Mr. Thompson has told the freshman soccer team of how great of a man you are and how strong you are. Best Wishes. Brett
MessageI'm a freshman at Delbarton and although I don't personally know you, I have heard many great things about you. Mr. Thompson informed me of your many outstanding traits and i just wanted you to know that we are all pushing for you.
MessageBrian, I just learned of your web site from Lisa Fennessey. You have a very beautiful family and it seems like a whole lot of support from alot of people.I read good things about you in the paper and what an influence you are to so many young people at Delbarton.It seems that you have touched the lives of many. I have to say that you are one of the strongest people I know. You have fought this terrible disease for so long and with such grace, not giving into it,giving up, or complaining about what you are going through.Our prayers are with you and our hope of a quick recovery. God Bless Tom Allen
MessageHey Mr Fleury, it has been too long. You are so much more than a teacher to so many of us from Delbarton. You are an inspiration and a mentor, and a huge part of what makes the school so great. We are all praying for you and your family. Al
MessageI know you really don't know me well. I am your fathers cousin, Lorraine. My mother is Joan Miller-Allen. I wish while growing up, we were closer. I really would like to know the man I am now reading about. You have been such a positve role model in so many young lives. I hope you are well soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Lorraine Allen-Robinson
MessageDear Brian, You and your dear family are in our prayers. Patricia, Dan Catherine, Andrew, Thomas, Elizabeth,Daniel Flatley
MessageCoach Fleury, Fred Storz has been keeping me up to date on your progress. I know your strength and perserverance will see you through these difficult times. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless.
MessageJust dropping in to say hi!, you are on my mind and in my prayers. Heard you have been through quite a few tests so hope things are going good. Prayers for your family, doctors, nurses and the whole team keep fighting! Patty
MessageWhen I was typing you the email I just posted I got a Call from Jerry (Vigilante) Ryan asking for you and your family. Just to let you know we are all thinking of you. I told her I know what I see on the Website and what I hear when Aunt Theresa talks to your Mom. Patty
MessageKeeping you all in out thoughts and prayers. Hoping each day is filled with hope and love. Hang in there. We miss you. God Bless you all. The Nerbaks
MessageJen: Thanks so much for the update. We continue to pray for your amazing family every day and the news is encouraging. Tell Brian to hang in there and he will overcome yet another obstacle. God bless you all. John and Anne
MessageDear Brian, Your presence is very much missed on campus so please hurry back on your feet. Your in our thoughts and prayers, Hope to see you soon, The Guerrieri Family
MessageCoach Fleury, hang in there. I know what a great man you are and i know you will keep fighting. My prayers are with you and your family! EJ
MessageGOD BLESS ALL OF YOU!!
MessageSo happy to hear Brian is out of ICU and getting stronger every day! Our prayers are with all of you each and every day. The love and strength you pass on to Brian is awesome! Keep it up, Love from the Longs
MessageKeep fighting Brian. I know you can do it. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily, if not hourly. Hang in there. Joe
MessageBRIAN: SO GLAD TO HEAR THAT YOU ARE OUT OF THE ICU. WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU AS WELL AS TIMMY AND JEN! AS MENTIONED PREVIOUSLY, WE ALL THINK OF YOUR ENCOURAGING WORDS AND ADVICE OFTEN. YOU CONSTANTLY ARE THINKING OF OTHERS BEFORE YOURSELF. KNOW THAT NOW AND ALWAYS YOU ARE THOUGHT OF AND KEPT IN MANY PRAYERS. WITH LOVE, THE PRIOR FAMILY, TOM, KAREN, KEVIN AND BRENDAN
MessageBrian, Glad to read about your improvement. Keep fighting. I volunteer at RIMM every Friday afternoon. Hope to see you there. God bless, John Krauss
MessageDear Brian, Jen and Timmy, Please know that our family is holding your family in our thoughts and prayers each and every day. Jen you should be so proud of the difference that you have made in the attiude of your staff in such a short time! They are really stepping up to the plate (not a bad pun for a musician!) Just wanted you to know we are all here for you and glad to hear that Brian is improving. Take good care of each other, as I know you are. With love and friendship, Michele, Paul, David '00 and Rachel
MessageDear Fleury's - Just a quick note to let you know how much Tommy and I love you guys! It was wonderful to speak with Jen yesterday. Again, I am a 1 hour plane ride from NJ and can be there in a flash to help out with Timmy, the dogs or whatever! I will look forward to coming home and 'making pyramids' with you soon! I know Tom sends you many well wishes from his deployment! Brian - stay strong. We think about you and pray for you and your family everyday! With love, Dori
MessageDear Brian; Great news on your website!! Glad to hear you are doing better. We have been praying for you every day. I handle the bedtime routine with Mackenzie most nights and we always do our prayers and we always begin with a prayer for you. She is starting to get it now and it is really fun to watch. The update from Jen on your website is great to see!! We wish you continued success in your recovery. We know it has been a difficult time and we hope you are doing OK. Julie's grandmother sees your Mom at church and always asks about you. Things at Delbarton are good. Last week, as I am sure you heard, the collected amount of money on a dress down day for your foundation. Kids and faculty really came through. It was a great moment at Delbarton! My freshman soccer team is now 8-2 and doing well. We play Caldwell today. We beat Cranford on Tuesday, one of the many new games you got us this year. Varsity soccer is doing well. There is a county tournament for the Freshman and we were seeding 4th! But we will use that for extra incentive to prepare for the tournament. We already lost to the number one seed Mendham so we hope to avenge that one if we are lucky enough to meet them again in the semi finals. I hope you got a chance to watch all the baseball yesterday. Red Sox looking good. How many complete games do you see these days. Good for Francona for leaving Becket in there to finish it out in the 9th (unlike Swee Lou). Well, I got to get back to my class as my seniors are almost done with their discussion questions. I got e-mails from Jimmy Kilroy and Mike Kaag recently and it was great to hear from them. Jimmy is teaching and coaching! We wish you all the best Brian. Let us know if we can be of any help. We are right around the corner. We are all waiting for the day when you return to work here at Delbarton. Take care ace. JT, Julie, and Mackenzie!!
MessageBrian You and your family will be added to the daily Mass prayer list for the sick. God has a plan for you and your family. Use this recovery time to seek Him daily. My wife and I have been in a similar situation and the Lord will reveal His plan and give you and your family peace no matter what the outcome. May God continue to strengthen you and your family.
MessageBrian, Our prayers are with you and your family. Wes has been so happy to see you when he gets up to NJ. You're in our thoughts daily.
MessageDear Brian, Your courage and will truly inspires all of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. All of our love, Philip, Kathy, and the Boys
MessageCousin Brian, I wanted to take a moment to send my prayers to you and yours! My kids, wife and I are following you very closely, you are in our thoughts everyday. The photo album is great, it is so nice to see you and your family. I hope to someday get our two family's together to meet and talk a little baseball. Our Love, Tom, Tami, Dayne and Tatum Vigilante
MessageDear Brian, I went to school with your fantastic parents and heard about your struggle from another MHS alumnus. I just wanted to send some prayers and good wishes to you and your family and wish you well. Fondly, Lee
MessageHi Brian, I hope you are doing well and my thoughts and prayers are always with you and your family. I hear about you from a guy on my train, his name is Mike (not sure of his last name but his Father works for you and I think you had him hired) and this summer I spend some with with your Sister Jill at the pool and Mike Glenn. I hope all is well and you are getting stronger everyday. Laurie Swiech
MessageThis is my Mom's e-mail address if you ever wanted to chat with her about what she is also going through. My mom has a very rare form of T cell Lymphonqa - why does stuff like this always happen to great, warm, caring people. I am completely stumpted. Talk to you soon Brian.
MessageHey Brian- I am so glad to hear you are doing better. I enjoyed seeing Timmy and Jen at Mennen Arena a few weeks ago. Watching him zoom around the ice with the Fleury jersey on warmed my heart. All is well here, but we miss you and look forward to seeing you soon. Best wishes, Sally
Messagehey brian and jen - just wanted to let you know you remain in my prayers every day. Jen - it was so great to catch up with you the other day - we have so much fun together (dangerous shoppers!). Anyway- it is always great to see you and pick up where we left off the last time:) Timmy is seriously too cute and got the best of both you and brian. we'll have to try to get to the beach again or something with the kids....Both of you take care and know that you are always just a thought away love you - jamie
MessageHi Coach Fleury Before we played St. Benedict's this year in soccer, the starting 11 did our normal gathering to pray before the game, and the one thing we made clear was that we were going to win the game for you. We said "we're doing this for Mr. Fleury. Not the coaches, not the fans, not for us. This game is for Mr. Fleury." So we won 3-0 and gave St. Benedict's their worst loss ever. You're in our thoughts and prayers everyday. Take care. Carpe diem. Will
MessageDear Brian: Tom and I were dismayed to learn that you have been back in the hospital. We were at Homecoming this weekend and missed seeing you. But, please know that extra prayers are being sent to you from Tom and me and we will continue to do so every day. Ryan still says that you are the best teacher he has ever had! Hang in there! Delbarton needs you! Warmest regards to you and your beautiful family. Eileen & Tom McIntyre
MessageHi Brian, I was in the class of MHS '60 with your parents who are very special people. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
MessageBrian, Please know you are never out of our family's thoughts and prayers. We wish you good health every day now and always. The Bellini's
MessageDear Jen, It's Thursday night & we just received word from Kathleen that Brian is on life support. We went straight to the photo gallery of the website to focus on how full of life he is...all 3 of you are!We are heartsick at this time...not knowing. You and Brian have made such a deep impression on so many people. Ripples of love & concern extend far and wide. Feel the warmth of prayer and emotional support. Love & Deep Peace - Debbie & Tim Sigrist
MessageI find myself on your website -- looking at the photos -- rereading the postings. Not quite knowing what I want to say -- but wanting you to know we love you. All of you.
MessageDearest Jen, i am so sorry to hear of Brians condition I just wanted to let you know how much we all care about all of you.. you have been forever in our prayers. Needless to say if you need anything at all .. another ear or some support I am here at the call. With love Eileen
MessageRun it out Coach. Run everything out. I love you, Matty
MessageKeep up your tremendous strength Bubba! Another big victory earlier this month - getting out of ICU. Keep those wins coming. We're praying everyday out here in Chicago. Woody and Family
MessageKeep up your tremendous strength Bubba! Another big victory earlier this month - getting out of ICU. Keep those wins coming. We're praying everyday out here in Chicago. Woody and Family
Messageour hearts and prayers are full with hope and faith that God will watch over you as you fight this battle, brian, and bring peace and comfort to jen and timmy and your family. you are so loved.
MessageDear Brian- You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. The Cross Family
MessageTo my friend, THANK YOU FOR TREATING ME LIE AN EQUAL. THANK YOU FOR LOVING MY SON AND INSTILLING IN HIM GREAT CHARACHTER AND LIFE SKILLS.I WILL ALWAYS THINK OF YOU AND SOME OF THE GREAT CONVERSATIONS WE HAVE HAD. THANK YOU FOR TEACHING ME THAT " I AM THIRD" IS THE ONLY TRUE WAY TO WALK THROUGH LIFE. LOVE ESCH
MessageBRIAN, JEN AND TIMMY: MAY YOU CONTINUE TO FEEL THE LOVE AND SUPPORT OF SO MANY PEOPLE. WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU EVERY DAY.THE PRIOR FAMILY........TOM, KAREN, KEVIN AND BRENDAN
MessageGod bless you coach and hold you safe until we all meet again. We will all look in on your family.
MessageTo the Fleury Family, Jen, Timmy and all your friends, Over the past three years my sons Timmy and Andrew, have been students at Delbarton. We have recieved hope and encouragement from your strength, perserverence, and grace. Your faith and trust in God's will is a legacy for us all to witness. Please know the power of our prayers lift you up. Jen and Timmy, know by accepting our humble gifts and gestures that you lift us by your gift of recieving. You will be strengthened by the people who reach out to you, old friends, new ones, and some you may never meet. Let our love empower you on your journey ahead. One of my favorite quotes is, "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." You are an inspiring family. God Bless You! Katy Soulas, Timmy '08, Andrew '10, Christopher, Matthew, Nicole, Danny and Kiera
MessageBrian Fleury...One who has earned the title of WARRIOR... It is an intensity of life, filled with energy and a readiness to act when needed. A desire to perfect oneself for the benefit of others. An inner determination to protect one's family, neighborhood, nation and world. Fairness, and the sanity to do what is right and good. Doing one's best in everything. Being true to oneself. Honesty. Loyalty. Integrity. Willingness to stand up for what is right, even when everyone is against you. Idealism coupled with realism. A sense of duty greater than one's selfish needs.
MessageNever met someone who inspired so many during what has turned out to be such a short lifespan. You leave a legacy unlike any I have ever been affected by. All of the wonderful people who have written here will see after Jen and Timmy May you rest in peace. The Little Fox
MessageLet GOD be inspired......10/18/07
MessageTo The Fleury Family, Brian Fleury has touched an uncountable number of people. Those who knew him, and just those who knew of him are deeply saddened by his passing. We cannot imagine how difficult this must be for you and we want you to know that all of our thoughts and prayers are with you and Mr. Fleury. We hope you the best through these tough times. Sincerely, Mark Hardin, Geoff Preston, Colm Cross, Tommy Gibbons, Mike Ring, Keith Levinsky, Eric Reinmund, Harry Dorne, Craig Melcher, Terry White, Will Gesicki, Pat Margaca, Angelo Digiacinto, and Mr. Huck
MessageJen, Timmy, Ed, Shirley, & the rest of the Fleury family... It is impossible to put into words the profound impact Brian had on this world. For those of us lucky enough to cross his path, we are now better people. There is not a day that goes by when I don't draw upon my experiences with Brian to help me get through a tough spot or just live life the way it should be lived. Brian, simply, THANK YOU. The world is a better place for having had you a part of it.
MessageJEN AND TIMMY: BRIAN WAS SUCH AN AMAZING ROLE MODEL TO SO MANY.HE GAVE HIMSELF FULLY TO EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING HE DID! HE CONSTANTLY PUT OTHERS BEFORE HIMSELF. HIS LOVE AND COMMITMENT WILL LIVE FOREVER! MAY GOD GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH AND PEACE DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME. BRIAN'S LOVE WILL SURROUND YOU ALWAYS. THE PRIOR FAMILY. KAREN, TOM, KEVIN AND BRENDAN
MessageBrian will remain a hero and a symbol strength to so many. God bless.
MessageHow tired you must be. Rest now in his arms. We will love and care for your family always. "Beyond the door there's peace I'm sure And I know there'll be no more tears in heaven"
MessageI'm so sorry...I just found out about Brian from a friend, who was really devastated by his passing today. Someone who could have that profound of an impact on someone they knew only on the periphery was a person I deeply wish I'd gotten to know. In learning more about Brian through this site, I know that he was the type of man I hope my two young boys will grow to emulate. His legacy, his influence on others, will prove to be vast and immeasurable because even though he is no longer here, he is still touching all of us -- even strangers like me. My prayers are with his family and friends -- and with Brian, of course, who no longer has to fight, is at peace and is undoubtedly watching over all of you.
MessageEven though I never played sports at Delbarton and never had him as a teacher, I always looked up to Mr. Fleury as a role model and a coach. His courage was undeniable and his impression on Delbarton's community goes without saying. God bless his family and know that you're always in our prayers.
MessageBrian, you will be sorely missed, we are all better in some way because you were a part of our lives. I only hope to have half of your strength...we love you and will miss you. Rest in Peace Brian, your love will surround your family always.
MessageTo the Fluery Family: What a blessing it has been for us to have known Brian as a young person and to hear of the courage and poise with which he has handled his adult life. The world has lost a most special person. We pray that God will give you the strength to deal with Brian's passing just as God gave Brian the strength to deal with his challenges. May your happy memories sustain you throught this difficult time. Frank & Evelyne Giannantonio
MessageTo the Fleury Family- Thank you for sharing Coach Fleury with the rest of us. We are fortunate to have known him. God Bless you and give you peace. -The Savas Family- Paul, MaryBeth, Michael '09, Jack, Lauren, Kyle and Jason
MessageJen, Timmy, Eddie, Shirley, Jill and Carrie -- We loved and will continue to love your husband, dad, son, and brother. We have been honored to call him FRIEND. He has touched countless lives and has been an inspiration to countless more. He will never, ever be forgotten. He will continue to live in our hearts forever! We have such wonderful memories. Thank you for letting us be a part of his life. And thank you Brian for being part of ours...
MessageI saw these two quotes as appropriate for this day of not just mourning, but also the celebration of an unparalleled life: "When you do the common things in life in an uncommon way, you will command the attention of the world." -George Washington Carver “Blessed is a man who endures trials, because when he passes the test he will receive the crown of life that He has promised to those who love Him.” –James 1:12 To say the way you led your life was admirable would be an understatement to the highest degree. There is no doubt in my mind that you are in a better place, watching over Timmy, Mrs. Fleury, and the Delbarton Family. God Bless, Michael Campbell
Message"The measure of a man is the way he bears up under misfortune" - Plutarch. Brian was a goliath. Jen, Timmy, Ed, and Shirley, Our profound sympathy and prayers are with you. While we can all remember what Brian has meant to us, we can also look at all of the people he has touched. Each of us takes a part of Brian with us in our life and, in that way, we can continue his legacy. He hs been, and will always be missed. Please know that your many, many friends love you.
MessageIt is downpouring today....the drops of rain can not equal the drops of tears we all shed over Brian's passing.
MessageMay the road rise up to meet you. May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the palm of His hand. Rest in Peace Brian
MessageThere is no way to express the way Mr. Fleury touched all he encountered. Countless students have benefitted from the leadership, kindness, and dedication of a man who always put others first. Mrs. Fleury, Timmy, and all those who loved him, I am praying for you.
MessageCoach: You will always be in our hearts and in our spirits. You were truly one of the great ones and will be dearly missed. You will never be forgotten Rest in Peace The Conforti Family
MessageDear Jen and Family, Tom called me at school this morning and told me about Brian's passing and it is with saddness in my heart that I write this note to you. You have held together all these years with more courage then words can express. Our love and prayer are with you and Timmy as I know Brian fought the good fight.We are so proud to have had him in our lives and pray for your strenght through this time and for ever more Love Patty,Tom, Corey and Ty
MessageI know I speak for all at MHS who knew both Brian and you Jen when he was a student here and you a fellow teacher & coach. I can honestly say th |